 It is Father's Day. In celebration of Father's Day, what can we do as parents, whether it's dad, mom, or to support, obviously, growing children that are healthy? And I know for a lot of us, we're starting out as parents, we're thinking about children, and we want to be the best parents. Maybe we've learned some things from our parents that we don't want to do. How can we show up and be better parents? The number one thing that parents can do is learn how to handle personal criticism without becoming defensive. I started teaching couples communication courses around the country because I found that when the boy crisis was oftentimes a phenomenon of divorce, divorce was a phenomenon of the mother and father not being able to handle criticism without becoming defensive. Therefore, it made it unsafe for their partner to be able to share their real feelings and concerns. Both sexes, mom and dad, felt like they were walking on eggshells. That would either lead to a divorce, or it would lead to a legal divorce, or it would lead to a psychological divorce, or it would lead to a minimum security prison marriage, which is very sad for everybody. I started teaching that, but it's important. I teach it to adults. It's very important for parents to have that because most of the time children mimic the style of communication that their parents do. That's pretty common sense. But it's also important for us to be teaching that to our first, second, and third grade children, both boys and girls. So the bully is that they're picking on a kid when they see what the feelings and the real full personality of the child that they're picking on and how that made them feel. They stop bullying to a much greater degree. When the bully is listened to as well, he or she doesn't feel as insecure, and therefore bullies less. The bully and the bullied have in common, both of them have low self-esteem. They have a lot of characteristics in common. As they listen to each other in first, second, and third grade, where this has been done in Denmark, they find that there's a significant reduction in bullying in school and also other dysfunctional behavior. There's an increase in emotional intelligence that you were talking about before, AJ, as being so crucial not only to getting along with children, but eventually in male-female relationships or in same-sex relationships, emotional intelligence is probably the most important single skill you can get. The fact that we're teaching, I have learned far more from teaching the couples communication courses than I ever learned, even though I was good enough at math to be teaching math in the eighth grade, but I haven't learned nearly as much from math as I have from couples communication skills and communication skills.