 Hey guys welcome back. I'd like to introduce our next speaker Sasha Daygame. I've met Sasha once briefly But I'm really looking forward to hearing him speak. I haven't heard him speak yet He's a former professional comedian, so we should be in for a treat some sort He's also the founder of the direct dating summit a returning speaker the 21 convention and He's infamous for many of his YouTube videos And he has an amazing reputation for really being able to help guys Transform their fears Breakthrough and just start rocking it with their dating lives. So let's welcome Sasha That was funny cuz for a second you're like I'm gonna bring up Sasha Daygame And then you got real serious, you know, they're a problem like who's got a peep with me So I was I thought we had to fight. Oh, how you guys doing? That was shit How you guys doing who's ready for vagina? Let me hear you say vagina Let me hear you say we're worthy of vagina Yeah, see I'm worried cuz some of you might be bisexual cuz that was a bit That's all right. Cool. All right. So let's get right into it Well, I talk a lot So I'm probably gonna go fast cover a lot of stuff and and try and have some time for questions at the end So let's get cracking first of all Sasha Daygame is a boss Just thought I'd point that out in case anybody didn't know Welcome to London. It's my home turf Glad you're here. All right. So first of all, I want to go through some core mindsets I'm presuming you all know basically what I do. I don't like clubs They're all gay and I just do day game and I do direct and anyone who doesn't do direct is a pussy That's pretty much just to catch you up real quick. All right. So core mindsets for moi Okay Not giving genuine compliments to women is rude Okay inappropriate behavior. There's a beautiful girl walking down the street Okay, she's taking all this time to make herself look amazing, right? She's done them She is maybe she goes to the gym and works out. Maybe she's just a skinny bitch. Nobody knows But she goes through all this effort. She's eating good She does her hair and all of this kind of shit probably spent an hour and a half doing her makeup She looks amazing. Okay, and all you have to do to make her feel great and say, hey, you know what? You're beautiful. You look sexy. Whatever. It's all you got to do takes three seconds But you you're just gonna walk by and do nothing, aren't you? Huh? You lazy Selfish bastard. Okay, not cool. All right. It's really fucking easy. So being lazy. I don't care what the excuse is Well, maybe she won't like it. Shut the fuck up. All right. She's a woman. She looks good tell her She looks good. Okay. It's rude. It's rude. It's insulting to women It's insulting to women not to tell them how good they look if you don't tell them how good they look either You're gay or you're just an asshole. Okay, pick one. Okay. Does that make sense? This should be your mindset Okay, stop being an asshole start telling girls. They're fucking sexy that making sense good But what if she doesn't like it shut the fuck up. All right number two Start living life authentically and learn to love making women's day. Okay, so you're a man Presuming you're heterosexual. You see a beautiful girl most natural thing in the world to tell her she looks good It's actually inauthentic and weird To not tell her she looks good. It's it's not authentic. You're not being a normal man Okay, if you like women and you want to have sex with women and date them who likes girls put your hands up real quick All the people like women. All right, so everyone has got your hand up. You are not being authentic If you are not approaching girls, okay, it's not natural. It's weird Stop being a weirdo. Okay. Now again This one I used to talk with us for ages. I Love who I mean who does not love making women feel good Anybody quick. Let's make some noise if you just hate making women feel good. Come on all the nobody there you go Okay, it's fucking everybody does okay takes one second. I got addicted to this I love making women feel good not just in the bedroom also in the bedroom. Okay, but in all aspects So by coming up to them telling them they look fantastic. You're making them feel good. Nothing bad ever happens I've talked about that another species of force. I'm not gonna go into it Get addicted to this start being authentic Love making women's day. They'll love you for it. Okay now this one can be funny beautiful women are easier I'm not saying necessarily if she's hot she's just gonna lay down and yeah, I take my vagina now That's not necessarily what I'm saying However, a lot of guys have this fucked-up mindset where they think oh well I'll just go for girls and aren't that hot I know lots of guys who just will not approach the really hot girls They'll go for girls who are like kind of like okay or semi here to whatever and I'm like no no Okay, beautiful girls are way friendlier. They're way friendlier. They're way more upward. They want to talk to you They know they're beautiful. They're okay with it as long as you know how to approach them And you're okay with yourself. You've got a chance. Okay, it's the ugly girls that are gonna give you the most hard time Because they're fucking ugly. No one's talking to them. They're fat. Nobody wants to be. Hey, sorry. That's just how it is. So Like if you approach a girl who's like little chubby and not really hot and you're like, hey, you know What's going on I want to meet she's gonna be like get the fuck away from you What do you want from me because they're not used they're gonna think you're trying to rob them or some kind of trick or some shit They're they're they're not in a good place. Okay, they're not okay. I wish them all the best However, it's easier to hook up with gorgeous girls because hey, they know they're gorgeous. They're okay with it They've had easy lives people treat them nice. There's no reason if you're a hot 24-year-old girl and you look good and whatever there's no reason for you to be angry at the world Why would you be angry? Why? Everybody's always giving you whatever you want hand and foot. Okay, so for all you guys out there who like well Yeah, you should be I just get nervous with hotter girls and I don't