 Next up we have man whore sky came last year heard about him an RSD through I believe hard work actually told me about him I post a lot on there and helps a lot of people out. He's awesome the field of her first-hand. I've seen him out there, too And to be honest I think last year he gave like one of the best speeches like it was this rock solid like Core like manly shit. So this year expect more of the same and I have really high expectations So it's what you got man. Thank you Okay, so about eight years ago. I got this name man whore And it's got nothing to do with any kind of like chosen profession little some on the side there I had a lot of female friends and I was very entertaining very aggressive and dominant and But without the sexuality, you know how AFC Adam was describing that last night. That's basically exactly what it was So if you guys are having just on a side note if you guys are having a hard time developing your Dominance or aggressiveness try it first without the sexuality, you know your female friends your guy friends See how that works out learn to bring the sexuality later because if you're trying to use them all at the same time Maybe that's why you guys don't have any issues Anyways My female friends would basically give me their friends, you know like This is Amanda. She's visiting for the weekend here. I've like okay, you know and My guy friends were like what the fuck is going on here, you know like why do these girls trust this guy this much and so they started calling me man whore and Once the girls found out they went ballistic and so eight years later. I am still a man whore Can't seem to get rid of it. I Was a I'm an ex-military officer. I was a high school counselor a wrestling coach and You know one thing I could say about being a military attic, you know, I was a I was a quote-unquote professional leader, okay it was actually my job to be that to be that role and a couple different points I was actually in in charge of drill sergeants and You know very solid group of guys Very intense mission and you've got to be a certain way for those kind of guys to see you as somebody They're gonna actually listen to You know I was pretty chill about it, but then all of a sudden I'd see like recruits come on through Doing jumping jacks or running laps with their gas masks. I'm like drill sergeant. What the fuck is that? You know you're chill and all of a sudden you just you see something and you got you got to hit it right you got to hit it hard and Another thing I'd say is that You know being a leader you guys think oh that that guy's so so alpha so smooth And you know being a leader is it's it's really not about that at all, okay? We face we face the same The same weird bullshit the same mistakes the same kind of logistical crap that you guys face It's not about being smooth. It's about how you deal with those issues when they come up, okay? A leader knows that when shit hits a fan It's not gonna slow him down He's gonna work on through it and that's basically the defining factor between being a leader And being someone who can't lead because we're all gonna face the same situation It just depends on how you how you hit it when it comes to you, okay? I don't do this every weekend. So I have my notes here Okay, because I do this like once twice a year or something and if I just let myself go talking We'd be just out in orbit somewhere Okay, something else I'd like to say is that um is that a being a leader? it taught me when it was time to be you know gentle and firm and Then when to constructively, you know crack some heads together and that's that's a that's an advanced skill set I it's something you got to learn and you got to do without the ego and I see a lot of Pways online they reach like a certain post count or they like get a certain number of lays and all of a sudden They start like bossing their fellows around and to me. That's that's pathetic. That's not what it's about And that's just ego bullshit Now We're gonna be going over a lot But it's okay. It's in the tight framework. Everything kind of fits in conjunction with each other So I'll bear with me. We'll we'll hit it up and What we're gonna be talking about is You know you guys see those alpha guys out there you see those leaders you see those guys that are just so sure of themselves You know so smooth and you're like and you and you realize They allow themselves to be that way, you know and you know the question is is Where do they get that from where do they get that sense of it of entitlement Why do they give themselves permission to be that way? Okay, and that's basically what this talk is going to be about you know and what I want to show you guys is is You know how to empower yourselves Okay, how to get on your track on your path because honestly We can't we can't give it to you guys We can't tell you, you know, I can't give you permission to go out and be who you are you have to give it to yourself Okay, I mean that's the whole point all right, I want to start out with with a question, you know, you see certain guys and And they try to learn game or you know, they go natural game or routines get a routine game And they can't do shit with it, you know, they just they just they can't do it or or they do it They can't do it consistently and then you see some guys and They're completely new to the community and They learn like a little bit of game and bam, they're gone, you know the full pimp It's like the paper-in-a-day program. You're like who the fuck is teaching that? I want to take that one and it's because they were coming from a different place They were already dialed internally the correct way. Okay It's like it's like the Latin language, you know, we can read it. We can write it We can understand it, but we can't speak it because nobody speaks it Nobody alive speaks Latin anymore, so we don't know how to pronounce it But if one if we were able to get somebody from the past that came through and started spoke the language Everything else would fall into place. We would know how to pronounce the vowels, okay? When what I'm saying is that inner game is the language of social interaction. Okay Once you're dialed internally correctly our game is just pronouncing your inner language of who you are, okay, and You know we say inner game Okay, what is inner game I? Feel entitled or I feel good about myself. Okay. Well, you know, why do you feel good about yourself? Why do you feel entitled? Right now communication? I went over last year and 93% non-verbal, right? That's basically saying that communication is non-verbal. Okay, I mean ninety percent and non-verbal is that Deeper level of communication. It's authentic. Okay, it's really hard to fake and You know if you can learn to fake it a little bit You can't be consistent with it and if you do get really good at faking it consistently then all of a sudden you start developing these like you know these cognitive just Whatever I can't say that word right now. They called this, you know, like you're like either unhappy You basically become disassociated from the success with the women you're experiencing out there because your sense of self-worth is Not on track with where you're at socially, you know, I'm saying you've kind of skipped ahead You know and we say, you know, where do you you guys want to know? Where do you get this from? Okay, you can't You can't get it on a form You know, you can't read a book. You can't drink Kool-Aid And be like I understand now. I have in a game, you know, no, that's that's not how it works You always have to look on your face. Last year you were falling asleep, too. I remember that. Okay Okay Now what I want to talk about this first section. There's been a few different names for it. It's be your own guru You know Nathan and RSD Tim's be the hero of your own life You are all you need in the way you do anything you do everything kind of thing I'm sure there's other I'm sure I really feel that the whole community there might be there might be Receptions of separation, but honestly, we're all moving the same place. So I'm sure every every single camp has some I Some version of this going on. Okay Now I haven't I know soon was talking to say about way the superior man and I've heard it's amazing I haven't read it yet. It's it's somebody listed to these stuff But if the way I see it is there is two components of intergame. Hey once you have these everything just kind of falls kind of flows in the place and The first one is characterized by Eckhart Tolle and being present the power of now. Okay. No, I'm not the I don't want to I don't want to get too deep into this because I'm not the guy you guys need to do it yourselves Okay, how many you guys have read the power of now or anything like that? Awesome sweet. How many of you guys have heard the audio? Okay Okay, some of you guys have maybe read and been like what the fuck, you know, what is this? Okay, that happens is some guy they don't understand the first time they read it the second time and they have like a huge mind shift You know, I listen to an audio. Okay, I listen to it basically every day I'm always something else. It's always sticking to my mind that I pick up and internalize and it's basically been one of the One of the biggest I wouldn't say jump I'd say, you know, I'd say shipped That's kind of Expanded me and and my ability to to be who I am. Okay Based what it's about is absolute control of your emotional mental state And that's and that's huge you guys need to get into that I guess one thing I'd want to say is that You know being a man being a human I think we're still learning about the difference between females and males But definitely being a man is about being emotionally centered. Okay Solid the whole way through. Okay, you guys face situations I still do too, you know, where somebody like just gets in your face and tries like Projects some hard emotional shit at you, you know, it happens all the time girls do it to us all the time It's like they're born to do that, right? I think they are I'm just kidding But you know What you guys got to realize it's not the actual issue. They're bringing up that fucks you guys up Okay, it's actually that your emotional state is following that that frame that projection Okay, that's what you guys got to worry about the issue is the issue no matter what okay It's gonna be an issue no matter what it's black and white. Don't let your emotional state You know follow it when someone's coming at you hard just Just be okay with it. Okay, and you know, there's two forms of reacting to it You can either react by vehemently denying it, you know and and being aggressive like no, you know You're still reacting to it or you can go the other way which is you know supplicate like oh, I'm sorry You know and both of them are reacting to it. Okay, you want to Acknowledge a problem know there's an issue take action on it and that's it Okay, that's what like I described really about being a leader. That's that's a huge component of it. Okay Yeah, I was out one morning the blast place I was living at and I Fucked with their property in some way it was it was an action I don't know I don't know I don't know exactly what it was But she comes she comes like wallowing like out of her driveway and like up to me like this and she's all like upset and freaking out and I'm just like sipping my OJ and she's like You know all over the place and I'm just like You know and she's just freaking out and and when you're present You you kind of become a mirror, you know Tim calls it being a net you catch certain things But most things pass on through you know, it's I like to think it was like a mirror when you're a mirror And someone's thrown shit at you just kind of gets reflected back You just kind of hangs in space and it's like a bad fart in the air that only they can smell You know, so I'm talking to her like this and she's freaking out and she realizes that You know, I Don't care, you know, I mean I could if it was a real issue I'll deal with the issue, but I'm not gonna take on this this stuff and It like it's almost like I flicked in the nose She goes like this and it kind of gets a little teary-eyed and like without a word just like you know goes back to her house and You know that was that there was really no issue to to concentrate on We were out a couple of few years ago and My buddy just punched this guy in the dome like hard and so the guy runs off my buddy's like You know don't come back kind of bullshit and all of a sudden he's like Face planted against the wall getting arrested because the cops had just showed up and they didn't see him They didn't see a punch a guy But they saw him like being drunk and loud obnoxious and so they're just around everybody up, right? And there's my buddy's like oh fuck. What are we gonna do? So I I walk up to one of the officers. I'm like You know very calm just just just right there. I'm like, hey You know, I know my buddy is being allowed. I'm here now. I'm gonna take care of him I'm just gonna take him home and you know blah blah blah and That was it and he looks