 Hi, I'm Matthew Koss from commitmentconnection.com and today I have another question from a woman in our community who asks How can I be more approachable to men? it's a great question and You know studies have shown that most guys most guys that are out there I think it was like over 80% or something like that most guys out there won't approach a woman unless They get some type of invitation from that woman So most guys out there won't approach you unless they get an invitation and you know I've talked to a few women who are like well You know doesn't that doesn't that weed out the guys who aren't you know men and the answer is no It does not it weeds out the guys who aren't incredibly aggressive and that's really about it and so You know there's a bunch of incredibly aggressive guys out there meeting tons of women and there's a bunch of other guys out there that are like Hey, you know, I don't want to deal with all the headache and the anxiety of approaching a woman which In case you didn't know men feel a lot of anxiety When approaching a woman because there's a huge risk of rejection and all kinds of different biological things going on there, but So anyway, the the whole point is that you need to you need to look as friendly and Inviting as humanly possible if you want a guy to approach you especially if it's a guy that that you see or that you know and you like him and he's not approaching you and so you could give him a look you can smile at him and You know if you're out somewhere and you want a guy to approach you try to stay away from a big group You know try to go off on your own For a little bit or try to get near him if you go and stand near him a lot of times a guy will approach you if you go and stand near him You know smile and be friendly and and if all that doesn't work you can always try approaching him and Believe you're not most guys most guys are very friendly to women who approach them and Because they know what it's like to approach women and get rejected and feel like an idiot so You know I talk a lot about how to approach men in an attractive way and some of my programs and Some other videos and stuff that I have here So that's it for this video if you have if you want more information on how to attract a quality guy Into a committed lasting relationship. Make sure that you subscribe to my YouTube channel I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon