 What you will find I think is that there won't be much disparity in terms of the way the speakers that the underlying philosophies There will be plenty of differences in the technical aspects. So don't get confused by that because I Mean many of you guys I'm sure are aware of Sasha day game, right? Okay, so he's a good friend of mine. I've been working with him now for a year traveling the world teaching with him And we teach on bootcamps together and you couldn't really have people who are to people who are more stylistically different Right, he's very high energy. He's he's you know over the top. He's very verbally direct He's almost to the point of being pornographic And that's not really what I do, you know, I'm tend to be more subtle. I don't necessarily you know run girls down and You know stop them and say well, you're so fucking hot but The thing is that the reason that we work together and we work together well And the reason that our students learn very well when being taught by both of us is that the underlying principles are the same It is about direct intent. It is about honesty It is about integrity is about being clear About your desires. It is about connection with a woman and so on The expression will be infinitely different and when you take one of these principles that one of the speakers gives to you And you start to integrate it into your personality. You should not start to look like the speaker We are never here to create clones of ourselves. There is enough of us weirdos out there and we don't want to create anymore What we'd like is for you to take our principles and mutate them and morph them and put them through your own filters Through your own personality so that they become an expression of you not a mask Not something that you're grafting onto yourself to try and hide insecurities Yeah, or to pretend that you're somebody you're not because you think that who you are is not good enough So that that those are my pieces of advice in terms of how to approach this weekend to get the most out of it Be audacious come and ask come and dig Don't feel proud don't feel like you need to you know pretend that you know everything or the or whatever else guys who sit back and wait to be spoon-fed are Usually the last to be served Yeah, and if you're if you come and you're too you know you too full on and you're pushy Then some will put you in your place and if you have the humility to go okay cool I'll take a step back then that person will respect that completely. It's the same with a woman. It's much better to be To push the envelope a bit to go in there and be too direct and to then have her go That's a bit pushy or I'm not comfortable with that and then to read just Then it is to tiptoe up to her and go is this okay. Am I don't mean to be oh, sorry Hugh Grant Didn't mean to oh awfully. Oh Yeah, that doesn't work except in you know bad movies So it's better to tell her go well you your breasts look amazing that dress and her to go That's rude and you to go. Okay. I didn't realize that so I'll stop looking at them. What was your name? Yeah To step back Recalibrate and go okay. I appreciate that you were not ready for that compliment right now and Then to move on because she will respect the fact that you're audacious and she will also respect the fact that you were able to hear The way she wanted to be communicated with and to adjust to the needs of that situation Yeah, whereas the alpha guys like fuck you. I'm looking at your tits. You like that, right? No, she doesn't okay now What I want to talk to you very briefly about is An underlying theme or an underlying Value principle feeling that makes the difference between men who get what they want out of life and men who do not Is anyone interested to know what that is? right Firstly, it is not a technical aspect. It is not some secret trick that you can learn and it makes me Violently ill to see the majority of the marketing that is projected to men who want to get better with women because it plays upon Fears and it plays upon laziness So the majority of very effective and aggressive marketing out there suggests that you do not need to Ever experience rejection. You don't you do not need to change and often you don't even have to leave your bedroom And yet vaginas will slide straight onto your cock. Like that's the kind of stuff. They literally say yeah and And when I see this stuff because I have to research it I think surely nobody but that they do people buy this because They want to believe that they don't have to change or face their fears and that they can get what they want that way Doesn't happen Yeah The guys who get what they want out of life