 Hey you guys, how are you guys doing? Let me take this camera back for my y'all know me never never prepared Always here and never prepared So you guys we're going to be Mosterizing my hair and setting my hair in medium-sized twist cuz I do finally plan on doing something With JB on this weekend. We're already doing stuff with him. But anyway, y'all my hair is dry Tie it to the side. It's still cute. How she's been in this messy side bun For a couple of days and so what I'm going to do it be doing is layering products That's the best way to ensure that your hair is moisturized So we're going to be using the curls cream brulee whipped curl cream Along with cream of nature pure honey twisting butter I don't know if y'all can see that and then we have Echo Styler gel hair oil and I have some spray here. So let's take this bush down girl So this chit chat video you guys y'all know how we do it I talk about what's going on in my personal life I talk about what I'm watching on YouTube or what I'm watching on TV I've been watching a lot on you on TV you guys and YouTube Look at that bun that messy bun. Let me take this watch off. I think I have a bunch of bobby pins stuck up in here girl Hot mess. Oh my goodness I've had my hair in this style since we were in For my birthday These are some big bobby pins and my hair All right. Okay. I Know I have more bobby pins than this. So I'm not gonna be able to talk until I get my hair in the state that she needs to be in Because I got to focus on this mane right now It actually doesn't look too bad And look to help me get through it. I'm I have my supper girl Look, this is just they don't sell hard liquor and for me. This is though. Oh, what do you call it? It's not dry. It's wet So this is just a margarita mix that already has a little bit of liquor in it Anyway, y'all, that's cute. I think this is almost done. I Don't know what I was doing with this hair Whoo, honestly, thankfully I'm very careful with About adding a lot of products to my hair so that my scalp isn't you know itching scratchy So we're gonna do some type of part Not even gonna use a comb or anything because first of all, you you shouldn't be all up on my hair anyway So I don't care about it being not being straight because you need to back up Actually cute. Yes, so We're gonna go ahead and Put this in sections So I write y'all we're gonna talk about what's going on in my personal life first Give y'all a bit of a update. It was my husband's and in my birthday last week praise God a man Celebrating another year. It's truly a blessing to be alive We stayed at the Anatole here in Dallas I will say that my my work my week was very It was a very even though it was my birthday the work week was very stressful because I had to Interrupt my vacation plans to go back to work And when I tell you that Not only did that upset me but a couple of my co-workers are very upset that whenever something gets crazy busy like that I have to cancel my vacation plans to go like we literally had to leave the hotel early to return back to work I was very emotional but I was very upset. I got over it I went to Longview and celebrated with my family. My mama had a cake of Stravaganza, baby When I tell you my mama had so many pound cakes first of all, she was naming up all the pound cakes She had made almost like Bubba did and what is that movie? What is that movie y'all? Well, we were talking about all the different type of shrimp on the boat I was like Lord have mercy my mama seriously made about I'm gonna guess 30 different pound cakes the my favorite was She had a peach cobbler pound cake and then she also had the carrot cake was really good Now I wanted to try the banana pudding pound cake, but I couldn't but she had some ridiculous amount of different type of cakes um It did fairly well so you guys I'm just gonna go ahead and Add some her oil. I'm just gonna do like medium-sized twists just to get this up my my way So anyway, so yeah, we did that had a good time at the hotel regardless had a good time with my family JB started school this week aim Cuz show when I tell you look as an only child We're JB's friends Well, he doesn't have a lot of friends here yet because we're new here in town and so yeah My husband and I were talking about let me back up JB goes to a private school out in Heath, Texas And so my husband was you know basically telling me how we need to look into other schools because But tired of paying you know for private school Miss Jackson Did what she does best I put in a couple of twerks that Vivian you gotta be professional shit. Um, I Convinced him to let JB stay until fifth grade until he's ready to go to our charter school locally So my baby will be staying there till up until the fifth grade and so that's I am very blessed to have someone Who can just save he my husband's really good at saving money. He just paid them up front What else what else what else? Child just visiting the family in general now visiting the family