 This is why the Narcissist is about to come back. The Narcissist devalued the discarded you. They left you because they thought they got all that you had to give, all that you had to offer. They thought they had a fair deal, a fair exchange and that was it for you. You were all done, you were finished, you were all washed up and then they thought that they could just move on and forget about you. But then you started to move on, you were occupied with something, you were distracted, you were working, your mind was not on them and then that is when they can sense that your energy is slipping away from them. They can sense that your attention and focus is on something else other than them and they really don't like it when that happens because then that tells them that there is so much more to you than what they believe which tells them that it's unfair. It tells them they got a bad deal, they didn't get as much as they should have or could have and then it makes them want to come back, it makes them want to be involved with you to be a part of your life again because they sense that there is so much more to give, they realize it and they want a piece of that, they want to get in on the action. Remember Narcissus is very arrogant and entitled, they always feel like if there's something about you they've got to have it, they've got to be involved, they can't be left out but also they have these insatiable desires that cannot be satisfied so it doesn't matter how much of your time, effort, energy, money or resources you give to them they're never going to be satisfied, they're always going to want more even if it's just the manipulation, the brainwashing and the abuse no matter what they've done to you already it's never enough and of course the reason why is because as an empath you never give up, you keep fighting, you keep coming back and of course we all know the reason why it's because you want to raise the, almost fell down then, it's with slippery on these rocks but yes you want to raise the vibrations on this planet, you want to make everyone happy even though it's often at your expense, you want to do all of these things for people, you want to save them, you want to rescue them, you just want them to feel happy, you want them to get what they need so of course you're never going to stop fighting, you're going to keep coming back and of course they're going to recognize it when you do that and they're going to feel like they had a bad deal, they didn't get as much they could have gotten from you because now you've replenished yourself, you've come back stronger, you're working harder, if you're making more money you've got a lot more things going on in your life and they always feel like they're missing out, they always feel like they're fishing in something so of course they're going to want to come back and have a piece of that, of course they're going to want to be involved with you again but this is the only reason why it's to take more from you or to destroy whatever it is that you've felt since they were gone because they have nothing to give and you can go to them, you can wait around for them forever but you're never going to come around them and feel replenished the only thing that really takes away from you and makes you feel deficient when secure because you're an empath it's the opposite of a narcissist, it's when you feel like you can't help them, when you feel like you can't provide it with assistance, when you think they're completely bad, evil, wrong and I'm not saying that they're not I'm just saying that when you have these thoughts you feel like you're being defeated, that's how they manage to take your energy away from you because then you feel completely hopeless and helpless, you feel like there's nothing you can do to make things better, to make them happy, to make them satisfied and fulfilled and yes the reality is that there is nothing you can do to satisfy them or make them happy they are always going to be that way but that doesn't have to become your reality to where you're becoming insecure you're feeling deficient, you're feeling like there's nothing that you can do to change this situation because this is all coming from your mind, you have to change the way you think about things, you have to reframe it and when you reframe it everything becomes a lot easier and if they come back you can give them a little something hand out a little bit of energy even though deep down you already know the crumbs do not taste as good as the loaf what they're getting from you is in fact always a bad deal because you already know yourself it's a much better situation for them if they do decide to stick around which of course is something they're never going to do because they're very arrogant and delusional once they get a little piece of you they run with it but they think of that all that there is they think they got it all they've got one over on you it's unfair for you know you're in a bad place but actually as we all know as you know about yourself there is so much more to you than what they even know so it's like no matter how much they take from you no matter how much they manage to slither away with you already know that it's still a bad deal for them and it would have been a lot better for them if they worked with you if they stuck around if they reciprocated they did all of these things for you you already know that that would have been a much better situation for them and this is ingrained in your mind as well because many of you are connected to a higher power or god or the universe and you already know that when people do bad things it's not going to lead them to a good place in this life or the next you already know that it's going to come back to them they're going to get their karma for everything that they did but you feel bad for them and in a way you're trying to help them by resisting them by walking away when what you need to do is to stop and recognize that if someone wants to suit an outcome or results and there isn't anything that you think you can change it as out of your control you just kind of have to let them have it you just have to turn it around and say not openly but do yourself in your minds you need to say that in fact this is not a hopeless situation and in fact if you want it if you desire it yes i can be everything you need i can give you what you want i can make you happy even if you do want to settle for the crumbs rather than the loaf rather than the whole package you want to settle for less than what i could really give to you that matters your choice i can't decide that for you but it's okay i accept it if that is what you want and