 What's going on you guys? It's your boy Lloyd here with the single guy channel bringing you practical and actionable dating advice I get a boatload of questions from guys asking me how to get girls on the dance floor. Lloyd How do I start dancing with a girl? Lloyd, how do I pick up a girl on the dance floor? I get different clients. I get different people watch my channel And so in this video basically what I'm going to do just for you guys Is I'm going to awkwardly dance in front of this camera to show you how I pick up girls on the dance floor Okay, this is something that I usually prefer to talk to a girl and then take her to the dance floor But it's definitely possible to just go into the dance floor and just by your vibe Just by your movement just by the fun that you're having a lot of girls are going to want to be Coming around you and then once you have those opportunities. How do you capitalize on them? Okay? Cool So before I get into this if you guys are looking to get trained by me in person I'm doing boot camps around the world So if you take a look at my schedule down below see if there's a city that you're willing to come to on A date that I have specified if the city that you want me to come to is not there Please put it in the next section because if there's enough people that want me to come to a city I will come there. Cool. All right, let's get into the awkward dancing. All right, so dance floor game What do you do when you're on the dance floor now personally? I like to talk to girls before I take him to the dance floor But if you're already on the dance floor, this is kind of what I'm going to cover Which is basically like how to pick up a girl just kind of like by dancing and moving and you know Just sing a few words because it's very difficult to talk on the dance floor like the music's too loud And honestly people don't want to talk they went to the dance floor to dance to move around And if you just want to talk then maybe go to a different area or a different place where you're not dancing Okay, so I'm actually a really really good dancer You don't need to be a good dancer to get women You know, I used to do like popping battles back in the day like I can do a little Do a little wavy stuff and it makes me look cool But it I actually don't do this when I'm trying to dance with somebody like if I'm dancing socially Typically, I'll just do like usual movements that most people are doing just kind of get myself into the mode. I Don't do anything too crazy and the reason why is because if a girl sees me doing these crazy moves Yeah, sure might get some people to clap or like cheer me on or maybe a circle will start And that's cool Maybe I can get a girl from there, but usually if I pop a move like like one of those waves Whatever then she's just gonna be like this and she's gonna kind of want to like back away from me The reason why is because she can't do any of that stuff. So if I'm gonna dance with her She's gonna be way too intimidated to dance with me because I'm like doing some moves that she has no idea how to do So I usually just do usual movements kind of like this. Maybe some silly silly movements or whatever This bump or whatever it is. Where whatever area you're in different different areas have different moves that people like to do a lot So I do some of those now when I get to my spot usually I'll keep even before I get to my spot what I'll do is I'll kind of be moving a little bit before so like once you get into the Club you're usually Kind of lower energy than everybody else. So to pick your energy up just start moving around and grooving, you know The more you move around the more likely it is you're gonna be moving around in the future because you're gonna have higher energy Okay, the more you move the higher your energy gets So I move around even before I get there so by the time I get there I'm already feeling pretty good if you've been sitting down the whole time and you expect to just jump into the dance floor mode Okay, that's too big of a jump Okay, so move a little bit before you get there and then once you're here You're already feeling pretty good So once I get here what I'm going to do is I'm gonna kind of see which people are looking at me See which girls are kind of glancing over see which girls are cool with me being in their space So like if I see a girl maybe over there Who's kind of like looking at me while I'm dancing or doing whatever it is Then maybe I'll give her like a fist bump or something like that or you know, it's like it's not a fist pump It's fist pump fist pumping. That's what it's called. So I'll do one of those and if she does it back Like she imitates my movements. That's pretty good. That means she's interested in me Okay, then maybe I'll try and move my way over closer to her and see if she'll want to dance with me, okay? But if I'm already close by somebody like let's say these Let's say these two lamps are hot girls Let's say I like this girl. Okay, so I want to dance with this girl. I get in my spot. I'm moving I'm doing my I'm doing my grooving stuff. Now. I'm gonna kind of come a little close See