is slowing down since school started So we probably we can definitely go on the weekend something girl. What the hell? We can definitely go on the weekend sometime, but But the business would definitely be reserved for when we have a little bit more time off I'm trying to get them to come up here again like literally My parents are just grinning. I drive fast, but regardless. They're only an hour away It's not like they're you know over three hours away. They're close. So, yeah One thing y'all that People don't know about me I'm a very sweet person. I'm very nice. I'm very sweet now my sister tried to warn My extended family about me Meaning cuz she says every now and then the family meaning my extended family like oh Nikki my sister named Nikki you you you mean You're mean and my sister's like oh y'all think I mean wait to Vib comes up in here I'm Vib wait to Vib come back. So while I was back home My family is very nice Very nice very given. They'll do anything for people in the neighborhood. So We pop up cuz I had to go. Um, I don't know what I had to just drop by my my father's my parents house And the boys was just there meaning the grand the the grandchildren that were boys were just over there We're pow pow hanging out, right? I can see through the screen door Two women just hanging out in the front and I'm like, who are these two women? I'm a coolie. So I'll I'll walk in on how how are you and they're like, hey nothing else I go to the back room where my daddy is at and You guys my father has had back surgery twice this year. He walks with a cane He is retired early at the rifle age of 64 He's okay, but sometimes he could be in a lot of pain So I roll up on my daddy in the background like hey daddy. What's going on? Who these women? He's like, oh They're looking for something. They're in the middle of painting. They're looking for a paint brush And I got to go out into the storage unit and see if I could find something for them Long story short. He was saying that these are people in the neighborhood that are always asking him for something or even you know ask me for money even if it's like a few dollars and They feel bad. So they do it. I said, uh, so what do they want now? They want paint brushes, but I you know, this is my father. I don't know what to tell him You know, I'm just I just you know, I said, oh, I got this just a second Let me tell you something so I'm in the front room. I'm like, hey, how are you doing? What do you need exactly? What are you here for? These are the two women and one of them has to be pushing at least 60 The other one's probably in her late 20s early 30s They're like, oh, we're here mr. Webster to see if he can find us some paint brushes We're in the middle of painting and we need some paint brushes. I said, okay. Well, um, hi I'm Vivian. I'm their oldest daughter. So my father's not feeling too well right now So whatever you're looking for, unfortunately, he won't be able to get it for get it to you right now They look at me a little bit like, okay, and they just looking around Oh, let me back up what teach me off is one of them what all the way back to the back room or my parents house The door was cracked closed. It was halfway closed. She's like she this is the woman talking Through the crack door. I'm mr. Webster. We're gonna go ahead and leave want to come back I'm gonna wait a minute. Did she just walk her way in through the house like this is her house I saw so when I went out to the front room and I introduced myself and I let the note My father won't be able to get that paintbrush for you. He's not feeling well And look the grandkids I see JB at the corner of my eye, you know, mama I see JB and my nephew on the side like this Looking at them looking at me. They quiet child. They know they know to be in their place. They quiet, right the grandkids So I let her know my father's not feeling well The grandchildren are here. He's here. He's hanging. He's spending quality time with his family I'm here from out of town and one of them says, oh, yeah, we never seen you before. I said, oh, I know you haven't Hi, my name is Vivian. I'm the oldest daughter. I'd let you know that in the oldest child So this is a problem. My father is not a hundred percent. Well, he's walking around for Kane He's a nice man. He's gonna do what he can for you But I'm like, you know right now it's not a good time Like I said, he's spending time with his family. Well, he just doesn't have time right now They're still looking like waiting to hear my daddy say something if he would chime in my dad is in the back room But I know he can hear us right and so the older one says, okay Well, we're just gonna leave it and go get my phone charger and come back. I said, no, no, no, you won't you You know, you're not coming back. So thank you. So look, I'm pushing I'm like walking towards him to push him up. That's so thank you for stopping by if you need anything else You know, maybe in a couple more days a couple