 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're going to be talking about how to be irresistible to men three traits of an attractive woman so This is something that I like to call the goddess formula because it's really the big picture of how to be Incredibly attractive to men that most most people don't really talk about and It's kind of the holistic view of it. It's everything that you need to know so The way that I kind of want to illustrate this is is I want you to Imagine that you're meeting a guy Maybe you're meeting him at a coffee shop or on a hike or at a bar or wherever it is that You want to meet guys or you do meet guys? and so the first kind of thing that comes up is He's going to start talking to you and a lot of the ways that he thinks and what his beliefs are are going to come out right and Which of these do you think would be more attractive if a guy? has beliefs that Say that all women are stupid or that all women are liars and all women are cheaters and he thinks that you're going to be a cheater or a Guy who likes all women a guy that thinks that you're someone in that women are people who deserve respect Which one would be more attractive to you? I get a lot of women who come to me and they You know, they think that all men are liars and cheaters and then they go, you know why am I having problems with men and The kind of the first trait of the attractive woman is having attractive beliefs And so my question for you is what are your beliefs and are they attractive to men or are they pushing men away? And so the second part of this is, you know Going back to this imaginary scenario of meeting a guy You know think about what it is that he says and that he does You know, would you rather have a man who's really insecure and is constantly seeking your approval? Or would you rather have a man who's confident in himself and has his own thoughts and ideas? And he knows how to talk to you in the right way And so the second trait of the highly attractive woman is having Attractive behaviors, you know the things that you say and that you do can either be really attractive and Make you irresistible to a man or they can push a man away and Make him think that you're not really the type of woman that he wants to be around or be with a long-term Committed relationship, which is what we're talking about here So are your behaviors attractive to men or do they push men away? And so the third part is The way that he lives his life and would you rather have a man who has Nothing going on in his life and it's just sitting around waiting for a woman to show up so that he can cling on to her and You know that make his entire life about her or would you rather have a man who has an exciting life an interesting life? Maybe he's traveling and maybe he you know Maybe he's got a lot of cool things going on who knows what it is and so The third part of this is lifestyle, you know Do you have a lifestyle that is attractive to men or do you have a lifestyle that pushes men away? And so a woman whose beliefs Behaviors and lifestyle are all in alignment with being attractive to men That type of woman is an irresistible woman It's the kind of woman that all men want in their lives. And so my question is how are your beliefs behaviors and Lifestyle are they either are they pushing men away or are they attracting men to you? So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon