 Turn around reverse and get some every time Sensation Another video if you're new here, my name is Cara do not forget to like comment and subscribe So today we're gonna get into a little TMI Explicit a little dabble into you know a little woman life Okay, before we even get started, please. Please. Please. No, this is a judge-free zone, baby. Okay anything that I answer or You know try to relate to different types of scenarios that happens to me in my life Don't act like it hasn't happened to you sweetie. Okay. Do not act like it hasn't happened to you if it didn't happen to you Don't judge anything that is acts or you know that I answer in this Q&A I really just wanted to make this Q&A because there's not a lot of girls that you know can turn to somebody and Ask them a question and I feel embarrassed or judged. I'm here to tell you right now. I Do not care if you judge me. It is what it is. I'm a girl's girl. I want to talk about it I want to be the resource for the girls out there that just don't have Resources to go to to get answers to these types of questions. You know what I mean? I just wanted to say that before we get started. This is a judge-free zone So keep those little Opinions to yourself. We're just gonna hide right into it. Y'all asked me a whole bunch of questions There's a lot. Let me go to the archives, baby And make sure you follow me on Instagram So if you're new here, you can participate in the next Q&A and let me know of what content y'all want to see in 2022 have you tried a diva reading cup a diva cup or the new overnight disposable panty first I started off using pads when it came to my menstrual cycle and then I grew up and was like, okay I'm I don't want nothing sitting right there for a couple hours. So I'm like, okay. Let's upgrade to the center pond So fast forward to last year. I had a sponsorship with brand called Nixie and I have the little wipe right here Because I have it in right now. So basically it's just this little circle cup and you just put it in You know your home girl and you just push it up there and I posted it on my Instagram They're like, oh my god, how do you like get it out? I literally just grab it with my finger and I don't even feel it I just grab it with my nail and just pull it out doesn't give me any complications I don't leak. I don't feel it and it also helps with cramps. I really don't have any cramps ever since I used it and also it allows me to Have a short period time the pads and stuff carry chemicals in them So when I was introduced to Nixie, I was like, oh my god, I love this and it's not for everybody But I personally like it and I'm never changing to anybody else because at first I'm like Like I was really confused and somebody asked are you more of a giver or receiver? I'm more I like I'm a people pleaser if you did not notice I really take people's feelings into consideration. I You know, I'm a Pisces or whatever. So it's it's about 50 50, but the given I guess is like It's a little more of a 60 40 That's just me though. That's just me though But if you're not giving me nothing then no absolutely not no No, I'm going home after care for after doing the Nixie So I will basically after I get done doing what I'm you know I go to the bathroom and I get a washcloth and I just run it under hot hot water But first I usually normally have to go to the bathroom So I usually take that a little little sprinkle in the toilet. Just wipe myself So yeah, just normal. I don't do I don't use his hand so on On his sink or whatever. I've seen this tic-tac when it was like about to get it on and he smells his hand so on your You know, I was dying laughing cuz I used to do that when I was like 18 I would go in the bathroom first and like make sure I'm like good down there And it would be like that normal like hand soap that you would use at school And that has a potent smell to it like you can you can tell when somebody got that soap on their hands and girl Never I would never do that ever again because you know, I stay fresh and clean always gotta stay on point Especially what I know is when it happened and then it happened it unless I don't want it to Best egg plant you had was from what zodiac sign? Girl that's worries a sore race, okay any tips for hyperpigmentation on the bikini area so a brightening that I do recommend for the bikini area on your Homegirl is the vintage pfb plus chroma bright skin brightening Y'all this is a game changer and I use it on my armpits as well I remember I posted a tic-tac in my armpits. They were like, oh my god. How do you get your armpits? Oh, like Girl this I'll think everything down below that I'm talking about the products that I mentioned in this video And it helps with waxing razor bun to ingrown hairs and it's getting it brightens that you know area just a little ball like this and then you just Go ahead and put it all over, you know the bikini area and it doesn't burn or sting if you have like a fresh Wax or whatever it will sting a little bit, but other than that after that it doesn't so Highly recommend. Do you believe in spraying vaginal perfume to keep fresh or just let Miss Kitty be natural? Let Miss Kitty be natural. I'm really high on Not putting any chemicals down there anything that's gonna imbalance my pH. Absolutely not I'm very careful when it comes to that because no