yes this is exactly how you have to think when you are dealing with these narcissists to protect your boundaries and your energy of course if it goes too far and it starts to become a danger or a risk to you then you have to draw the line you have to tell them what you will or will not tolerate but as long as they're out of distance then this is the game you have to play because they're always playing a game with you they can't be themselves they can't reflect on themselves they have too much shame but yes this is why they will come back because they have this epiphany they're starting to realize that there is a lot more to you than what they initially believed so they want to come back and pick that bomb you or destroy it and when they come back and they're trying to get your energy your attention you don't have to completely hold them off if they are persistent and they're not leaving you alone you can just give them a little bit because a little is a lot to them they will think that it's so much more than what it is and they will run with it they will think they got one over on you they got a good deal a fair exchange you can just let them have that and go if that will help them to leave you alone sometimes it does help just to let go of the resistance so that you can maintain your energy your vibe yes sometimes it does help you to do that but of course let's calm down again this is not really the safest place for me to stand but i thought it would be a beautiful scene for this video but yes of course if something is becoming a risk to you a danger where you may be harmed you may be placed in an unfavorable situation of course you've got to put boundaries in place then they're coming and they're really getting in your space and they're becoming a problem for you these types of things of course you have to draw the line tolerate that but other things where it's just they're trying to extract energy from you your attention and deep down you know you don't really want to you don't really want to be around them you value yourself more you value your time you value your and you're just different values all together you're about something else something more positive and oblivion something more beneficial for yourself if you go around you and maybe even the entire community as a whole well you know that they're not about that they're about more reckless and destructive things but as long as you don't have to get too involved and especially in situations where they and it's persistent, evasive and they're developing an obsession and then healthy attachment to you and they're trying to trauma bond you to them and make you dependent on them in those situations all you've got to do is just give them a little bit of your time energy attention and focus let them have it and then reaffirm to yourself yes i can be of service to you i can help you i can provide you with assistance and here it is here you go take it a little bit of my time a little bit of my energy that's what you want that's what you've got done finished now you can go and then you can focus the rest of your time and energy on yourself and what matters to you so that's really all you have to do when they do try to come back and just this will help you to protect your energy reserves which of course are meant to help sustain you your your body your mass so that's all you've got to do people want to know where i am in the live chat js if you would tell us where you are that would help i'm actually at one of my favorite beaches here i can't tell you where exactly but it is somewhere in southeast or south central asia it's a lot better than this on a sunny day as you may have seen before in my posts and instagram although because i managed to get signal so it's amazing amazing that i managed to get it this time but yes this is it this is what you have to do when they come back because otherwise you're going to find yourself giving them permission to take control of your mind and soul to erase your co-identity and the only reason that's possible is because you're trying to protect and defend yourself so much and of course what resists persists it's like you've got all of the treasure you've got all of the gold you've got all of the the goodies inside of you and yes these narcissists they are very persistent very desperate very needy and they just want a little piece of art they want a bit of the action they feel like they're missing out so they've got to get involved and it's like you're holding on to it and you're running away and you won't even give them a give them a little piece of it so they become obsessive they become stalkers they won't leave you alone and you feel that it's eating away at you you feel like now the roles are reversing and it's like you're becoming more narcissistic you're trying to run away and you may feel like you're becoming more selfish or you may not feel like that but you're resisting it you're pushing it away and they're just coming after you your resistance is causing them to persist because they just want a piece of it so to resolve that and to maintain that separation that boundary between you and them where you can let them be them and you can be yourself for that to happen you just have to give them a little bit remember a little is a lot for them they are very insecure they have very low self-worth and self-esteem so you give them a little bit of your attention your energy and they will be quite satisfying with that a little is a lot to them it really is and by doing that you will be able to maintain your power your sense of identity your sanity you will be able to maintain all of that the problem is when you get enmeshed with them when you're constantly withholding you're holding back and they become obsessive they become stalkers they're constantly hunting hunting you down and then they're taking bits and pieces of yourself away from you and then by the end of it you don't even know who you are you don't even know what you value or believe in and that's because they're just taking these parts away from you and the entire time you're resistant them you value yourself more so you don't even want to be involved with them even though what no matter what they may try and trick you into believing they can brainwash you but deep down you do value yourself more you actually want nothing to do with them whatsoever and that is revealed by your resistance but then that resistance can often turn into an obsessive attachment where you then experience this pathological loneliness and because they gave you nothing you gave them everything you had no reciprocation now you feel like you're desiring something from them