 Your story in your head or my head in this case is what creates reality This is kind of a bold assertion, but we're gonna verify this in one moment. I'd like you to Start asking yourself What's the story that goes on in your head right now as we speak? Your story could be okay. I'm watching this guy. He's kind of weird. Let's see what's happening But you need to really pay attention to the story of your life in that situation Are you sitting here and watching because you want to be more successful or perhaps you're searching for something searching for enlightenment searching for business success or Maybe just maybe you're just watching this because you believe. Oh, I'm just a fucking retard. I just do whatever the fuck I want. I don't really am lazy. This is interesting. So I'm just gonna listen to him But what I want you to start noticing and verifying for yourself again Well, this don't listen to anything I say and take it for granted check it for yourself You'll start seeing that every single story that you have in your head regarding your life is Exactly the way that your life is looking right now So what I urge you to do is start changing the story that you have for yourself Let's say you want to become successful Notice that this story is cool. It means you'll find people will help you become successful It means that you're gonna build up, but try changing the story to I'm successful already or I'm already Have everything I need and you'll see how suddenly instead of looking for opportunities For mentors and people to help you for you know building up because again, that's part of the story You're gonna start seeing all sorts of opportunities for success that actually reinforce What you believe about yourself right now, which is that you are successful You can actually try that with anything That you want you can do that with being positive You know changing our outlook about life about money about relationships This is this is really cool. This is something that I urge you to try Also urge you to write down Your life story right now on a piece of paper or you know on the computer And just look at how Whatever you write your beliefs about yourself your life story, you know, where am I right now and where am I trying to go to? You're gonna see that these two stories are basically a direct mirroring of your life situation This begs the question does my life situation come from my Inner story or does my story create my life situation? Now what I Personally have found is that when you change the life story what goes on inside Everything outside starts changing as well. So again, you should try this right now Take a piece of paper or just write down on your computer The way that your life is looking right now How you believe your life is right now where you believe your life is going right now And try completely Rewriting the story, but in a way that makes sense to you where you can kind of skip steps Now this is called leapfrog theory. This theory is from a book called winning by intimidation. It's kind of a Very old book, but it's still relevant today. And what leapfrog theory means is that Whatever you want to become let's say you want to be an nba player You can be an nba player without going through the whole way up You can be a millionaire without first making 10,000 and then the other thousand And you can date the hottest girl without first dating hotter and hotter girls Because leapfrog theory says that if you only qualify as good enough For whatever level you want to get to you're already going to be able to be there So let's say you're good enough for the nba. You can already jump for the nba and just try applying there Let's say you want to be a millionaire and you already have certain skills Which you believe can generate millions You don't actually have to go through the whole process of first charging a hundred dollars then a thousand then 10,000 You can actually jump to the millions already So this is a really cool concept. Again, it goes hand to hand leapfrog theory You can read about it in winning by intimidation and also how your life story the current story that you're telling yourself And by the way, your environment tells you a life story the people around you reinforce the life story Start getting fucking aware of that because you're gonna see where you are right now and where you're trying to go And again, everything is an illusion So let's say right now you believe that you're not successful and you're trying to go to being successful You're in a story that traps you in being the underdog Start changing your thoughts to view yourself as successful already And you're going to see how reality starts changing and treating you differently Until next time peace