 Do you know who I am? You might need a theme song for your shit. Jump us out. Turn it right. Watch it. See Ben. Jackthriller.com. We creep in. Snoop Dogg to the left. Jackthriller to the right. Jackthriller.com. Through it all night. Hit the website. Hit us up real quick. If you're trying to get hooked up with a past supercatch. Hey, Cody! All right. And we back new Jackthriller City, man. Hey, I gotta go ahead and introduce my co-host today, man. Hey, Cousin Committee is in the back. You know, the guy they called formally known as Little Playboy. Give it up for Playboy. Yo, yo, yo. What up? What up? What up? All right. All right. Okay. Right on the Cousin Committee. Come on. This is my other cousin. Give it up for YBT. Yo, yo, yo. YBT. Come on now. And then, oh, hey. The Queen of Comedy. The Queen of Comedy. Here's to you guys. Here's a big hand for Eric Caduchess. And show me the money. G.G. McGuire is in the back. Hey, one of my childhood crushes to hit a day, man. You know what I'm saying? I asked my cousin to go ahead and get her on the show and everything. You know, I couldn't believe he made it happen for me. And it came to believe we was on the phone together talking about shit. I used to listen to all her songs. I love her name. I love her voice. You know what I'm saying? That body is banging from head to toe. Whoo, she like Dr. Pepper. Y'all know how much I love Dr. Pepper. Playboy. Yo, yo, yo. Yo, who we got in the building today? We got, we got, we got Ms. 22, Ms. Unhemboody from the South Town to the A-Town, CEO of the Ratchet Rehearsal, Zay-Town Global A&R, my best friend, my home girl, one of my day one partners, man. Hey, Cocoa Kiss in the motherfucking building. Hi. Hi, my, my, my. Cocoa Kiss, damn. Thank you, that was an introductory. Oh, come on, man, it's shit. It's Fit for a Queen, Fit for a Queen. Hey, right off the top, you got one of the coolest names in the world. Thank you. You know, I know you, you, people didn't answer this question before, but you ain't did it on my platform. Man, how you get Cocoa Kiss? Okay, so that, that goes way. I like Cocoa Kissing. Thank you. It goes way back into my childhood. Like before I was born, my sisters always talked about how I used to be in my mom's stomach kicking. And then when I came out, my mom called me Cocoa because I was like her Cocoa baby because my other sisters are, you know, we are different complexions. So I was her Cocoa. Y'all got different daddies? No, they got the same daddy. I got my own daddy. Oh, you had your own daddy? Yeah, I got my own daddy. Like that nigga, give me this nigga right here. Mama, stop talking to me. I got my own daddy. But I'm the baby. I'm the baby. So I got, yeah. So I got my own daddy. They even the best for last. They saved the best for last. So my mom called me Cocoa, so when I was like little, they used to call me Cocoa Kixi as a joke. So, you know, fast forward, you know, when I started promoting and getting in the club scene and stuff like that, I was going by Cocoa, but they was like, you need to have something else, you know, that Papi name up, you know, when I had the song Onion Booty. So we came up with Cocoa Kixi. Damn booty, Christ! Yeah. So Cocoa Kixi. Thank you. So I went from Cocoa Kixi. That's so crazy. It went from Cocoa Kixi to Cocoa Kixi. So that's why I got the name from. They're hard. Yeah, they're hard. Yeah, I was kicking as a baby. I was ready to come out. Are you ready to come out? Are you here? Are you staying out? And I'm here. You not going back in there? I ain't going back in there. That's what's up. So, Chicago. The west suburbs of Chicago, let's make it clear. The good neighborhood. Yeah, the good neighborhood. Got you. The chance to roll with them, by chance to rap with them? No, not chance to rap with them. Over there by Obama them? No, we just. Over there by Farrakhan them? Second biggest city. Got you. Second biggest city outside of Chicago. It's called Aurora, but I'm from the west suburbs of Chicago. I can dig it, I can dig it. So where the rapping started? It was when I came to Atlanta, and I was in the studio one time and I was just like, I want to rap. And you know, it went from them making the beat to me helping them to track my very first record I ever recorded went viral. So that's how it happened for me. Yeah. You like the Michelin rap? I don't think so. Yeah, Erica definitely just said that. Hold on, Gigi, baby. Erica just said that. I was Erica and Gigi. Y'all think I sound like Michelin for it? Yeah. Gigi, don't come for me. You