 yes girl she is back she is back she is back for another chit chat if y'all hear anything first of all let me explain to you I am feeling a certain type of way cuz I have so much do you see that I have so much great hair coming in not a lot you guys but I've noticed an extra six to seven strands and she's always over here in this area so it is what it is girl if you hear anything it's my little space heater because I'm cold y'all I don't know what's going on with the heat in here but Mr. Man acts like he doesn't want to do anything so it's time for another chit chat full of randomness and foolery you already know how it is we talk about a little bit what's going on in these YouTube streets we talk about what's on TV and then some random stuff that pops in my head I do have a couple of things I have jotted down y'all let me see if I can hear myself let me play back this real quick to make sure that this heater isn't driving me out hold on yeah y'all that was a little too loud so I went ahead and turns it off so yeah y'all decide to come on and do a little chit chat work it's really really slow right now at my job it typically gets slow which I think it depending on what type of what area you in I should say but for me personally since I work with adult education and people need to be in the office girl to train your ass people typically take off they take off for the holidays so between mid-November to the 1st of January there's literally nothing going on both internal and external training so yeah so yeah her hair has been a little busy lately look at look at the length I'm getting you guys so how long can I go with this girl you know better than that said it's been two weeks right now it's been about two weeks of me not washing my hair and this has been out for a good two days I don't know what made me think that I could go another three or four days with my hair looking like this is not gonna happen because what it'll look good on the outside but in the inside it'll get matted up like right now if I put my hand through here it's caught because it's tangled at the root so we are gonna be pre-pooing and let's just get right into it let me show you guys what I'm gonna be using so do you remember this the salt anacles can't believe let's see if that a zoom in for y'all the salt anacles can't believe it's not butter now this is made with coconut milk and Jamaican black castor oil I started to do a review on this but I noticed that the type of coconut oil she used for this is the one that is it kind of beats up almost you know what I'm talking about so it was sitting on my hair it wasn't absorbing even when I tried to rub it in I don't know if you can even I can even woods it's even worse now that it's cold let me see if you can see this so do you see how I can even feel it you guys I can feel it so what I'm going to do is use it as a free pool because I'm gonna wash it out right I'm gonna wash it on anyway all right you guys let me go ahead and start section let me hush up section off my hair so what's going y'all what's what's going on what's the tea yes look at her give in that girl I should have made use of this hair you know what y'all wait when we're done I'm sorry y'all when we're done we're gonna go ahead and read the book of Corinthians cuz I'm all out of pocket so um sectioning my hair off and I'm on I am going to be lightly misting my hair with water and then what is it applying this product but y'all real quick last night my whole aim last night was to do a hair related video for y'all hairstyle I could not I don't know what what was going on you have one of those days where you try to do a hairstyle and you've done this style before and it's just not coming out the way you want it and it like a perm rod or a flexor right and you just can't get it down so I was trying to do a one curl and I just I could not get the dangle thing to do what I wanted to do and I've done one curls now how many times I've done them three times and I filmed it once for you guys and it was really really nice and I had set aside a full hour and a half to curl my hair I kept doing it the wrong way you can see this is this is some of it so you see that you see how can you see how it's still that's okay though because we're going to lightly detangle and just twist her back up so y'all look I'm gonna be stopping by Miss Arlett Pender's shop tomorrow and I lowkey want her to do my hair but I know she ain't gonna have enough time y'all because it takes her hours to do my hair but I'm thinking maybe I'm not whispering I'm thinking maybe that I could go ahead and wash my hair detangle my hair and blow it out and I'm gonna ask her if she could flat twist it y'all let me tell you something baby she shared and we're gonna get to what we're gonna talk about but she shared a video like I believe it was last year of a flat twist she had done and I was so taking them back at the definition I literally thought they were crochet rates that's how beautiful the flat twists were so I'm gonna see if she could flat twist my hair I know Patty she likes doing hair and she really likes doing my hair what's in these YouTube streets so I talked a little bit in my vlog my last vlog about what's in these streets and I told y'all I have to unsubscribe to a couple of people just too much drama and you know I'm like I miss delightful aka Rhonda I don't mind a little bit of drama but too much time for so TV TV TV TV we talked about the real hot swabs we ain't talking about those helpers anymore we talked about the real hot swabs but I have been watching Mary to medicine Mary to medicine is the new show now I know a lot who don't watch reality show and I'm a type of person who if I miss an episode oh well I'll catch you later on but I feel like okay so let's talk about a little bit of it so the last episode I was confused as hell because Cecil and dr. Simone went out to eat and they're talking about things talking about things first of all y'all huh this goes to show you that men men can also have an emotional affair with someone so I'm the show married to medicine Cecil who is thought the husband of one of the doctors dr. Simone he has had an on and off again emotional affair basically with his best friend first of all I already have a problem with my husband having a best friend as a female if you're gonna be best friend we all gonna be best friends if you best friend with her we're gonna be best friends too so during the reunion show last last year Simone said that this woman spent the night in their house doing the holidays when she lived there in Atlanta are you out of your damn mind I wish my husband will get his raggedy ass up here and say I shouldn't say that I wish my husband would say hey um Rochelle's gonna be up in here and she's gonna spend the night can you make sure that you fix her some some collard greens to do what no