 always ask the turtle first is a thought I picked up from a story I read about a lady who told the story when she was a tourist in Thailand she saw a turtle climbing up the side of the road and she stopped the car picked it up and took it back to the river and released it. What did the locals saw do that and said what are you doing? She says I saw this turtle so far from the water I thought I'd rescue it and put it back in the water the locals said you should never do that the turtle probably took six months to get to where you found it it was going there to lay eggs somewhere secretly I think that's a good go-to idea to have about people stop rescuing people who didn't ask you to rescue them stop being over responsible for people diving and picking them up taking them to where you think they should be making them who you want them to be when they're never asked to be rescued helped in the first place hope that helps cheers