sound like you. Thank you. She is the only other person we know who has this type of voice. I understand. I locker a lot. I understand. So that's what the correlation. I understand. I'm coming for you, Erica. Just by the way, by the way, my real name is Erica. Hey. Get out of here. It is, it is. And it means powerful. So every time somebody say Erica, they sound powerful. Powerful enemy warrior. Exactly. So that's beautiful now. I want to see y'all fight. Fight? No. What? It was right there. He wanted to see y'all mud wrestle. It was right there. Oh, mud wrestle, yeah. Yeah. That's what Jack said. He wanted to see y'all wrestle with some baby oil. Grab her booty. Grab her booty, Erica. Grab her booty, Erica. We are about the same height. It will be a fair fight. It will be. It will be. About the B of what? A girl fight. That's funny. I didn't know that. Yeah, but that's good. Coco, you've been here for a minute. Yeah. Been around a long time. Thank you. So you got some new stuff coming back out. What made you want to get back into it? Like, you see what the game is missing? Um, well, it was like I never left, but I had turned my head to, like, the executive side of the business because I was like, they make more money on that side. Yeah. You know what I mean? So I love that I can actually be an artist or be an executive whenever I feel like it. Oh, okay. I mean, that's exciting. You know what I'm saying? So I can go to DJ some more and be like, play my record or I can be like, hey, I got 25 artists. I need you to play their records. Here's the bag. You feel me? Oh, okay. Both ladies. That's what we're doing. That's the Erica stuff. Yeah, that powerful stuff. Erica. Acting her zodiac sign. I already know it. What's your zodiac sign? Aquarius. Aquarius. Come on, sis. Aquarius. Yeah. Come on. Yeah. I'm Jane Weir. Jane Weir. What is it? 20th. I started off. You know, I'm inauguration day. January 20th. Yeah. I call myself the president. I'm STEM. I'm in there. February 4th. Oh, okay. I got two best friends. Who birthday is February 4th? So we got... I don't know what it is, maybe. It's a connection. It's something. My sister's birthday February 4th. How you feel about her, Judy? She my little baby. What's your sign? Gemini. Woo! Woo! Hey, earlier... Hey, Coco, you missed it. Earlier it was a Gemini committee. I was here sweating. But again, all day on this show, we all air sign. Yeah. And we get you. Yeah. They only get you. I have a lot of Aquarius, especially women in my family and in my close circle of girlfriends. And yeah, like this. Absolutely. We're the only ones that will really... We'll let a Gemini tweak, but y'all don't really go too hard with us. Y'all will go crazier with everybody else but us. I think y'all know we know y'all. I think that's everybody with Aquarius though. And my big sister is a Gemini, so I understand. And she calls me her baby, but I'll be like, sometimes I'm not your baby, but you know. Because she is Gemini. Yeah. That's sweet. Yeah. Coco, so you got this showcase that you do called Ratchet Rehearsal. You break a lot of big artists in the city and you bring a lot of big artists that's already established to the city. Can you tell us a little bit more about it though? Yeah, I can tell you. The first thing is that I had a little playboy on my show, y'all. Hey. Keep performing. It was lit. It was lit. It was lit. I'm gonna stand up with that. No, he came through. You came through with the moon boots and you had a lot of money. You had a stripper. It was just like a show, you know. And that's what's important. Don't forget my Superman. You had your Superman. I brought my Superman out just for you. I barely bring him out. But what's important about the showcase, and let's give it up for my business partner. Hey, Jettie. Y'all see Jettie over there in the orange. Hey, Jettie. Hey, Jettie. Female empowerment. Yeah, well fine stuff. Yeah, she fine too. Look. You deserve work. So, ratchet rehearsals. We've been in business for three years. We've helped over 700 artists in less than amount of three years because we give 25 artists a platform each time we do the show. So I do 25 artists and I've been doing it once a month or since 2021. So I basically, you know, give artists the opportunity to get artist development and things like that. And then I give them a platform and then go from there. I give them tours, concert opportunities and things like that. So how did the name ratchet rehearsal come apart? Do you really want to know? Yeah. Absolutely. So