other female is gonna start I'm sorry y'all isn't that some fullery his best friend is a woman and I apparently he was best friends with her before he met his wife I'm not sure but it's been a number of years and the problem with that is that when this is what I've seen happen because it happens in relationships before but a lot of the times it's a woman who does is who gets emotionally connected to the opposite sex not to say that a man can't do it clearly we see it happening so whatever problems he's having with his wife you would typically go to your best friend right but your best friend is more than likely the same sex but no he's going to his best friend was what's her name Tammy he's going to Tammy and even though Tammy looks I shouldn't say that well I saw pictures of the woman I thought she was a I thought she was at the all-you-can-eat seafood boy lesbian she was a lesbian y'all I'm sorry but she was giving me lesbian fanny pack khaki shorts tease I'm sorry but she was and so come to find out that he is having a emotional an affair emotional affair which is worse than an actual physical affair in my opinion and he's moved back into the house so that's another thing they have separate houses so he's moved back into the house the main house or whatever her house and they went out to dinner and get to the bunker they went out to dinner and the conversation goes back to his affair with this woman Tammy and then just for you to move he's gonna get tired of that shit real fast okay you can't if you're gonna sit up here and say you're going to accept your spouse when they cheated you can't keep bringing back stuff you can't do that I mean cuz the other person's gonna get tired of it and I was like she just came out of nowhere just look her feelings are warranted but there's a way that you can communicate without sounding sounding all crazy I mean she was cursing and just acting the fool and she got up and stormed out of the restaurant and he's sitting there like he's confused and I was confused too for him child though so you're watching that and you know what really tore my heart was hater lover with Mariah she really does love her husband and I guess Mariah is another person on the show her husband Aiden was sick when they went on this famous trip all females trip he calmed down he called her and said that he's going into the hospital the ear excuse me he's been admitted was it meningitis it's what it was y'all when you are sick you have to go to the hospital and you know thank God he's a doctor and he recognized recognizes when things are getting out of hand but there are so many people who wait to go to the doctor or they just don't go and then by the time they do go it's too late which is why a lot of the times when we hear people have died of the flu they go to the hospital and literally they died in the hospital from the flu oh my god this is why this is why I go to the doctor about everything like miss Jackson my out of pocket and everything is meh I've been meeting my deductible for the last three years straight girl cuz I go to the doctor for everything cuz I'm afraid that you know I want to be sure you know I'm very proactive when it comes to my hair my health at least I try to be in my hair too girl we proactive about my hair so yeah let me get these like something girl so you see everything okay that's a little too much um so yeah y'all that's what's been going on um Christmas around the corner about the order JB his Christmas presents tomorrow and I told my husband I'm like well it's about a hundred and sixty dollars worth of presents he's like a hundred and sixty dollars one of you I said that is cheap yeah I'm sorry that is cheap that is cheap because I know some people who go three hundred four hundred five hundred dollars on their kiss oh so you see that you see those chunks they spend some coins and you know JB's little presents are like seven eight ten dollars you know about him a telephone like a real landline phone yeah I have the weirdest child I know so anyway y'all let's get into some other discussion um oh another show I've been watching is dirty John girl when I tell you this show Bravo it comes on Bravo my best friend she was um we were talking about it a couple of days ago she's like you got a check out this show the documentary is even better I'm like wait a minute this is based on a real person she's like yeah so basically I'm not gonna give a lot in case you guys any of you are watching or want to watch it but it basically is around this man name what is his name John Menahan or Menahan he has a very unique last name he has spent his entire life basically scamming women being married having a wife then a wife with two kids and then having another woman on the side that he's possibly being engaged having different identifications aliases different social security numbers going to jail scamming people because I got TV one back I'm still back on my where we're gonna start it y'all fatal attraction y'all I love me some fatal attraction I will sit up here and I record record them too because I don't have time to watch it when it comes on and I will sit up here and watch three or four episodes straight in between doing other stuff but it's just sad what people will kill someone over just to smile and it's like that how are you not thinking I mean I understand to a certain degree like a crime of passion where you're upset and I'm sitting someone kills but the fact that people in to kill someone over like a $10,000 insurance policy or the one I saw not too long ago the guy got a shotgun rifle walked up to his girlfriend who worked at a tollway unloaded on her then drove to her boyfriend's or husband and killed him too it's like what are you thinking now he actually asked for the death penalty and they're like now we ain't gonna give it to you but it's like you always try to think you know I always think to myself when I watch your show it's like what can really drive someone to really do that like what do you what are you thinking what are you thinking about why how and why could you do that to someone especially when it comes to stuff like insurance money there was one where I'm sure y'all would know who I'm talking about what is her name she's based out of Francis Newton and I remember seeing her her story a couple of a couple of years ago on the 80s what was it in Huntsville and was it was it Houston was she in Houston y'all yeah I don't know anyway she had shot and killed her children and her husband for insurance money like I think it was like a few days before that week she took out $50,000 insurance policies on her children and her husband come on now girl are you serious and then the thing that was well the thing that's a red flag in a lot of these cases is when your ass is called the insurance company asking where your money is at because most of the