like Absolutely not keep it natural. Do not spray nothing up down there. Don't spray no perfume Don't try and put deodorant down there because dudes do that you can't do that Like I mean you can put it on like the hair part, but please let that be away from the lips. Okay You're a go-to product for your sneaky link. I'm about to go on a date or something I know it's gonna happen. I know like, okay. I'm like we finna get you know to see I'm gonna be feeling it I'm finna, you know, you know go there I make sure I'm like I'm freshly waxed I be shaved. I'm skin is very hydrated my skin is soft I like really like to make sure my skin is soft Especially when it comes to like my legs and stuff because they definitely take notice into that because that's the first thing They touch, you know, I'm saying that's literally the first thing they touch They like too touchy-filly on the legs. They're not going for the arms is they're going for the legs Okay, so I make sure that my legs are You know very smooth and soft smooth and soft for sure and like glowing maybe one day I'll do a get ready with me for the appointment Like the full blown. How do you initiate? You know Without coming up too strong. Well, it depends on the situation It really depends on the situation on what we're doing because if we out having drinks having a good time just to vibe in It's definitely going out y'all at home and chilling and just chilling on the couch And you know that you want to like start doing something, you know You starting to feel yourself without no liquor and I think you just you know You just automatically like sometimes like, you know, get that little hit of like the h-word. Okay, and you just like I might not the ears the goats of the ear the ear or girl like My secret weapon turning a guy on the finger the finger baby the finger it's just Get some But your girl is the finger and where you like having like a cute little day night in which I mean y'all probably cooking or something Just grab this hand and you know and do a slow and sexy or whatever And then also I really do like getting given hand massages I just you know when you have to nail salon those feel good. So after like when I was like Like 20 or something. I'm like, let me get this nigga a hand massage And I just do it all the time ever since and then if we chillin I'm just like but I make sure like before you even come in my house, baby You gotta stop at the sink and wash your hand. Okay, so the fingers are always clean. So make sure He washes his hands because you know dudes always dealing with money and just coming it up and they fingers just be dirty and nasty and just Make sure they clean first up. That's the number one rule today. Make sure the hands are clean Okay, your go-to move in bed. And yeah, I got him with this one You know, what's my go-to move in a bedroom? a Lady never tells no, I'm just kidding. Oh That new song and I'm a Raju like a rodeo, but Rewind get get some every time sensation Give him that give him that good view. Okay, and give him that good view Have you ever faced a orgasm and felt bad after that face emoji? Yes, I have and no I did not feel bad Why would I feel bad? Especially if you paying the bills, I'm gonna add okay as long as the bills are ready and to go down on you We're both new to this and I think since he doesn't really know how to do it It doesn't want to try again. Oh, what I would say is shoes have some fun. Let's Let's watch a movie a certain type of movie. So we can get some lessons on What you need to work on pleasing your partner is something that is Grown people ish, you know, I'm saying it's very grown a young dude wouldn't care you know what I'm saying, but a wrong man who really is in love and really wants to please you and You know, I really want to you know, explore your body in every way possible And you know, he's gonna do whatever it takes to you know get you Yeah If you really like this person You would overlook that a little small Incidentie thing that he can't you know, please your whatever So it's really not that big of a deal to be honest But if it's really a big deal to you and you really feel like you want him to you know Little you know, you want to play yeah, then I would definitely like, you know Have like a polite talk like hey, let's watch movie. Oh That looks good a lot of people are asking there's frequent questions on How to keep homegirl fresh how to have her smelling good how to keep my pH balance A lot of people are asking about BV and stuff like that UTIs. I've never had a UTI But I have had BV no STD though. Okay, so yes I have had BV before and Sometimes it wasn't even because I was sexually active, which is crazy. Like I wasn't even sexually active for like From 2019 to like mid 2020 2020. Yeah, 2020 2019 to 2020. I was not Having intercourse at all. I'm not even doing a nasty. I don't even have anybody So I want this taken out of me, but I will frequently get BV and I'm like why is this happening to me? So I always have to go to the doctor and get those pills for seven days You know, and I'm like why does this keep happening? So I'm like, my Yeah, I had to take a little break because that literally scared me. So I would frequently get BV I wasn't even sexually active like no intercourse I was looking at everything that could imbalance your pH and like tight