 Five things a narcissist would say. This video could help you identify whether or not you are dealing with a narcissist, someone who has narcissistic personality disorder, someone who thinks that they are better and more important than other people, someone who needs constant attention and praise, someone who has a lack of empathy for other people. It is very common for narcissists to say these things. They are typical things that a narcissist would say and while the narcissist might see these words as something that puts them in control, it is something you can use to empower yourself because it will help you realize whether or not you are dealing with a narcissist. One, you're too sensitive. Narcissists will say something hurtful to you. They will say something with the intent of hurting and offending you, but if you call them out on it, they will say that you're too sensitive. They will say that you can't take a joke. They will never take accountability for their actions. They will never own up to what they say or do to you. Instead, they will point the finger at you and try to make you think that you are the one who is at fault. They will gas like you. They will make you question yourself. They will make you doubt your own memory and perception. If you refuse to take accountability for their faults, they will just rationalize it or minimize it. They will act like it wasn't a big deal. They will say that you're taking it too seriously. They will always find a way to justify what they do. Two, you're too selfish. Everything has to revolve around the narcissist. They will demand and expect you to cater to their needs. They have to be the center of attention at all times. If they feel like you are taking the spotlight from them, they will become very bitter and resentful towards you. They don't care about what you're going through. They don't want to hear about your problems. They are self-absorbed and they will even try to shame you for taking the focus off of them. Three, no one likes you. The narcissist will target your self-esteem to keep you under their control. They want to make you feel like you're no use to anyone. They want you to feel like no one is going to support you or be on your side. They want to set you apart from other people. They want to isolate you because then you are less likely to leave them. They will try to make you doubt yourself and make you feel like no one else is going to be there for you. Four, you can't do anything without me. They want you to feel like you can't accomplish anything without them as though you wouldn't be where you are without them. They will steal the spotlight away from you and take credit for your accomplishments. They will say that you owe them something in return. They will constantly remind you that you're nothing without them. Five, you will never find anyone better than me. Narcissists want you to think that they are better than everyone or as though there is something wrong with everyone else. As though they have some quality that makes them better or different to other people. Something that you cannot find somewhere else. They want you to think that you would be making a big mistake by leaving them. They want you to think that they've lowered their standards and expectations to be with you as though they are superior to you. These are five things a narcissist would say. Have you heard someone say these things to you? If you have, please let me know in the comments. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. CoachingQuiries, you can email me at coachingatnarksurvivor.co.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.