know I just maybe one day I'll work you away. No, shut the fuck up start approaching girls And it's not what there's more later But beautiful women are easier to deal with easier to get on dates easier to hook up with then girls that are not Beautiful okay, so stop wasting your time with non-beautiful girls go for the girls that you actually like Yeah Going for what you want is sexy and makes you a boss That's right. I spelled boss that way One of the most attractive things you can actually You know characteristics you can actually have is just going for what you want Okay, this is for everything. Obviously. I'm talking about dating, but so few people actually Try and get what they want. It's unbelievable. I talked about this in a bit more specifically But in terms of women it's super attractive just going for what you want like literally Going for it So so many guys don't go for it. They don't approach or they'll talk to girl. They're not clear They don't know what they're talking about they're not actually trying just by really going for it When a woman says holy shit, this guy's really trying to hook up with me. Damn. He's not kidding. He's really he's trying He's not gonna walk away without my number. He's not I might fuck this guy relaxed me Okay, when you get when you get it into a woman's head that you really are Going for it. Okay, that you're not afraid that you're really going for it. You like her you want to be with her That is extremely attractive. Okay, because guess what? It's showing her that you're you're a guy who's used to getting what you want You've clearly got some skills with women. You believe in yourself. Okay, you're being authentic You're going for what you want. These are all attractive qualities. Okay got to go for what you want Okay, I see so many guys. They know what they want They won't say it. They won't act on it and they might tell their friends. They really like her Okay, just by going for it. You're already putting yourself in a category Aside from a lot of people who completely are not Makes you a boss just by trying you're a boss in my book. There's no failure. You're trying you're doing good So if I can go for what you want Now This is a big one talked about this so much before but I'll do it quickly There's no such thing as rejection. Okay, who who still really feels that they're afraid of rejection. Okay, let's see in the hands Really only six guys. Wow. Okay, so the rest of you are gangsters already, huh? You're all gangsters All right, so a couple of mindsets for this First of all, I just got to a point where I just don't care. I just don't care anymore I just don't care people think I just approached so many girls already and had lots of success lots of failure I just don't care. I love myself and I don't care people think That takes a while to cultivate Okay, that takes I could take a lifetime of really working on yourself and doing all that kind of stuff and hopefully you're all on that path You're here right now. So I'm guessing you're already on that path of just getting better and building on your core You know loving yourself. That's that's really the ideal thing you can do To not have rejection is to love the shit out of yourself, you know, like I'm so fucking awesome If a girl rejects me I look at her like she's fucking retarded I'm just like what he's wrong with you You're just gonna go home and do what you're just gonna fucking jerk off Or you're gonna fucking be with some douchebag guy with no personality who's just a fucking weak like what do you do? I feel I feel sorry for women if they have an opportunity with me and they fuck it up I feel really bad for them. I'm just like, oh, oh, you're retarded. Oh, that sucks I'll give him a little hug like you're a retard. Oh, that's cute. No, you'll find yourself a nice retarded guy one day That's cool. It's not gonna be me, but that's fine And I feel bad for them and they see that I feel bad for them and I'm just like, yeah, you fucked it up That's fine. And that's that's really, you know, they fucked it up. You know, you know, I feel bad I still feel bad for all those girls who fucked it up. What can you do? All right, so so that's why rejection doesn't exist, but furthermore a specific mindset I want to share There's a couple. First of all, I don't believe in I Just don't think rejection really exists. This is something Alan Roger Curry a good friend of mine And one of our speakers at the summit He gave me this example and this blew my mind a couple years ago now and so I'll share this with you directly from him Let's imagine just for a second. There's some kind of club Okay, there's 50 girls in that club 50 women. Hey, they're all in there dancing around and I say to you I'm gonna go into that club. I'm gonna give one of those women an envelope With five thousand dollars in it. Let's make it five thousand pounds. Yeah It's more money. Okay. Now All you got to do to get that money is what go into that club and walk up to every girl and say, excuse me Do you have what I'm looking for? Okay, if you walk up to one of the other 49 girls They're just gonna look at you and be like no and you got to ask her three times Okay, you got to say to each girl Do you have what I'm looking for three times if you find the right girl the third time you ask She's gonna be like, yes, I do how she gives you the money However, all the other chicks are just gonna look at you like what the fuck you're talking about get away from me Okay, so of the people in this room who would go in there and try and get that five thousand Okay, just about everyone this guy's not having any of it that guy to that. I don't need that money I'm you must be rich right. You're my best friend now You're my I want to go on a boat ride. So I'm hanging with you But for everyone else. Okay, so who put their hands up you put your hands up All right, so why would you go in there and try and get that money? You can talk as many girls as you want But why would you do it? Okay Simpler anyone over here. Why would you you put your hand up? It would be fun, but why would you go in there and look for the money? You want the money? Okay, so are you not worried about all the other girls who are