 You have to not only have a vision for your life, but you have to grab hold of the vision and so often I've seen it. I've known what I wanted and I've let it slip through my fingers and what makes it slip through your fingers distractions being too ADD listening to the wrong people procrastination Regret so don't forget Control the things you can control leave the rest and the things that are within your control is your own mind What you learn the disciplines that you instill your hat like my favorite poem goes by chief to comes up. Love your life perfect your life beautify all things in your life