at me, you know, I don't care. He's measuring me who I am what I am I'm just fully calm with it and then he goes, okay, and he walks back to confer with another officer Then another cop comes up and he's a He's a monster. He's a big motherfucker and he gets right he like jumps and be like you know screaming at me yelling and I'm like this guy is going to eat my forehead and It was he was insane. He was easily more of a monster than anything else going on, right? So, you know, I'm Same thing. I'm just kind of present Who the fuck are you? I'm like, I'm Jonathan. I'm talking that guy over there He's like I don't give a fuck blah blah blah and and you know cops to get like well Just when you're aggressive you just you have this momentum that carries you forward, right? And and then he kind of realizes that um, I don't care at all and I'm still here and Nothing's gonna change yet So he gets his look in his face like who farted and then just like walks away without without saying a word and the other guy brings my buddy out Uncuffs him and we go home and that's it, you know Another's another little one real quick we were We got some kind of problem in the parking structure and so they they they comped our $20 parking, right, so we're headed out and We get to the we get to the parking tent that that takes everybody's money And he says yo, it's you know, it's 20 bucks and my buddy's like no the guy clears blah blah blah and and the parking tent goes like That guy can't clear And my buddy likes like no he said and then he's like no and so my buddy just gets fully like Takes that on and starts arguing with this guy like you know head-to-head like I will win this You know and you that's not you know when your ego comes in it fucks up everything, okay? So I'm sitting in the driver's seat. They're like arguing over my lap like this. I'm like Calm down and I said the guy said You know the guy cleared our parking I appreciate it man. Thanks. Have a good night and I didn't give him anything to latch on to okay. It was one option. Okay. He there accept my either accept my My way of being which is fun and you know nice and positive and cordial or he's got to invest all this emotional bullshit back into it And he simply goes okay, and then just let's go. Okay, so that's the kind of that's the kind of Centeredness the kind of intensity that you guys can develop through through being more, you know Center the power of now I could totally Some of you guys are like what's this doctrine? It's really not okay. I've actually experienced like physiological shifts in myself. That's really the only way I can describe it It's it's really a it's more than like, you know, I Believe in Jesus, but I I go stab people it's it's not it's not something like doctrine that you can shed away It's real. It's realness to yourself that uh that has a lot of meaning you know when I When I prepare for something like a like a big event Even something like this, you know when I when I've got to do some kind of intense intense situation deal with it, you know, I Prepared myself. I know who I am. I have material. I have the skills. I have the knowledge. I have the voice I know what I'm gonna do. Okay, so when I'm preparing for something I'm not sitting there like, you know reading over it or like or like, you know like this That's not how I that's not how you prepare for something. Okay, you are who you are You have the skills you have the knowledge you did prepare. What you want to do is focus on centering yourself Okay, I'll pop in some toly audio and what it does is it sheds any kind of mental clutter It just gets rid of it. Okay, you don't need it. You don't want it Okay, now is not the time that's not the time for like social feedback or or you know What's going on around me? You want to become centered in yourself? Because guess what when you shed that bullshit when you are just purely you that's when your best self shows through Okay, you're not supposed to be like following all kinds of random mental nonsense. Okay, and I you know as you go more into the power of now You'll realize holy shit. I didn't even know I had so much clutter going on I didn't realize I had so much negativity going on and you'll get more deeper deeper and you'll shed that and you'll become more yourself Okay You know next here's the next point of intergame There's this there's this 18 year old kid on on RSD nation his name is pimp of Persia and Pimp of Persia is almost as bad a name as manhore, you know, it's pretty close And he wrote he wrote this post And it really articulated really well something I've been trying to articulate for a while. So Since he did it and I want to cite the guy I'm gonna go ahead and read part of it right now Okay, so it starts off this way slowly regenerating my senses my wrasse reticule activation system You guys heard of that my wrasse whatever plucked out one important thing Allow the moment to be as it is Okay, he's very big in a toly echo toly so we're gonna go from that into the next opponent of intergame He kind of melds himself perfectly well together Embrace everyone everything every situation and especially yourself Now the only way I can put this in the words is that there was power and stillness and silence centered is silent internal is stillness Noise is scattered on the essential movement is self-raping Okay, remember I was talking about the mental clutter Okay, that's that's basically what he's talking about right here Meet Joe black on DVD today precisely three hours of methodical filmmaking I watched his Brad Pitt off-proclaimed glott of body language move skillfully and purposely if at all even as he played Death Clariforilani's gorgeous rich girl character approaches his rigid yet succinct portrayal and others in thorough submission So tell me Joe. How come a man is attractive intelligent well-spoken? Different in the most deductive way and yet powerful is all alone in this world You can look in her eyes until she's ready to be fucked on the spot in Conventional terms this can be boiled down to the strong but silent archetype But the river runs deeper my friends Brad Pitt may have great body language and that may get him laid But why does he move so fluidly? What is the cause and effect? He had he has status. He has money. He has women. So he does not have to think to get laid Therefore as his arena is a social arena, and he is not thinking he moves with total grace and strength You can do the same and you know what it all comes down to quality when you are present You are not thinking you are just focusing on what you are doing and doing it with complete passion joy and concentration If you are not doing anything you are being in that case you be fully Allow your loving presence to pour out words Consistency is the mother of congruence Your mind is putting up barriers to prevent you from tapping into your deepest power. This is this is really important guys This is this shift If you tapped in your deepest power you would easily be able to take whatever you want to make whatever you envision Your mind is not feel entitled for these things yet. How do you make it feel entitled? Good question and one that I avoided for a long time because I didn't even feel entitled to ask why I didn't feel entitled Here it is Because you are not creating standards for yourself and living up to them This is the root cause of a lack of entitlement When you take pride and joy and everything you do you create a pattern where everything you do is total quality One of your standards standards and it becomes ingrained into your self-concept and your sense of entitlement Then everything begins to shift into the new world new reality Because when everything is quality everything you do becomes what one would call a reference experience If you're trying to pick up that chick and you're about to close your mind cycles through in the blink of an eye and says nope You didn't pick up your dry cleaning. You pushed out on the last approach You got into an argument with your mom. You didn't push out the last rep at the gym. Sorry, bro You're a chode then that little bit of self-dealt manifest in your sub communications And when you go in for the kiss she turns a cheek or when you go to approach they blow you out Okay, now on the other hand if you didn't make excuses about not having time needing warm-ups on your approaches Rationalizing that your mom she more understanding or hadn't been afraid to pull a muscle and it said just went for it because the utmost Quality is your standard you expect nothing less That chick would see the signals loud and clear and she would plant your tongue so far down your throat You think she was trying to wrap a leash around your neck So on a funny kind of way and confining yourself Like discipline self-discipline you free yourself When you tame your body language and force yourself in the smoothest and fluidity instead of self-conscious Shuffling or goofy clown over compensation. You actually feel more entitled and free When you demand you meet your own itinerary you hit any shit that arises with the same intensity as your plans Okay, slowing down allows you to narrow in on the thoughts that serve you and nicks out the rest It is sex worthiness in a can it is beyond sex worthiness if I may be so arrogant You become so potent that your expression is continually meaningful And you need not think of anything to say it because inattentive Edo C is passable Okay, you are who you are. So when something silly happens, it just doesn't matter Okay, this sounds ridiculous in a way, but basically when you respect yourself love yourself so much It just beams out everywhere. It really doesn't matter how people react to you Okay, you know what I'm gonna stop it right there The rest is pretty good also That's on our C nation if you guys want to take another look at that. So, you know That's that's what I describe as the other component of intergame. Okay, whether you guys realizes or not You guys are your harshest critics. Okay, you guys are the measure of your own internal value You know who you are and what you are meant to be doing being an acting Okay No, why do you why do you walk up to women like, you know natural game whatever I call it Why do you why do you get blown out? Okay? Do you think it's because you're failing to meet up to their standards? Okay, no Okay, you fail to meet up to live you fail to live up to your standards and that's coming through in your sub communications Okay the act of living to another standard other than your own which is not in line with who you are truly is Biologically undermining to your sense of self Okay You guys are in charge of this these low feelings of these feelings of low self entitlements. You guys control that. Okay? Hit those standards live up to him and it all comes down to are you in charge of your life? Okay? You guys all not Values for everybody is different. Okay? Certain things will fulfill one person not another. Okay things like Are you in charge of your education? You finances your job? Okay? Are you physical and in shape? Okay, is your room of pigsty? okay, these little things they add up and they You know your subconscious does not know the difference between You know it could be something little like you got to pay a bill or something You know or that like you said that last rep at the gym now all sudden you're feeling stifled because you're not living up to your standard Okay, you're not fully at ease with yourself So when you when you walk up It's like showing through okay Now I want to make one point real quick. It's not about actually getting the car getting the job making all the money For guys, this is important for guys a very act of Achieving and working through your purpose and intent makes a guy feel at ease with himself Okay, the very active working hard the very the very active doing it Okay, whether it succeeds or fails even there's no outcome dependency whether it succeeds or fails the fact that you're pushing through something as a guy That gives a guy that sense of ease that sense of entitlement Okay, your job your boss Okay, you know, I have a I have a boss and He's he's a pretty badass dude. He teaches me a lot. Okay, but when it comes to my work and what I do He is not the standard for what I do. Okay. I am I when I when I work and I do something it depends I Understand it for the work that comes out of my hands. Okay, and you guys got to be the same If you're depending on your boss to be the standard for the work you're doing you're meeting another standard Like I said, it's biologic undermining to your sense of self. Okay You know Sometimes my you know, it's happened especially in the military You know, I get shredded, you know, you know, you fucking suck, you know, I can't believe you did that and You know, you know, like I said When something happens, don't take it on personally or emotionally. Okay, you made a mistake. You are who you are Okay, so if you have to learn something then learn it Don't don't allow an ego or an idea of yourself that you don't make mistakes, which is ridiculous because shit happens