 Hey Survivors and Thrivers In this video I am going to be talking about Narciss and their toxic negative energy Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description If you are interested in one on one coaching, you can email me at NarcisfiverCoaching at gmail.com Check out the new Narcisfiver merchandise We have premium quality t-shirts and mugs which are now available to order The link is in the video description Narciss drain the life out of you as an empath or highly sensitive person You will immediately sense the energy of a person or group of people You will immediately sense the vibe of a room or place Because of this sensitivity you will pick up the negative energy of Narciss or toxic people This will cause you to experience a complex mix of emotions Narciss possess a toxic negative energy It is not something that they have created as energy cannot be created or destroyed Energy can only be transferred or changed from one form to another When you interact with a Narciss this negative energy can be transferred onto you When you are in close proximity of a Narciss Again this negative energy can be transferred onto you Narciss are masters of manipulation So they can disguise this negative energy for a short period of time By orchestrating a display or an illusion of positivity They know how to plan or coordinate the elements of a situation To produce a desired effect So although the Narciss is very negative and toxic For a short period of time they could fool you into believing that they are positive people You may notice this during the love-bombing phase As trusting people we overlook the red flags and try to see the good in them But as time goes by they only get worse Once they have secured you as a source of supply The relationship will move to the devaluation phase And then they will get lazy and no longer put in the work to orchestrate the false display or illusion to fool you You don't even have to be in a relationship with a Narciss to absorb this negative energy Something as simple as an interaction with them or even being in close proximity will be enough to affect you Sexual contact is more than just a physical act Any form of sexual contact will transfer energy to and from you Sexual contact can provide you with energy that will either empower you or drag you down to a level of misery and pain Which would have been previously unimaginable I never really understood how this could affect my energy Until I had sex with an ex-Narcist and suddenly felt as though I just had the life drained out of me This is how dangerous negative energy can be to your emotional and psychological health And this wasn't something that just went away It continued to get worse each day until I then attempted suicide I have looked into this and found that it is normal to experience sadness after sex There isn't much information on this although I would believe that it has something to do with energy, repression or conditioning But even just by being in close proximity or interacting with a Narciss That's enough to exchange energy with them Our energy fields expand far outside of our bodies So just by being in the same room as a Narciss That is enough for their energy to affect you You will notice that it will affect your mood and productivity Everything has an energy We have a choice whether we choose to entertain energies which are positive or negative Narciss choose to entertain negative energy They find amusement or enjoyment in things which are of a negative nature They have an interest in things that are of a low emotional vibrational frequency Anger, desire, fear, grief, apathy, guilt and shame From their desire comes a feeling of being incomplete Which feeds into their pathological envy and jealousy They cannot bear to hold these emotions or reflect on them So they will try to project these emotions onto you Narciss have become familiar with feelings of worthlessness and insignificance Inferiority, dissatisfaction and unfulfillment Emotional abuse and manipulation Devaluation and degradation Humiliation and exploitation Pathological lying and cheating Those are the actions and behaviors that Narciss have become familiar with It has become habitual It has become routine It is something they do constantly So it has become a part of their character and personality It has become a lifestyle It is a way of living for them This is something they engage in daily All of their thoughts and emotions feed into these negative actions and behaviors These actions and behaviors then dominate the Narciss character and personality Their thoughts and emotions feed into this negative energy The negative energy comes from whatever they are consistently thinking or feeling And most often they are thinking or feeling something of a negative nature They are always thinking about something negative Whether towards themselves or someone else This causes them to be out of harmony They are unable to experience any peace, love or joy The negative energy prevents any growth or change Negative energy is like a black hole It sucks them in and then they don't know how to get out of it It starts off with them entertaining negative thoughts and feelings Which then leads to actions and behaviors Which creates an addiction Which creates an addiction and becomes a lifestyle As they interact with other people It can pull them into this negative way of thinking and feeling These thoughts and feelings are very contagious Even positive people can be pulled into this way of being Unless they remove themselves from the situation But if they continue to stay around it And entertain this negative energy They will become a part of it Many people wonder how smear campaigns are formed And how people who once seemed happy or positive Were pulled into this way of acting and behaving I believe this