gonna? Why not? Yeah, you're never gonna see them again is one reason but be specific. Why why doesn't it matter exactly? Pingo who said that? Fantastic, they don't have what you're looking for right those 49 chicks They don't have what you're looking for so if you come up to them and they don't have it and you leave Is that did they reject you? Is that rejection? No, of course not. They just don't have what you're looking for All right, so same thing applies to women in dating right if you walk up to girl Hey, I'd like to take you home and bang the shit out of you all night. I don't want to do that Okay, well, maybe this girl over here does hi. How you doing? Hi? I'd like to take you home and bang the shit out of you all right It's not rejection. It just doesn't have what you're looking for. It's that simple. Okay? Rejection does not exist My friend Marcus in his speech last year he shared one of his mindsets, which is One of my core ones as well, which is I don't there's no rejection for me also because the categories kind of been replaced for me It's either, you know Things are gonna go. Well, I'm gonna have a great interaction have fun get laid make a friend make a girlfriend Whatever or other category funny story and that's been my mindset for two years now funny story The worst things that have ever happened to the worst things they've always been funny ass stories Okay, and I've shared this before on the internet, so I won't go into it But it's a great mindset as well There's no rejection because it's either gonna go great or it's gonna be hilarious. That's it Some girl attacks you tries to kick me in the balls, you know freaks out. That's fucking hilarious I'll be telling that to my friends for this chick tried to kill me. It was awesome. Okay, it's fine I don't care. I'll be telling the next girl. I have a date with All right Jink Right, so I wanted to really emphasize this point. Okay, generally speaking in life See guys are afraid to get with anyone. They're like, well, what if I try and I fail as they're afraid of failure But it's ridiculous because in reality You're only competing with 3% of guys 3% okay in every field most I pretty much realize that in most fields in everything every job You can imagine most people suck. Have you noticed that most people suck most doctors suck most dentists suck most lawyers suck Okay, most PUA's suck Okay, most people just suck or they're just mediocre. Okay, very few people are actually good at what they do okay? Very few people actually try to become in that top echelon. Okay, there's a story. There's just one speaker The name eludes me, but I love the guy. I just haven't listened to a stuff in years. He gives a specific example That many years ago there was a chain Called Macy's in the States and they basically had this thing where they they were going to have a program To train people in their company To become manager So if you're working for like seven bucks an hour or whatever you could become a manager and then get a much higher paid job You can manage your own store all this kind of stuff and they put out this program To their own employees saying okay look you can come in twice a week We'll train you for free maybe six hours a week and then you go through the training You get more money become a manager Maybe even own a store one day okay awesome Okay, guess what percent of people in the entire chain actually applied just applied to be trained for free to get better jobs and more money three percent Three percent okay, so if you're actually in that three percent you're like yep, I'm gonna be a boss I'm gonna be awesome. I'm gonna improve myself 97% of people aren't even competing against you Okay, so it's not that hard to get good and succeed because most people are lazy Okay, so again by being here. I believe you're already in the three percent. So keep that in mind. All right now Why direct? so Like many of you in this room probably In my early years, I tried doing kind of like Indirect stuff and just kind of trying to talk to girls without being clear about my intentions and what I was doing And I suffered horribly. I suffered horribly and today I'm going to Talk quite a bit about this. Okay now I Direct is a word you're gonna see a lot from me more authentic Okay You're a man Nine times out of ten when you see a girl that you want to talk to why do you want to talk to her? She's hot she's sexy. There's something about her nice smile nice tits nice ass whatever she's fucking hot You want to talk to her this is the most natural thing in the world? Okay? Jesus gave us penises and them vaginas. Okay? That's the way it's meant to be Would have been funnier two weeks ago when I look like Jesus, but not anymore So so it's just the most natural thing in the world. That's what you're supposed to do, okay? All the all the guys I've met that are truly amazing with women That are you know naturals. They're not coming up with any excuses to talk to women whatsoever They're talking to girls. They're saying whatever's on their mind the thing girl sexy They'll tell her she's sexy though grab girls. They don't care. They're not afraid of anything. Okay, and it is absolutely Authentic and natural to just express that desire and to tell her girl. Hey, you know what I want to talk to you I want to get to know you you're cute. You're sexy. Whatever. Who are you? Okay showing that authentic natural? Interest in a woman is normal. Okay, and it's very strange To to on purpose try and not show that you like a girl to try and you know to on purpose Hide your intention. It's weird. You know if I want something from if I want you to pass me a fucking Can of coke. I'll be like yo pass me the coke. I'm not gonna be like so Listen, I was wondering that can of coke doesn't really look met my fall over word is can you just maybe pass that over here? And we'll And then later be like actually I wanted to drink the coke and that's why I had you know I'm just gonna fucking just pass me the fucking coke dude, you know a white like you're most of you guys are already naturally mean Direct but then when it comes to women, we're all fucking pussies. Okay, doesn't make sense Way more natural way more authentic Next point