 It is the 14th day of September. We are just a few minutes past the top of the aisle that's around 9.16 like this. We're feeling good, and we are feeling grateful to be six feet above the ground. So, apparently, we had a very interesting conversation with Stephanie and her guest. Miss Dukamana, do you want me to share the content for the next conversation? Yes, should I tell you what we're talking about? Today, we are asking, let me read it for you verbatim. Did I tell you you can find us at White Vif on Facebook? Y254 channel on Twitter, White Vif on the square channel on the gram. So, we are asking, how do you know you have a player? Yeah, we'll leave the pattern and we'll go back to work. Like that, that's what I'm basically talking about. Hashtag is why in the morning. Now, before we get to any details or as I get into the social media platforms, watch out my panelists say hi. Yeah, yeah. Hi. Hi. Beautiful ladies, how you doing? Fine, thank you. Yes, I'm glad you know you're beautiful. Let me start with you. Please do tell the people who you are and how you can find you on social media. Hello, my name is Cecilia Mbovee. I'm a communication student at Daystar. You can find me on Instagram at Katunga with an H and three underscores. Facebook at Tessel Mbovee. Twitter at Katunga. And you better go. I'm Babra Kavata. I'm a student at KCA. I do take economics and statistics. My social media platforms are QKamba, Q4, QUE for a queen. Then dot Kamba, yeah, Kamba dot underscore your Instagram. Facebook, African QKamba again and on Twitter at Babs Kavata. Yeah, no corner did I manage to take a Kamba. QKamba. Okay, here it has a cooling effect. I'm not too sure how that goes. All right, so before we get to the topic of the day, and the question is, Nineni, we're going to ask you a few questions. Thank you. We are talking about also the inauguration that happened yesterday, and it is the second batch after the 2010 constitution about 12 years ago, and I have things to say. Let's start with Uncle Rikiji. All the meme lords of Kenya, good morning and good morning to you alone. I like your quickness. What stood up for you during the inauguration yesterday? Touching on Rikiji, I was happy and also a little bit confused because the world out there is watching us and they'll be like, this is Kenya. And he went all out. I felt like he's such a comedian, a good one. So we're going to get content for the next five years. Top tier, top tier content, man. You're a good man. Sorry. What did you get from the inauguration? From the inauguration. I actually loved how the wives of the president and the deputy president were so happy. They looked so content and full of happiness for their husbands. You could just see their smiles and that made me feel good about it. Did you see the sis with the wig? Yeah. The pastor, guys, that thing is not small, small money, man. Well, I don't know what I'm talking about. I don't even know what I'm talking about. And I don't know if the first ladies will be happy or not. I don't know what I'm talking about. I don't know what I'm talking about. Anyway, hashtag is one-in-one. I quite enjoyed myself, quite. But also, I've been quite obsessed with the news. Tango is if it was okay from before the debate, all the way to Supreme Court, and to tell yesterday when we capped it all off. And we got to see a couple of dignitaries heads of state and their representatives. And it was nice. It was nice. I didn't know so many African countries understand the Soilees. I thought it was just us. I said I have to explain it to the people. So before I leave the conversation on the inauguration, let me just talk about, let me read a couple of dings over here. So, another question we're asking, we'll leave what's the inauguration, Jana. And, oh, love and dog, good morning. Gerald Meade says, I was acting my comedy. Nha Gaka Clinton says, Kunawale, 6.9 million to look for USA. Okay, okay. Admin says, Eric Momani. Mwana Blue says, I love you, Steph. Talk to me nicely, uncle. Talk to me nicely, Aya. I'm from Fort Lea, but I'm from Kassitika. That is Chelsea, Stano. Ogyembo Brand says, I love you, I'm number two. I'm number two. I'm number two. Hey, Nessa, good morning to be here. And why in the morning, isn't it? All right, so to our question, and we will be relating with the previous conversation with Stephanie and her guests, like I said, because it's very, very relevant. So, what to wanna say, my name is Leona Ninindo, I'm from Kajua, I'm from Wengi. Mm-hmm. Well, Eljika Boy says, I love you, I love you. I love you, I love you. Imagine going, you know, I'm going to see my brother. Is that intimate? Ex-wife Le Dasha says, I love you, I'm from High Hills. I'm from Zivaga, I'm from Tic Toc. Where? Where, where, where? Okay, okay. Ah, Derek Shehe says, Jabba and Mr. Akanisho, tell you what, I'm from Lea, Basta. Hey, Alex Spaces