more weeks and my father'll be able to help you But right now it's just not a good time Okay girl, they were quiet so At this point my daddy has shimmered his way he used a back door or something he's in the back and his man cave And so he's like he's still looking for the paintbrush y'all and I'm like he's like so what's going on? I saw I took care of it. He's like they're gone. I see they're gone They're gone and they're not gonna be coming back here in a couple more days to let you know He's a whole thank you so much Child when my sister got a word of this she's looking at me like you said that I said what's the problem? Let me tell y'all something there is nothing passive aggressive about me I think people get caught up in the southern accent. You know, I put my purple lipstick on I got a cute little face. Do you don't know I would check somebody and there's a reason why sometimes my my friends now That I know this my really good friends will have to give when I'm meeting a mutual friend or someone they know I Just realized that they will give them a warning of me because I'm someone I don't hold back. I'm very open I'm very honest. I'm very cordial. I've gotten a lot better. I will say this. I think I have but You you really don't want to if I know that you're really taking advantage of someone I'm also someone that will fight for people. You know what I mean? I'm a Leo I like to fight for people. I'm gonna make sure people okay, it's what's when it comes to my family If you don't get you and to make it worse I Could tell that they were on some type of substance and my father confirmed it. I was like, yeah, no, yeah, I need to leave One youtuber who is so refreshing I have mentioned her before that I think you guys should check out is Oh Steph Oh Stephanie and one of her most popular videos is Disgusting I'm discussing pretty frivolous, which is absolutely love her what else what else what else? Um, I Am seeing still again an increase It's been increasing over Since COVID hit Domestic violence. This is just just a trigger domestic violence and murders within the black community young black women Moms girlfriends, and it seems to be jilted. Is that how you pronounce it jilted lovers? The last one I heard about was a mother of six and the father of the kids Ended up stabbing this woman like over 15 times it is There is something about this era of man this almost toxic masculinity Um, a lot of these men especially black men I'm not even gonna say black men a lot of men in general are not in tuned with their emotions They don't know how to They don't they don't know how to regulate their emotions. They don't know how to Accept rejection, which is why you won't remember that that case and I think I'm gonna start crying just thinking about it of the of the Ex who who killed the girlfriend and then he threw the baby in the in the lake or the river Was that in louisie and y'all like Nobody in their right mind would do that, but it's happening a lot It is it's happened. It's increasing so It is so sad. It's absolutely just heart breaking what's going on in our community when it comes to young black women Um, it's just it's an absolute mess Noticing a lot of that. I saw a very very interesting video of a um Young I think he's british who loses his memory Every 30 seconds. So he's the real life first 50 dates with um, what is it adam sandler and drew barry moore That is the sweetest little love story, but it's also depressing to me. So I I've only watched it once So anyway, this man who is almost 70 if not, he's he's close to 70 He had herpes, which is normally a colt sword But it spread to his brain his brain swelled up and when that happened it triggered a A neuro neurological issue to where his memory depleted And every 30 seconds He he loses his memory so he can literally be talking to you about something and in the middle of the conversation He has no idea who you are what we're talking about, but this is a romantic story. I'm gonna cry y'all. I love love I'm somebody who loves love. I love genuine love The only thing that he does not forget Is his wife That is the most he doesn't remember the wedding He doesn't remember the first kiss But he remembers her six years within their marriage. He developed this and she's way younger than him I think there's almost a 20 year gap if not. Yeah, she was way younger. So when this happened It was almost a death of her future self because there's no kids. There's no, you know, because he doesn't even It's like having somebody who has dementia In my opinion, this is worse than dementia or Alzheimer's, you know what I mean? So anyway She left the marriage for a while because she's like, I can't do this. I absolutely can't Can't do it. He's lives in a group home and all this, you know A couple of I don't know how long it was and two of them Separate and a divorce and She decided to come back and she said I couldn't do it um, yes, I'm gonna be able to have children Yes, he's not the