Everybody don't let that get in the way of you learning. Okay? Your parents okay, my parents did a try to do a really good job of a You know messing me up and if you guys are if you guys are experiencing overbearing parents or somebody that's overbearing, you know It mostly comes down to They feel they still have to be the standard for what you're doing. Okay, but if you take it on yourself They can't really touch you. Okay, they they're acting like parents because they feel like they still have to be parents So if you guys start taking charge of your lives start becoming the standard for what you're doing They don't have to worry about you. Okay, and then they're not going to do dumb parenting stuff. Okay now as far as some of you guys have like Some of you guys might say, you know, I I can't be the standard at my job and You know because your job sucks that bad. Well, what's that mean? Okay? Do what you got to do to get yourself to that next level. Okay. Is it more education? Is there more training? You got to like be cordial? Longer hours do what it need do what you need to do to get there. Okay Like I was saying before You know for me personally like when I'm doing work, you know, if I'm at home or if I'm at a you know at work Me personally if my workplace or if my room is like in the shambles It it kind of fucks with me like I can't really concentrate on what I'm doing If if my place looks like a pig's die and I I just realized it's not too long ago I'm like, why why can't I concentrate? What's what's holding me back? And it was simply that I had shit everywhere. I cleaned it up And I was like I could become like centered and focused and it's not it's not just it's not just your room It's like do you guys got people calling you about bills? Do you have an essay that you got to write that you got to write you you're putting it off Okay, these kind of things will get in your head whether you know it or not because you're not living up to your standards And they will slow you down. Okay, you're you're and it's like You know, I'd be lying in my bed and I feel like I Feel like fuck. I don't want to do anything, you know, just feel completely lazy And I would have a moment of clarity. I'd be like, okay. It's one of two things. I Either have to as totally says stop resisting something and just accept it as reality Or I got an issue going on and I got to take action on it. It's one of those two things. Okay, and when I'd realize that All it would be a matter of doing just taking care of whatever it was and I would be I would feel I would free myself Okay, and that's what this is all about. That's the point. I'm trying to make now You know now once you we're gonna move on to the next part here once you guys get this all down Is your outer game is it is it like perfect and you're like, you know full, you know seducer, you know, no Okay, it's a muscle. You work it out. Okay, you build finesse. You get better at what you do Okay, but this is what we went over is it's just how you build that base level of entitlements So that everything you do comes from that solid base on of who you are. Okay? By achieving your own personal standards, you become solid you are your own hero you become absolutely comfortable with yourself You also screened for what you allow in your life If you become the standard if you're taking care of yourself You're obviously screening whatever you allow to come into your life. Okay, and this will show up Subtly in your nonverbals. Okay, I post a lot about having that pre screening vibe that when I walk up girls know that This is this this guy not only is he not wanting from me, but he wants to know what kind of girl. I am that's extremely attractive Guys don't really have that. Okay. You think AFC Adam yesterday. It's really weird calling that guy FC anything But he's got all those girls in his life, right? Do you think that he doesn't have some kind of screening process to be part of that group? Those girls are on their best behavior. They only want to show them their good side Okay, when you become your own standard when you become that screener you attract You attract good behavior from everybody around you. Okay. It's just a natural process You know Nautilus's speech yesterday. I really agree with that. I like you know as a guy that's being a standard, you know, you you don't want to You don't want to chase you want to be supplicative at the same time When you are the standard and you are the screener you get to show intent Okay, from the right print from the right place from the right frame. Okay, so I I firmly agree That You know, we're hunters. Okay, we're aggressive There's gonna be some there's gonna be some chasing going on. Okay, that's just our role All right at the same time. I think sin went into it yesterday. I was like I Thought it was really cool. Is that uh, you know, you present a certain image and Then you get her to a place where she's just like ah and she just starts trying to seduce you And that's really what this stuff is about. I think that's the I think that's kind of what Nautilus was trying to get into I didn't hear all of it, but that's that's that's what that's what that is, you know, similar in that yesterday You know and what this all draws down to is that? You act this way because deep down You know you've earned it. Okay, it's not even that you acknowledge that you've earned it It's just it's just an everything you do. Okay, just because of baseline for how you act and be and communicate And you know when you walk up People know this about you that you've taken this role for yourself and you become the standard I call it the social context. Okay, you become such a such a Centered kind of powerful guy that you become the social context for what's going on. Okay people like it's you know And I went into this last year You know when you're being physical with a girl when you're escalating or something or you're just talking to her A girl does not want a guy that when he's talking to her interacting with her. He's like Looking around to like see what what else what other people think of what he's doing. Okay? She wants a guy. That's his own standard. That's his own sphere of influence. Okay, the social context for what's going on She's not worried about what they're thinking over there. She's worried about what he's thinking. Okay, that's that's what a guy is supposed to be That's what you guys want to work for And you know the next part is uh, you know once you're fulfilled like this once you're the standard for yourself You know nothing really becomes serious or nothing's really too serious anymore, and you start getting into Self-amusing. Okay, and for that the next the next half or whatever is going to be kind of going into that When you're this relaxed about everything When your purpose in the tent does come up you're fully invested into what you're saying you when you communicate it just comes across like that a couple of weeks ago I'm like, you know just in my room and my roommate like he walks in my room He doesn't walk in like he stalks him. He's like I'm gonna go to the bathroom right now and take a shit and I want you to come with me and he grabs me and I'm like holy shit And we're like full-on wrestling like and he's like trying to like turn me in the bathroom with me and You know obviously he was just fucking with me, right? No respect here But can you imagine if he'd said if he just you know like walked in like I'm going about to take a shit right now, and I want you to come with me Maybe like nuts face get out of here, right? So when you communicate you want you you got to be solid about what you're doing, okay? And this is how you build that You know, I was I think I was on a boot camp a a few months ago and And I had to I had to go to bathroom So I'm like I find like a girl. I'm like, you know, hey, we're hey, where's the bathroom? And I look at I'm like, I'm gonna blow that shit up and You know if you say that wrong That's like kind of like, you know, but it was so like I was like, you know, and she just laughed It was you know it becomes hilarious at that point because I was so forceful what I was communicating, right? You guys you guys want to adopt that I think we went into this last year a lot I was with Nautilus at a quiz nose yesterday and there was like there was like Fox News there and there was like two anchors sitting there and and and Literally this was so retarded the guy stand there. He's like going over like a news stories like Today She didn't walk the dog And the dog's name is Ellie We're not sure what's going on But for some reason they didn't walk the dog and it was like the stupidest shit ever but everybody in there was like Like like this was like newsworthy and what it was all he was doing was like fucking like projecting like Putting intent into his voice saying the most retarded stuff ever. I'm like, I can't believe I'm looking around everybody and I just want to take the female anchor from them, you know and You know when when you're this kind of when you're just kind of way You know when when I'm fucking all of my friends or when they're fucking with me You know any kind of energy that gets directed at us because we're so centered. It doesn't really matter You know, we just kind of own everything that comes at you So my buddy is like you're gay I'm like and I just you just you just take everything in and you just make and then you just kind of direct it back out Okay, that's something I've noticed about about solid guys is that They're not, you know, nothing nothing fucks with them. Okay, they're cool with whatever comes at them They just take it they just accept it and they and not like that, but they make it their own. Okay, you know like teasing me or Amogamy or whatever you guys want you guys to know that I still deal with like the same kind of like stupid situations you guys do like You know, sometimes people look at me and know there's something else going on there and they're you know respectful or whatnot, but I still deal with You know, I still I still deal with the same, you know stupidity you guys do you know, my buddies are teasing me or or a co-worker or something and You know that a whole alpha each other we all still deal with that You know, but when I'm this way, nobody really wants to like make fun of me anymore because like I take all their jokes, you know, like You know, I was some sorry I'm like that's something to tell my some to tell my grandkids and my co-worker is like You know, you can't have kids with another guy, right and I'm like Yeah, I know I've been talking about that and he doesn't know what to do either, you know, and You don't you don't like get defensive about it. You just take it and make it your own. Okay And when you when you are that way, you know repeatedly it kind of you know teasing you or Amogamy There's no reaction or you're taking their stuff. So it becomes not fun So it kind of like starts dying down basically The thing I want to say is that when I need to be I am a black hole of emotions Okay, if some crazy dramatic bullshits going down You know or someone's just projecting at me like I kind of went over earlier. I just kind of suck it all in You know, you just kind of become like a center You just like groups of people to something crazy happens and and they'll probably look to you and you just like And you just you just take it in It's like it's like the matrix or whatever like everything kind of other than he's kind of like smoothed it out That's kind of what's going on here. Okay when you're this centered emotional bullshit really doesn't mean anything to you Okay, and then you're able to communicate to others that doesn't mean anything either Okay, so you want to become that emotional locus and we went over how you do that You know, there's like schmiroff drinks those like juicy ones like the green apple I really like this man They're really good and and I'll be in the store and like I'll have like a 12 pack of like really manly schmiroff ice, you know And I'll catch some kind of like random flak forward or well my buddy, but you know and and You know what it comes down to is If I wanted you to be the measure of my balls, I would put them in your mouth And that's that's kind of your attitude, you know If I wanted your validation, I would fart in a napkin you know now body language, okay, I See I see these like pickup body language programs and I look at I'm like that's fucked up that they're teaching guys to do That it's like they're like like like this like really like it's almost like robotically, you know like And you'll have like girls in the videos with them and you're thinking I was thinking man Those girls know this is bullshit, you know Like they'll they'll they're cool with that because they know that that's the kind of male body language that they can control So they're fine with letting letting guys know, you know, they're that's funny to them But what I've noticed is any guy that is solid. It's it's not following It's not following what is construed as like male body language It's about having your own rhythm