says, I'm from Shati, Oversize, I'm from Black, I'm from Kaniyia, tell you what, I love you. Actually, I love you, so I'm going to tell you the story. Wee, wee, wee, wee. All right, ah, wee. Ayah, NoSoofDane says, come on, I'm from Kaniyia, I'm from Tua, I'm from Maine, we're from Pole, Basta. Ayah, Jemos says, I'm from Prashtatu, I'm from Kasi, wee, wee, wee. Blessed Moses says, Safari boot size number 12, Beretia Maroon, Kikwona changed Kotiablu. Now, who are you? I don't know who you're voting for. Anyway, help me understand, guys. Let's just start with, what is a player, exactly? And how do you feel, or how do you sense you're being played? I'm not sure if I'm a player or not, but that's not great. Talk to me. Who do you think a player is? For me, I would say a player is somebody who's like trying to cover up his mess in a way that you not understand, but you gonna see some red flag over there. Yeah, for my case, I'll say, I'm skeptical about visiting people's houses because the time I used to, I went, I found that house is so clean. The beds are in white linen, clothing, the wardrobe is well arranged, ironed, and I'm like, for man to do all this, I don't know more about Safari. I think I saw it work, they are very men with OCD levels, Kali, they can do that. But I feel like this one is a no because it was so tidy, and I felt like it was so idle for a man. And then, first of all, it's chevon and I'm seeing coms over there and I'm like, isn't it? Exactly. I'll talk to you soon. I'll play, I can just see. Men are players, not all. But even us, we're not nice. Yeah, we're not nice. But you know, a man can come and in the beginning, men are sweet. But when the relationship continues, you will feel some change. I love to say, I'm in a boys club, I'm in a drinking and all, and then he comes all of you, Davi, Etio, baby, I love you, to draw to your lectures up through the night. Yeah, they come all like, they try, like, you will see that, no, this is not the man. Like, this is something he's trying to hide. And then always Nikki going to the washroom using the phone, that's what Nikki thinks to me. No, there's room for overthinking, like, we stand up here to measure jump. Yeah, girls overthink, actually. Jump into conclusions. Yeah. But you know, you can't always overthink because you always have instincts. Trust your instincts, always. Yeah. You look like you're something. Yeah. Personally, I overthink a lot. So that day I went, I was given this oversized t-shirt. I was like, so you give all your ladies a t-shirt. And I was like, say, you're not alone, but they are too. But you're not alone? Yeah. No, like, in my mind, I was like, whoever he t-shirt, I'm going to kill him, too. Because you just can't give me that t-shirt. Oh, you meant that you were specific. You could have told me, you know, I talk to you, say to you, go ahead and choose. So that is the one you give your ladies a t-shirt. No, no, no, even a t-shirt should be t-shirted. Maybe it's because you're not alone, but he's going to use a job. He's going to say, I'm not alone, but I'm going to choose a job. I'm going to choose a job. Oh, no, let's just be reasonable. There's some dudes who just, the dressing is not a thing for them. I've never chosen the one in the job. Like, you know, behind the scenes, you're going to pay ambilies of your children. And they're okay with that, it's not a jam. So why would you assume immediately that? That, you know, it's a nature for a lady to, like, jump into conclusions, be jealous of a small matter. So you'll be like... So do you come up with an advice? The first time I saw it, I was so confused. Like, wait, we may over dramatize this situation. So surely it gets into the house. I laugh when I... And then for some reason it smells really nice. Mayona. And then she goes looking for the other woman, the whole house. I laugh when I'm sick, I laugh when I'm stressed. Now they're advertising me. They're appetizing, yeah. They're appetizing, they're appetizing. And then it ends with, I'm sorry, babe. I thought it was over dramatized, but it is very possible that it could happen like that. So maybe Sistakia Mekuja. And now, please, remember, I have been character-developed. So we are starting from innocence and Kabla to Fikia guilty. Yeah, so possibly Kazmiya says, Kazmiya Kabiwajiza, some headphones are beautiful. Right. Hey, she has a unique to me example. Let's say it's some random... His boys' girl, they came together and, and... So, then we went after a remote doctor and put her... World War Five. Tell me it's not the truth. Tell me. Hashtag wine morning. So what do you do then? And what are your thoughts on this? For me personally, I get mad and I put it to myself and later I'll I look for a small mistake that you do and then I'll be on your case. Now I'll be like bringing everything. I'll be like on your case. Yeah. And