same but in ways our Marriage is even better because out of everything that he forgets. This is such a beautiful thing y'all I'm gonna I'm tearing up out of everything that he could forget His brain remembers her Isn't that beautiful? She must have had that much of an impact that certain part of his brain She mustn't imprinted that much on him that he couldn't forget her and baby now to the pettiness the pettiness honey I started rewatching The vegas gate videos and many of y'all that follow the shone bradley's of viewers of you pam Shelly hutchinson lady nika um Who else did I say shone bradley james carwell alexander? So that was a huge group of I think they were called. I'm almost like sipping shade There was a whole group of them and they all together even ronda Mr. Lightful It was a whole group of them. So about five or six years. I think it's been almost six years ago now They decided to go on to go to vegas together Girl everything was fine until they came home Baby when I tell you the drama was ridiculously drama and these youtubers are They're smaller youtubers. Excuse me meaning Nobody has over a hundred thousand views I think alexander has right now. He has the most he has over 60,000 But he's not even doing that type of content anymore What I find interesting is a lot of them they still going back and forth with stuff Pam is coloring her book which I don't blame her girl. That's just not toxic But let me back up. So six years ago a couple of them decided to get together and meet up in vegas, right? So like I stated everything was fine But when they got back apparently it wasn't so the big big issue that came about was that Lady nika who's an older black youtuber. She's not the oldest. I think oh girl. Look at that. I think I think what is his name? He dresses he dresses in drag sometimes I think james caught. Well, it's the oldest one But lady nika. I honestly thought she was the oldest until he said that so anyway, y'all basically Lady nika was kind of scammy Everything from her they got I guess they got an airbnb a room in vegas everything from her trip to there pitching in for food Um, even when she was wearing I guess shun bradley. They went to the mall and bought her a whole outfit She was basically moping and crying around that, you know, just feeling sorry for herself with me That doesn't that doesn't do anything for me. I would ignore your ass from here to I'm sorry But I will because you don't want to decide to go on this trip With no money and be in dusty if you want to be dusty Okay, but don't don't mope about it and be upset about it So child when I tell you there are a couple of videos about this stuff that I went back and rewatch And I could not it was a whole hoopla. Yeah, this video even though these folks again They're not a hundred thousand subscribers. These videos are getting those type of numbers They're getting a lot of hits and I will say they get more hits than I do And I have more subscribers than most of them, but their videos get a lot of hits So then they're making bank. They're making money looking at all that What I'm watching on tv girl a lot So the first thing I've been watching is the old man With old-ass Jeff Bridges and I wasn't sure about it. Something Jeff Bridges is staying on there 70 years. Oh, how can he play He's playing an assassin. I'm like, what are you doing? Jeff Bridges? Your knee probably got replaced twice doing this uh the taping of this damn series But let me tell you something the old man on I think it's on isn't on hulu y'all Let me bring up my phone. Excuse me The old man and it has a couple of other no-name people as the other man That played in there right from the sun. What is named John? lethgrove John lethgo, so retired assassin Having to come out retirement to kick some butt basically is what this is all about But you know who plays in this movie that took me down a whole another rabbit hole Those of you who watched the wire chris That dangled sociopath chris who was killing everybody left and right chris plays an assassin in This movie the old man now. He's he's a little bit older of course, but he's kicking butt too And I love the dynamics of his character also. So y'all check it out. It's very very interesting I binge watched it in one weekend American horror stories Let me tell you something It's a little different y'all so It's a bunch of different short stories that really don't have I mean it's called dollhouse But to me they're all a different type of story The first one really did do with dolls that first one. I'm a spoiler alert The first episode When she made that Train move or whatever it was that car moved. I was like she's a witch I already peeped it. I'm like she's a witch. I absolutely love the first story I tried to watch bits and pieces of the other ones and I just couldn't get into it. So I'm like, yeah, I I really can't get into it. I there's nothing else to say about it Under the banner of heaven Is so dark It is really good It