 So I'm Sarah Marcellus Luganville and I'm Scott Luganville. Hi I'm Jennifer Chickering and I'm Patrick Hoffman. My name is Eliana Rios. I am Juan Rios and we serve at First Richardson. I am the associate pastor at First United Methodist Church Salina. And I'm another pastor who serves at First United Methodist Church at Salina. And I currently serve at Arapaho United Methodist Church. And my last appointment was at Castle Linda UMC. And we've been married 14 years. And we have been married for seven years. And we have been married almost eight years now with me. See? Told ya. It was kind of on accident. On the phone. All right I'll talk to you later. Love you, bye. And I was like. Thanks. Can't take that back. Okay. So yeah I said I love you first um although it was first I really really really really care about you. Yes. And then it was eventually then you know not sort of gnawing after that it was I love you. Yes so it was funny because we were on the phone really really late when I was actually February 16th. When we had landlines. We had landlines. And he was falling asleep on the phone um and I whispered it and I was like I think I'm in love with you. And I really thought it was a sleep and he was it. And I responded and I said I love you too. Sarah put an arrow. A lot to do. Yeah between me having to brush out my hair and you trying to figure out what to wear. Work to wear. We both do. But if I'm gonna put my makeup on it's me. Very sweet. And you're right about yours. It's also a deacon answer though. It's me. It's also a chewy answer. That's fair. Loving people. Yeah she she like I said she loves hard and there's just something about the way that she loves people that attracts a lot of people towards her. And uh I think that's a I think that's a it's a gift. You ready? That's not it. I'm Samson. Come on. Thomas because you're always always questioning. Like looking critically in a good way. Strong Samson no arms. You are. Come on. Yeah. You used to have a lot of hair too. I did. Long hair. Okay. Ready? Uh huh. Yeah. James. Yes. I mean all the disciples are basically interchangeable. Are they really though? Except for like you know that Judas person. I'm pretty sure that's a little bit. That part. Yes. It might have been a little bit harder but James. You have a really good sense of justice even though you're not a deacon. I appreciate that. You know because we're all called to the same. That's right. That's right. Yeah that's right. I appreciate that. And Thomas because you doubt too much. I I try to ask good questions. Oh yes. I'm doubtful. Questions. So I knew it was I knew he was gonna write Jeremiah because of like the fire and everything and just mm-hmm. Yeah. He always says it but honestly if we're being real it's Jesus because of the hair. Just say it. At a restaurant. At a restaurant. Talk about the weekend. Yeah. Without kids. That's where we are in life. That's where we're at. We breakfast. A lot of Friday. A lot of Friday breakfast or brunch dates. Yeah. When the kids are still in school. Yeah. On our own day off. Yep. Yep. My parents actually we went down to. Orlando. Orlando for Christmas and my parents agreed to watch the kids so we could have time at the theme park without them and like our arms feel so much later that time. Yeah. Yeah. Eat food and then end it up at Bucky's. It's the way it goes. It's always like it doesn't matter our date night. Usually good system. We're fancy night and at the end of it's like hey um how about we drive out to Bucky's for coffee or something. Yeah literally. I think everything everything all the time ends up at Bucky's. Me. Because you're the one that's usually wrong. Yeah. I put more often. See I knew she was gonna say that. It's probably true. It's usually pretty good. Yeah. Going going back and forth. Yeah. Depends on what it is. Like I'm sorry for agreeing to do it. 100% I ain't even gonna lie. Oh yeah. She has admitted for it being difficult for her to say I'm sorry. It is. I don't mind. I can say I'm sorry. It is. It is. Should I guess that one? I said incorrect idioms in public. Forget someone's name. Forget someone's name. So one of my if he's turned into my favorite one of my favorite things about Scott is he's terrible at idioms like he can't get him. You can't. They're my idioms. Yeah, they're not like does a one does a one-legged duck swim around in a pond. No, in a circle. Anyways, people in Texas don't even know that one. But anyways, do they? Yeah. No. Is that just a Louisiana idiom? Yeah, I think so. But anyways, yes, I don't have good idioms. But I do. It's endearing now. What did you say? I said the day after Christmas Eve, my spouse slash associate pastor got the flu and then our daughter got sick on the car ride to church and I had to preach someone else's sermon which it was your sermon. It was your sermon. I had to preach your sermon. I think it's more funny that you fell off the golf cart at Bridgeport. Yeah, that was pretty funny too. Golf cart. Maggie Procik was driving and we were about to be hit with a water balloon. I know the hose. You had the water balloons. Oh, that's right. We had the water balloons and someone turned it was about to turn a hose on us and she took evasive maneuvers without waiting to see if I was ready and I was on the back of the cart and I slid off along with all of the water balloons that we had armed ourselves with so. On the black top. On the black top. Yes. It's quite amusing. It was very funny. It was actually. It was funny and after the fact it was painful in the moment and I of course forgiven Maggie for for this so. I don't know. She shouldn't feel guilty about it. I don't know if she's forgiven herself though. Probably not so Maggie for listening to this. All is forgiven. I don't bear any grudges. I promise. Okay. Oh my goodness. Oh my goodness. Yes. Okay. So when I was serving at uh Lake Highlands UMC at the at the new room working with Pastor Norman um he was involved in a car accident. That's not funny. That's not funny. Sorry Norman. Sorry. With his accent over the phone and he was kind of frantic. He said Juan I need you to get all the co he said I need you to get all the cones you can all the cones you can and come find me and I said okay okay so I went into the pantry and loaded the car with not the car. Not the car. It was a van. I loaded it up with cans of corn and I got there and he said where are the cones? I said you asked for the corn. He said no I asked for cones. Traffic cones. Not cans of corn. No I don't know. I think maybe this is it. I don't know but this is this is how the line goes but I don't remember. Okay I said first John got his love. Oh man it's your people bring my people. Oh that's a good one too. Well now I guess we'll go back and look. We don't have we didn't have any program from our wedding. Nothing. We got married on the beach. Beach. So close family. Just hanging out barefooted. Ralph Ford. Yeah Ralph Ford. He said something but he said some really good things. That's just some really good things. It's like the shortest best wedding ever. It was. And now here we are. We both yeah Romans. Romans something. I thought it was Romans 12. I don't know. Yeah it was a passage from Romans. Yeah. Romans something. I think I put yours on something. Maybe not Romans 12. Something in Romans. It was the one that had to do with justice and like doing good in the world and what we wanted are what we aspire to be as a couple and how we aspire to be as a clergy couple and raise our children to be you know it might be like important for us to go to scripture about that though. Yeah probably. Maybe. I don't know it was in Romans. It was. Yeah we both remember that. Yeah it definitely was not. It wasn't a traditional. Traditional. A wedding scripture for sure. What you wrote. I wrote that I don't remember. I was feeling way too many feelings. Yeah our wedding was a little crazy. It was. It was beautiful. We got married at the old red museum in downtown Dallas on the third floor and the sun was just beaming. It was very majestic. It was gorgeous. I was just feeling emotions. It it yeah but I know that it was the I don't know why like I want to say I don't know it was probably I don't remember. Martha thanks for officiating it because thank you for marrying us. I'm sure you have your sermon notes somewhere girl but thank you I love you. You're the real MVP. Here we are. I mean yeah really eight years later so love you. Happy Valentine's Day. Happy Valentine's Day. Happy Valentine's Day.