saves time and psychological energy who here has ever spoke to a girl for half an hour and then you find out Oh, whoops, she's got a boyfriend Okay, I want to kill myself every time that happened. I literally want to jump on like why the fuck was I talking to you? I want to have sex with you and you've got a boyfriend or you're fucking you're not interested What the fuck is this? Okay, I hate it I want I've actually wanted to punch rolls in the face because I'm clearly flirting with them for like half an hour They're like, yeah, haha. Oh, I'm married. Why would you be here for half an hour? What are you doing? Okay? Guess I shouldn't open with the Starbucks opener. All right, so Save time. Okay time is our most precious commodity. Okay, we're I know a lot of you guys are young guys We're all gonna fucking die. Okay, we're all dead as soon as you're born. It's a fucking death sentence Okay, there's only one thing more valuable than everything then your sex drive than money everything. It's time once your time is gone It's gone. That's it. You have X amount of days on this planet. Hopefully there's a lot of them You never know could be a year. Nobody fucking knows some people believe the world is coming to an end So your time is your most important thing, right? So I hate wasting my time and you know like I'm 33 now I'm getting older and older. I don't want to waste any time. Okay every minute. I want to be doing some I want to be having a good time, you know I want to be either working or being productive or enjoying myself I don't want to just waste fucking time Nothing angers me more than wasting my time with girls if a girl's not interested cool Just tell me I'm interested. Okay, so I'm gonna be really yeah So this basically saves you time and psychological energy I let girls know within a minute or two. You're fucking sexy. I want to get to know you I'll start hitting on her. I'll let her know my intention if she's not interested She's gonna say no, I don't like you have a boyfriend or whatever cool awesome high five great We met big hug. See you later. Okay, or hey, maybe you're cool. We can be friends. Maybe if she's really awesome That's possible. Okay saves you a lot of psychological energy. That's huge when you're when you got shit running in your head When you walk away from a girl and you're just thinking oh, man, that bitch's wasting my time I hate her why she does off like I spoke to her for 45 minutes. Okay, that's killing you My everything is connected. You're wasting a huge amount of energy and it's extremely counterproductive Okay, do not waste your psychological energy All right, get more action you actually get more action Okay, anyone guess why you'll get more action being direct Just being clear about what you want Nobody Wow, what's that? Yep. Yep. That's absolutely. Okay, if you're actually save more time you can meet more girls absolutely But just as importantly you're actually asking for exactly what you want. There's a chance you might actually get it It's really that simple you're asking. Hey, I like some pussy some girls are me. All right. Yeah, I'm horny You can have some pussy cool Instead of hey, so do you know where the Yeah, I was just kind of lost. Can you help me? Who knows? Yeah Of course, of course, it's more awkward Yeah, because you're just you're just faffing around. Let's just say that, you know, I'm not asking makes him awkward. That's all Yep less awkwardness. Absolutely. Okay Pow oh Yeah, this is a huge one. Okay, when you're direct and authentic and honest you end up with women who are actually into you, okay? Who wants to be with a girl who likes them for who they are anybody? Yes, okay So when you're inauthentic you use any kind of premise, you know, maybe you're using routine Whatever it is you're doing, but if you're not really just being like, hey, you don't want to like you I want to get to know you if you're being inauthentic you're trying to impress girls whatever you're doing You're gonna end up with a shake who doesn't really like you she likes what you represented Maybe it was your car. Maybe it was, you know, you you know pretending you had a certain type of personality trait that you don't have Whatever it was Ultimately, this is why a lot of guys just don't have girlfriends They just end up like having one-night stands and all this kind of stuff because they're they're not projecting who they are They're projecting, you know a bunch of bullshit to get girls and you'll get girls who fall for that kind of stuff Hey, you know, I do have a Lamborghini or hey, let's do this routine and I'll impress you look how interesting I am But you're not that interesting. You don't drive a Lamborghini. Okay, so yeah You'll hook up with some chick and you'll never see her again because you're not that person you're representing Okay, so by being direct, you're essentially you're being authentic Okay, so you're gonna end up with chicks who actually like you for who you are and that's the most important thing You get to a point eventually where you don't really have to try to get women like if you're just cool being yourself And you're just having a good time You're just jumbling around just being you girls are gonna sense that hey This guy's just fucking cool being himself. He doesn't give a shit So they're gonna be attracted to that automatically and you don't have to do jack shit Imagine just sitting at home and girls just want to see you Fantastic without using escort services We just put that out there Escorts are not your friend. By the way, this isn't my second ever PowerPoint presentation. It's awesome, isn't it? It's like cheating, you know, you can't forget what to say. It's on the board. Love it All right, you get more respect. This is a huge one Okay, women respect a man who has the balls to say what he thinks and wants okay one of my students great story he had all these female friends and He liked some of them and he just was always opposed to you and I just I flipped out on one day I was like dude, what do you want to have? Do you want to have 30 female friends? That you hang out with and don't have sex with or would you rather hit on them all some of them will get angry And then you'll