Okay, it's about being centered having your rhythm So when I when I want to situate something I use my body or I walk a certain way But I don't follow any kind of set like, you know mask This is masculine body language. This is alpha, you know, I just I'm doing what I need to do to communicate What I want to communicate and that's what body language comes down to okay, and you know Here's a good example When I first met, you know TD from RSD I Didn't actually meet him. I saw him first and you guys will notice in a in a social interaction with a group of people everybody kind of Starts taking on the same rhythm It was like a rhythm to a room and everybody's kind of taking it on and then I saw like TD walked through and He's like like outside of it Like he's centered and he's just doing his own thing and he's stuck out like a fucking sore thumb He like he's stuck out and that's that's really what body language needs to be about okay You exist on your own thing. You're doing your own thing You're not you're just not really aware of like the rest of the social rhythm going on okay, and you know totally being centered that don't help with that it's That's magnetism. Okay, that's that unspoken attraction that That makes people just in you okay, I'll be walking the supermarket and like People are looking at me, and I'm not doing anything. Okay, I look for what I'm doing and like guys are staring at me They're like they're just looking at me, you know girls obviously to because I really don't care about the guys You know, but that's that that's that magnetism that unspoken Communication about who you are or what I said about communication being 90% non-verbal basically being your non-verbal. Okay, that's what I mean also You guys have seen they went to y'all you guys are really good with like with with women Like like Jeff he's like a prime example the guy projects emotionally so strong Okay, and guys are taught You know guys are taught um, you can't show emotion because that means you're a woman Okay, that's not it at all. Okay strong guys show a lot of emotion The reason why guys were taught not to show emotion is because their emotions betray them as being weak They had weak emotions. Okay, when you're a strong guy, you show your fucking emotions. You show how you're feeling. That's really what separates That's really what separates this the really seductive guys from everybody else like yesterday we're all sit back there and You know, I noticed sin when he wants to when he wants to communicate something he goes from like this Also like this and like he's not wasting energy But when he wants to say something he fucking comes out with it And if you if you're in a group dynamic the the powerful guys, they're gonna separate themselves by how they choose to communicate Okay, they use emotion. All right, so don't be show it All right, if your emotions are weak work on those but the the expression of emotion is not in itself Make you, you know feminine or something. That's completely opposite. Okay, you know eye contact This laser eyes Eye contact says a lot about you. Okay, it shows your intent how focused you are on something And I went last you're like you don't want to stare at somebody because then it just becomes kind of like weird well, if you're if you're centered if you're focused and you like make an eye contact and You will follow a certain rhythm to what you're doing and then it just you know, it's okay, but you show You show intent with your eyes. Okay, I've met guys in the community who are just like, yeah I'm having problems and you know, I'm like, well, you got your basics down How about you buy the language in your and your voice and you're on your eye contact and he's like, yeah I got all that down And then I hang out with him and he's he's his eyes, you know, it's that subtle like shifting of his eyes so basically the point is that You know always always always look at your basics always go back. Okay? Are you uh, how are you? How are you doing with your eye contact? It's powerful shit. Oh, uh, I Guess I want to make the point right now You communicate who you are and how you feel about yourself by by how you by how you move and communicate Okay, you guys you guys remember last year. I had the gash over my forehead You guys tell me this you're like you lost weight. Do you I'm like, no, man I had blood in my face my face was out to here You know and and I had just gotten braces because I just taken a hit to the face My mouthpiece was in wrong and like I I just lodged a tooth so I had like this gash and these braces and I'm like outward like nil attack and I'm like walking up the girl like You know and they're like get the fuck away quasi, you know and and it's not that I'm quasi It said I'm communicating that I think I'm quasi, right as soon as I got over it and you guys can read about it and You know, yeah, the reports or whatnot as soon as I got over it. Guess what everybody else got over it Okay, and there's some nice things that happened Down here in the line the last year So yeah, oh, I remember the best one is uh is um I was missing a tooth at one point and I just so did not give a shit. I was so not focused just being myself I'm talking to this girl and she's like you're really nice teeth And I'm like that actually threw me like what the fuck I'm thinking like the ones that I have You know like what's going on here and the point is that it's not that that's not Don't let that be your focus. Your focus is inside yourself and being who you are. Okay being the standard so when you're not focused on that service shit doesn't matter I think You know the way I see it I think she had to justify Why she was feeling the way she felt about me and Obviously my teeth obviously my teeth were an issue because I was missing one like right here in the front So I think she had to like go opposite and say I actually like his teeth. I don't know. I'm I'm Speculating at that point Yeah went over that okay You know next next point is that is when you're this relaxed, okay? You know we go out and it seems like the focus is with you know social scene nightlife the focus is is purely women right And we've lost we've lost ability to celebrate being men. Okay. That's we've lost it I was watching TV analysis place last yesterday and it showed like the men's rugby team and And these are badass dudes right sick They show them in the game in the locker room and then the next the next scene They're fucking around the swimming pool and they're like all together like doing like synchronized swimming like yeah You know and I'm like that's that's my kind of that's my kind of shit like When you're out with your boys and you just you know, I love my badass buddies because you know I can relax Okay, I could be a dumbass I could be I could be stupid. I'm not I'm not having to like babysit Yeah, I'm not having to like take care of like To the tapings. Okay. I'm not having to babysit somebody's emotions I'm not having to take care of you know logistics because these are guys that are there. They're standard They're gonna take care of their own shit. Okay, so You know and that's what I look for when I look for buddies Several years ago. It must have been like six years ago. I had a group of buddies and You know We'd go out and it'd be like guys time on the dance floor and it'd be like it'd be like yep It's time. So we'd like March out, you know, it'd be like You know like this you just be dancing and you know like flexing and You know and like we had like moves and like mine was like you know and and that was bullshit that we do and there'd be like a whole fucking ring of us and all the girls would stop dancing be like Like It was done They were full spectators because it was us guys just being dudes on the dance like owning that shit And they'd be like trying to like dance up on us. I'm like, no Go away. It's guys. It's guys mad, you know, and you know, and that's that's what we want to do We want to be celebrate being men. We'd be at like house parties or something back a guy time we'd all come down to how we just be like discussing shit, you know like completely ignoring everything else going on and the girls would be like What's going on, you know, and that's it's this isn't a skill set guys This is not something that we have to get back. This is a decision you guys make with your buddies Okay, don't let the focus be on the women. Have some fucking fun with each other. Okay, you'll see it Now that you tuned into it, you'll see when guys start doing this stuff and you realize what it is Okay, pure relaxation celebration of who we are. Okay girls don't want to be the focus Okay, they don't want to go out thinking fuck. I'm you know They they're cool with with being you know Leaders and stuff and and in charge, but they want guys of the same way Okay, they don't want all the focus to be on themselves They want guys to be like doing their own bullshit and they get to see some value themselves They get to see something that draws their attention also. Okay, so think about that Get back into celebrating being dudes. Okay Whatever fucked up kind of way you guys want cool Yeah, yeah, I have this like crazy buddy and like he'll be like dancing like He does this thing like and he'll like take a shirt like like like chew on a shirt on the on the floor And I'm like What the fuck is that? You know, we don't talk about it You know, that's just this thing, you know and we have like girls like is this the bachelor party? We're like nope. This is a regular night out, you know, and that's that's what it's about You know When when you're when you're this entitled when you're the standard, you know when I walk up one of the main reasons why I walk up and everything just goes smooth is because I Just feel entitled girls You know, hey, what's you know, that's just it's just part. It's just I own that okay I'm just entitled to that. Okay, you're not you're not walking up trying to be someone else a standard You're just so sure that everything else goes kind of falls into place You know, why is it girl? Why is the guy physical with a girl? I'll be getting this more later I just want to kind of touch on this now. Why is a guy physical with a girl? Why does he do things like, you know spanker or grandpa? You know He does it because he wants to see if she's juicy and firm and good to eat You know I'm saying that's that he's a standard. He wants to see what's going on He wants to see why are why are people, you know, why is she so attractive? I want I want to see okay He just he starts owning that And I touch on this also this is not to show off to your friends, okay at all a girl is not a girl wants a guy Who's just doing what he wants to do? That's that's very attractive to women. Okay, he doesn't she does not want a guy that You know when he does something he's like looking at his friends. He's like, did you see that? She let me do that. That's bullshit. Okay. She wants a guy. That's his own standard for what he's doing. Okay, so develop that Extracting okay You know like pulling back okay when you're the standard when you when you're the selector it's like So what are you guys doing right now? You know that's gay forget somebody let's go okay, and you and you're showing that you're showing that you're this you're the You're the context for what's going on. Okay, that's that's smooth. Okay, you guys can use that unsmooth is Do you guys have a ruler back at your place? We just want to measure our cocks, and then we'll go home Okay, that's that's not me, but it's funny, you know a few a few weeks ago a few weeks ago my my roommate's sister Phil seep on the couch in a skirt, and I get up in the morning and Of course, they all know who I am and they're comfortable anyways Get up, and I go to work, and I'm like You know and I own that I'm not gonna make excuses, you know so next time I see her I'm like You know, you know last time you were here I Got up to go to go to work in the morning, and I gotta say that was definitely the way I want to start my day Okay, and at the time it was more playful, so it probably came out a little bit different But she was just like like she you know I'm basically what what Adam is talking about last night about trivializing sexuality Okay, that's that's what I was doing plus. I was also Relieves him sexual tension because like she's my roommate's sister and and I don't want to be you know messing with that So I'm giving her a lot of sexual validation just on a side point You don't want to give a girl too much validation for that. You want to kind of pace it to the interaction, but that's a That's another speech entirely. I think I think soon went over that little bit I Got some a few stories. I don't know if I want to tell them though Myself in trouble here. I should tell them Okay, so um I Was up and you know this is this when you're out having a good time and just not giving a shit You know this you just present this vibe and people know you're not serious You're not taking anything really hard and and they could just relax with you and so, you know, I was telling these people