 I said more personal conversations about your feelings, your fears, and intentions creates intimacy. Radical honesty, laying your cards on the table, the rules of engagement. This is something I talk about frequently. What is radical honesty? It's being, it's being vulnerable. It's being authentic. It's being transparent. In other words, if two people are going to engage in the getting to know one another, then I think it's important, you see, most people date, let's just have a good time. It's all about having a good time. Let's just have a good time. No serious questions while we're having a good time. And what happens is when you're having a good time, the pheromones start to kick in and the dopamine starts to kick in and all of a sudden your love attachment style starts to kick in and your amago starts to kick in and all of a sudden you're attached to a person who's completely incompatible with you.