 Being with her makes me put down the toilet seat more often than I'm not. Being with her means I'm going to clean up a little bit more. I want to be a better version of myself because being with this person brings me so much joy. You want to be the best version of yourself. And sure, we can be lazy at times, inconsiderate, sometimes dismissive, but it's such a minor compared to the effort. And when you're with the right person, you should be feeling this. You want to be the best version of yourself and you're feeling calm while you're doing it. Number three, you feel comfortable sharing your feelings. You both feel comfortable sharing your feelings.