if she reacts. Okay. She's got her back turned to me. Whatever She'll probably she generally notices that somebody's there now if she likes you Then she's probably gonna be cool with you coming into her space. She doesn't like you then she's gonna go like this She's gonna be backing away from you. Okay, she's not gonna want to talk to you And it's by the way, this doesn't mean that she hates your guts It just doesn't mean she want it just means she doesn't want to you know talk or dance right now So don't take it personally man. You're gonna just whatever happens. Just laugh it off. It's very important Okay, you need to be comfortable being silly You need to be comfortable not judging yourself on the dance floor because the more you do that the more you're Gonna hesitate and stand awkwardly around. No girl wants to dance with that guy Okay, so I'm coming in I'm grooving now if she likes it. She's cool with me being in her space Sometimes I'll get a little shoulder shimmy sometimes she'll do a little shoulder shimmy with me back And then I'll do a little bit of this and then I'll come back maybe I'll give her a high five and then just kind of keep grooving and then a lot of dancing you See how I kind of pulled her in here then I pushed her away You do a lot of push-pull. Okay push-pull is really key in conversations. It's even bigger in you know Dancing and movement. Okay, that's actually where push-pull probably originated from because a lot of dancing is tension a lot of dancing is kind of like It's kind of like flirting really So if I do that then I kind of pull away now I'm gonna do some dance moves and see if she imitates them see if she's playing ball see if she's like you know Actually dancing with me now. There are no set rules when it comes to dancing, especially in the Western society era But basically if they're imitating your movements, that's pretty good That means you guys are playing around with each other that means you guys are having fun now I have a big-ass smile on my face. I'm not trying to be serious. So she's smiling. She's giggling. She's having a good time That's all really great now. She's playing ball with me What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna take my hand and use the hand of God You don't know what the hand of God is it's basically where you reach out your hand and you reach it 90% of the way towards the girl and she gives you that last 10% where she takes your hand and then you pull her in Hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd. Nice to meet you So you do one of those Okay, while you're on the dance floor, so all if it's going well, she's like moving around with me We're both imitating each other then what I'll do is I'll take my hand Put a 90% of the way she'll grab it then I'll turn her around and now we're dancing with each other. Okay Once you start doing this don't immediately just grab her and start grinding aggressively Okay, we're not 14 anymore you guys that shit doesn't work. Okay, you're gonna freak her out Or maybe there's a chance if she's like a young girl that she'll actually do it for a while But you're probably not gonna get a phone number out of it and even if you do she's probably not gonna text you back Okay, so I want to establish a better connection than just like a quick grind on some random shit What I want to do is I'll take her in I'll do the same movements I'll be smiling then maybe I'll talk to her for a little bit your conversations in the dance floor are not gonna be long They're gonna be like five words at most it's gonna be like what is your name? That's four I guess Where are you from? Okay, that's gonna be like that, you know, you're gonna need to talk loudly You're gonna need to talk very very slowly. Don't try and have a full blown on conversation on the dance floor You're gonna kill the vibe so Basically, I'll dance with her for a little bit. I'll do some silly moves and I'll see if she imitates them I like the dice rolling one the fist pump one's good Maybe get her like do some high fives or whatever spin her around a couple times And then basically you're just fooling around having fun not judging yourself Okay, then when that's been happening for a little bit I might get her name I might get where she's from then I'm gonna see if I can move her from the dance floor to the Bar or to somewhere else where we can have a conversation I can get to know her a little more and then ask for her phone number or see if she's gonna come home with me Depending on what I'm trying to do that night So that's basically my method for getting a girl on the dance floor Hopefully you guys liked it with my awkward dancing between two lamps, but that's basically how it's done So thanks for watching you guys if you're interested in getting coached by me one-on-one I have some spots open basically just fill out the form down below And if we think you're a good fit we'll get back to you And if you're also interested in joining my Facebook group with a bunch of like-minded guys I recommend you do that there's a link for that in the description as well. Thanks a lot you guys Good luck out there