like I was telling you all before as an artist, I was understanding in the city it's a lot of people saying that they can do things for artists and they really don't deliver it. Right. Exactly, they do tap. So I called myself to bridge in the gap and I wanted to be the one to say, hey, if y'all really want these things done, I can do these things for you. So I start consulting for artists because I got connections. All of my connections that I use for myself, I start sharing them with the artist. And I gave them, you know, actually the platform. But within that, I had to, hold on. Wait, where was I at? I lost my whole train of thought looking at it. You started sharing your connections and your plugs with the artist. You better stop. I looked at it because you all looked at you. You better go. You better go. It was like you were smirking at me, so I got thrown off. But I basically pretty much gave the artist the opportunity to perform on the platform because I felt like everybody else was shading the artist and not doing what they were saying they were going to do. So I was doing consulting and with my consultant, I would have the artist perform for me because I specialize in stage etiquacy. I don't do anything else. I just teach you how to work stage left and right, center stage, make sure your record is mixed and mastered and so on. So with that being said, I started doing that. I had an artist that was on my consultation and she was an asshole. And I got mad. I'm like, you know what? I'm going to just start calling this shit ratchet rehearsals whenever I do consultations. And it came out of anger. But when I said it, I was like, I'm actually going to do the show. And I did the show a week later after I got mad. I had put all the artists that I had been working with on one show. And then it started from there. Hey, you know what time it is? It's Jack Thriller's Beauty of the Week hosted by Gigi McGuire. Show me the honeys! It's your girl Gigi McGuire. And we are here with this week's Jack's Beauty of the Week. And your name is? Lola Cash. Lola Cash. Hey girl. Hey, how are you? What do you baby? I am 34. 34. What? And when I sign, I am a lucky Libra. Lucky Libra. My daughter's a Libra. That's the scale, right? Yes. Okay, half and half. She unbalanced. I'm very balanced. Oh, okay. Balanced on that Libra scale. I'm on a complete breakfast. And where are you from? Hometown. I'm from Atlanta, South Side of Atlanta. Come on, South Side Shorty. What? My alter ego is from the South Side as well, because she's been here for 18 years. Okay. Time to get a little spicy. You ready, girl? Let's do it. So let's start with your sexual interests. Like we doing men only. Are we straight? Are we gay? Are we bi? Are we straight? Straight. Straight somehow. Okay. And what might your favorite sexual activity be? We're going to take it a little broader than just positions, because that's so basic. So sexual activity. Favorite sexual activity. Sex is my favorite activity. All of them. A-L-L-U-H-L-N. All of them. Okay, I'm here for that. She got a rose, too. And, huh? She got a rose. Tattoo, right? No. No, that's when you did the thing that what y'all be doing with the thing. Oh. Don't we all? Oh. Oh, they going around? They on sale? Shit. Okay. And what would be your thoughts on 50-50 relationships? I ain't doing no 50-50. Hello. Hello. I like 100%. Okay. Okay. She paying for everything. No, I ain't paying for nothing. Oh, that's not. Oh, okay. That's not what you meant. She said Lola is keeping that cash in the bank. Hello. Okay. She spending his. Her money is your money. His money is your money, huh? No, his money is my money and my money is my money. Her money is her money as well. Yeah, damn. Is that what's good? How often do you fake an orgasm? Never. Never, ever in life. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. No. Oh, so that mean you're going to, like, if I can't make you come, you're going to do it yourself and we still going to be cool and be fucking... I'm going to get the fuck up. Oh. Right in the middle? In the middle. Oh, damn. Damn. Oh, you're not going to leave, are you? Oh, yes. Damn. It's over? Over. OB. Okay. I might win some, but I just lost one. I don't have time to play when I buy something. I just lost one. Okay. All right, Ms. Lola. Can you please let the people know where to find you? Yes, you can follow me on Instagram at OneLolaCashWithaK. Tiktok at Lola.CashWithaK. Lola.CashWithaK on the tickety top, she says. Thank you, honey. It was nice talking to you. Thank