because you can't validate yourself it's like you have no self left to validate because they took it all they took all of your energy so if you can't give anything to yourself because now you're completely depleted of course you're going to be longing and yearning for them to come back and to give you something but of course they're always going to let you down because they actually have nothing to give everything it looks like they've got they actually got that from you so yes it is very important to draw that line maintain that boundary of self which separates you from them and contrary to what some people might believe that doesn't mean just running away and leaving them alone and just not focusing on them at all because that's exactly what they're going to do is as soon as you try to find some time some space to focus on yourself and it could just be as soon as you do that they will immediately sense your energy is going somewhere other than to them and that's not going to feel good for them at all they're not going to like that one bit because they are very selfish and greedy so yes that's why it helps just to give them a little bit a little bit of your time energy effort and focus because when you give them that then they'll feel planished in that moment they'll give them that little two second high that they need that little bit of supply I mean of course it's not going to be good for them in the long run just that little bit it's just puts them into this addiction this trauma bond for them but they're just going around seeking little bits from different people and what they actually need is a lot more something more sustainable but of course they do have to rely on the false character and the manipulation so they do have to settle for what they can get there's only so much that you can get with the false character and an illusion you can't get something sustainable or long-term not in the way that they want anyway which is why it's all about just coming around to you and just as quickly as possible getting what they want and then just leaving you alone until they realize you're distracted by something else something better something more and you're not worried about them you feel like you've got what you want what you need and then they start getting jealous they feel like they're missing out then they've got to come back they feel like they had a bad deal a fair exchange so now they've got to come back to you and steal that from you because they're never happy with anything they have no matter what they have it's never good good enough for them they always want more they're always dissatisfied it doesn't matter even if they robbed you of your entire life even if they took years of your life away from you as long as you come back and you keep fighting you never give up they're always going to know there's something more they're always going to know that and of course there isn't anything more for them they're already at the peak that they're at the finish line and yeah they're at the end of the rainbow and there is no pot of gold for them so of course they're disappointed that they're satisfied and they're just looking around to see who can sustain them who can give them this fuel this energy that they need and yeah they were starved in childhoods of the attention that they craved and needed which every child needs from their parents so they ran around looking for that their entire lives and deep down they do know that they are unlovable they know that you're never going to love them you're only going to love the false character and that's just going to irritate them even more because it just reminds them that they're not enough as they actually are they have to hide it so yeah all they can do is just settle for the crumbs that you're willing to give or that they can steal from you in the moment they'll never get anything sustainable anything of actual real significant value which all of you do have if you found my videos you've got an abundance of that you've got tons of it and i really don't know if they can even see it a lot of them they may not really recognize your potential in the beginning they tend to only see the finished product they see what you have so they take that and they're looking at it as though that's all there is they've got it you've lost it and then you replenish yourself you come back then they start feeling jealous again they're missing out they want to take that from you doesn't matter if it's yours if you created it you generated it they're very arrogant and entitled if they could they would probably take your own body and mind away from you or they just operate you by remote or just control you like a puppet and they're the puppet master but yes this is just what they have to do and it is very sad it really is when you see them they're always popping up trying to grab your attention the very attention seeking because that's all they really want is your attention while us empaths all we may really want is to have some time alone to give attention to ourselves but not only that of course since we are empaths we do desire to help save and rescue other people of course we desire to do that but we often pull away and resist our own narcissist who engage in such bad and evil behavior we feel like they're just this lost cause there's nothing we can do to help them so we often resist and we just want to get away which makes them persist they become obsessive stalkers they won't leave us alone when you just have to sense it and recognize it become aware of it ask yourself what does this person want what are they trying to get from me and then just give them a little bit of it a little bit of your energy attention and focus a little bit of your time and effort even if it's just for a moment it will keep them at bay they will leave you alone i'm not saying that they won't come back again of course it depends on the narcissist that you were dealing with but yes that's really all you've got to do but also don't stick around them for too long because they are very selfish and greedy they have nothing to give or reciprocate they can't replenish you so the longer you spend around them the more depleted you will feel and then of course that will get you locked in the trauma bond where then because you can't replenish yourself they've taken all your energy now you're looking at them and wondering what can you give to me and in some situations you may be on your knees pleading and begging to them just to help you when the reality is that you had the tools all along it's just that they took it from you and they took it from you because you resisted the entire time that's how they