 Long distance relationships are difficult. Let's be real here. 40% of long distance relationships end in breakup. And most long distance relationships don't even last for five months. So how can you create one that's amazing, one where your man misses you and wants to be with you and wants to talk to you again? Today I'm gonna be talking about that. I'm gonna give you the biggest reason why men don't end up feeling like they miss you in a long distance relationship and what you should be doing to make sure that he does. My name is Matthew Coast and welcome to Commitment Connection. What's the number one reason why a guy doesn't miss a woman in a long distance relationship? The number one reason is because when you're around him or when you spend time around him, you're not all that interesting to him, right? You don't leave a great impression. And that's usually what the problem is. I get women all the time, they're like, oh, well, out of sight, out of mind, right? Like if I'm not there, then he's not gonna be thinking of me. Well, that's only true if you're really boring. And when he's around you or he thinks of you, it's not exciting, it's not fun, it's not something where he looks forward to talking to you again. And that's what you want. And so how do you do that? How do you create this? Now, I know that might have sounded a little harsh, but that's the reality of it, right? If you see somebody and you're excited about them and you have a great time and they are gone, all of a sudden you think, oh, I'd love to hang out with that person again. I'd love to spend more time with that person again. But if you're not thinking that is because when they were around, it wasn't that great. So what can you do? There's something that I call connection cycling and it's a really powerful method to connect with a guy. And you can do this whether you're in a long distance relationship or not, but if you are in one, it's a really powerful way if you want him to miss you to connect with them. And so it's got four steps. The first one is connection. The second one is shared positive emotional experiences. The third one is distancing. And then the fourth one is just repeating it over and over again, which is why it's connection cycling. Cause you're cycling this positive emotional connection that you have with them.