 Shovers are people who when you share your pain with them, they like to tidy it up. Shovers are sweepers and the sweeping broom they use to tidy up your life is cliches. Just be strong, it'll be okay, everything works out for good and they use those cliches sweeping into a tidy pile to tidy you up and they do this because they can't avoid the mess that your pain creates for them. So in order to not have to deal with the messiness of your situation, they sweep it into a pile by shoving you along to a happy ending. They want to shove you towards hope and positivity and they want to edit your story to fit their version of your story.