I'm like I was driving down the side of the freeway and There's this family that says you'd be next to me and And I was just cool little family all sudden bam they hit the they they fucking hit the bag and go fly off And land on their side and down in a ditch and I'm like holy shit So I parked my car and I go running back and the fucking Van has like started to catch fire and they're like stream like save us help us. I'm like Holy shit, you know, I'm like, I'm gonna get blown up here, too. It's like edging away, you know, and Also, I realized I could save them and whip it on and start peeing all over them you know and I I put out that far and I saved that family, you know and The the kids like, you know, it's raining and and the mom's like You know and and the dad's like stop that I'm like like kicking up like punch me like, you know And I tell that story and people get like really invested in it, you know I'm probably in more playful mood, too But they get really invested in that and all of a sudden I'm like and I just fucking Like this and there's it just like rips everything apart. It's like holy shit. What just that is hilarious It comes out randomly like maybe once a month. I just I tell that Yeah, you know, I Qualified girls hard, you know why I just I just randomly talking to them and some of this I'm out yesterday When you're in comfort or what you got report with somebody, you know, you can break it and it's a it's a high value It's it's a it's a to okay So, you know, you know, so every once in a while, I'm gonna I'm in a certain kind of mood. I'm like You know, I only talked to girls that put up the first night Anna that always gets a fucking hilarious great reaction. You're like Well, we're second nighters or they're like, you know, and and sometimes they might try to give you like some kind of like hard time But if you're just like, you know, you don't care then it becomes really attractive, you know, I went over that part. Oh You know, when you when you're the standard the AMOG tactic is this guy was like talking to my girls I was talking to you and I'm like, hey, man, what's up? He's like, hey, what's up? I'm like nothing and I started talking to girls and You know, just be careful with that because sometimes a guy want to cry on your shoulder a little bit You know, and you got like can sell them because that is like that's like flick him in the nose. So, you know Exercise like I've made kind of a jump from intergame all of a sudden. Holy shit He's knocking them over and stuff and and I guess I want to make the point is that You know, I hope guys or I want you guys to become more dominant and physically aggressive And that's something that guys lack and some of that girls really want from a guy And so I guess the point I want to make is it wasn't like some like cognitive dissonant jump from one to the next This is how you build in yourself the ability to just be comfortable just leading and being physical. Okay It's a point. I want I want to make that point and get back to where I was that because I have no idea Yeah, I want to make this point real fast You know, I'm talking about being the standard and and you know being this the the screener and the pre-selector and You know, some of you guys take that too far I know when David DeAngelo came out with his like hockey funny like everybody's my space profile was like and if you Don't do this and this and if you can't cook and wash my dishes and be my sex slave Then you're just out and you know, that's that's not what I'm talking about here. Okay, that's that's like weak Display of I'm the on the screener here. Okay You want to show value be who you are and then as the natural rhythm what's going on plays out That's when you start showing your, you know, who you are Don't don't don't go to my space page. Don't be don't be rude to girls or mean the girls, you know to try to get them back You know, if you if you guys have like a hatred of women This stuff's not gonna work. Okay, as much as I mess around with them My background is just all girls. Okay. I love them. I love to be around them. Okay, so my Who I am and what I'm doing is from the foundation of I appreciate them. Okay, and also You know like bit shields or whatever, you know, I see him as inspiration to To man up. Okay, there's something like similar and do it yesterday If you're if you're if you're walking up again blown out repeatedly You got something going on fix it. Okay, don't make excuses for it My whole point earlier was don't make excuses for what's going on. Okay, accept it Take care of business. Okay. Don't don't let yourself get to a place where you're you can't learn anymore. Okay? anyways, I want to get into into More stories before I do, you know back to what I was saying I Am not out there to conquer women at all When I'm this relaxed and I've already basically conquered myself. I've already taken care of my own shit It becomes like how how can this be fun? How can I have like a little fun little vibe between me and a girl? Okay? If you're trying to like game somebody or like trying to seduce them what's the next step? You're kind of getting away from like to what to a girl what the point of what the point of being a guy is You know, she wants the guy that she can have fun with okay, what I'm trying to say is that when you're the standard You're not looking for a girl to fulfill you You know to make you feel good about yourself. You're just there having a good time okay, you're just creating this real fun vibe between you and her and You know when it comes to what I do I'm just like an aggressive Dominant physical kind of guy. Okay, and what I was talking about earlier about even before I was sexual with it I still had that going so, you know, that's what you want to develop and You know all of these are examples of how a guy acts. That's just Like I talked about has this has this stuff together. I Was walking through a club a Few months back and there's like two girls are walking by And you know when you're when you're the selector you just you just fucking around people like grab them right and I when I pull them in I'm like so girls what's the chance of us getting a threesome and I open it with that Kind of a lot sometimes if it's in my head I'm just doing with that and it never it never gets a bad reaction because when you're doing that you're solid about that You're presenting the image of a guy that actually that's just his lifestyle, okay So usually what'll happen is like want to be like like really interested like You know, and then the other one be like yeah, and you know, she might like she might scamper off or whatever But when I grabbed him like this and that same thing happened like she was just like kind of into it like and And she wasn't and so like so like I use that to screen her out. It's like What's wrong with you? You know like I kind of like bring this girl out and this girl was like I've separated her from her friend and she's like sound like oh, I'm just not cool anymore So I've like use that as a standard like screen the girl out. So I've like a face the isolator, you know and Yes, I did have sex with her later We always need to make that point. Yes, I did that and I had sex with her I Went over this girls house that made at a club and You know, I just was hanging out with the roommates. I just having a really good time with them In and I wasn't trying to ignore her but you know being a high value You're as a high value guy would have your attention just kind of shifts to wherever the the value is So at that point, you know, I'm having a fun time with the roommates and I'm basically ignoring her And she's like what's going on here so like we go into her room and I don't know if I want to tell this anyways, she's like, you know, what's going on and I I don't really say anything I just sit my hand down the front of her jeans like this I'm looking at her like this and she looks me like I'm insane and I'm not you know I just look at her like this and And and that was it when when you're that when you're that kind of selector they just fall on your lead and that's just just That's just how you physically use on your own rhythm. Okay, so I went from basically zero to 60 and like and like less than a second you know, I went from What are you doing to all of a sudden I just slipped my hand on the front of her panties and I'm like, you know palming her down there and Yes, I did have sex with her too We we finish up and She's got this beautiful behind like holy shit, right and I'm like baby I have to take pictures of your butt. I'm sorry, you know, and You know, I was home earlier. We're like when I did that like she tested me for goo It's like she looks like I was insane, you know, but I was just solid about it She does the same thing. She's like like you're so weird You're so creepy. I Can't believe you I can't believe you do this. I'm like, you know, and and what you know What she's doing is she's screening. Okay, who's gonna be the guy that That that happens with the guy that just takes charge takes action and just does it, okay But by presenting that kind of by presenting that kind of like block like, you know You're so weird and creepy She'll scare away She will make nervous or scare guys that aren't solid away. Okay, so that's her screening process Okay, so like when you guys get like, you know, you know resistance or whatnot consider that okay She wants to have the right guy Or you know, she only allows certain guys to do what they're doing. Okay, so it's probably just screening Pass that shit. Okay, it doesn't mean anything. You are who you are. Okay? Oh Yeah, I took this yoga instructor out and You know, there's always comes a time Where I'm thinking I'm actually not gonna have sex this girl tonight. That's weird, but it never works out the way We always have sex. I don't know know what you know, it's just I'm like, yeah, I know I'm not gonna have sex with this girl. No, it we it always just happens Okay, so I'm out with this I'm out with this girl. She's a yoga instructor and We go to a movie I love taking girls in movies I guess a lot of guys say that they don't they don't they don't agree with the whole movie thing I love it like I like I'm sitting next to a girl and like her seats my seat basically I'm like you're out there like pulling her in like I'm like leaning over her like rearranging her anyways You know the date consists of like the movie and then like me trying to pick her up and put her in trash can There's I find them, you know, it's just like a fun thing. It's like trash can I grab her I'm just like trying to like, you know, I'm like joke. I'm not actually gonna do it I'm like teasing her, you know, and she's like stop, you know, and it's this fun dominant playful way of being with a girl You know, and I think I kind of like 16 or 17 trash cans that she almost went into and you know When when you have that kind of a vibe with a girl when you're not physical and dominant with it You're basically setting the mood for what's gonna happen later, you know, so, you know, we get back to her place and She makes me dinner and stuff and and we start messing around and And um, you know, it doesn't last very long. No, it's good You know, so we start going at it and I don't know why I'm telling a story. I don't know. It's funny. Anyways She's she's on top of me and I'm just like I'm just like Leaning back like this because I don't I don't like that that much, you know And like she's she's in my lap, you know up and down and I get bored or whatever and I guess she gets bored, too So she leans over and Start stacking our dinner plates while we're having sex. She's like doing housework. I'm like What the fuck and I just grab her like throw it on like clear that table like like that and and she just she just like starts streaming and Yeah, so I don't know what the point of that story was only that it's just hilarious. Okay, you know, I Met this girl out She is she was mine. I guess my blueprint just exactly what I look for a girl like, you know Latina looking You know really and her attitude what she projects out. She's like a little socialite anyways So, you know, we get back to her place. Oh, yeah, I I'd called her She'd never closed me She'd taken my number and then I sent her like a stupid-ass text message that now like I looked at later I'm like what the fuck, you know, and I don't want to tell you guys because you guys that use it Anyway, she calls me over the next day and She's like who is this and I'm like thinking like what the hell but I don't let it really bother me I just start talking to you on the phone You know just being like no myself like, you know, we're blah blah blah. I'm just it's phone game You just having a good time, you know, and I start to realize that she knows exactly who was she remembers everything She's just a fucking test to see what's up, right? So apparently at some point. I guess I passed everything because she goes well Why don't we watch movie tonight and you can rub hot lotions in my body and I'm like Okay, and at that point somebody said that the flinch factor