underwear certain products or whatever Doctor who just wasn't suggesting anything to me. So I'm like there has to be a solution to this There's no way that I am gonna have to keep going to the doctor and getting Medication for this. I was not No, that was that's one thing I don't play about is thank Hummer okay, she is never gonna think okay. I don't like thinking I don't like smelling like you know the sea I just can't take you because I can smell myself like I can smell myself And if you walking around like that and you smell yourself, this is why I'm here, baby Okay, this one here to tell you go get this product now This is a work acid. These are work ass appeals supports order control for most vaginal balance This is good for your vagina. Okay, and these are the applicators fresh little pack I haven't really been using them because I really don't need them when you need it PRN I think that's the initial cause I was in medical Terminology, but this is what I use girl work acid pills. I highly Recommend these all you need to do is take the pill. It's like a literally a pill little Pail like you would swallow it, but you don't swallow it hum growth of it. Not you So the applicator looks like this. It's like a little straw or whatever. So basically you put the Pail right there on the top and then you just Pull back and then push it all the way up and you will use that for seven days If you are experienced any vaginal older and if it doesn't get better after the seven days Girl go to the doctor. This is not just baby. Okay, or it's not something that you know It's just a imbalance pH, you know, and I do go to annual exams for past mirrors and stuff like that for STD So make sure you are getting checked up on those because those are very important. You need to stay on Top of that. But yeah, work acid pills are a game changer I will know when something imbalances her and baby is a normal I know it's hard to talk about with other people because it's like my kuchni It's just bacteria because the half of the time you don't have baby for no reason It's because he doing something he not supposed to be doing. Oh, it's just so bad out here Please be safe out here because you just never know what is going on Invest in work acid pills. Like I said y'all everything will be linked down below I'm gonna add this to my Amazon store and this is nothing to be ashamed about We just keeping the homegirl fresh and healthy and balanced So somebody asked should we ladies be dating and having protective? Then I see no relationships. Just having fun Absolutely, let's make sure you use Protection what do you do to keep your homegirl looking pretty like you do you get that's just badge facials I got a badge facial one time. It was like a jelly mass and I liked it. It really left my homegirl Really nice smooth Soft and you know, I was really feeling it and it didn't imbalanced my picture nothing cuz literally just the top art I really liked it. It was nice. I really appreciated her a lot of y'all are asking about backdoor So listen, I don't do that the most thing I ever do was what future what future say I would never Do that if you do it Teach your zone. See you don't see baby. Okay, and I'm not judging you. No, I'm not doing that at all period No, no, no, no, no No, so don't ask me and if you're asking me. I'm gonna be like, why are you here? I don't think you like me somebody asked me have I ever cheated um I Only you know stepped out or whatever is when I found out, you know, and it is always doing something but I stepped out or whatever when I found out this person was talking to the same girl multiple times over and over but it wasn't like I was Going outside all the time. It was this I already knew this person and you know We got along really well, but we never like, you know to get there I would just as far as like the cheating I would talk to them as a comfort because this Dude over here ain't doing what he's supposed to be doing So I'm gonna go over here have a little conversation Try to give up my mind off it. You know, we wasn't doing nothing We was just talking chilling with me and him like finally for real for a broken off then I Wouldn't that way So, yeah, um, I Cheated as yes as I really don't consider it cheating because I didn't really have intercourse How this dude was doing whatever he wanted to do. So why can I he got caught? I'm about to go do my own thing then so somebody asked What's the nice way to tell your friend to stop being a hoe? I'm gonna let them like as your friend. You should just be a supportive friend period You shouldn't judge her and if you have a problem with her being, you know HOE Why do you want to be friends with her then if that's a problem for you? I don't think it should be a problem for you because that's her business And if she wants to go to that let her go do it People should be able to do what they want to do without Having anybody judge them Especially their friend Okay, so a lot of y'all are asking do I use honey pop? No, I don't cuz I had a very bad reaction to it and balance my ph girl and no, I would never you know I just can't my like I told y'all before my Homegirl is very sensitive. So what I use is I'll use a hot rag put it under hot water And I'll just use some dub soap and that's about it not even going in there. It just goes around there