 What other things can you do to make it happen? False choices. False choices are one of the best ways of leading somebody. You ever tried this thing? Do you want to buy you a drink? That's not a great choice because there's a yes or no involved in it. And if she says no, you're kind of screwed because she doesn't want a drink. So you give a false choice. Instead, you can say to her, hey, what's your favorite drink? When she answers that question, the act of answering it implies that you now have a positive chance of taking her to get that drink. So she goes, I like vodka cranberry. You go, oh, great, you know what, listen, I really fancy a vodka red bull. Come on, I'll get you a drink. Let's go. You lead the situation. In her head, she's just made a decision about it, except the decision wasn't whether she'd go or not. It was which of the drinks she was going to have. You bypassed the whole problem. I used to bring girls back to my house by cooking pancakes or waffles because I just so happened to be good at cooking either pancakes or waffles. And so I'd say to the girls before bringing them back, I'd be like, hey, do you like pancakes or waffles? And the girl would be like pancakes, right? I make the best pancakes. Actually, I don't want to say it, but it's some of the best in the world. They're pretty damn special, actually. I think you'll never be able to find pancakes as good as these. And she goes, well, how do I even know? I haven't even tested them. All right, it's on. It's on. I'm gonna make some pancakes. In fact, I'm hungry now. Come on, let's go get some pancakes. I'll take you back to my house. Lead the situation. Give these false choices. They make everything so much easier. I give a talk a while back, and at the end of it, I give a qualification I used to give to girls. I would literally, before we're gonna go back to my house, I'd say to them, you know what? I like you. You're a pretty cool chick. And I'm definitely attracted to you. And because I had pre-selection, I'd say to go. Now, I know you've seen me with a whole bunch of other girls, but I'm gonna be honest with you. You're the one that I like. But I'm gonna have to ask you a question. And I want you to think very carefully, because your response to this question is gonna tell me whether you're the girl that I'm taking home tonight, or whether I'm gonna keep partying here and finding somebody better. And she's like, okay, okay. She's this into the question. I'm like, I don't wanna hear one word answer out of you, okay? And when you mess me around, this is a serious question. This is close to my heart. At this point, I lock in, put up against the wall in bed. She's like, okay, okay. All right, spit or swallow. She looks at me with serious. She's like, swallow? It doesn't matter, right? She says spit. I'll be like, okay, good, good, yeah. It's not too bad. But it doesn't matter, right? Thank you, fuck. Spit or swallow, whatever. As long as I come, I don't care. Okay, so lead the situation. Give them false choices. We had this great one. Another thing to do is lead it. We do this test. I don't know if you guys have seen dating science on YouTube. If you haven't seen it, it's my personal hobby. Thank you, the one fan. Dating science is a TV show we made, specifically for YouTube about psychology experiments. And one of the experiments is about how to make somebody compliable. And we followed this study by Stanley Milgram. The show's, you can watch it, it's free. It's on YouTube, just dating science. But the experiment was done by Stanley Milgram that came up with, if you give somebody a justified reason for something, they're that much more likely to comply. And in the test, we went up to girls and said, can I have that seed? We had a 100% rate of if you asked a girl for a seed, she said no, which proves something to us. One, if you don't have a justified reason, then you've got a very low chance of making it happen. And two, women will not give up their seed. Fuck that, no. She's like, no. Not one, not one. Hi, could we have that seed? No, actually. Women are defensive about their seeds. So that's not gonna happen. So then we gave a justification. And I'm sure you're probably, can I have that seed? Just I've got a bad leg.