 when you finally succeed the narcissist does this when you finally succeed when you finally achieve the desired aim or result there are only a few things that the narcissist will do they might act as though they are responsible for your success as though you couldn't have done it without them as though they made you who you are they created the circumstances for your success or they will ignore it they will act as though they don't see it you're not even successful or it doesn't mean anything to them they will try to minimize your success and act as though it's nothing or they will try to sabotage your success they will try to ruin your accomplishments when you finally succeed this is what they're going to do but whichever road they take just know that they are envious and jealous they're not happy for you they just want you to give up on your dreams and lay in the hole that they've created for you but no the hole that they've created was not meant for you if it was meant for you you would have created it they created it because it resonated with them and that is where they belong but you belong in the hopes and dreams that you have created for yourself that's what resonates with you so let them hate let them get mad and envious you wouldn't be surprised if a dog barks at you because that's what that's just what dogs do just as you shouldn't be surprised if a narcissist hates on you or gets mad and envious because that's just who they are that's what narcissists do and just as the narcissist is being true to who they are you should be true to yourself when you've been around these people for too long and you start feeling anxious or depressed it's because you're not being you you're not living in the way that is authentic to you you can't be yourself around the narcissist they will always criticize you and there will always be something wrong they will never tell you this but the only right thing to do in this situation is to leave the narcissist in the hole that they've created for themselves and move on with your life believe in yourself and follow your dreams they will never appreciate you or your success but once you achieve the result that you were looking for you realize that you never needed them anyway because now you're on the level of where you always wanted to be you're on the frequency of success and when you recognize your worth when you recognize your value you will realize why nothing ever worked out of the narcissist you will realize why no contact is so important and you will never desire to return to them because you know that the difference between going back to them or moving on with your life and following your dreams is the difference between failure and success thank you for watching i hope this video resonates with you please like comment share and subscribe click the bell icon receive notifications for my for my future videos if you like to donate my paypal link is in the video description coaching inquiries can email me and ask to have a coaching at duma.com thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon