 Can I make 40 here? So take it from me, take it from my first-hand experience. Generally speaking women don't want to date a guy who hosts a podcast or writes a blog or does stand-up comedy. Okay, because women are primarily concerned about security safety and these things detract from security and safety. One, he could totally f things up so that he gets fired, comes unemployable in his chosen field, like destroys his reputation, damages his family. Those chances are high. So in all likelihood, the blog, the podcast, the live stream is going to detract from the safety and security that she wants to build. It's going to detract from his income and money-making opportunities and from his social standing and from his relationships with his family and friends and community. Because the odds are so high that he'll say something stupid. On the other hand, in that tiny chance that he becomes successful as a podcaster, that's going to take him away from her. Right? His world's going to grow. Right? The more people he meets, right, the more connections he makes, the more chances are that he'll screw around on her. Right? Successful men, very rarely are faithful to their wives. What type of men faithful to their wives? Overwhelmingly, it's men who don't have opportunities, substantial opportunities to be unfaithful. Right? The more you have opportunities, right? These public park podcasts are perfectly palatable. Thank you very much. So the more opportunities that men have to stray, the more often men will stray. Also, for many men, probably most men, the only source of substantial female admiration they get in their lives is from their wives. And when women, they're getting to their 40s and 50s, they get pretty much tired of pumping out the admiration. So if a man, you know, takes up a blog or a podcast or a live stream, he's any good at it, he's going to get admiration outside of her. And so her power over him is going to diminish. And so if she's been washing his dirty underwear for 15 years, all right, she's probably not pumping out a whole lot of admiration, right? I noticed a ton of husbands are incredibly grateful for their wives, but they, I becoming more prevalent with sex robots become almost human in some ways. But I noticed a ton of men are incredibly grateful for their wives, but how many wives do you notice who are incredibly grateful for their husbands? All right? And that is almost none of that. It's almost always, you know, running in one direction. So she's not going to be, you know, terribly impressed with his opinions and his dispensing of his opinions on a podcast or a blog. You know, she's not going to like that. And in the case he becomes successful, but he's going to start receiving admiration from all sorts of women who are not her. And men are highly susceptible to being admired by women, particularly young attractive women, right? So his, if he's successful, his social world is going to expand. He's going to meet a lot more people. He's going to be invited to a lot more parties. His social connections are going to grow. His opportunities are going to grow. And this can happen overnight. I say this as a blogger, right? When I achieve some success, suddenly, you know, my social world just blossomed and pretty much every night for years, I was going to events, parties, gatherings, and my social world just became quite rich. And it happened very quickly. And you can quickly rise to prominence with a blog or a podcast or a live stream. If you get on a particular niche and you can, you can develop a very intense relationship with your audience. And so your world is going to spin and change and expand. And she may very well feel left behind, jealous, resentful. People are going to take what the hell was that? That was just some loud, you know, motorcycle noise in the background. So either the blogging and the podcasting and the video live streaming, it's going to diminish his economic opportunities and all likelihood and his social standing and be a disruptive influence on, you know, whatever life they build together so that, you know, he possibly gets fired, brings the family into disgrace, right? That's the most likely option. And the tiny, tiny chance that he becomes successful, that he is going to, in all likelihood, you know, grow away from her, develop his own social circle, you know, get, you know, new forms of admiration, new ways of filling him up. And women hate when their man becomes filled up with other people's admiration. That scares her because it diminishes her power. He becomes more powerful than her. He becomes less vulnerable to her charms and wiles. And you'll see this typically in couples when the man becomes more successful, the woman really, really resents it. Typical case point is Barack Obama and Michelle Obama. And so, you know, very few men with opportunities stay faithful to their wives. So just the podcasting, live streaming, blogging just creates all sorts of instability that women don't tend to like very much. Now, there can be exceptions if she respects what he's doing, right? If he is doing something that is respectable, admirable, you know, aboveboard, something that brings out the best in people rather than the worst, you know, appeals to people's better instincts rather than their worst instincts, right? If she can respect what he's doing, she can admire what he's doing. And if what he's doing gets social reinforcement in their community so that there is, you know, widespread respect and admiration for what he's doing, then she can bask in that reflected glow. But a podcast man is like a Rocky Mountain High and you try to reach for the sun and you may get burned up.