 Hi everyone, welcome to another live video. I hope you've all seen the premiere about an hour ago, five reasons why the narcissist can never be loyal to you. So this is just a discussion video. I want to hear from you. Tell me about your experience where the narcissist could never be loyal to you. And if you haven't seen the premiere yet, when I'm talking about loyalty, I don't just mean that they don't cheat on you. That's not all that loyalty is about. When someone is disloyal, they will betray you. They will throw you under the bus. They will sacrifice your needs and well-being for their own personal gain. These are also acts of disloyalty. So I'd like to hear from you. Tell me about your experience where the narcissist was being disloyal to you. As I said in the premiere, don't even expect loyalty from a narcissist because you're not going to get it. They have no loyalty to give to you. Someone with such a negative mindset, a scarcity mentality and someone who can't even be satisfied or appreciate the little things in life. Someone like that is destined to be disloyal to you. Lamu Latta says they want you to be loyal, yet they are super deceptive. So true. They demand and expect your loyalty. They want you to be obedient to them. They want you to obey their orders. Of course, they get to write the rules and they expect you to follow them. Even though they may not follow their own rules, they're very entitled. They feel like they can do whatever they want, yet they expect you to comply with them. God's favor says my daughter's knock would act as though he didn't know her when they were around other people. She felt like he was ashamed of being around this gorgeous queen and he looked like hermit the frog. I'm not sure if it's hermit the frog rather than hermit. It could be wrong. Someone let me know if that's right. But anyway, that's very sad, God's favor. But that is what they will do. There's no loyalty with a narcissist. They will throw you into the bus to save their reputation so they can get ahead. But then when they're going through trouble, they will demand loyalty from you. T-Red says, even strangers' opinions matter more to the narcissist than yours. I've had strangers insult me in front of him while he just stared like he wasn't witnessing it. Ultimate disloyalty. I agree. When a narcissist is looking for validation or they're looking for someone's opinion, they'll ask anyone else they can find before they ask you. They don't trust the opinions of the people who are closest to them. They're more likely to trust a stranger, someone who they don't even know because that stranger is validating the false self. The narcissist has to display this image to them and, of course, when they meet someone new, they can be very gullible. Sunshine State says my needs were never important. He cheated too. When his friends made a nasty joke of me, he was there only to laugh. That's it. You see, you know when you've got a true friend. You know when someone's on your side. Because even when the world is against you, that person will still stick by you. And that is loyalty. But you will not get that from a narcissist because they lack empathy. They can't put themselves in their shoes. They can't understand what you're going through. Leafsen 2021 says whether it's other people, financial responsibilities, or being there for you during a health crisis, they are not there for you but expect to be taken care of. Yeah, when you're going through a difficult time, they'll just toss you aside. But if it's something to do with them, maybe they're not feeling well or they just need your help. They will demand for you to be there for them. And if you've got other commitments or whatever else you're doing, they will never understand. They're going to see you as the worst person in the world, even though they wouldn't do the same for you. Tricia says I was married to a full blown NPD and probably a psychopath. I was lucky to get out alive thriving now. That's great to hear, Tricia. Thank you for sharing that. I'm happy to hear that you got out of there safely or at least as safe as it could be. These narcissists will never be loyal to you and they will never value your loyalty either. You could be loyal to them for your entire life and in the end it would mean nothing. They would just act like you never did anything for them. And anything they did to you that was disloyal, they're not going to own it. They're just projected onto you like when a narcissist accuses you of cheating. It's probably because that's what they were doing. And then that's why they're so paranoid and hyper-vigilant. That's why they're constantly making these accusations against you. Yeah, the narcissist will never be loyal to you. But you need to be loyal to yourself. Don't abandon yourself for a narcissist, someone who doesn't even appreciate you. Someone who just takes you for granted. Value yourself. Validate yourself. Practice loyalty to yourself. Do not betray yourself for someone else because they're not going to value what you do for them. And you're just going to end up losing out in the end. So if there's one person where you can trust to be loyal to someone who won't let you down, it's yourself. And if not, then it's a pet. You can expect loyalty from a cat to a dog, but not from the narcissist. You will never get that. So don't expect it. They will only disappoint you. They will only leave you feeling like you got ripped off. You made the wrong decision by trusting them, confiding in them. And then they just throw it back in your face. You can do everything for these people, but in the end, they treat you like you did nothing. Anyway, that's all I've got to say for that topic. I'd like to thank you all for sharing your experiences with me. If you haven't seen the video yet, I highly recommend it. Five reasons why the narcissist can never be loyal to you. I'm also uploading new blog posts to the website several times a week. So definitely check that out. It's www.narksurvive.uk and also you can join a support forum on there as well. And you can book coaching sessions. As you may know, I'm also offering YouTube coaching sessions where I can help you to build your own successful YouTube channel. You may not get loyalty from a narcissist. Loyalty is something I would like to give to you. I would like to build with you to see other people grow and become successful just like I did. There's no greater feeling than that. There really isn't. And I look back on my own journey and how far I came. You know, my own journey is inspiring to me. And I know it's inspired a lot of people too. And I want those people to also inspire others because I know so many people who have been through what I've been through and it's a struggle. It really is. It's tough. You know, when the narcissist leaves you at the lowest point in your life and you feel so broken down, you've got no one to turn to for support. It's a horrible experience. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I wouldn't even wish that on a narcissist. No one deserves to go through that. But yeah, you know, that's why I offer the YouTube coaching. I want to build people up. I want to help people progress. Become the best versions of themselves even after they've been involved with these narcissists. Just because you've been involved with a narcissist doesn't mean it has to be the end for you. You can still move on. You can still grow and become successful again. You can do that. And I am here to guide you. I offer these YouTube coaching sessions designed to build you up and to make you independent from the narcissist, to give you freedom. And I'm not just talking about financial freedom, but to give you that confidence when you can live a life on your own without the narcissist. You feel so strong and powerful. It's like nothing can take you down. So yeah, I highly recommend my YouTube coaching sessions. And if you would like to inquire about them, you can book through the website, just mention in the notes that you are booking a YouTube coaching session. Or if you would like more information, you can send me an email to coach that Knox survivor to Cuddy UK. Anyway, I'd just like to thank you all for joining this live. Very happy to have you here with me. Thank you for all your support. Thanks for the donation, God's favor. Yeah, thank you all for joining me. I greatly appreciate all of you. Thank you for being here. And you all have a good day.