talks about it goes into um, I wonder how the people and this the domination feel about This show and I believe they are Later later day. Let me let me make look them up. I don't want to really hold on y'all Under Under the banner of heaven is a mini series that's on hulu and it really does depict The lds which is later day saints um, but within the lds within any type of denomination any type of religion you have extremists and so there is a A group within the lds community that is very extreme And I'm not going to go for anybody. I'm not going to talk about anybody's religion because I wouldn't want anyone talking about mine Just look at the show. Yeah the book of Mormon But one of the characters basically tried to say that the book of Mormon came about It was basically a a love story between the author and a woman. He was interested. So anyway It's very dark and it is based on a true story when I heard that I was like, oh I need to grow up Harry even finishes. It's based on a true story. You guys is very disturbing And so I'm on episode six. I like it so far baby. We won't get to it. We won't get to we won't get to p-valley Only murders in the building when I tell you that dang on martin chart is such a dang on Only murders in building has such a cat cast a crazy cast I just love just The overall feel of the seat of the of the episodes of this in general and Martin chart and steve martin make a dynamic duo. I absolutely love it Selena Gomez Selena Gomez is in it, but you have other different people that show up naked and lain is in it Um, who else there was somebody really big that showed up in it. What is the um, the um white actor the white comedian Michael Michael rapper poor. He gets to my damn there sometimes though. He's in it too. He plays a detective So only murders in the building. It is very different very dynamic I love the episode where it's from the perspective sometimes the episodes are from the perspective of the Suspect quote-unquote. So I really did enjoy the episode that was from the perspective Of a character that's deaf and you no one talks hardly. There's no talking. It's very quiet. It's nothing That was honestly one of my favorite episodes and I really did like that they that they did that so Girl p-valley When I tell you that p-valley is dark. I thought it would get darker But it's dark enough so far So I'm gonna go back. I'm a spoiler. I will be giving spoilers just to let you know um, but we're gonna go and talk about how Hailey Finally got her ass handed to her um Uncle Clifford was basically able to buy her out but You know, she was able to meaning Hailey was able to do something because uncle Clifford checked the bank account and they were short like a over $20,000 Uncle Clifford found that out. He screamed boat legs came up in the air and he fell back on that catch When I tell you I rewinding that scene back so many times. I started laughing I'm like this character is so damn extravagant. It's not even funny Little murder finally came out to reveal that Um in front of other people the how he has feelings for uncle Clifford kashon kishon And derrick ass I so wish that somebody would kill derrick already. I know that's bad to say but when I tell you this man It is ridiculous. So again spoiler alert When cps showed up And derrick is sitting there with that damn grin on his face And kashon, sorry kishon is just sitting there rocking back and forth and I was getting nervous. I'm like, oh my god I'm thinking about okay because hayley gave her that gun remember y'all and I'm thinking oh my god She's gonna pull out that gun and shoot derrick in front of all No, it's that she snaps and she attacks derrick and I'm like, oh baby That's it. That's a wrap. You ain't gonna never get your kids again after that. You ain't gonna So of course she ends up going to jail Now she makes a phone call. Let me back up Before I say this I don't remember but which I think was the previous episode where her and diamond's ass shared a kiss But then big bone solid and big bone was like, oh hell no so Kishon kishon is in jail. So baby girl goes to jail Washington jail though. She makes a call to diamond And she she's telling this fairy tale fairy tale story Which I kind of like that part of it too I like the backstories that they are getting into because they they did a back story on Kishon and derrick and how he was basically her white knight Because she has an evil ass stepmom. What a lady always playing somebody evil the stepmother the one that plays her stepmother anyway, y'all so She basically Caused diamond from from jail her one free call and was like Let's make it happen Meaning I need for you to go ahead and take care of derrick derrick's ass Yes, so let me back up some of y'all some of the darkness Of course, we know that diamond is into hudu Old girl has seven pounds on her due to that due due to that murder But do you know who's also a bit? I think he he's there's a part of him that's dark The manager with the