you. I never knew that. I never knew that story. I thought it was just like some catchy ass shit, but I didn't know. No, somebody made me mad. I don't think I've never seen you mad. Exactly. How do you sound when you get mad? I don't sound. Because you don't get mad? No, I don't. I am queen of the silent treatment. Like, I'm one of them types that I could be silent when my nigga in the house for a whole two weeks and mean that and stand on it. And so he, say he apologized. Hey, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Yeah, you know, they do. Yeah, they do. That's when you get cute around the house. Ain't that right, Gigi and Erica? Yeah. When they start cutting up, you get cute around the house and you be stuck. So they apologize. Very still. Like an animal. Keep going. Yeah, but that's how I started Ratchet Rehearsal. A lot of frustration. But it came from, you know, the artist actually me and Ratchet. Right, right, right. But the name kind of took off, you know what I'm saying? Like everything. Everything that I feel like I'm associated with from Gertie Girls to Onion Booty to Ratchet Rehearsals is like, dang, you always saying something ghetto, but it works for me. Yeah. Tell us some of the artists you don't work with on the Ratchet Rehearsal platform. As far as like new artists. Just period. Just give us a list of some of the big folks you done had there and some of the new people that you put on there that's taken off to that, you know, breaking the city. That ain't as big as, you know, they have had like L.A. and Cyree, you know, but, you know, some other people as well. Well, to assess to what you're saying, I've had, like you said, L.A., young L.A., Cyree the Kid, Wacka Flocka, Zay Tovan, Crime Mob, Jugman. Am I missing anybody, Gertie? Jazzy Faye. Yes, that's crappy. So I have a lot of people supporting me from the city because they've seen me. I have them niggas used to be my neighbors, too. So, you know what I mean? I'll be seeing them in the hallway, like you're coming to my show, you know. But at the end of the day, I feel like it's a lot that I'm doing for the artist. So when it comes to putting people on, I break new artists. So I don't really name drop because I like people that don't even have nothing. Right. So, exactly. I like artists that don't even have distribution, that don't have publishing, that don't have anything. And then I take them to the next level. I teach them how to get publishing, distribution, you know, how to create LLCs. We teach financial literacy as well as artist development. That's dope. And that's something that's well-needed. That's a bit dope. That's something that's well-needed. There's so much gatekeeping going on in the industry that, you know, what you're doing is rare and it's filling the void for one. For two, the support of Atlanta, and I'm coming to Erica with this one because she is, she love Atlanta, and I love Atlanta, too. And I'm not from here, you know, I'm a transplant, but I've been here 18 years and I'm never leaving, like. If I move out of Atlanta, I'm moving to the Bahamas or the goddamn Cozumel somewhere or something like that. Other than that, I'm right here. But in the hip hop community, in the industry, and just speaking of Atlanta, we definitely are always there for our people and we hold our people down and we don't gatekeep. And I think that is something that we should be applauded for because in cities like New York and Philly and Baltimore, they don't do that. They gatekeep. They don't want to help you. They don't want to share their resources. She's sharing all her resources and not only is she helping people, she's making a bag from it, but it's so many people in other cities that don't have that mindset and don't see the vision of, I can help and I'm going to get my blessing given back or I can help them make a bag off of it. So I applaud you for that and I want to applaud the city for holding it down and just, you know, really being supportive because I see in other cities that they do not do that at all. Thank you so much, Judy. Thank you. Let's be... We have our little issues here and there, though. But we still family and we stick together no matter what. And we ain't going to let nobody else come in here and do nothing and nobody else can fuck about this for you yesterday, bitch. If a bitch from goddamn Tuscaloops to come over here and she got a problem with you, I'm sticking with you. I got to get this for you yesterday, but now I'm on your team. That's my cup. That's my cup. That's