 Alright, so complimenting a girl that you like. Now I know in the pickup community there's a lot of guys out there that are scared to give girls compliments because they're worried the girl is going to see them as kind of beta or the girl is just going to think that they're just trying to win them over with compliments so they can sleep with them or they don't want to be lumped into those 90% of guys that are just giving those generic you are beautiful comments. Now these are very understandable and very real concerns that guys should have but if you give a good compliment, you're going to actually endure yourself a lot more towards the girl and you're going to separate yourself from most of the guys out there that are just giving those generic you are beautiful compliments. So what is a good compliment? Well a better compliment than you are beautiful might be something like I really like your sense of style. Now the reason why this is a better compliment is you're complimenting her on something that she's taken the time to do. People like to be complimented on things that they've taken the time to do, to work hard on, to take care with and their sense of style is one of those things. I guarantee you every girl that you're talking to has paid special attention to the way that she carries herself or the way she acts. Everybody has their own kind of personality or sense of style and if you compliment her on that she's going to like that a lot more than you just giving her the generic you are beautiful or even you're gorgeous. A lot of times we think these are nice things to say, we think girls want to hear them but that's just because we've never heard those compliments. In the woman world, they've heard this hundreds of thousands of times even if she's just above average or even average looking she's probably heard this from tons of guys that are just trying to sleep with her and don't care about her interests and those other things that she actually takes the time to do. So it's not a good compliment for her and in fact they've heard it so many times that it just becomes annoying at this point. Another good compliment is I like what you did with your makeup or something like that. This is something that a lot of girls would say usually but sometimes as a guy you can pull that off but again the idea is they've taken the time to do their makeup in front of the mirror. They've taken the time to put on whatever outfit that they've chosen and when you first walk up to a girl it can be kind of hard to pick and choose things because if you haven't really talked to the person it can be kind of hard to give a good compliment but those are some of the things that you can notice right off the bat. Now if you have been talking to this person for a while observe what they talk about, the things that they've tried to do, the things that they've worked hard at, try and find ways that you can compliment them on there. Try and be genuine about these compliments. If you mean a compliment it's going to make that much more of a difference. It's actually going to be meaningful if it means something to you. The way you make a compliment meaningful is try and observe, try and pay attention to the person and like I said see what they do. See what they're complimenting you on. If a girl's complimenting you on certain things like a lot of girls like to compliment me on my eyebrows that probably means they want to be complimented on their eyebrows too which is totally fine if they have nice eyebrows I'll definitely give them a good compliment as well. I'll definitely give that back to them. But again you're just paying more attention to the person and the more you pay attention to people the more you observe things that you like about them the more things that you find that are special and unique about people the more charming and the more charismatic you're going to be as a man as a person as anyone in general. Vague compliments that everybody says are the worst and can actually hurt you. So some good compliments that I like to dish out when I'm talking to people is if I've had an intelligent debate with a girl for a little bit of time I'll usually compliment her on how smart she is or how intelligent she is. If a girl is funny and I think she's made some like if she made some comment that I thought was really really pretty really pretty witty then I'll compliment her on that. Another good compliment that I like to use some time is if it's a brunette or someone like that I'll usually like to say she's like you look like a modern day Audrey Hepburn or something like that. Audrey Hepburn is an iconic classy lady that I'm sure any girl would would love to be compared to or most not all but usually if she's brunette or something I'll you know make a comment like that you know these things are more specific these things are not something that the typical guy is going to say and there's something that you know the girl probably has worked on she's probably worked on her intelligence her wit or you know whatever it is or her fitness or something like that. Now hopefully you've seen from this video that a key component of these compliments is timing. Timing is very important especially with everything okay you can actually get away with those you are beautiful comments but you only get away with them if the girl is not feeling especially beautiful at that point in time or she's feeling kind of maybe she someone said something that day that hurt her feelings she's not feeling too beautiful and then you give her that sort of compliment and you mean it that can have a really positive effect on them for sure. The problem is you don't know what's happened to her until you started talking to her now a good compliment has actually worked wonders for me so a lot of people think that this stuff is kind of more intended for girls that you're maybe trying to get into a relationship with that's not true at all you know even if I'm trying to just sleep with a girl you know and I think she's pretty or I think I like a certain part about her I'll definitely give her a compliment now you don't want to give too many compliments but if you give one solid well-thought-out compliment that is going to make a world of difference. I've given girls compliments that you know we only had a brief maybe like 10 to 15 minute conversation or even less and years later they've come back to me and said they remembered that compliment and they know that because of that they're really attracted to me and blah blah blah the better you get at giving these the more successful you're gonna be with women so hopefully you got something out of this you guys if you have any more questions please put them in the comment section below if you are interested in coaching or doing anything like that you can email me at the single guy 2017 at gmail.com thanks a lot you guys and good luck out there