you'll filter it down to three female friends who you're sleeping with and he went Yeah, actually, I wouldn't mind that that's exactly what happened. He just started going around hitting on all these girls You know what it's about time. We hooked up your sexy. I'm sexy. Let's do this come over for a back rub Let's get magical. Okay, you just started hitting on all these girls, right and what happened was a lot of them were like No, I'm not interested in that but but cool. He ended up hooking up with about three of them Okay, but then what's interesting is the hottest girl. This is amazing. This goes with what I was saying before I love this the hottest girl in a social circle who's literally one of the hottest girls in this school She said to him no, I'm not I'm not interested in hooking up with you but I do appreciate your honesty and She started treating him completely differently than before she started treating him like a boss every time There was an argument between he like one take one day he got into an argument with another one of her friends Even though he was being a dick and was wrong the hot girl who he hit on took his side Okay, and all the other girls in the social circle start treating him with more respect because she treated him with more respect So suddenly they're like well, he must be fucking cool now Because and all he did was be like, you know what I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you She was like nope, you know, that's all that happened He's like yeah, I'm gonna fuck it. She's like no one on but at the same time more respect Okay, just from being honest and saying what was on your mind fucking awesome. I love that All right, develop your self-esteem. Okay, again, you're being authentic You're going for what you want. You're doing all these things You just feel better about yourself. You're not being a slimy little fucking maneuvering. I mean, hey, let's yeah Let's go to my house. I've got a guana. I want to show you Yeah What oh, you don't want to have so sorry there well there wasn't a guana, but It It's sick right now. It's in the hospital. No, okay It's about your self-esteem. This is really important. There's your self-esteem again It's for for your whole life, right? You're always you see they're growing or shrinking. Okay, so by being direct and honest and authentic You respect yourself. I look in the mirror and I think yes, that's a sexy man. I love him. Okay, there's I haven't done anything evil wrong Don't manipulate people. Therefore, I feel pretty good about myself. I look in the mirror in the morning I go. Yes, if I was a chick, I would marry this. I would fuck the shit of myself. Look at that man. He delicious Okay, so self-esteem very important now This is great. No angry girls and more girlfriends. Okay again Because I'm honest with all the girls pretty much about my intention and also about the fact that I'm seeing other girls If I'm doing that and I want to simple the whole thing There's no angry girls ever. There's no chicks out there who like that fucking Sasha. He's an asshole I hate him. I can't believe I let him put his penis in my vagina. There's no chicks out there Like that at all. Okay, one of my girlfriends. I was with her for a while And I asked her I said, you know, I basically like, you know, we ended it We ended it and we decided to be friends or whatever and she was a little bit like two weeks later She's texted me like, okay, I'm I'm over this cool We can hang out as friends and I we met up and I said, hey You know, you were a little bit busy there before basically she wanted to be like, you know monogamous and I didn't want I could Do that and I said, how come you know Why are you two weeks from by your totally cool hangout friends and she said, yeah I thought about it and I couldn't think of a reason to be angry with you because you were open about it You told me we were doing you told me you're seeing other girls You told me, you know, we could have fun and that you weren't gonna commit and yeah, you pretty much did what you said So yeah, I'm not angry. We could just be friends. You totally never did anything that you know would have me angry I went yeah, cool. That was it and that's exactly what happens with other dudes Other guys will lie or pretend they want to be chicks You know boyfriend or all this kind of shit and then they'll put they'll have sex with them And then dumb and girls are supposed to be pissed off. She thought you were offering one thing and you didn't And you broke your word and you lied or manipulated her did whatever and she's pissed off She doesn't want to be your friend anymore. You lied to her whether you fucked her or not. She does that's it She doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't happen to me They and more girlfriends so again So a lot of the girls I was up with and even though some of them have boyfriends or whatever. We're still friends, you know Just yesterday I got into town, you know saw one of my girls She's with this other guy now, but you know, we hung out. We was fun We've got to catch up and it's great like it's great to be able to hang out with chicks, you know get female opinions on stuff Hey, you know and it's awesome. I just like having chicks around. Okay, and girls believe me can get you late Okay, girls can get you out with a couple of girlfriends to a bar. Guess what? They will it's really easy to talk to girls when there's two cute girls hanging around you Seriously, very easy. They'll go over there and poke girls and bring them over or whatever doesn't matter Okay, you're socially-proofed. It's awesome. Okay female friends You will have lots of them if you don't lie be honest and authentic the more you have the better people run an entire You know things where all they do is have female friends and they just go and you know get other girls. So that's good now Some mindsets more mindsets you're entitled to pussy. This is a really basic one People are laughing because I put the word pussy up on the screen. Look, it's my presentation I could swear in my thing if I want to just because I'm using PowerPoint does not mean I will not swear Come on now you're entitled to pussy A lot of guys think they