my cup. That's my cup. Fuck the girl. Fuck the girl. Fuck the girl. I always say that I'm harsh. Atlanta had a culture shock for me because me, I'm not from here either. And what did you call us, Gigi? A transplant? I like that. I'm a transplant in Atlanta. I don't know. I just like that. But you be claiming the Cater, though. I never claimed the Cater. You went to school in the Cater. I did go to school in the Cater. You said something on your son. You like Canada, right? On my record? Yeah. Because that's where I be hanging out. I get my hair and nails done in the hood. I'm not going to Buckhead for no fresh set, no bundles, none of that. I'm going for the Cater. I get my nails done in the old national style. Yeah. You got to go to the hood for the original style. Yeah. Right. But I do rep East Atlanta if you wanted to know. I heard it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. She heard it. Yeah, because I got some dip off. How long have you been on the East Side up in here? How long have you been on the East Side? I came to the East Side when I moved to Atlanta. So I came here when I was in 11th grade. So I'm going to go here. I went to MLK. Oh, okay. Yeah. On the East Side. So I'm still, I mean, I went to high school here. I guess that's credibility. It counts. Yeah. It was a cultural shock. I always tell my friends I came here. It was like my principal was black. My fireman was black. My principal is black. I mean, you know. My Lambo too. Everybody. You got that. Your doctor is black. Your nurse is black. I love Atlanta. That's what we got a little about Atlanta. Atlanta is like filled around black people, man. And it's more black millionaires. The black man get more respect in Atlanta. I preach this all the time. I've been to New Orleans and got mistreated at Louis Vuitton. No. I done been to Burberry and Temple and then got mistreated. Then I go to Atlanta and folks happy to take our money. Yes. They ain't double taking your ID. They sending you down like you're a thief or some shit. Because at Atlanta we all know that black people get money. We eat out here. We watch each other back and we protect each other. But it's like I feel like there's no other city like Atlanta when it comes to black as a black man. I'm not, I don't know how black women feel but as a black man there's no better city for a black man to live in. I don't think I'll never move outside of Atlanta because I don't like the stereotype or the racism or the people trying to look at you and just, oh that's just another nigga. You don't know who I am. I might have a doctor's degree. I might have 10 million in my bank. Let me tell you when I first moved here from Philly in 2005 I still, I just went to Philly to get my hair done last week. I fly home to Philly every month to get my hair done. So I will go home to Philly and they will ask me how you like Atlanta. Oh you just moved to Atlanta how you like it. And I swear to God 18 years later my answer is still the same. People are nice. The city is clean. And all of the black people it's just black, you see black owned businesses and you see educated black people. And I tell the story of when I first, I was in the gas station. One of my first, like one of my first days here I was in the gas station and a nigga pulled up in the bins and he got like a white tee and the fitted and he trying to highlight me. So we talking and then I'm looking at him like oh he must sell drugs or you know he must rap or something right. This man pulls out his business card it was like I own an accounting firm. I mean oh look at him like what the crap. Okay. And you know when I danced at Medic City there was women who owned check cashing places and day care centers and beauty sublimes and you know what I'm saying and owning their homes at that you know so long ago and it's just like where I'm from you don't see that. Even myself when I left Medic City I became an entrepreneur I opened up a whole fitness studio and if I was still living in Philly at that time that wouldn't have never been something I would have tried to achieve. I would never thought in my wildest dreams that an uneducated stripper could be an entrepreneur. No you would. But being here in Atlanta Smart booty. Open my eyes. Smart booty. Being in Atlanta open my eyes to the opportunity that it can be achieved. You know. Yeah. So yeah and again it ain't no other city like it. You're right. It's not. It's not. Coco being that you a female He is a female. Yes. And this is the male dominant industry. Did you