this is you either going to school or having a job. What's us doing something with your life? Yes. Confidently. You talked to me. How many boys do you work with? I work with 60 kids. 60 kids. So I have a lot of kids. And then what? That's the worst thing to do, to tell me. How can a house help have nails? No. One, you shouldn't have a house live at sleaze. Yeah. Because this girl is so fine. A house help at sleaze. Don't tell me that's your house help. Definitely I will overreact if I get the nail. I'll be on my case after my case. What if you're taking a handsome boy and two boys and two boys and you're taking a handsome boy? What? You're taking a handsome boy? You're going to have a boyfriend and you're going to have a boyfriend and you're going to have a boyfriend. No, how do you deal with that? What if the shoe was on your foot? Not his. Now what? You're free to answer also. For me, the caretaker situation would be so tricky because the fact that even in my building I don't really talk. I don't want to be familiarized with my neighbors. You know, there's so much. Zoyana's neighbors they want to visit you. At that time I want my personal space and then you can start a relationship. I love you. You know, how apartments are. I don't know how to sing. I don't know how to sing. Even your colleagues don't know how to sing. But I would rather what they sing in here when I come home I'm home feeling like a safe space with me. I want to relax. We want to tune out the world. Okay, that's allowed. You come in last week another week before that we had a conversation we were trying to figure out if Kenyans actually go on dates to look what's known as what's the worst experience you've had on a date. But it turns out people don't go out on dates. Yeah. It's like we've forgotten a week. Don't quite understand that art is in the out place we talk about things that I see in a way your mind is working if it's compatible with mine. So come on escape phase you're going to do you're going to show me what you've done. What did you do? Also what did you do because you decided from day one to accept the bare minimum. Yeah. Yeah. Bare minimum. I don't know when they're going to pick me up. I don't know why you're so special. I don't know what I'm saying. I don't remember. You're the first. Tell me. Actually actually you know the top tyre bare minimum because other time you'll be feeling like you're the goat bear but you know the goat bear put on other bears so you just let's go out I don't want to be enclosed somewhere even if you want to see me at your place I also have a place so won't you come and cage me at your place let's go out let's have something to do an activity dinner Yeah. Well when I go out I'm too strict to go out. Personally for me my previous relationship to say where I'm going to go out type of I'm such a lover girl so I'll literally understand if you don't have money but I don't because we had dated for like seven months and then one day asked him why don't you go out on dates and then he's like oh I don't like going to restaurants oh we can have I'm like there's nothing like that in the house I'm seeing her with her other girl friends oh okay yeah okay yeah this is information we're all learning remember the hashtag what is keeping a girl from having more than one boyfriend why is it so heinous that a guy can have more than one but a girl no idea I don't have a girlfriend actually for girls to cheat it's way easier Because girls don't change men change Okay, I feel like she does a very strong word because I don't have a real No, in fact And I want to take intimacy off the table So we are not body to body currently We are just talking But again like I said A lot of the times we skip knowing each other We start getting to know each other You know what I mean So once we put intimacy aside So I am not with a particular person like that For me I would say that It's how the society makes a woman look like A bad person when she goes out And have the man that she desires Yet she has another one I feel like at the moment we need to accept The fact that I can go choose whoever I want It's not a mask that I wish to be chosen And the one whom I want or am with Is not doing the doing things I mean I can, if one is making you happy You can also go for ten, imagine ten How do they make you feel? There's a meme That is a meme That is such a meme Hashtag why in the morning Alright, I want us to blend the conversation Once again Stephanie Etihad With her guest And we put it together To form a whole story So they were basically talking about Disappointment, handling disappointment And one of the things that came off Is overconfidence So I say I miss you because you are good Be used, stay scared But don't touch time to me So we can't think in God's way The most beautiful person in the world And please me I'm not going to spend