when that shit happens because you'll just pass her in point where the girl She just goes okay, you can have me now, you know what I have don't flinch just let that just be cool with that Okay, you know, I've had that happen enough times when I'm just like, yeah, it didn't bother me so all of a sudden I'm also we go from this girl not knowing me to all of a sudden I'm going to her house tonight and Sex is in the air, you know, anyways, I'm over at her place with her and You know sexual escalation physical escalation One of the big things I tell guys is is that just like just like body language Just like how you open You're the standard. You're the context. So when you're escalating with somebody, it's got to be on your rhythm Okay, too many guys get stuck on well I was making out with her for half an hour and then she like resists my attempts like do other stuff with her It's like yeah, dude, cuz she knows the fuck you're doing like you're trying like you're trying like fulfill some other social expectation Of how sex goes down like I make out for 20 minutes And then I follow her breasts for two minutes and if she's cool with that then I go down lower and lower You know and girls are so in tune to that. They don't want that because that's not a guy being his own stand It's not a guy on his own rhythm doing what he wants to do. Okay sex You know It's a personal thing. It can't be about like what the movies say sex escalation is okay you know too many guys they'll be like they'll be kissing a girl for too long or whatnot and You know, I see that is if you're asking for too much compliance from a girl, okay when you're You know you're expecting you're expecting her to kiss you back instead of actually just leading the interaction further on as you physicalness, okay So anyways, when you know when a girl with me Like I mentioned earlier like a slapper, but you know like just see if it's good to eat You know that that's like my that's like my attitude You know and she's fun with that too because you guys gotta understand that girls really want to have sex Okay, but they don't want to have sex with creepos or guys that are just think about other things or guys I don't know what said they want to have sex with like real guys and then they're like free with it And if they know you're a guy that's just non-judgmental then You know, it's blowing wide open, right? the all those stereotypes about like You know girls being afraid of sex and being you know, you know, that's that's reserved for the rest of society Okay, when you're a solid guy like the secret society article like Tyler's talking about there's like another There's like another sec There's like other shit going on, you know, and we might even girls and even guys might even give pay that lip service But when it comes down to it, you know Sex is about is a personal vibe and it's it can be aggressive or it can be soft and sweet Anyways when I was with her she changed like a little like a little workout sweats and like this shirt and I'm like hanging out there I'm like grab her shirt like rip it open like look at her her breasts, you know and she's like, you know It's like hilarious. I got I grab her pants and like, you know Rip away to see like what she's got going on and she's like scream But you know it was it was it was it was hot, you know, and she thought it was hot, too Anyways, I don't actually have sex with that night. It was a it was intense, but we fell asleep holding hands. So it was really nice and then the In the next morning We get up and we're hanging out. It's like, well, I gotta take a shower now. I'm like cool Let's go right so I'm like trying to follow her in there and she like gets the door She's like, what are you doing? Go away. I'm okay fine so So I go out to the living room and I'm like watching TV on the couch, you know five minutes later I'm like, what the fuck am I doing? I throw that shit down. I'm like, you know, go go it You know the bathroom doors unlocked was that bathroom door unlocked for a reason? Yes. Okay. I walk in It's like showing I peek in and she's like You know I'm much of the side You know then I'm like you know, I'm just standing there like this and she She's all you're crazy. What are you doing? You just she's trying to scold me. I'm just like, yeah, you know I haven't you know having a fun time with her and You know just like just like any yeah, any hot girl like, you know, they don't give a shit about you know You're feeling dry things like um Your dick goes to the left and I'm like, you know like I don't I don't you know That's not gonna phase me. You know, that's just really just my attitude. Anyways, um You know, we're kind of like good, you know getting a frisky in there and and then she Kind of like guys like do something down here and I just grab her and she's like oh, you know And so I you know goes man, of course, I had to call him to shower with me and I use one, right, right? Okay, exactly I went over that part I think I got one last page here. How much time do I have? Okay Okay One thing I want to go into is that You know girls have this reality. They see the world in a certain way, you know They're so used to being the standard that the value That you know, we have to be proactive about you know showing this to them, you know And they because they'll make preconceived ideas and they just don't understand And a lot of times, you know, we develop ourselves in such a way that we become outside their ability to read us And everybody says that you know women are very perceptive and stuff when you really get into this We are we get to a point where we're actually way beyond Your your basic ability to like rebind and stuff So they kind of lose their ability to to read us and see what we see what we're thinking or doing So when we're on reacting to a shit test, it's actually of a high value thing But to them they think you're being passive when in reality you really just don't give a shit Okay, but she's used to dealing with so many guys that are just you know pansies So when she gives them shit and they don't respond she she just misconceives it as you being a big prune thing Okay, so my point is that You want to you want to you know be proactive about making a point that you know you got standards And you like her but you want her to be a certain way and it's just you just demonstrating that you're a That you're a high-value guy. So I was um Here's an example. I was I was at a bar and two sexy little little girls and um They uh, they give me one of them gives me a hard time at first and I'm like You know and she's like he and so it's all good and then but I don't really want her I want I want her. I want her friends. I'm like Hang out with a friend and her and I are just getting like you know like pretty frisky um And then her friend goes back and starts getting like jealous of what's going on because I'm basically taking her friend without paying any attention to it right, so um She gets all like attitudal and and it's not really working like she's she's with me But she's like trying to like get all trippy and I'm just like okay. I'm gonna go hang out with my friends now um I don't want her here when I get back You know So I walk away back to my friends and like ten minutes after I come back and uh And I'm like she's still here I'm leaving so I walk away and she's like What what and you know trying to grab me and and you know we go from there but uh The point I'm trying the point I want to make is is that did I really want her to get rid of her friend? Of course not. Okay. Did I expect her to get rid of her friend? No You know, but the what the point I was demonstrating is that I have certain standards for how girls behave And and I'm just going to show that and you know when you when you're just when you're in the club You're just fucking around this shit will just happen Okay, you'll just be able to just play off stuff like that and you'll you'll demonstrate in whatever way I'm sure the community has all kinds of different ways of uh, you know, like you know compliance or whatnot I'm not too familiar with what's going on. I'm in a different School of thought here Oh yes so uh I was hanging out with uh with a girl a couple months ago and um Her name is Cecilia. It's not Cecilia. Celia I walk in and and she's with her friend and my buddy and my buddy and her friend are trying to get it on but He's not it's not really working out for him. Um, and I walk in I'm like so Jessica blah blah blah And then we're girls like did you just call her Jessica? And I'm like fuck Jessica was a girl that had sex with like the day before that and I'm like Da da da and I just keep going and since since I'm just that just kind of like I don't give a shit the standard that Just it just gets excused. Okay. I call the girl the wrong name. You know that that I'd been with and um You know a lot of guys that'll fuck him up and they'll be like You know, I I didn't mean to or let try to like they're like that flinch factor or let they'll hesitate And what I'm saying is that you know Shit happens mistake. You make mistakes. Don't don't worry about it. Okay. It everything worked out, you know And she got to walking on her friend And me later So I got her back. Damn it Okay Last year I told us to I'ma tell again because I like it. It's a good one. Um, I I was seeing this girl and uh You know sexually or physically escalation wise it was um It wasn't proceeding that quick at all really I think we got a kiss or something and um So this is fucking retarded, you know, so uh, I just say to her I'm like, you know what? I think I'm gonna have to tie your hands together behind your back sit you on your knees in front of me and make you give me a head and she goes Maybe you'll have to and I'm like, oh, yeah So I just mark her up the stairs take her in her room put her on her knees tie her hands together and um and make her do it and uh It was really hot. I'd totally recommend that um But you know the the point is I want to make the point that yeah, I'm I'm aggressive down, but I'm I'm leading I'm not like I'm not, you know, I attract I attract high value girls I attract girls that feel real good about themselves and I feel good about myself and I feel good about her and I together So it's not that I'm um some woman hater that that bashes women at all No, it's it's it's a personal thing between her and I and we're just doing crazy shit and you guys get to hear about it Okay, so, you know, that's that's really the difference. All right. I'm not looking to like um dominate women and conquer them and that's really not it if I was about that It really wouldn't be working out for me, you know at all Okay, I like I said I come from a frame where I appreciate women But my shit is together to a point where I'm just focusing what I'm doing and I'm just having fun Okay, so that's that's where the physicalness comes from. That's where the escalation. That's where all the uh That's where all the uh sex comes from also I think I skipped a section right here. I think I want to go back to I don't think I want to tell that one Okay, so Oh, also a one point I want to make is that um, I really hate it when I hear about guys um They're like, yeah, I made this girl do this and then me and my buddy did this to her and it's just like And you can tell that they're like trashing this girl and and all kinds of um Ridiculous stuff and to me that's a reflection of the fact that he's not taking responsibility for what he's doing He's not his own standard. So he's making a girl like Do shit that he doesn't really want but he's just seeing if he can get her to do it because he gets to Laugh about it later. Can I really hate that? Uh, that's That's that's fucked up to me and I I've seen that on rsd. I just fucking smashed that I mean, we don't we're very positive but at that point I was like, yeah um When I'm with a girl I uh I don't make her do things I don't like try to dominate her into doing things that I would lose respect, you know for her, you know It's it's it's porno style. Definitely, you know But I'm not trying to like subjugate her or fuck with her You know, I still see these girls the same way after after she's like laying there I'll like the dragon and like just covered in like my juices and stuff, you know to me. She's still absolutely beautiful. Okay Sometimes I hear they do like that That gulping sound. I'm like, oh You know, and then like wipe her mouth down. I'm like, oh, that's cool, you know anyways the You know the the point I want to make is that when you're a centered guy calm guy and you're taking care of your shit You know, you present the kind of image that um Girls just want to be around. Okay, and these are the kind of things that happen And when you present this kind of physicalness They're like cool. This is a cool guy. He's got a shit together I could be a naughty little girl and it's okay And he's not going to make me do things that make him lose respect for me or lose value in his eyes And when you do that, man, um This stuff really starts to happen. Okay cool One thing I want to go into uh, I