is how smear campaigns develop They entertain the negative energy The negative thoughts and feelings And this then leads to actions and behaviors Which creates an addiction and becomes a lifestyle Negative thoughts become a part of our human energy field So if a person entertains these negative thoughts That is what the person becomes The energy field expands far outside of the human body This is why as an empath or highly sensitive person You are able to immediately sense the energy of a room or place People who entertain negative energy fields And allow the negative thoughts and feelings to become a part of them Will get sucked into it The negative thoughts and feelings will then lead to the actions and behaviors And now they're no different to the narcissist It's not so much about what the narcissist gets sucked into As much as it is what they choose to entertain They entertain thoughts and feelings that are of a consistent nature Whether they are towards themselves or someone else The negative thoughts and feelings change the form of the energy to something negative We naturally move away from pain and towards pleasure This includes Narciss Narciss naturally move away from what they associate with pain And move towards what they associate with pleasure At some point they chose to identify negative actions and behaviors with pleasure Emotional abuse and manipulation Devaluation and degradation Humiliation and exploitation Pathological lying and cheating This became pleasure to them As it allowed them to regulate their sense of worth and their emotions We have a choice of whether we want to entertain positive or negative thoughts About ourselves or other people We have a choice whether we want to look for positive or negative things In a certain situation Whether we are looking for something positive or negative We will find it If you have the thought that you are a lucky person You will then look for evidence that you are a lucky person This will then lead to positive emotions These positive thoughts and emotions will then lead to actions and behaviors Which could could produce positive results That resonate with the original thought The thought that you are a lucky person If this is done consistently Where positive thoughts and emotions are leading to actions and behaviors Which produce positive results It is going to become ingrained into your belief system Which is a set of mutually supportive beliefs What happens with the Narciss Is that they entertain negative thoughts Whether they are about themselves or someone else The Narciss may have a negative thought about you They may think that you are better than them or you hate them These thoughts come from their own self-hatred And from these thoughts They will then look for evidence that you are better than them or that you hate them These negative thoughts then lead to negative emotions These negative thoughts and emotions then lead to actions and behaviors Where the Narciss may project their feelings of worthlessness Or insignificance onto you Through devaluation, degradation, humiliation, exploitation Or some form of manipulation Which will then provoke a negative reaction from you And fulfill the original thought that the Narciss had about you The Narciss's negative thoughts and emotions lead to actions and behaviors Which produce negative results It became a self-fulfilling prophecy It satisfied the original thought that the Narciss had about you And done consistently This will become ingrained into the Narciss's belief system It is a self-fulfilling prophecy Which directly causes itself to become true Due to negative feedback between the Narciss's belief and their behavior And this is what makes this behavior so contagious Among everyone these Narciss come into contact with This is how smear campaigns and things like gangstalking are able to develop Because these types of people are gravitating towards these negative energy fields And entertaining these negative thoughts and emotions Until they continuously change their negative thoughts They will stay in this condition And repeat the same thoughts, emotions, actions and behaviors Again and again and again with no end We think somewhere between 60,000 and 80,000 thoughts a day And as many as 98% of these thoughts are recycled from the day before And every day these Narciss are repeating the same negative thoughts Which keep them stuck in this condition of negativity Affecting everyone that they come into contact with Positive people cannot remain in a healthy state around these types of people The negative energy pulls them down to a lower vibration It produces negative emotions even within people who are once positive For the Narciss to remove this energy They would have to stop doing what they are doing For a consistent amount of time The problem is they don't do this They continue repeating the same thoughts, feelings, actions and behaviors And they even find enjoyment or amusement in doing this Which is what creates the addiction So they remain in this toxic negative state And nothing ever changes Thank you for watching If you would like to remove this negative energy from your energy field Please check out my playlist on healing from a Narciss Abuse The steps which I have listed in those videos will help you to remove this energy I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description Please contact me at narcs5coaching.com You can get your own Narciss Viva t-shirt or mug from our Teekspring page The link is in the video description The t-shirts are of a premium quality Made from 100% Super Soft Premium Cotton And the mugs have a really cool design If you would like to have a Narciss Viva t-shirt or mug of your own just click the link to our Teespring page in the video description. 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