 How do you feel about that? I'm pregnant friends for getting a small baby coat hopefully. Is that all we're getting? No I have a list but I think it's also good to see how expensive things are and then we see what the essentials are. Yeah I think we need like some emergency things so like a baby coat when we get back from the list then at least the baby can sleep and maybe some other things. I'll check the list. Okay let's go. So how do you feel about going baby shopping? Yeah every day something happens that makes it feel more real than it was before and this is one of them that we're actually going to grab stuff for the baby. Elaine said before in the intro never seen if you can get a baby coat and a few other items for our emergency kids and also have stuff or a buffer in the house for when we are back from Netherlands. We don't have to worry about it so yeah every now and then it gets much realer with something we do you know yeah besides going for these hospital appointments and whatnot yeah things like this bring us to the realization that yeah it's getting closer. Even though you cannot never be really ready I think but these tangible things help you in the process. Because we of course because we are going to Netherlands then we have more stuff there but then we realized if the baby comes early or when we come back like the baby needs to sleep somewhere maybe some other things that are essential. Yeah so we're getting the essential items it's just an essential pack yeah basic but and we also need to get a bit of a grasp of how expensive things are now so we can kind of see how best we can get them and when and where so let's see. Yeah that's basically what we're doing today. And in Netherlands I have a lot of friends who already had babies so we're getting like we can lend a lot of things and stuff which is really nice but then here I think we don't really have a lot of baby friends so. Baby friends or friends with babies. So we decided that let's just get some at least essentials and then around it we can just work with it. Yeah this is the list that my friend shared with me as you can see there are a few things we already got. Baby carrier, baby swing, baby bathtub but those things are mostly in Netherlands. So what the nursery things are the most urgent now like a crib maybe diapers. Maybe we shouldn't get diapers now. Anyway and then full-wammer, also drying rack, nursing cover, feeding utensils. As you can see already I have a really nice so yeah. Checking boxes. Okay so we're here um microphone is yeah so we're here um I guess there's a reason why it's an online shop. Yeah but it's good to see some things in real life and then we take it from there. Yeah the way that the way the store is located is a bit much. Guys promise your spoils let's go. And then the white kickland. Okay. The short scenes. Yeah that might be good to get like maybe a few but they grow out of it really quickly so we have to be careful. Yeah so one pack of each. Maybe yeah. And then maybe one of six to nine, six to nine months. Yeah that's what I thought. Okay. Okay you can just take it with you. No but with the coat we won't get it but we just wanted to see it with our own eyes. The ones we have and then we you know how online to yes you do such a big expense online. You haven't even seen the coat. It's always better to feel it, to see it. So it's it's We see we have a lot here so people order online. By the time maybe you wait a week or two then you don't get the specific one. So you end up not getting your green. You have to choose the blue. Because the green is. I think we'll survive. You see. You match up the color. I think the baby won't matter. So much about it. I think it's more for us and we are okay like that. Stage one, one, 92 pieces. Yes. Okay. Then wipes kickland one box. Then sleep suits unisex zero to six six to nine sorry. Yeah. Then okay then three to six and six to nine. Yes. And then the final one. Overall. Overall three to six. Yes. Complete. Hey did I add a dental wipe? Okay so I forgot to tie. That's one that you didn't want. No I just think it's funny how we select very different things. So she just went for the feature. Yes. And that's that's it. She's done it. No. You don't have to say anything. I don't know. Oh yes thank you for coming to children online baby show. You are the number one best online show. Yeah. How much are you paying? You're here. Oh okay okay. So we're on our way back. I was just saying how funny it is that the things. Grave is very sensitive for this baby marketing and I am not. I'm not sensitive. For example like it was so funny because I was on the phone with my friend because I wanted to check something because she wanted to get us like a really expensive bottle set with bottle warmer and sterilizer and I don't know what it was for like 2000 CDs and I was like hmm let me call in some help and see. So while I was on the phone I come back to the basket. Somebody added dental wipes. Dental wipes for a baby. It's an emergency kid. You're gonna have a baby. Won't you gonna clean the mouth? You can just clean with normal wipes. No. You can't. There are baby wipes for it and you just or you you get some cloth clean cloth and like you rub it around the breast milk. You want them to have good dental hygiene from the beginning. No but dental they don't even have teeth. You're wiping the gums. Okay. And it's not like breast milk is super like tricky to get off. It's literally a fluid. How do you know? I know. And the same thing happened with it was very funny because so my friends said don't buy the sets. I just do like sterilizing with boiling water and all these things. I was like okay that sounds more like me than a whole set. And then I was like but she said it's handy to have a few bottles in the house for a way to come back. I'm like okay cool. So I saw a set was like 120 CDs for like four bottles or something. I was like cool. Let's do that. There was a brush with it like to clean it and I'm like yeah cool. And then the lady came and it's like yes but a lot of people buy this one because this one is non-colic because that's a hole there so then they don't get a lot of air inside their bellies and that was 450 guess which one. And I asked him like but why not just take this one like it's fine. It's just a basic set. It's like yeah but the non-colic one sounded really good. So I think it's very I mean he's a very protective person so it's just funny how this baby marketing really works for on him but I'm very practical. Maybe there's also my Dutch side like very Dutch like we don't need the baby baby milk warmer we can just warm it on the stove like that's how my parents did it with the twins so why would we do it any different they are fine people. And it was also funny because the lady commented that we had the different dynamics so normally the woman is adding things to the basket. Well the man is saying oh no no no it's too much. No no no and now it was the other way around and I was like let's not rush into things like let's just go with the basic thing and even with the I think it was a good call to get some diapers and wipes so we just have but then Grammy of course bought like the A brand. Yes any diaper like they wear the diaper for maybe one hour or two hours. Yeah depending on their bowel movement and stuff so for me I'm like any any diaper that is like certified is fine but he says he wants only the best first child. You can bleep it out no? Yeah. Yeah okay how do you feel now? Well I was a little overwhelmed to be honest even though yes I'm the one putting stuff in the basket and I'm getting swayed by the baby marketing. They need a lot of things like what all these things before the baby comes and with the baby I was like whoa but again yeah I'm a guy who thinks that being the protective person that I am the best always and that means name brands so it feels good to do the first shopping for the baby and yeah we'll take you on more of the things that we do. For now this is peace out we're going home to find food and that's about it. There's rice at home? Yes there's rice at home at this point after this shopping there's rice at home and now I understand why our friends were like shut up there's rice at home so yeah we eat some rice at home.