 When you discard the narcissist, when you discard them, it's very different to when they discard you, because when they discard you, they're really not too bothered about you. They're not bothered about what you're doing after they're gone, because they know they've already ruined your life. They've already brought you down. They've already used you up for everything you have to offer. So why do they need to worry about you then? As far as they're concerned, you'll have to discard it after that. They don't need you. But when you discard them first, it is very different. And they will treat that situation very differently, because when you do that first, it's because you realize that they are draining you, and you're putting a stop to it, so that you can leave with whatever you still have. You can still leave with that when you discard them first. But of course, they're not going to like it. They're going to try to stop you, because despite what you've done for them, they are very entitled. They are very arrogant, and they expect you to see it as a privilege to be around them. So just for them being around you, they are expecting compensation. They are expecting to get something out of it. So yeah, when you try to move on, they will do whatever it takes to stop you. They will do whatever it takes to bring you down, to make your life worse. To show you that actually, no, you got it wrong. Your life is not better without them. That's how they want you to see it. They want to make you regret your decision to leave, which is often very easy for them to do, because throughout the relationship, they were bad-mouthing you to other people. They were smearing your name, making you look bad, which is the perfect setup for when you finally leave, when they can point the finger and call you bad and crazy and act like you've done all of these things to them, when the reality is that you upgraded their lives, you did everything you could to make them happy. But it was never good enough. It never is. So when you discard them, expect trouble. They're going to come after you. They're going to try to bring you down and make your life worse. That's all a narcissist really knows how to do. There's two types of people in this world. One type that tries to build and the other type that tries to destroy. A narcissist are definitely destroyers. Everything they do is designed to pull you down. It's like they're on this mission to destroy you, because they are very jealous. They feel as though they have lost something of value, although they may never tell you that. That is how they feel, which is why they're going to do whatever they can to get it back, because despite what they've said to you, you have to understand that if something is really not worth anything, why would they chase after you? They're chasing after you because they do recognize your value. They know that you have something and they don't want you to get away with it. They don't want you to get away with everything you have, everything valuable that you possess, all of these good qualities and traits, your money, your house, your children. No, they want to take all of that away from you, because they know that bad stuff helps to make you who you really are and you being who you are reflects badly on them, which is why the world tried to put a stop to everything good that you're doing, because they're trying to make you look bad. But despite that, you can't give up, you can't throw in a towel just yet. Yes, they may have done some bad things to you. Yes, things may get worse, but what is a life stuck with a toxic person who doesn't value you? They may recognize your value, but they don't treat you with the proper respect that you deserve. And they never will. They will just blame you for everything. They will make false accusations about you so that they can save their own arse. Don't stand for it anymore. Get out of there and live your best life. Something you cannot do around a narcissist. You cannot be yourself around them. Trust me, life gets better. I have to promote this stuff. I have to tell people that yes, there is light at the end of the tunnel. There is sunshine after the rain. And I know that you can all pull through it and get to the other side and become your best self away from the narcissist who is really no good for you. All they can do is manipulate you. All they can do is be fake. You can be something for real, although they may not like it. You can move on and finally have something of your own. I hope this message resonates with you just out here at the beach. A lot of sunshine today. It's very warm and I'm just out here living my best life. This world isn't going to be here forever. You've got to make the most of it while you can. I just wanted to jump on here and share this message with you and let you know that I support you all on your healing journey. I love you all. You all mean so much to me when I read your comments. It's great to get all this feedback on here to know that these videos are helping you. So yeah, that's all for this video. I hope you all have a good day and I'll talk to you in another one very soon.