 Guys welcome back to the 21 convention up next. We have our closing speaker for the Orlando event He's a star of the community tapes. This is his fifth time speaking at this event to you guys and He is one of the most passionate Supporters of the 21 convention, please welcome Steve Mata to the stage All right So Hey, here's how we are going to do this. It's gonna be a little bit different and unfortunately if you're watching this online You're gonna have to email us. I basically want to do this do this speech in a little bit of a different manner and I thought about a lot of stuff and Coming to these conventions can really stimulate a lot of different ways to think so I'm gonna write a few things on the board And those few things are gonna be topics for us to talk about and after I write those things We are going to hand out the microphone and Fill up some good time first off I'm going to write the whoops. I can't even spell Which is a common thing the sexual Life all right, and then I'm gonna write down. We'll do well, we'll say rapport rapport cycling We'll write down the red Stack the famous the age-old thing and Maybe we'll write down some attraction cycling and so on so what's gonna happen here is Basically, I want to interact with you guys as much as possible, and I'm gonna try and bring it back to this I may erase some stuff. I may keep it going. I love this all the cameras. It's so good, but What's that? Oh? Man, well, there's two wells. Good job. Good job. So and I wouldn't have caught that so That all being said let me let me start this off. So basically what I want to do is Who here has who's been in the community for a while? Greg then nobody who's been in over a year? All right, who's been in it over two years and And who's been in it You brought me really really who's been in it like let's say first six months Really really all right, so that all being said when I say the sexual life What does that mean to somebody and be ready with the microphone? How about somebody who has been in it less than six months? Nobody nobody really What does it mean to anybody who's been in it over a year? Greg Right here to me the sexual life means embracing my sexuality and not being ashamed of it and enjoying Sharing other people's sexuality as well. Oh, you're so amazing. You're so ideal. How long have you been in this thing? Few years five years Greg libido everybody no hold on to that microphone and The reason why I want to do this is I wanted to start a dialogue for me this whole thing Look I started out in pickup when I met Greg What what three years ago at the 21 convention man? I remember really well It was it was all about I was I was in this phase in pickup where basically my first two years It was about being a pickup artist man. I ran with the best pickup artists I competed with the best pickup artists and at times I beat the best pick up artists That's actually actually how I became known, you know, I Hung out with sin I hung out with CJ the whole term SNL came from the whole Dallas scene and pickup where Asian playboy was who's now moved to LA Brock whose profit who lives in Tampa now was in Dallas like all these people did all this shit, right? And we were we we drank the Kool-Aid man We were into it and actually the first time I met Greg who asked this or who kind of like answered this question Greg actually was also in the scene and he was kicking ass and it was amazing and it was all about What was it about like it's about who you got laid by how many times you got laid the numbers you got What you did to whatever girl and all that sort of stuff that I mean still if you were to have a conversation with me about the Interactions that I had today or yesterday or the day before or whatever I would still love to brag about him because I got an ego, but the more I've gotten into the whole the whole scene the more I've gotten into the type of teaching that I do and and the more I've interacted with people because that's what this is about our fundamental our fundamental like rights of humanity are our Sexuality and socialization man. It's what we all do the more. I got into it the more that's something like this made sense All right The more that it it became a definition that I had to had to abide by you know I was a huge thing and it's real interesting because Greg who they they stole the microwave or oh, no It's over there apparently you can't handle it now But um, but he gave a really good answer and what did I hear? I don't remember exactly what it was, but it was about exchange. It was about experiencing and it was about sharing Right when we started in the whole whole pickup industry because that's definitely what it's become less of a community and more of an industry we We all wanted to take we all wanted to get things we all wanted to define ourselves in so many ways and what's interesting about this well Man, I really wanted to let me see I'm gonna have to ask Mike if I switch this around is it gonna screw up the shot It's a little bit angled down. I'm gonna be writing a little bit funny. God. This is gonna See what kind of talent I have Yeah, a little tilt, but as long as you guys can see it's good. I Write the word sexual I'll try and spell it right this time. I'll write the word life All right, and there's a few things when I write these things out that I am going to Since I have the options of colors None which are red unfortunately. We'll start with green because it's the horny color I basically have three things if I'm gonna define sexual That means being sexual with somebody that means everything that you can think about in it There's three components of it and they go in an order There's sex. All right obvious seduction All right, and there's sexuality Okay, so those three things make up my definition of sexual and let's go over these really quick sex It's an action, right? It's an action. We all know what it is You know it can be a whole variety of things depending on You know if you're Bill Clinton or not right Seduction is a process. It's that process of let's say we start here We meet somebody and we end here and probably probably sex is going to be in the middle of that, but it's a process It's a method. It's a it could be a system. It could be all these things, right? And then there's sexuality and we were talking about this a little bit earlier today with max But sexuality kept saying what what sexuality and I was basically like look your sexuality is your result of these two things How you have sex how you work seduction is going to result in who you are as a person your identity your sexuality Who you are big deals, and then we get to this life thing And of course this seduction always leads over it does we get to life. So what is life life is going to be three things as well? and We start out with