your kind of confidence Work knowing that you detain men But now you are going into someone's life And thinking that you are the only one Do you think overconfidence is a problem here? It is Yeah it is How to fix it Because peer letter down Telling yourself oh no I'm not worth it No you are worth it You should be working like the world belongs to you Because you were created for purpose But when it comes to someone else's life And how to think about you How do you deal with that overconfidence? Um previously I had a relationship I was so confident that I'm the bae and what Month down the line I realized that It is not what I thought Yeah like girl When in a relationship actually That is what I read through And I was like That's bad cause In the beginning if you know that You gonna like waste my time You would have told me I like gonna have this and that I have this person be in my life So you just gonna come in And you have to Learn to accommodate The person be So for me I was So down And I felt like I should not trust Men Because we are talking about men I should not trust them that much Until you tell me Hi will you be my girlfriend Is when I'm gonna assume That you know my boyfriend But at the moment You have not asked me to be your girlfriend I'm not your girlfriend I'll go out with whoever Whenever But small question can be asked to more than one girl So he can be asked in five of you Will you be my girlfriend International boyfriends day Way one Five girls First thing one guy His life no balance And then what? He's very charming Yes If you ask me if I'll be your girlfriend I would like Say you've made an effort To recognize me as you be And Forward Moving forward I'll Understand the fact that I have to act accordingly As your girlfriend cause you pose a question And I go to her So now you start behaving like his wife When you end up with him But when I get you With someone you'll tell me Ask me to be your girlfriend Do you think trusting too much Is tied into overconfidence You've known them Barely Barely You still don't even know Your own siblings Maybe for more years You probably don't even know Your relatives like that What makes you think You don't know Personally I think trust is tied To overconfidence Before you get into the relationship Be the detective Of the relationship You have to You have to You have to But it's your mental health I'll stick here Because Because You've met this guy And I've known him for a long time And I've told him that he has a baby mama Personally it happened to me What happened The previous relationship Relationship I met this guy on my birthday What? Fates Love at first sight He used to come see me At my place, all the time I met this guy Baby mama I actually didn't know he had a child My friends actually told me Have you seen his Instagram? I'll post it on Twitter What is your Instagram? What is it? So I get on Instagram I see the baby Then after like a month or weeks The baby mama starts calling me Texting me on Instagram I tell the guy, hey, do you have a baby mama? He says, yeah, do you live together? No, we broke up I'm like, why would he tell me To live the husband alone If you don't live together Later on I came and realized they used to live together Yeah, the guy was the one Who broke the relationship Then Later after breaking up with him He says I broke his marriage I was a victim The girl was also a victim I never approached you Let's talk for a while Wait Wait Wait Okay, okay So what we're saying is What I heard from this side Is you want to be seen You want to be acknowledged When it comes in the form of a question Or you be my girlfriend That's also a form of being seen This is my pro, but There's also a side where As much as you're being held Your hand, as much as Hey, maybe I'm going to die And I'm going to work shift here See This is my shift I'm going to work shift here So there's Overconfidence and Just issues And when you put them together That does not mean insanity That's how you start following someone at night How many times We don't even know what happened We don't even know what happened They tried explaining it to us But we still don't know what happened Because how do you, at four a.m. Oh Hashtags Explain to me now They're going to call us insane They're going to say Help me understand For me I'll say that It happens that For example, the way you said Maybe there's someone shifting in If there is There's no problem As long as you've given me my full attention You've given me the baby girl shit That's a you problem As long as it doesn't affect me By finding out Because if I find out, it's going to be nice The fact that The lady that was screaming Personally, I overreact In different ways I will call your phone Back and forth I will text you And be losing my mind It's not going to be a polite message But for me to show out As you're looking for you