time people don't want that money like if someone is it's not that they didn't want it they're not gonna be calling the insurance company asking for their money they're gonna be busy you know grieving and planting a funeral for their loved ones a lot of the times they don't even think about that money two months later after the person has died so what the hell so they executed her oh yes Texas does does not play now of course they are a little lenient on women like it is anywhere um but yeah she she got executed for that but yeah y'all watching my fatal attraction love me some fatal attraction there was one story out an um tower Texas and I know people who knew the guy where he killed a forgot his name but he killed a transsexual and that he was that he didn't know that it was really a man come on y'all so real quick I finished the book be coming and y'all know if it's because I've been so blind sided or just in this I feel like some Americans some of us are in this almost trance due to all of the foolery that has gone on with Trump and this administration like every other week it's a did he really say that and so I completely in reading this book or hearing it because I did the audio book I completely forgot about all the stuff that had occurred while while Obama was in office everything from the same hook shootings to the Dylan roof to the nightclub I forgot about all that that man had to and you know go through I for completely forgot about Trump being a birther and I wonder if his supporters even know that if they even remember that that that Trump had this huge agenda agenda where he would pay someone a million dollars if they could find Obama's birth certificate and that he was really a Muslim even though he went to a they go to an AME church and I I do remember that preacher who was coming out with all those the preacher that they had on camera saying all that no racist stuff and then they tried to paint Obama of being you know this militant person but yet he's would be a Muslim some really confused and so in the book Michelle was saying how they were very careful with that you know and it's just so amazing to get this almost different perspective now that she's not in the White House and I find I found myself wondering is Melania did she do any of any of this you don't really hear about much what she's doing I certain things as a as a first lady that you are responsible for you organized she always basically saying is that you find certain projects or causes to either work on or manage and I don't what what exactly is she doing y'all and you know organizing the Easter egg hunt organizing all these parties that's a first wife duty or responsibility it was a very interesting book and so towards the end I came I love the book and I think a lot of people enjoyed the book but I was left with this oh my god type of feeling you know she it's she's becoming a college graduate she's becoming a lawyer becoming a leader becoming a first wife to the first black president you know what I mean but her purpose at what what Michelle's 54 her purpose as a individual on this planet you know she's halfway done with her life let's keep it real but towards the end I got this feeling that she still be calming she's still evolving so I what I took away from the day is that because you guys know I'm always on this I gotta find my purpose I gotta find my purpose what is and I mentioned this before what if your purpose is where you at right now the season that you in whatever type of hurt whatever type of whatever you're in right now you supposed to be in that and then you become another year two year three year four year however long it takes you go into your next phase but you never stop becoming you know what I mean so again my takeaway was that you know you have this woman who became a first lady but yes she's still questioning is she good enough and you hear that read she repeats that throughout the book in certain chapters is she good enough you know she doubts herself someone who's had all these accomplishments from two Ivy League colleges I'm sorry you guys she's one of the highest educated first women first wise we have had so highly educated okay but yet she's still doubting herself is she if she's good enough and what was she really what what should she do now and so I'm like at the end of the day let me just say this at the end of the day I'm like I shouldn't beat myself up I shouldn't beat myself up because I'm not where I think I should be at in life right now you know what I mean I'm okay where I'm at right now I just shouldn't stop growing I should continue on so yes I enjoyed the book I love it but I it was just so amazing to hear all the little stuff like they have to get there like if when the kids have a sleepover if they wanted to go somewhere they had to get the people they were traveling with social security numbers Secret Service have to go over and you know do a sweep over the house over that person's house I'm like wow a person on Obama had to travel with a personal doctor backs of his blood type just in case something happened I'm like that's a good idea how can I get back to my blood type I got yeah it was just so amazing to hear that just to hear how you know her her humble upbringings you know being raised in south side of the Chicago with her grandparents and you know taking piano lessons and one thing that stuck out to me though you guys is that you oftentimes hear especially from people who I feel like a lot of people and I'm gonna go ahead and say it because I'm just transparent like that I feel like a lot of white people are tired of hearing about the racism and the racist comments from black people they feel like we're wanting is that slavery was not that long ago the Jim Crow laws were not that long ago and Michelle spoke on how the men and her family and the obstacles that they had but yet they still kept working and providing for their families but some of them couldn't go and get a college degree they couldn't go you know things with the unions all because they're black they were black you know what I mean my own grandfather passed away at 101 years old he knew slaves my grandfather knew slaves so no it was not that long ago my own grandfather couldn't even write y'all it was not that long ago it really wasn't so and then the effects of that we see still going on today so yeah I really do love the book if you haven't read it check it out girl so yeah I cannot get through this hair while I'm on this camera with y'all I'm not gonna be able to get through it that it's it this is gonna be kind of a longer chit chat gonna go ahead and put this down and cover her up somehow I don't need to be scaring anybody oh lord this is all types of so yeah y'all this is it I'm so glad you pick up the phone girl cuz I've been wanting to talk to you so alright you guys take care bye