 Howdy, so I got another tail and I got something to fuss about so let's get right to it So over the weekend. I had a friend of mine who? Contacted me she called me up on the smartphone. She's another consultant and She asked me she said Mitch. How do I take my picture off of LinkedIn? And I said well, why do you want to take your picture off of LinkedIn and she said because I'm tired of getting These messages from these men who I don't even know hitting on me and I said really on LinkedIn You know cuz LinkedIn is supposed to be a business Networking thing it's supposed to be you know you put your business on there You put your name on there and where you work and all this other kind of stuff and she said yeah it's just it keeps happening and I had to think about that a little bit because Because even though that caught me off guard when she mentioned it as I thought about it later on I realized that I know a lot of women who don't put their picture on LinkedIn And there's a lot of women that don't want to put their picture on Twitter Don't want to put their picture on their blogs. Don't want to put their picture Anywhere in social media because there seems to be this thing where everyone thinks that they have a license Men I hate to say that but yeah men you think you have a license to basically Comment on how women look or you want to you know say how pretty they are or different things like that When okay, some may be pretty but they're projecting something else if someone is putting up modeling pictures on Instagram and you say oh you look nice or how pretty okay, that's one thing But if you start saying things that you want to do to them you've got way over the line And I know that you've created a fake name because almost all of them create fake names. Y'all know who you are So you can say that stuff Or you create your real name, but you block your site you make it private And so that you can go and do all this other kind of mess and I'm thinking that's just the Most cowardice thing that I can think of now like I said I'm linked in Why do people want to risk their reputation by doing stuff like that? You know, I did an interview I think last year with a young lady named named Jessica and I'll link to it here because you know it was a very interesting video video interview and she's a Facebook expert and She divulged for the first time ever how she had gone to a local networking thing and Got hit on by someone and not just hit on as far as you know Would you like to go on a date or whatever? But some vile stuff and she couldn't believe it and so she called the guy out She basically reported the guy they threw him out of that and threw him out of the organization But it made her a little bit shy and not necessarily want to go to networking events anymore Come on people really is your life so bad that you have to do this kind of thing out in public And you could risk your business by doing mess like that. Is it really that important for you? Sure, you know what? Growing up used to hear all these things these stereotypes about men would see women walking down the street Baby and whistling also the kind of stuff what turned out at what the stereotype that happens now I am so amazed at that because it's never been anything. I've ever done now. I am not approved. I Recognize a pretty woman Looking really nice or whatever and you appreciate that I've known tons of pretty women as a matter of fact My friend Scott used to say how is it? You know all these pretty women and you're not dating any of them Well, because I've never been one who has Objectified women in that way so that I wanted to say all these kinds of things You know, I have a lot of women friends who are pretty attractive because they know they can trust me my wife You know, okay, I don't know how I ended up married to her Because she's just you know way prettier Then I could have ever gotten lucky and she chased me I'm just gonna say that and she'll probably watch this and say no, I didn't but you know you did But I can't believe how these kinds of things happen Where I've been out with her and I sometimes tend to walk behind her and I will watch men watching her Now none of them ever hit on her because they watch her then they look at me looking at them And then they look away real quick I don't know why I get such enjoyment out of that But I do because they know I've got them and what's interesting just as a sidebar is that women will look at her as well Then they'll look at me looking at them and they look away. What the devil, you know I mean, it's just one of those kind of questions where I hate to ask this But I have to ask this question in general our most men pigs That's the nicest way that I can say that kind of thing. I don't understand it Why do we feel I'll include me on this even though I don't do it But why do we feel we have the right to say anything we want to to women just because they look nice Because they dress nice because they're pretty that matter whether they're older young sometimes Maybe that you may not necessarily even think that they're necessarily pretty but you just feel that you have the right to say these things When did you feel that? Someone granted you the right. Is this a male superiority thing? It certainly isn't an appreciation thing because you know what they don't appreciate it almost none of them And I have to say almost because back in the 80s There was someone I worked with named Holly and she was stunning stunning blonde real pretty wore the flanty dresses And we used to go out to this thing on Wednesdays. That's used to call party in the plaza. So it was they would have local bands who would play in the Federal Plaza and sometimes we would go together and For whatever reason people knew we weren't together I guess and they didn't really care at that time. And so she got hit on all the time And she would just smile through it. And so I said to her how do you feel about getting hit on by all these men? She says well, if I didn't want to get hit on I wouldn't dress like this Well, you know, I guess there are some women who like that But the majority of women really don't like it. I mean, there's got to be another way to Approach women, you know go up and say hi. How do you how are you doing? You look nice Is there something wrong with that? Instead of who baby what I'd like to do you wow boy What woman doesn't want to hear that? What woman doesn't want to see you saying all these nasty vile things on Twitter on Facebook or whatever please LinkedIn and There's a young lady. I think her name is Jenny I don't know what her last name is but she has video channel and she was just saying a couple of days ago in her video That she can't believe some of the things that men Or she said guys stop by and they write on her page And she says they all think it's flattering But it's not because they point out my breast they point out and face whatever and they say all these things and They don't come across nice at all And so she said I just had to start blocking all kinds of people because I don't want to hear that I don't want to see that on my channel and You know if you're looking to get blocked if you're looking to be thought of as a pig If you're looking to you know have just people think that you're all kind of stuff And like I said if you're hiding your name, well, you know, you're a punk troll anyway That's my thought if you're one of those people who hides behind a name or you don't have any picture up there And you think that you're okay. You can say all this nasty stuff. You just you're just a chicken I can't think of anything else to say except, you know, I can call you a little girl or a little boy But why go there? Let's just say that you have no guts. You have no honor. You have no integrity. You have no ethics Stop, okay. And if you're on LinkedIn doing this, do you really not ever want any business? Is that what you want your reputation to be? Don't be stupid Anyway, these are my thoughts Ladies am I wrong here? Most of you guys am I wrong here? Let me know your thoughts. Y'all take care. Oh, yeah, I'm gonna let you know I'm Mitch Mitchell just because I've had a couple people say you never tell anyone who you are I told you I wasn't the last video. Okay, Mitch Mitchell y'all take care