 Okay, you know in six weeks you can become incredibly attached and if that relationship doesn't work out that can be emotionally devastating to your heart. And by the way, I'm not suggesting you don't give six weeks, but six weeks of just let's just have fun. Let's keep it light. We'll just ask surface questions like how's your day going? Did you have a good day? I hope you had a good day. A six week surface relationship can easily cause someone to be attached and let me tell you something. The number one emotional health issue facing most everyone is I'm not good enough. I'm not lovable. I'm not likable. Do you know what happens when a short live relationship ends? It wears on our self esteem. Now, gotta brush ourselves off just like Steve Harvey says act like a lady think like a man because men can be a bit more dismissive.