want to go into like specific parts um You know opening Regardless of how many times people say You can open anybody. It's the easiest part. Well you know opening is Is important because your it's that first is who who you are. Okay, you can get blown out, you know If you don't do the right way and and when I What I'd want to say is that when when you're your standard you relax in your center like like totally You walk up and you just You just hit it hard like and um, you know, when you say what you're doing or whatever You're not like hesitating to see how she's reacting to you. Okay a guy should be so into why he's there That he's really not reacting to her for the first part He's just like being and doing and and just hitting them with something and he's not look He's not as he's talking like seeing how they're reacting. Okay Because that means that he's trying to fit their standard not his Okay, and to me that's kind of like like I'm not against guys learning routines I think they're cool because it kind of presents to a guy or it when a girl sees a guy running a routine It uh, it's kind of an image of a guy that's like not focused on her. He's presenting something else to her He's like all about this and like he wants her in like, you know, and and he might even be like Teasing her with it like, you know, I think this and and that is what engages a girl Okay, you don't want it to be about you and her right off the bat like so You know just too intense like looking at her too much How far with what you're doing? That's what I'm trying to say. Okay Um as far as you know natural Versus like routines or when I I'm I'm cool with them. I think they're all right I think the point is that and I like I said, I think all parts of the community are moving to the same place I think we're all gonna be exactly the same kind of shit later on But you know When you're just naturally in touch with yourself the shit that comes out of your mouth is gold You know, I mean you're a routine spitter. Okay, you're coming up with your own shit. All right, and that's that's what I'm trying to say about About uh, you know, natural just being yourself being centered and being in charge of what you're doing You know when you're uh when you're out and about and you're uh You know, you're trying to get physical with a girl in a club You know, some of us Like to do, you know, Nathan from rsd his opening like kino or fizz on this is fucking great And when you're out at a club, you know, the whole point of this presentation is not that you're some You know Waco with stilts doing all kinds of crazy shit like, you know magic and like far out of his ass and like, you know, like You know, it's it's it's presented the image of a guy who is actually plugged into society He's actually part of it He's just a dominant guy just having a good fucking time And that's the kind of guy that girls want to be with okay So what I would say when it comes to kino or being physical with a girl You don't want to be like doing like crazy shit like bending her over in a club You know And you want to present an image of like a guy who's social and acceptable social acceptable who is just dominant Okay plugged in with dominance like like shaking hands or like pulling them in like directing them like that kind of thing So you're operating within the balance of of what other people are going to perceive as acceptable You just dominate a guy doing it. Okay. Now. What's that say? All right? It says that you're so tuned in that you can be physical Why you're being why you're being a social guy, okay that that everything you do because You know to women reality is is like is social dynamic. It's group dynamics. Okay She's got to be feel like she's plugged in because that's what she is. She's a little social animal Okay, so you got to present you got to present not like some kind of like outcast caveman crazy fuck Okay, who's just going to come in like a whirlwind like Like tall schools everywhere. Yeah, you will get to that point But when you kind of open and when you're interacting with people you want to be dominant way That's that shows that that you're part of what's going on. Okay. You don't want her friends freaking out like And this happened. I used to do this like years ago. This happened like where I'd be like I'd have a girl really into me and I'd be like physically escalating like crazy on her, you know And she was like cool, you know, because she was kind of like in that state with me But her friends were like what the fuck is this, you know And so you want to present you want to be with her something where you know, every her social circle Her people the rest of club is going to be fine with it. Okay Like you guys heard objection objection game Okay, one of the girl's main objections is if her friends are going to See her as a slut, you know, it's a big problem that girls deal with Okay, so the point of so how do you how do you get past that you show physical dominance in a way That's socially acceptable. Okay Uh, you know and a big thing like, you know, you like you're meeting girl and you're pulling her in like, you know And you're just moving them around And you're not you're not being like overly sexual. You're not like, you know Coming up and following them even though I've actually done that But you know at a consistent level that's where you want to be at. Okay So showing showing physical dominance in a way that Everybody else looks at it and is like, okay. He's just a dominant guy, but he's But he's part of society. He's not some crazy guy that I got to make sure that she doesn't go off with them and get murdered You know, or it's not even that they even have any kind of real thoughts about it Just like subconscious bullshit, you know, they'll they'll they'll blow you out They'll take your their girl from you if you're uh, if you're getting all screwy with her I got one I've got uh, I've got one part I want to go I want to go over and I think I'm going to be pretty much close to done here um you know We talk about being such an attractive guy that uh You know, we make girl like, you know follow all over us and stuff and we're just high value and and we make you know The point I guess what I want to say is that um, it's never it's never over You don't get to a point where all of a sudden You know, you can just relax and you can just assume that because you used to be Act a certain way. Well, she's got to um, she's just she's got to be my my little love slave You know, um, you got to always be working to make her feel good always You know, if you're if you're that guy in charge, it should happen naturally, but I remember um, I remember uh, it's like a year or two ago. I was seeing this girl and um I was exclusive with her. I was super super into her. I mean that was it She's you know, I'm always happy when I meet a girl that I'm so into that I just want to be with her Slowly and it happens and I'm really glad when it does. Um, anyways I've got like a um a 24 hour shift And I'm like, you know, they suck. I don't know if you guys have ever done that but you know when you're in the middle of night and stuff it really sucks and uh You know, she calls me up. She's like, baby. I just I want to come down there and suck your cock and I'm like Yeah, you know, I'm like, whoo, you know, and I'm like sweet, right? She uh She pulls up in the parking lot Fuck yeah guys. I'll see you in a bit and uh, I started walking out there But um, I'm like walking all slow and like I'm tired and like You know, I'm not I'm just like And what I what was I not doing? I was not presented the image of a dude, right? I was just like this like decrepit old dude, you know, was I was I attractive? You know, no, I wasn't up to my I would she knew I wasn't up to what I was supposed to be at, right? I got in the truck and uh, I'm like Hey, she's like, you know, I I just don't feel like it anymore, you know And I'm like, what the fuck, you know, I'm like freaking out. Yeah, you know, like this is Tordy, you know and and uh, I guess what I want to say is that when I thought about later I can't I can't blame her for that. You know, Tyler says One of the three rules for life, whatever don't ever assume Okay, don't assume that because Since she said something she's gonna feel the same way even if you're acting like a piece of shit Okay, so always always be working to make your girl feel good To feel right to to feel that emotional Wellness with her. Okay, because because honestly, that's that's one of the reasons why a girl wants a guy is he's supposed to be Emotionally centered and he's supposed to make her feel good. Okay, and uh, if you're not doing that, then um, naturally she's not gonna feel I'm very attracted and the girl I was I was this girl was so high value I mean she was really into me and stuff She was so high value that, you know, she didn't want to go down on a guy that was like a fucking like, you know Individual and as a high value woman, I can respect that kind of behavior from her. Okay I expect that from myself. I expect it from her Okay, so always always you work into make sure you know where she's at and and just be that guy at all times. Okay I lost my page here There's certain guys that um, we get called like insensitive or you know assholes all the time like as a You're just you're just a dick or you know, you're with girls and you're and you're seen as being insensitive. Well, honestly That's really just a perception Because when it comes down to it, um Say a girl's having a hard time with something. She's just out just just you know going on a haywire emotional state And she hits you up with that. Okay Now some guys are like they're unresponsive and they're and they're unreactive and they get blamed for being insensitive Right, you know like oh, he's just too much of an asshole. Well, what really makes sense Okay, does the girl want you to get all fucking haywire with her when she's acting all crazy? No She wants you to stay where you're at emotionally centered. That's the whole point is she wants you to be able to tell her You know what babe? It's really okay Okay, so don't so don't feel like you got to get emotionally involved in everything that's going on Because you're really probably not supposed to she wants a guy that's really centered and in charge of his emotions So when she gets all crazy because they will from time to time you just grab her like it's really not a big deal Crown my shoulder rip the baby kind of thing You know just be just be good that way now at the same time. I've made mistakes where Just because I'm at where I'm at in my life Girls would present things to me that I really didn't care about Because I've just you know, I'm at a place where little things really don't bother me And I didn't realize that to her it really bugged the shit out of her. And so I just was being my normal Just you know self and I came up, you know And and I didn't take care of an issue with the girl When I knew I when I realized later that should have okay, so You know, I guess as a guy being able to girl, you know Be that rock be that emotional centeredness at the same time if she's got a real issue I think you guys will know and at that point just take care of it with her Okay You know in conclusion, I'd want to say that You know, you guys can do any kind of seminars you want you guys can read any kind anybody's books and you know I read myself and I and I like to listen to other guys talk and stuff and discuss whatever and and it's good to learn Okay, but in the end know that Everything that happens with yourself Is a personal decision on your part. Okay You can't count on somebody else To bring you to a certain place in your game. Okay. It really is a physical shift inside yourself All right, and I think that's when you guys realize that It'll actually set you free When you guys realize how much control you guys have over yourselves When you guys might think at first. Oh, wow, I can't rely on somebody to build my game for me No, you rely on yourself But actually that will act You know, you are the prize and like I said before when you're just Working on yourself and you're and you're working through yourself on your purpose and intent. That's what makes you feel at ease Because I'm a man who I see nation Johnny feel good dot tv And I guess it's time for questions now. Oh, there's one. What's up? No, you're not on Were you confident pretty much your whole life? Um, you see that that horse thing. That's cool. Yeah, see if I can get that going again um You know that I don't want to get too personal on myself But I had a really rough childhood Parts were super fucked up Okay, so there comes a point where you can either take this stuff on And be a little pansy for the rest of your life Or just realize that um You just got to you know Whatever happens is not that bad Have you guys have you guys read? I don't think it's to know if it's power now But totally his background is that shit got so bad. He was like in a fucking dumpster And uh, all of a sudden realized dude, I'm still alive. I'm still breathing I can still