have to do shit to get pussy. It's ridiculous. I have to do this or make this much fucking retarded Okay, just accept right now. You should be getting laid right now Okay, unless you're a serial killer or you've done some horrible shit Or you're like you cut women's ears off and send it to people in the mail or some shit You weren't titled pussy right now. You don't have to be earning an X amount of money You don't have to finish your fucking degree. You don't have to do anything right now. You have a penis. That's enough Okay, you're a decent person. That's enough. You don't have to do shit. Okay, so stop getting out. I'm not sure Yes, you should all be getting laid tonight. If you're not work on it. Everybody should be get happen all the time There's nothing. There's no fucking test. There's no exam. You're all should be get that's it. You're entitled right now Okay, all these ridiculous reasons. Well, maybe if I just know you don't have to do that either right now You're entitled to pussy Everybody say I deserve pussy on three one two three That was horrible. That's a bunch of guys who don't think they deserve pussy on three one two three I deserve pussy Could the neighbors here's right now let me make me feel make me feel you want some fucking that you deserve vagina one two three There we go, that's what I'm talking about these two guys stand up see they're gonna get late soon because they stood up They believe that shit. All right now Fearless start living fiercely start pick some shit. You're terrified of and go do it You have to be fear is the number one thing that keeps you the fuck down. It's horrible. I hate it I got over my fear by going out and just talking to the hottest girl I could find for years all the time that helped a lot Some people go skydiving some actually one of our students recently. I was like dude You're too nice. You're too much of a sweetheart. Go jump out of a plane. He did he jumped out of a fucking plane He feels better now. Okay Make it a habit to find some shit. You're afraid of go do it if that means talking lots of girls do that as well, but Being fearless fucking awesome. If you're terrified, you're not gonna be direct You're not gonna be authentic. You're not gonna tell girls you want to fucking stick your dick in their mouth It's gonna hold you back. Okay, work on your fearlessness Clear about your intent. Okay, this is like top thing ever Okay, be clear Always girls need to know that you want to hook up with them You want to fuck them just by them knowing for sure 100% you're gonna fuck them that might get you late Even if a girl's like well, I'm not sure about a lot at the end of the day Sometimes girls are horny If something happens to their whatever guy they're sort of hooking up with or whatever or one day They're super horny or a million millions of reasons, but if you're absolutely clear like you know I really want to fuck the shit out of you. You don't want to do that's fine But you know what here's my number I'm there for you if you want to get the shit fucked at you I'm here for you. Okay, just by being abundantly clear. I really like you I want to hook up with you that will get you late just on its own without any game or anything Just by making it clear, you know what I want to put my dick in your pussy That's what that's what needs to happen here that in itself can be enough be clear But your intent, okay Tell her you like her tell your like her You want to fuck her in the mouth you can tell her that if you want to you want to go on a date great You want to just go off and go on a date and maybe get to know her get a cup of coffee great Tell her that okay be clear about what you want. Tell her she's not psychic girls are not psychic They don't know okay, some girls will just run away from you because they might think you might talk to a girl for a while But hey, let's get a drink. What does that mean? Let's get a drink. Do you want to be your boyfriend? Do you want to just fuck her in the ass a couple of times? What do you want? They don't know So I literally girls will flake on you because like well, yeah I kind of like him but girls might be thinking you know I just want to fuck a guy for a couple weeks or have a fuck buddy and I think this guy might want to be my boyfriend I don't want that so they won't call you because they think maybe you want to be their boyfriend when really they Just want to get fucked in the ass twice a week. Okay, so you're gonna miss out So be clear if you want to date or say hey, I'd like to really get to know your sweetheart Let's go out. You know, let's get some let's go do something fun. Cool. You want to just fuck her Hey, you know what you and me should hook up. That's let's meet up sometime and exchange orgasms You and me would look good naked together. Okay, let's do that Make it let him know. That's what I want. I want to get naked. Okay, but be clear about your intent It'll get you laid just that I'm apologetic Okay, you can never apologize Never apologize Hey, you're fucking sexy. I'd like to hook up with you. What how did you say? I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. You're fucking pussy. You're done You ever apologize for your intentions. You're a fucking pussy. I'm gonna punch you in the face. Okay, never apologize You got nothing to apologize for obviously if you like You know accidentally like killed her cat. That's different. Okay, then you're very sorry But never apologize for your sexual intent or for being a man. Okay, it's retarded. You're supposed to try and have sex with her That's your job Yeah, actually the hesitation real man direct Okay, the three-second rule is bullshit three seconds is way too long to think about doing something. Hey, I wonder if I should talk I'm not sure. I don't think oh fuck no, okay, too long You see you hot girl go start walking right away immediately don't even worry about what you're gonna say Just get your ass the fuck over there and talk to her. Okay, zero seconds. I live by this Man knows what he wants. Okay self-explanatory, but great mindset girls can accuse me of all kinds of stuff You're too aggressive. You're an asshole. Well, yep, but at least I'm honest and I know what I want