It can never be me I can't lose my cold that much I can't look for you, do your thing I also go out and do my thing See now, there's no effect Now that you've hurt me So if there's someone else You can do like this I'll show you I'll show you I'll show you It's not very much Healthiness in that And how do we recognize We're in a toxic situation It may be in the episode It's nice to become toxic How do we How do we know In a toxic setup How do we just say This man is not worth my time My vibe, my energy That I get to him And I'm like baby girl, you're pretty Hmm I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast But what happens The lady is the toxic one What if one day you realize I'm the one But then again, one man's meat is another one's poison So I'm toxic now Break up Because you know People don't want to be alone But you know, for a lady to be toxic The man Has to The lady has to be toxic Yeah For real, for real I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast I'm very fast You want to go now because I also want to go How, how to date Those are ladies who are What do we call them? Hopeless romantic They feel like, if you leave me It's romantic, say I like long walks on the beach No, like they really really want the love They don't want you to go They feel like They feel like They won't find someone else Or that's obsession They're obsessed with you Obsession is a very very bad thing Obsession kills actually Because what will you do if they're not there Yeah, because we were born Well, if you want something to be obsessed Be obsessed with the Lord He won't leave you So managing Okay, that's what expectations So another thing I heard on the conversation Was lowering your expectations But Sionicama Lying my expectations and Lying my standards are the same thing Do you think they're the same thing? No So what do you think the difference is? Lying my standards is like Accepting things because That is what you want me to accept And That is not what I want So I'll be lowering my standard Lying for you and not me Because I'll be another person That is not Barbara And lowering my expectation Is that you've shown me the real you So henceforth From today I'll treat you In a different way Because what you give me I have to give you that twice Even You are forced to be reckoned with Or you can't accept Lying your standards Is Accepting what The man gives you And lowering your expectations Some of you might say I have expectations in a relationship It's not right I have to say You expected him to be so loyal Then he ended up cheating Because you had high expectations On him That he will be so loyal But he disappointed you By force I want to believe in my expectations For example I have a certain standard If Whether I like it or not I don't like it Because I like it I like it I like it like that But my expectations By the way It's a compromise I want to be I want to be I want to be I want to start I don't know I really There are a lot of things going on here And we are about to retire Managing disappointments We've been told Not so much these In Things that don't know static They are not static Things that you look Or you will see coming out So So now you are going to denial Me And I say Me Me I want to be I want to be I want to be I want to be Let's say I want to be I'm I'm like so done I'm so disappointed in you Because I didn't Expect it so much Because I usually have a benefit of doubts I don't give you 100% I know you'll do it You'll go out there and you'll do it So I'll be disappointed But I'll ask myself Who do you think I am? Is even both I'm like Bro I'm so disappointed Actually I would like To say Who are you? I don't know who I am I don't know who I am How would you Advise someone to deal with denial Just admit Accept And then we'll figure it out How do you lovingly tell someone You read the flag You don't have to flag One person Who doesn't feel to something If I feel like your relationship Is such as come I will tell you And I'll tell you to go on all days Yeah leave the man alone Men He will come back actually Because It's okay to cry Cry it all out But then you'll be so happy And the money is still coming back And you'll say I'm okay I'm much better right now Yeah First stage is acceptance Accept Denial Denial And I'll tell you I'll tell you to go on all days And I'll tell you to go on all days Because the audacity The audacity for me Accepted Now you're angry If you ever even bought him tissue The world will know Angry all over the place You want everyone to know he's a horrible human being And They will hear They will say I'm angry But they will know How do you help your friend get over that anger My friends I'll say They really helped me The fact that at any point I have Mind issue I run to my best Sees and I'm like Ladies you know this is what happened They're like brah Why you accepting