deep voice woody Let me tell you something again, spoiler alert when he gave old boy that that dosage of fentanyl And then the part of him that's dark is first of all He works for the damn funeral home Some of this death doesn't face him But when he got up on him and started talking to him and watching him die I'm like, oh, yeah, you crazy. You crazy as hell. I I kind of like it. So I maybe on my ass is crazy too. Yeah, he's talking to old boy while he's dying I'm like, oh You dark you dark you dark as hell. So anyway, y'all I know I'm all over the place. So back to the last episode. I watched Hailey had her ass handed to her barack obama didn't win instead. Old girl's mama, uh, maya wood vine Patrice or ratchet, but she won But it looks like y'all she may have a change of heart because terraca step mama is getting help And so, uh, the mama showed up to, um, the dance studio It was basically like She needs her mama terraca needs her biological mama And I think that made Mercedes feel a certain type of way I love the fact that what is his name coaches or whoever's The the wife paid Mercedes all that money because of the pictures she took of her And I it just made me feel a certain type of way when Mercedes walked into that gallery and saw all the beautiful photos of her And she gave her royalties and she actually told her that hey You get basically you could get royalties for life. So you basically said Look at that. Good So anyway, y'all Um, we're gonna get to we're gonna get to I know we're gonna get to it The characters that is still making me feel a certain type of way is roll it Roll it and big bone. There's always gonna be some someone being this way, but roll it I'm like, dang First you would a crazy ass crackhead and snowfall Now you backstabbing in this, you know, whatever. So oh the girl with the crazy eyes while hailey is Throwing up in the bathroom the girl with the crazy eyes. I shouldn't say that she's she is a medium She also does some of that hoodoo stuff, but she's more of a medium. Okay. She probably reads cards, too So why hailey is is bubblegut on the toilet? She's like, so how do you think about twins? I'm like girl hailey. I know you are not about to have barack obama's babies Uh-uh, but it is what it is. So y'all the last scene Diamond is going to go ahead. He got his kill bag or whatever. You know, I don't know what what murder stoop But he got a bag of stuff why he's getting his bag ready somebody puts A bag over here. I'm like, is there that smart to figure out? He's fighting this two of them gets one I'm like, this fight is not fair. But one of them got a big button and a big ass. I'm like Who who is like a cliff or who was this fight? Child, but I'm looking at I'm like, oh, this is big bombs ass So sure enough when he gets in that trunk and they take off those masks is big bone Big bone. So by the way, there's also this this war With the gangs and Mercedes had it with you know, they got it lives across the street And he's like you need to pick a side and she's like, I don't pick no sides, you know I work at the I work at the I only choose, you know the color paint So I'm like, yeah, they really do be like that in the hood Child, I don't know. We didn't have we didn't have games that serious. I mean, we had them in the in the country, but y'all please diamond and got himself kidnapped by big bone shady ass But you know what for someone who is so in touch With what's going on in the spiritual realm for him not to figure out that there was something going on with big Bond that means that he was thinking with The meat between his legs and not his head Because he should have been able to to figure out there are some shady characters on the show big bone is one lips Rollette is another one. Even the white guy that she's messing with the one that slain the pills And the club with the with the security. He's another one too. So they yeah I'm like you all that who do you've been doing and you can't figure out this big booty girl got something going on. So I'm very interested to see what the next episode. Yeah, I know this is going on I look some series and I am looking forward to baby Handmaid's tail part five. I don't know it's coming out in a couple more weeks when I tell you I am ready I'ma say this. What do you call him the governor the gov. We spoiler You well, I don't know what happened to the governor But the governor's wife in my opinion y'all she's more of a threat than the governor Look with the governor all all you have to do is slang a little bit of hips a little bit of boob Some cat whatever the governor's wife. I think that she's gonna be held. She's gonna be Hell for this season. I'm curious to see how it's gonna play out Well, I'm nervous. I am so nervous. So y'all that is it. Um, thank you so much for watching I'm gonna go ahead and finish the rest of my hair finish the rest of my drink I don't know what order that's gonna be but we're gonna make it happen. All right y'all take care. Bye