Okay, I've said that so many times. Yep. At least I know what I want. Okay. I'm not flaky Great mindset. I tell those girls faces. Yep. I'm a dick But I know what I want Okay, I'll get more of these mindsets will be on our forum So do check that out. There'll be millions of people there talking about stuff. I'll be in there So it's just that you're all Mindsets. All right, apparently about less time than I thought so Let's see which which are these I want to cover. I'll do this real quick. So Say it with your eyes Okay, my buddy James Marshall is really excellent at this also he's excellent at making me look sexy pow I stole his shirt. This is his shirt. So say it with your eyes, right? Staring a girl intense eye contact most powerful thing you can do she can feel it She knows you're you're molesting her in your head and that's beautiful. Okay Really powerful say exactly what's on your mind a lot of guys are really masking what's on if something pops in your head It's probably the right thing to say. Okay, go for it. Go with your instincts. Okay, again If she gets angry goes well, you just like well, I can't believe you said that on my tits You go, hey, at least I'm a guy who knows what I want. Okay. No big deal Now put yourself on the line too. This is great about direct put yourself on the fucking line I this has gotten me laid before where I've just I've just said to women if you look I've said this is a great one I like I like you, but I don't think you like me. See you later I've had girls literally grab me like no no no wait and then just take me to their house and fuck me Just cuz I made it really clear. I like you. I don't think you like me. Okay, if you don't like me I'll walk away Totally fine Hey, if you don't want to give me your number, that's cool. I'm just gonna go. Okay, it's okay If you're not interested really I can take it. Okay, putting it on the line. I like you. Do you like me or not? Okay, because it shows you're willing to walk away and that willing list to walk away is extremely powerful just that on its own The fact that you're okay. Just saying if you don't like me at school you're being that honest about it That will get you laid on its own. It's very powerful All right, so I'm gonna go through these quick. These will get you laid. They're my day game rules I'm gonna go them quick because we're running low on time Smile if you don't smile you look back and you could be a robber or creepy and you'll scare girls Always smile learn to learn to fucking smile. Okay. It's really easy. Hi. How you doing that easy? Okay? Smile first impression. You're not smiling. That's probably the number one problem guys have they don't fucking smile start smiling Preframe, okay Very easy if you run up to girls and you're just immediately like hey, you're fucking hot They're like what the fuck's happening. They'll panic and they'll run away There's a reason I do that in the videos because it fucking works. Okay, come up to girls and say hey Relax, you know, I'm not crazy. However, you look fucking sexy. I want to meet you Okay, they're all I do those on the internet. You can see them all start doing that it gets you late My friend Marcus invented those as far as I can tell now Like yep, I said that already. I'm emphasizing that always on this because it's really important run Run I hate how there's a really hot girl. Oh, I'm gonna talk to her. Oh She got oh Do you know how fucking sad that is the whole point about direct is you're okay with what you want You know what you want run when you see a hot girl run your ass over there What are you fucking 59 the only time this has been a problem is if in America on top boot camps and all the students Were fat and they couldn't run that happened before they're literally like I can't fucking all right You're fat fair enough. You know you join the fucking gym, but but you guys can do this Okay, not that many of you are fat in here. Maybe just one or two. So run after girls It's powerful. Okay, you see what you want. Go for it. Don't fucking walk. You know, I think a little if you walk Someone else is gonna get her her phone's gonna ring. She's hot. She's in demand right get your ass over there And get in front of her and talk to her. Okay walking is fucking gay. Stop it. Just run All right Be persistent. All right, if you're directing, you know what you want. Why would you be I'm not sure be fucking persistent I've got on film me reopening girls seven times before they stop seven. Hey, I want to talk to you. No, it's me again No, hi, you know, I'm just gonna keep doing this until that the duck until you stop and tell him your name Hey, guess who Sasha again. What's going on? I think we should have a baby You know just be persistent if you really like her fucking go after her girls will test you They're testing to see if you're a fucking pussy right you stop a girl She walks off that doesn't mean she doesn't like you that means she wants to see if you really like her Get your fucking ass over there and reopen her. What's the matter with you? Again, only for girl gives me a really firm like I contact just goes no She does she's me a firm. Nope, and I'll be like all right fair enough But if she do or looks back or any of that shit get your ass over there and reopen Don't be a fucking pussy All right So this before only go for hotties Stop approaching girls that aren't hot girls can tell if you like them. They're not stupid They know there's a natural chemistry between boys and girls. All right, she's not hot You don't find her attractive. Don't talk to her. You want to be friends? Sure. Go make friends with her But that's not worried why we're here Okay, only go for girls that are really really attractive because guess what you'll end up fucking girls that are really attractive because you're only talking to Really attractive girls you'll get used to it. It will become normal your reality will be talking to beautiful girls Okay, is that not what we're all here for? Okay, stop going for girls that you're not attracted to okay You know it just doesn't mean she has to be a supermodel but as long as you feel like you know Yeah, I like her could be anything you could be a titman you could be an ass man