that You're doing that I'm like so something to do So at the moment I'll tell My ladies will be like We are done and that's dead And history is back and forth So And then You'll just come back and cry again Because I'm a cry baby I'll go cry for my ladies So I also need a hug after this Yeah And they Talking to people about how you feel Is such a relief Experience Because they'll sympathize with you They'll tell you what to do And besides that You can do activities Be busy let him be See must see Adults like you It's an essential should have a relation Get yourself busy do activities So much to do You can go for shooting range You can go bowling You can go out Take a walk Do anything Be busy Actually men don't like ladies who are not Busy What if many customers came So now we go to the bargaining stage And I don't know If you ever felt like this but if I'm not wrong I think I've found myself I could figure out a newism too But I found myself asking myself I I'm not asking myself I'm not asking myself I'm not asking myself I'm asking myself What is it that I can do To make this work And what if there's nothing you can do to me Yeah I can do it I can do it So now what do you do with yourself You accept for one Because Personally don't do wife duties At gulf and expense Yeah never do that Yeah do not It's not working It's me it's not you It's not you It's not you it's me There's definitely another girl And you have to accept If you're my friend I will help you And actually You can do it You can do it You can do it You can do it Yeah sure Yeah And during that period Be with friends Actually Because if you stay alone You'll feel so depressed You'll feel so lonely Be with friends Engaging activities like she said A word of caution to that No listens to you is your friend And not everyone who is asking you How are you No they're not always concerned They could just be curious I don't know what you're saying Imagine she can't keep a man I don't know Be careful We are telling you things too And then now she mentioned something And I really like that she brought this up Because it is that month That we are having awareness on mental health So if you're just joining us We are about to wrap this up Apparently time flies But we have been We moved from inauguration Experience and what we took from that To taking the topic And mixing it with what happened Where they were talking about Basically mental health And dealing with disappointment So we've gone through a couple of things Where you have a denial You get into anger And now we've reached a place Let's say you're depressed Hi I'll never find love again Oh my God I don't know what's wrong with me How do you keep on So maybe three times a week Or maybe you'll get a sprain Or maybe you'll get a massage Or maybe you'll get a massage Or maybe you'll get a mosquito Or maybe that's what you do Okay, so now How do you get yourself out of that Out of that sadness Because again, it's very normal to be sad It is okay But you can't stay there It's not healthy, so how do we move From that stage Do you know The kind of feeling you feel When you're stressed And you don't feel anything Do you know when you're slacking Happiness When you're happy Imagine Yeah, you can slap But how do we get Now from the lowest of the lows Now to get all the way there And we've talked about keeping yourself busy Keeping yourself engaged But you can be busy and busy But you're not sleeping at night You can't be with yourself and your own thoughts How do we get through that Talking like I've been there I've been With all issues It was at stake, but But Through that journey I would see a lot In the social media And I'm like, it's getting worse The creation is getting worse Now what I had to do is I had to accept the fact that I'm not well Even at that time Opening up to my friends Was not working Because I felt like All at that moment So I decided to accept the fact that Niko Koi's situation Number two What I had to do was Sit down, take a break Relax But at the same time It was not making sense It never makes sense when you're Mentally at stake Everything is going Hey, what ya And you don't know what to do So I decided to take a break I stopped over thinking Because that was something That was killing me And I said that I can't harm myself Because of this and that And the fact that Things happen and Actually, I'm in a better situation Because I listen To some stories of people I'm like, I'll not cope So I said I'm going to take a break During that break I learnt to journal And let out my feelings There I knew that Journaling is such a Stress relief I used to wake up in the morning I downloaded an app called IAM I affirmed myself every morning I am beautiful By the way, if you don't say to yourself You must start with you Yeah, I will affirm myself Every morning, I'm beautiful I am God's chosen child Such