 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com. And today we're going to talk about what men find sexy in women. So if you're looking to attract a man into a relationship, you need to understand what they find sexy. Or even if you're in a relationship, it's important not only to know what men find sexy but more specifically what your man finds sexy. So let's talk about it. The first one is something that a lot of women kind of take for granted and don't realize how powerful it is, but it's feminine energy, right? Being a feminine woman or pulling out your feminine side is just so, it's so attractive. It's so sexy. It's so attractive to men. And a lot of women don't realize how attractive it really is, but this is so powerful. A lot of guys who date women who are feminine or who know how to use their femininity, what they'll describe is they'll say things like, I don't know what it is about her. It's like, I just want to just rip her clothes off and make a love to her. And that's what you'll hear a lot of times from guys who, you know, they that are dating women who are feminine is they just, they don't, I mean, it just like goes past their logic, you know, that goes past their conscious mind and it touches their heart and it's really attractive. So a second one is sexualizing conversations. So when you tell a man that he's attractive or you say, oh, that was hot or like that's sexy, you know, like that can be really, really attractive to a guy and it's really sexy to a guy and it can turn him on. So anytime that he does something that you find attractive, let him know, you know, just be like, oh, that was, that was really hot, you know, or that was really sexy. You know, if you say stuff like that, that is a turn on to guys. The next one is misinterpreting what he's saying as being sexual and you just have to find situations where you can take what he said and turn it into something that's sexual. And if you practice doing it a little bit, you'll get used to it and it's, and it's not only funny, but it can be really, really hot and it can change a relationship. If you're in the friend zone with a guy, it can make a guy want you like think about you as someone's sexual more. Then third thing here is letting him be a man around you and this is another one of those things that a lot of women kind of don't get and they kind of take for granted. But if you let a man lead you and protect you and defend you and help you with things, that is so hot. It's so attractive. It kind of goes along with that whole femininity thing. You know, that's being feminine is allowing him to lead, you know, and it's powerful and it's very attractive. The fourth thing is lightly whispering sexual things in his ear and this can be a huge turn on. The way that you want to do it is you do it and, you know, you could even do it like when you're in public, right, and you just go up to him and you whisper something like, like, you're so hot right now or like, you know, I'm so turned on by you or something whatever into his ear and then pull back like that can be just so hot, right? And if you need a way to get over to him, you can say, hey, I need to tell you a secret, you know, and then you go and you whisper into his ear and then you just pull back and act like nothing happened. It's hot. That's hot. So the next one is teasing him with your touch, right? And so this is touching him and there's a lot of different places where you can touch him that is even more attractive, right? So touching him on the hand or his arm is fine, but touching him like under his bicep or touching him on his chest, right? Tasing him in vulnerable areas like his ribcage, you know, or on his inner thigh, like that is really hot. So doing those different things. So there's one, two, three, four, five of these, right? Feminine energy, sexualizing conversations, letting him be the man around you, lightly whispering sexual things in his ear and teasing him with your touch. Those are all really, really attractive things to men and will turn a man on. So that's it for today. If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed, lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take my quiz. I'm Matthew Coast and I'll speak with you again soon.