could be her smile Whatever, but if you're attracted to her awesome get your ass in there, but don't talk to her if you're not attracted to her stop it No jerking off Stop jerking off. I know you're giggling Stop it. It's horrible. What are you doing? You're it's a waste of energy. It drains you it kills your motivation Don't jerk off go out there and fucking approach girls They'll see it in your eyes that you're fucking hungry and you want to eat them and they'll get they'll get turned on And you'll go get laid more. Don't fucking jerk off. You got six. It's very simple simple rule I know all of you are doing it. All right, put your hands up right now. Who's jerking off? Come on There you go. See that that's good. I like that honesty. There's everybody all right now This is good. Avoid the poa mindset Po mindset, they're like, yeah, you have to plow you gotta keep trying. No, you don't stop plowing plowing is fucking stupid If a girl doesn't like you leave her the fuck alone. She doesn't want to be your friend She doesn't want to fuck you go away leave her alone. Okay, so Doesn't mean not to try okay, but there's a difference between the girls flirting with you And maybe she's interested or she's not interested Do not waste your time with girls who are not interested in you. Believe me if they're looking away They're avoiding your questions. They're not saying shit. They don't want to talk to you move on stop wasting your time Great girls don't want you to plow You're just wasting your time. Stop it. Okay, that's the whole p-way thing Oh, the other thing is uh p-way mindset is like you'll open a girl and then you'll just run away immediately You're not you'll be open or oh, I don't think she likes me and you leave don't do that either Okay, just because you can talk to another 50 girls and I never doesn't mean you should it's it's a stupid habit Okay, really take an interest try and get to know her and see if there's a connection if she doesn't like you Don't fucking plow. That's all I'm saying. Okay um Right, so let me just emphasize because I think I was gonna do this later Try and and and see if you can get like a genuine Connection when you talk to girls really look for that genuine connection see if there's something there Is there something there? Do you really like her? Is there something that she likes about you try and figure it out if there's really nothing there and she's not interested Get the fuck out of there. Don't waste your time All right, one thing I want to teach you guys. I think I have time for and that's it The three musts this is The one thing if you just do this one thing this will get you late a lot this one thing Okay, there's only three things you have to do For in every interaction to genuinely have a real shot Of hooking up with a girl. Okay, really simple genuine compliment. You must let her know she's That you're attracted to her very simple could be anything doesn't matter what it is. She has to know you find your sexy Okay, that's one second thing you must pull the trigger Okay, pull the trigger means actually asking her if you're on in the daytime asking her out Let's get a coffee now. Let's let's go bowling Whatever the fuck is you got to ask her out that might mean if you're in a bar It might mean like pulling her into the bathroom and having sex with her or taking her home with you Whatever pulling the trigger is you have to actually make that decisive move That means you're going to move things forward. Okay, that's number two number three curiosity. Okay If you really want to succeed with women, you must show and take a genuine curiosity in women What is their passion? What makes them tick? What do they love? What do they hate? Who are they? What's their plan? They had a million dollars. What what would they do? Okay, if a girl really feels you're genuinely curious about her and you really want to get to know her That is the most powerful thing that will get you late on its own. Okay, especially with these other two ingredients. All right, so Here's what's funky. I've come up with one magic sentence that puts all these ingredients together In one sentence. Okay, if you just memorize this sentence, you'll generally Not fuck it up. Okay. Can anyone guess what the sentence is? All those three ingredients anybody? Okay, I'll tell you sometimes I make students suffer and I make them guess and I make fun of them. So really easy You're gorgeous We need coffee Any variation of that you're sexy Let's get coffee. Whatever you're telling her. She's hot. You're gorgeous. Okay, you're pulling the trigger Let's get coffee. You're asking her out and the third one coffee sitting in in front of somebody talking implies That you're curious about them that you want to get to know them if you weren't curious You wouldn't be saying hey, let's sit there and talk so that one sentence you're sexy Let's get coffee right there. You've done it. You've asked her out. You've told her she's fucking hot You're trying to get to know her. Okay, so when you're in interaction, you don't know where to take it You don't know what to do. Maybe it was okay and you're freezing up Just go, you know what you are fucking gorgeous. Let's get coffee. What are you doing right now? Okay, that's simple Not difficult. We'll get you laid Can't believe you guys didn't even take a guess at the sentence Right, I believe I'm out of time This is my slide for whoring myself. So you have to put that in there because normally I don't do this Available for coaching. That's my website. Sasha Dagen dot com. You haven't seen it You can find me and the world's best direct dating coaches on Directating summit comm slash form will all be in there writing our reports and stuff We've done and crazy stuff and they'll be exclusive videos So check me out there because I'll be there typing away like a dork when I'm not hitting on girls I hope this has been beneficial for you guys I want to thank Anthony for putting this together as an event organizer myself It's a lot of fucking work and hassle for a very little money or usually no money So uh big up to him and all the people that made this shit possible and thank you guys for coming out I love you all. See you next time