 Yes, with children, I would say that the most important thing that you can realize and this will help you with all of your mind training is that every relationship that seems to be a relationship of this world is like a mirror or a reflection. So in one sense first there should be this feeling of immense gratitude for these mirrors we'll call them that are children because they're just acting it out just like kids like to play act and they like to act and play mom and dad and and and play store and and You know play acts of vocation and everything like this. They they are mirroring back everything that you think and everything that you believe and In that sense, they're doing a great service. So there should be an underlying sense of gratitude for that We've talked a little bit when you and I've talked to about how it's a tendency in this world when you when you've gone through Extreme kind of traumas, you know, we could call it, you know Abandonment or all the different things to want the best for your children, you know to to make sure that they never have to be subjected to that kind of thing and It's it's still kind of as if that they're like these autonomous beings with minds of their own and and Willows of their own and so on and so forth and you don't want them to be tainted by these worldly experiences When really underneath we start to see that the world is not outside of our consciousness at all we just drew forth all the Interpretations of the script the interpretations of the circumstances and situations based on our belief system So if we believe in an abandonment even if it's of course a very buried unconscious belief then we will Perceive scenes of abandonment if we believe it in rejection. We will perceive scenes that we interpret as rejection You know the world is just a an outward picture of an inward condition And so while we still have a sense of lack and and emptiness and disharmony and Loneliness and shame and guilt on the inside then the world just Does its job and just outpictures them for us and in that in one sense it's good because Because we really do need to get in touch with what we've pushed out of awareness and that the world gives us that opportunity so I think with children you can find that Whenever there's a desire to protect them which can seem like a very natural Parenting desire to protect a child just like in nature You know even muskrats, you know protect their their offspring and so forth that all of nature and everything is still all a Projection from the ego so all the protectionism that's involved in those kind of relationships is still part of of the same ego belief system But as you start to practice everything in terms of your own mind training and you start to be clear of this unconscious darkness and guilt then you know the law of attraction kicks in or The law of witnessing kicks in and you keep drawing forth these witnesses to your own healing and in that sense children can be very much a part of that that The love that you wish for them you find within yourself and then extend and radiate that and then they reflect it back and It's really a that's a joyful use of children and family to to go through that deep transformation for most people they They don't really see a lot of reflections in their biological family of some of these deep insights and truths Usually it's the opposite. They have a lot of doubt thoughts Reflected and so it's you really have to go on that journey to find it in yourself and Glory, hallelujah when you do it it everything turns around all of the reflections in your whole world Turn around and reflect that love back to you but In terms of of being very very practical It's not like you can set up like the perfect environment but you can work on lessening the sense of control lessening the sense of Superiority the sense of judgment within your own mind within your own consciousness and they will receive the immediate blessings from that One time I was in South America and I was down in Argentina I was off in the rural areas and I was working with a group of Women who were course of miracles students and they they all the whole group had young children and They said oh, we are so grateful for what the little small children are teaching us They are like our teachers and I said can you summarize the teaching of the small children? You know for me to share with the whole world And they said it came through in Spanish But basically the English interpretation of of the great lesson that the children had for the paint for these mothers was you're done It was really short and sweet you're done I said can you explain a little more and they said well This game of superior and inferior is over We're here to teach it. We're gonna do a good job Teaching this, you know it is done, you know just because you have a bigger body Or a bigger brain or have read more books or whatever Cannot obscure our perfect equality and that that's the only lesson That there is To for this world is the only one lesson is perfect equality. So it was you're done It was like resigned now from from this arrogant position That you feel like you are over us in some way and So I really have enjoyed sharing that as I've traveled around as well because that is a is an extremely important lesson that lesson of perfect equality and It's not so much that you can control the environment for people or for children But it's more like the environment of your consciousness You do pay much more attention to that Then you did before you know you really are watching your emotions. You're watching your your feelings You're watching your thoughts You're paying much closer attention, and that's a good thing too. That's just part of a natural Attentiveness that's required for this mind training