were able to do that or it's because you spent too much time around them i mean even if you don't resist and you just hand it over to them everything you've got of course at some point you're going to burn out you're going to get depleted and you're the one who's going to struggle you're going to be left with the short end of the stick because we do have a limited capacity of what we can provide to other people we all need to spend time by ourselves at some times to replenish ourselves our own energy but of course narcissists do not have a limited capacity for what they can take and withhold from you anything that goes into them it's like a cup with a leak a hole at the bottom it doesn't matter how much you pour into them it will just leak out and they'll still be left feeling dissatisfied so it will never be enough for them they will never sustain them it will never make them happy they will always want more it will always be more and all you've just got to do is just give them a little bit and then walk away don't try to explain it don't try to make sense of it a lot of things they do yes it will make any sense to you because you're not crazy you're not delusional you're in a same state of mind so of course it is going to confuse you and that's what they're trying to do a lot of times when they gaslight you they're trying to get supply so just don't even try to make any sense out of it just leave it alone and walk away that's all you need to do and yeah that's all it really is they just want you to validate their false character and the illusion that's all that it comes down to that's all they really want and that's all that they will ever want from someone like you at least because as an empath they come around us they know they don't belong with us they know we're never going to accept them they know we're going to figure them out at some point so by default all they can do is come around us and take what they can get like a mouse coming out of the hole in a wall taking a little bit of cheese and then running back they're not going to stick around you because of course they know they understand reciprocation you're going to accept something back in return and they're not going to be able to give that to you so that's the only way that it can be and they will run off and find someone who is just like them someone who lacks self-love and self-worth someone who they can manipulate and control because at some point they realize they can't do that with you all they can do is come around you and take or destroy so yes that's really it that is how you can manage them when they're coming after you when they won't leave you alone just give them a little bit of what they need i know they downplay you they make you doubt your worth and you feel like you have to give everything to them you'd be surprised at what they are willing to settle for they will settle for little pieces of love and attention little pieces of what you have to give that's good enough for them it really is and if they're happy with that that's fine and then you can keep the rest for yourself to replenish you and then to come back harder and stronger than ever before while keeping it on the down low at the same time because yes it will shock them but yeah what a brilliant design you can just give them a little bit keep the rest to yourself or share it with someone who will be able to receive it and appreciate it which is typically what i do when i see these narcissists when i'm out when i'm going to places of course i come across narcissists all the time and sometimes i resist and i can see they persist even more so i just give them a little bit a little bit of my energy my effort my attention i let them have a little bit of that and yeah they seem to be okay with it they seem to be fine it's either that or they recognize they can't really get anymore i mean a lot of them have this rapist mentality where they don't want you to willingly hand it over to them they want to force it out of you they want to pull it out of you against your will because that is what they get off on they get off on non-consensual engagement that's what they enjoy that's what gratifies them that's what really turns them on but of course for for us that is disturbing traumatic it is sick we don't like that at all we like it when the other person can willingly consent and agree to it and you know that they're on the same page they're on the same frequency you don't have to pull them out to it and pull them on to whatever level you're on because of course the only thing that can happen when you're around them you're going to go down you're never going to go up you're going to go down so naturally you will fight it you will resist it those of you you we all have an ego of course many of us have a sense of pride based on our accomplishments i know i do we have self-worth self-esteem this value for ourselves we practice self-love and self-care and of course sometimes you don't want to let that go you don't just want to drop all of that and just throw away your boundaries you don't want to do that all of the time and i understand but it is often that resistance that ends up depleting you and making you feel like less and less of yourself and it even makes you more susceptible to them ablation and brainwashing so yeah that's what i advise to do when you're dealing with these persistent and pervasive narcissists who won't leave you alone otherwise if they're not so desperate and needy you could just set that boundary straight away just tell them i'm not interested i don't want anything to do with you just leave me alone but also it can be best to let them down gently don't be too hard on them because it will cause an injury and then they might get mad it might just give them even more of a reason to come after you so be empathetic compassionate and understanding yes they do have a disorder yes they did experience a lot of childhood trauma yes they do kind of want you to be their parent their caretaker their nanny they want you to assist and take care of them they want you to soothe them so yeah even with those types of narcissists who they may tend to have a bit more emotional intelligence even then just let them down gently but make it clear to them that it is over you're not interested and then hopefully those types of narcissists will just leave you alone they will just go away so yes that's my advice i hope it was helpful for you if it was as always you can show your support down below by giving this video a thumbs up and as always let me know your thoughts in the comment section i do read your comments every day and i will talk to you in another video very soon