things They will make my day Brighter And now after acknowledging that I had to go back to the drawing book And put I don't have For me, I used to not have boundaries with people I decided to put boundaries with people I said You can cross my limits But here, you get here It's all going to be nice So you search boundaries With people And you're going to learn How to deal with people So that people don't know how they make you feel And they do it At their own beneficiaries Yet it's at your own cost I also wanted To go for a mental Canceling You know what, girl It's not necessary You don't need that Mental torture of yourself And go To someone you want to listen to them It's going to be a back and forth treatment Oh, you know this You'll be crying over there You can do it You will do it And there's no in between You either do it or you do it I like that And two key things I've stood up for me Is journaling That's a kind of form of therapy So if you cannot talk to someone Imaginacy must Write it down It's very therapeutic When you see yourself outgrow pain People think grief Is like this And then it shrinks No, it's us, we grow in capacity The grief remains the same size We're the ones who grow When we're sad to blame ourselves And we've gone through the overconfidence We've gone through the trusting someone too much But what if honestly We repeat the process with all Intention, pure You measured yourself out To see That you're realistic And you still ended up disappointed So how do you talk yourself out of that? One, tell yourself you gave it your all You were there With Zuri But he did you dirty Nisawa, you'll have to accept And tell yourself it's okay It will be fine You are there in the relationship But you can't end with Zuri Pick yourself up Get Head high And tell yourself there's no other Katoonga It's only me, no one else And I am so pretty, I am so beautiful Nobody can be me As we draw to a close This, I think to a Saturday It was international mental health day Suicide prevention, something But either this whole month is dedicated to awareness On mental health And apparently suicide is one of the top At the top of many easy Diseases that you know are fatal So do we Okay, I don't want to name anything But suicide is actually quite up there With the youth I don't know when we started feeling You know there's nothing new under the sun So the problem you're facing There's someone who faced it and it somehow got through it But I want to imagine There's a sadness somewhere Or that feeling that we just can't Go past this moment And I don't know it's spreading like wildfire But what would you like to tell someone Who maybe perhaps is in a In a situation, it doesn't matter if it's about Relationship and not every Relationship is boy-girl like I said It could be your friend, it could be your family Members, it could be a whole lot Of things, it could be your job It could be something you lost, someone You lost, how do you tell someone To keep in check Yes, you might be Very financially stable Congratulations, but your mental Health is a little bit, how do you Make sure we keep it in check I can tell them, you will be fine You're awesome, you're amazing And you're loved So sing Anybody out there dealing with Mental health issues I'll tell you Look at the people around you Importantly your mom Your mom is a World to everyone There's a safe place Imagine how your mom would feel When you commit suicide Don't, because Mothers are therefore It's not having time To talk us through some matters You love the lady Suggests come through Atkizema Unless there's something People love their mothers Imagine the turmoil You can pass through that lady You can check a lot of things You can foresee the future that you want Imagine taking out your life Without achieving those goals So I want to tell you Be that person that you always Aspired to If you wanted to See a Barbra as an economist And you're going to take out Her life Imagine, if not Accomplish your goals It doesn't make sense At all When you want to commit suicide Because It's not having time It's not having time Andave It makes you feel going That it was good I'm telling you You're very much for love Anything that is born has to die Don't do it for yourself Puzzled and how you manage your stress levels as they come. All right? So you are loved. Why are you running? Why are you running? Don't go. Stay, okay? We still need you. There's still so much love to be experienced in this hate world. Okay? I try to have on Facebook, quite try for channel on Twitter. Hashtag is when the morning, myself and Stephanie are here. Thank you so much for your content. By the way, whoo, who missed time. Dear this girl child. Thank you, we thank you and happy hump day. And we're looking forward to any videos that are left alone, but we'll see that later. Just look over there and say bye. Bye. Bye.