smell the flowers while she could probably still smell the trash can But everything as bad as everything is I'm still me. I'm still who I am and I reached that point when I was like I think I was like in junior high and You know, I I I definitely dealt with some awkwardness and clumsiness I had um You know, but I wanted to be a certain way and I and I think You know, I went through enough bullshit when I was younger that I reached a certain point where I'm just like Well, I want to be this way and you guys can all make that decision And what I'm trying to say is that confidence comes from being present Okay, getting rid of the mental clutter and taking care of your business Okay, what what his what his post said you guys might want to read it because What it said is that when you're taking care of your stuff, you are building reference points in your mind without even trying to That tell you and everything you do that you are confident and dominant And you become comfortable expressing yourself because you're just taking care of your business And I really feel that that's where confidence comes from and no, I wasn't I really wasn't confident my whole life at all because I was getting um You know kicked around and stuff so I guess what I want to say is that uh confidence is a decision that you can make What what was the big turning point for you when you became most confident um I guess when I hit college You know everybody talks about this gradual shift in their game We're like they develop game and they become more like this certain way um when I hit college And I talked about this last year move the fuck away get out from your parents get from your background I hit college and I I made a snap decision to be a certain way It was I went from one day being not what I wanted to be to the next day I was a social guy just talking to people and I was fucking up But I was so like didn't give a shit that they were like cool is This guy is like, you know a little bit clumsy, but he's we like him and and that's actually A little bit after that is when I took on is when I got this man whore Uh, I you know name or whatever, you know So it was it was college for me. I made and I said fucking I remember I even remember to I guess you'd call him sets I was like it was like a freshman orientation And I saw this guy sitting at a table and I didn't know anybody and I'm like I need to make decision to go talk to that guy So I went up and started talking to him and we were friends all of a sudden and like a couple days later Like I'm outside my dorm and there's like this whole table load of like fucking hot freshman chicks, right? And I've never really done this before and I said fuck it and I rent I just walked up and I say blam And they were they were my best friends for like the next like a year or two. Okay, so for me um, it really was a decision to This feels weird. Okay. I don't like this. I'm gonna do it anyways. Okay, and you know, I'd done certain things I You know, I was uh, I was a hydrophobe growing up So in high school, I joined the swim team and and I sure as fuck wasn't a hydrophobe after that You know, I didn't like that. So I'm like, I got to take care of this. So I I started swimming on the team and I I uh lettered Both those years, you know, uh I wanted to get more physical and dominant. So I joined the wrestling team. I started lifting weights So I so by the time it's time to be social I had done the things I needed to do to tell myself that I can take what I want and have what I want Okay, so I guess that's kind of an echo of my presentation just kind of told from from who I am what I am Does that answer your question? Okay. Cool. Great No No We just pass or you do you have a question? I'll let us go. Okay. Well, what advice what advice would you give to somebody who like Wants to become more dominant more like Um, I guess more centered What I'd say, um I'd say two different parts and I think that kind of one leads into the other Uh for me personally, like I said when I was a a young younger guy, um You know, I I didn't mix sexuality with the aggressive and the dominance um I just was I just Cool. I was just this physical guy with like my female friends Like we'd have like I would start these fucked up pillow fights and we'd have wrestle We'd have wrestle offs and they didn't want to have wrestle offs, but I did You know and so what I guess what I'd say is that take out the sexuality Developing yourself just you're just physical and don't with people If if you take out the sexuality you you'll give yourself the ability to Be at ease with it. Okay. I've noticed a lot of guys when they they're okay They can be good physical when they start mixing in like the sexual intent. That's kind of when it fucks them up So what I said in the beginning is if you want to develop this in yourself Maybe lay off the sexualness. Maybe develop some physicalness and aggressiveness In yourself and then and then bring in the uh Bring in the the sexual intent later, you know Does that does that make sense and for me? For me, it was a while Okay, for you guys is you guys have all these resources you guys can this this this will take place not You know won't take a little very long at all for me I was like I didn't like bring in like sex, you know that kind of thing until like You know, maybe a year after I was really started being this way Does that help? Yeah, okay focus on one thing Break it down, you know small chunk of whatever and bring in the Bring in the sexual stuff later. Okay Can you go a little more details about cavemaning in a club? Yes So all I was saying earlier is that You know, you want to come across as a as a socially plugged in guy You know at the same time you can reach that point where you're with the girl And you either have dismissed your friends like when I come in sometimes I like I own it and you know, I just start I it's come to a point. I just okay You know you you girls can run away now and when you're at that point you basically own that person You can do whatever you want. I mean I I've you know, I've gotten you know hand jobs Done all kinds of stuff with girls. Obviously, you know sex too. Um, I guess it doesn't really answer your question Shit, uh, you know When you're starting out Be be physical In a way that's socially acceptable. Okay It's it's kind of a way that demonstrates everybody around you that You're our part of society. You're not some kind of crazy guy. Um You're just and allows you to be comfortable with what you're doing. Okay, and from there you can build into it now As you as you do this more you'll kind of develop your own rhythm You know, we'll be like I want to do this to her now And if you come across in the way, I've we've been talking about like that hardness that that standard She girls will just kind of trust themselves with you and it all goes from there. Okay What I don't do and what I use what I what I'd experienced You know every once in a while, you know Years ago or whatnot is that I would try to get physically talking with the girl that didn't want it from me You know and it'd be like a fucking battle and and I had to get away from that You want I guess you want to you want to you want to be in that You know, you want to make sure she wants it also But how you get there is to be centered in yourself so that you're just having fun with her and that shit just happens naturally Okay, I'm her one girl. You know, you can't you can't physically escalate on a girl You can't be done over there if she doesn't like you. Okay, so so work on that You know have fun. It's all about having fun I want I wanted to say that I'm not I'm not trying to conquer women That's that's not what I'm about and it's all about having fun. Okay, so from there If that's the context if it's playful and you're just leading Then not his stuff is going to happen Um, so I guess I'd concentrate on being, you know, socially acceptable dominant, you know, your your hand stop You're you're grabbing you're pulling me like what, you know, and then like like I saw a natural, um The day I was like that's that's smooth Uh, he walks up to the school and like he grabs you like and like pulls it like this and looking at her And then like she says something and this is the perfect example of how you guys want to be He he says something like, you know, weird and this is just an happen naturally and he goes And like he like pushes it away You know, and he's still the same time. He's like doing this, but he's like letting her know He's bothering that he's ready to catch her at any at any point Like she he's not fully breaking rapport too many guys like completely break rapport And there's no chance for a girl to come back and she's not going to so while you're pushing a girl away You kind of want to ground her to you in a way that that lets her know that This guy's just teasing me and I could have him back if I want I don't have to lower myself to do it. Okay, so You know push pull is a great way to uh to go caveman because And then once the girl feels Once the girl feels qualified to you like you guys have like this thing then you just you just do a lot of stuff You know There was uh, there was this girl. I was at a myspace party max and party at in san diego and uh and I talked to this girl And earlier in the night and it was like cordial, but it wasn't there, you know I'm like here, whatever I come back like two hours later and she's just like I come in and immediately it's immediately on like she just wants me and when you see that happening um To me personally that makes me want to go further. Okay, so Take away that clutter that tells you you can't do it when when you want something Go for it when she's giving you a signal that you guys have this thing take it. Okay. I think I Somehow I ended up she was pinned like against a railing like shortly after and I was like, you know down here and um And it went from like zero to like 60, you know what I'm saying So be somebody says a little not a sexually escalate You know when you got that when you when you see that happening when you got that vibe hit it up Okay, are we done? Another minute or two we got any we got a question this guy Keep grabbing this like it's my water What did you mean when you said explain you? Push her away a little bit. Yeah push pull. Yeah, uh, you let her know that she doesn't come back Or that she can't come back. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, that's like another speech entirely If you read I focus a lot on like building a guy up like I guess intergame stuff But I've got this series on my side and on uh on arsonation. I'm working on it's called lmr and um What it really is is is you want to present to a girl The image of a guy that's screening and the standard and so she knows that when that when you're with her doing stuff She's she's also earned you. Okay, so When you're like remember I said earlier about introducing standards That's a that's a push pull right there. Okay So when so when you're this kind of thing is is part of your interaction She feels like Like she's earned you basically. Okay a girl wants a guy who's a prize. Okay too many guys out there They supplicate. They're not following their standards. They're these weak flimsy flamsy kind of guys Um, so what you're communicating about this push pull is that you know, you like her But if she messes up it might not happen Okay, and that's that's that's why when he went like this and then she said something He was like, you know and what I was saying is that he didn't fully break rapport Uh, the first time I really saw this articulate was Tim from rsd He's got this way of like when he teases a girl like Like at the same time She knows fully That he might be teasing her, but she still got her like she's still part of his vibe She's just kind of like mess up a little bit and and like dyd fucked guys up because they would completely break rapport They'd completely be assholes and they'd cut off all communication And the only girls that really kept going with the interaction were like the low self-esteem girls that wanted the abuse Okay, if you want like if you want the top notch girls that are you know in the solid guys you got to present You know you've got to you got to show that you have standards and you're doing your own thing But she can be part of what she wants and you're going to let her know that you know Oh, I don't like that, you know kind of basically You might push your way if she doesn't that kind of goes against your values. It doesn't have to be a push Um, it's like uh, I do a lot like I think sin Soon as to going to yesterday, it's like a it's like a it's like a non-rival like, huh? What's going on? Or like you can like, you know verbalize it Um, but you it's mostly through sub communications. It's mostly non-rival. It's kind of like What's going on here? Okay without fully breaking rapport Is it time for another question? I don't know are we are we done? Okay, let's go. You can ask it. I guess we can just cut it. Oh, no, I have to okay. Um, I'm man whore rst nation www.johnandfeelgood.tv I'm out