But on my actual like homegirl, um, I'll only use hot water and that's it So when I really want to get my homegirl like clean clean like clean clean like it's like a just a water douche Like this is the water coming down and then this is my body and this is like me This is me so I'm just spreading you know open and I just Let her get clean How many times a day should the badge be washed twice for sure morning and at night and I also don't use Tissue I use baby wipes when I use the bath somebody said a babe position CEO baby And I'm all right you like a Romeo. Hey Do you have a pro by that probiotic in your daily vitamin regimen? If so, which one do you use? Yes, I use the one by hum Let me go grab it. Well, these are my probiotics that I use that these are the hum Private parties supports vaginal and urinary tract health. I really love hum vitamins Um, I take their daily cleanse which helps the skin as well. So yeah, if you're not new here You already know x how do you feel about doing the nasty on the first day? I did it recently and I don't know how to feel I feel like Have I done that before? No Y'all just been talking for a while and y'all just recently got up with each other It's no judging like if it happens it happens, you know, go with the vibes go with the flow You only live once just make sure you use protection. You cannot slip up on that No, you can't slip up And some of these couples out here will have stories where they you know Did it on the first day and you know, they're happily married Like you just never know like I said just go with the vibes Don't feel bad about it at all. Somebody asked how can I keep it spicy in the bedroom with my boyfriend? I don't want him to get bored. Um, I would definitely take it outside the bedroom do it Wherever you feel just be spontaneous with it the most embarrassing experience if this video gets to 10,000 likes I will share that experience in the next one Because it's just too I don't know. It's just too much Somebody asks, have you ever a Cat do you like it? No, I haven't I have not had any experience with Another girl at all thoughts on threesome while in a relationship I feel like I would be scared to do it. I'm not gonna lie. I I mean If I really trust my partner that he ain't gonna You know do something without me Then I don't know maybe maybe maybe but as of right now I don't think I would be comfortable enough to Do that. Oh, it's just so much stuff going on and I'm not trying to hook up with no random girl For one night just for some spontaneous thing I have to like know this person maybe maybe not I don't know But I have to know their status like I gotta know their status like because A lot of y'all are asking me like what's my Um, the appointment must have so I think I'm gonna do a the appointment Get ready with me. So like a whole detailed video On how I get prepared when I know it's gonna happen And it's definitely routine because I definitely want to you know, smell good and feel nice sexy Somebody's acting have I ever used uh a toy? And honestly y'all No, I'd never use a toy ever ever But I've heard it is he gets crazy. How long should you wait to get the hunger look? Again, it really depends on the vibes because you could be feeling this person He could be putting so much effort And you know, you can hold out for however long you want to like I said It really depends on the vibes because you're not gonna give it up already to somebody who Isn't doing anything for you or isn't showing any effort or isn't you know making it clear that they want to You know be with you But sometimes some things don't even be that serious and if you feel like you want to just you know Get it on get on with him. You know, like I said, it's just the vibes I would definitely just go out by because I'm an energy person but if I feel like you put in so much effort And you know, we've been talking for a little meanie then. Yeah, maybe maybe maybe baby Okay, would you move him with a man before he puts a ring on it? I'm confused right now Absolutely because what if you marry this person and move him with them and you don't like how they live Because some dudes just be so nasty and it's just not something I want to tolerate Okay, so the last question to stop this video Um, somebody asked where was the craziest place I ever like done it and we was just shopping He was taking me shopping. Actually, he was spoiling me y'all. He was paying my bills and everything So I'm like, okay. Let me let me just do something spontaneous. Um, I forgot how it was fitting room And yeah, it didn't last long So, but yeah, that was it was a long time ago. Never again, though I would never do it in any way that damn ugly. So anyways y'all that wraps up this video I hope you guys enjoyed do not forget to like comment and subscribe and don't forget to pop up on your instagram And I am gonna put together a final giveaway. So if you are Made it this far in the video. Just know that a huge giveaway is coming and I can't wait to Show y'all what it is. I'm just putting together But it's going to be inside and then I'm going to have rules and stuff So, yeah, that's probably gonna be the last giveaway for a little minute because I've really been given to y'all But I appreciate y'all so much like always so So yeah, girl, that is it and I will see y'all in the next one