 to stop placing expectations on men without communicating what those expectations are. So there was a woman that was complaining in one of my last live streams. She's like, oh yeah, like guys, everybody knows how they're supposed to be acting. You know, we're taught how to act and behave around each other when we're children and they know what they're supposed to be doing and dating and blah, blah, blah. That is not true, okay? We are in a society, especially in the West, where a lot of people are growing up without parents, with single parents, being raised by neighborhood kids, being raised by the computer, the internet, or television. And a lot of people have no idea how they should be behaving, they don't understand dating, they don't get love, they don't get relationships, they don't get any of that kind of stuff. And so everybody's kind of taught or they learn something different if they learn anything at all about dating, love, and relationships as a child. And so most men have no idea what your expectations are about what he should be doing in any kind of situation. Lots of guys don't know that they should be pursuing you. They don't know that they should be stepping up and behaving in a masculine fashion. There's a biological drive component to it. However, a lot of men have been shamed out of that and a lot of men don't know that they can do that, they think that it's offensive, they think that women hate it. There's all kinds of things that are going on with men that if you want him to act a certain way, one, you can either find a guy that does these things naturally and normally, which is kind of the ideal situation, or if you really like a guy and you want him to kind of do a lot of those things, you have to communicate to him what it is that those things are. Otherwise, you're just gonna end up getting angry and you're gonna have all these expectations and you're gonna feel really bad about it and he's not gonna have any idea what it is that he's supposed to be doing.