 When a narcissist hits on you when they ask you out on a date When they show romantic or sexual interest in you, they might try to get your attention or interest They might give you praise or compliments and This could be quite flattering to you. We all like positive attention We all want to feel and feel admired But there is a big difference between being attended to and admired by a regular person and a narcissist When a narcissist hits on you It's only because they see you as something impressive or attractive They only see the outer shell It doesn't go any deeper than that But with a regular person They will be more curious about you They will be asking questions They will be eager to know more about you Because their standards or expectations are more than something superficial They're more than something existing on the surface But all the narcissist really wants Is something that looks good and makes them look good They don't care about anything else It's all about their image or reputation That's all that really matters to them There is nothing flattering About being hit on by a narcissist It's the same thing as someone renting a luxury car for the weekend They like the car. It looks good It's fast It's powerful and when they take it out They have a lot of fun with it It makes them feel good about themselves But they don't really care about that car They don't really respect it They love what it can do for them They love how it makes them look good They love how it makes them feel But once they've had their fun It's over And when they return the car It's never in the same condition As when they picked it up By the time they're finished with it It's probably got all kinds of damage There's probably loads of rubbish left inside it Maybe it's out of fuel But the narcissist doesn't care about any of that They were looking for something temporary They were looking for something That they could use for a few days Without any worries or consequences Something to make them feel better about themselves And when they're done They leave it for someone else To pick up the pieces And it's the same thing when you deal with these narcissists They don't care about you They don't respect you And when they hit on you It really has nothing to do with you It's just this fantasy That they've created in their own minds Of what they think you are And of what you're going to do for them And how you're going to make them feel It has nothing to do with Giving you the proper care And respect that you deserve You won't get that from a narcissist Because it's all about them They don't come into your life to give you anything They're only there because they're deficient in something And they want to take something from you They just want to use you for their own selfish desires or needs And when you accept their advances They don't see it as though you're on the same page They just see you as another fool That has fallen for their manipulative game They just see you as another fool That they're going to take advantage of And then dispose of Whenever you start to realise what's really happening When a narcissist hits on you It's not because they care for you or respect you It's not because they want to take you out or treat you right It's all about them And what they think they're going to get out of it They might like what they see They might find you attractive But they don't know how to treat you They wouldn't know how to deal with a respectable man or woman They wouldn't know how to give you the proper care and attention that you deserve They wouldn't know how to treat you right And they have no desire to learn how you want to be treated Because it's all about them It's all about what they take from you You won't find anything good from dealing with these narcissists All they're going to do is take everything from you Without giving you anything in return And then they're just going to leave you broken and confused Wondering what just happened So when a narcissist hits on you Don't let yourself become another one of their fools Don't let them trick or deceive you Respect yourself enough To walk away and realise that you deserve better Respect yourself enough To realise that you deserve someone who knows what you want Someone who knows how you deserve to be treated And then you will find yourself Involved in something that is mutually beneficial Where there is an equal exchange Thank you for watching I hope this video has a note of you Please like, comment, share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications For more videos If you would like to donate My paypal link is in the video description Coaching and Choirs, you can email me at Thanks for watching and I'll talk to you soon