take on any like like hardship because you a female did anybody just try you because you was a female or do you feel like you can like you get it the hardest because you is a female. I do. I feel like it's always I tell everybody all the time when it even like when it comes to my business I don't have no issue with female artists. I have issues with the male artists. They the devils you know what I'm saying they they balls big they feel like they know better half of them just I don't even want to say nothing shady but it's just like you know women really just got something that men don't have and it's male ego. It's pussy. That's it. That's it. That's right. But it's a male ego. You know what that pussy has six brains OK. Because if you were to ask me a question right now I will give you six different perceptions because I'm a woman I got different ways of thinking about it you know what I'm saying but a man is one track you know he's going to give you one straight logical answer which is nothing wrong with that but women we got six brains you know we got our heart we got our vagina we got the day we got our mood you know what I mean it's it's those emotions we can we can talk from all different spaces yeah and understand and understand so when a man talks to a woman she got six different ways she can reply but she she's going to choose the best one if you're the one that's you know giving her the comfort ability to have the best the best answer my culpability yeah yeah you're going to meet Jack yeah I heard you OK hey man we back Jack talk to him yo foodie call man you got this let's go money bag mafia we got my boys seven flavors yes yes yes yes see what's going on today we're not going to play with y'all we got a lamb we got the tropical lamb chops we got the coconut island rice you know this is not no regular food you got to taste for yourself to see what it's about it's not no regular lamb chops everything is marinated it actually has some sauce in there a little bit of honey you put the jerk on the lamb come on now you put the jerk on the lamb I told you I told you come on when you buy that lamb when you buy your lamb you got to get it jerk on you got to put the jerk on the lamb real Caribbean islands you know what I'm saying T.I.T.I. you need to how long do you need to trap down that trap sit in there y'all ain't got no jerk lamb y'all ain't got no jerk lamb get in there and back here and see food too it's not cold seven flavors for no reason okay man we got here we got the coconut island rice not only the fact that island yes yes yes okay you who got it do y'all do the foo foo foo foo we do we got to bring some foo foo but I tried it once I don't think it was right if you have some foo foo you go full of sleep man I'm full of sleep I don't constate it for like two weeks but you you go full of sleep I would burn blood but you got coconut coconut wood rice island rice damn I'll buy that just off the name okay let's go hey man there you have it man we got marinated lamb what's the flavors on the lamb you got a jerk lamb of honey in there oh my god you got the seasonings this is marinated overnight like I said none of the food that I make is a one hour process it's a five to overnight process they will love me and the whole team we take our time make sure y'all enjoy the flavors and that's why it's called the flavors man enough is enough Brian man let him know what to find you don't say it enough I'm hungry man let him know what to find yet man you on Instagram Facebook Snapchat Tiktok 7 Flavors yeah you know y'all yeah he for real there you have it foodie call foodie call foo foo call I say I yes sister okay I like you I like you too my spirit tell me to just pitch this thing to you too we gonna talk about that I'll nah okay I'm down being that you work with both like male and female artists do you find that one over the other is easier to work with in terms of like being coachable and just being able to receive information and not taking it extremely personally if I were to choose um I wouldn't choose it's just based on the artist and their character and their financial status because I know that you have to have money and I kinda get frustrated with some artists when I tell them like hey you gotta invest in yourself I did you know I'm not trying to make you spend this money cause I want a couple of dollars you gotta pay cause the people that you need done got their hands stuck out and you gotta invest in yourself nobody else comes in the bag on you if you don't even get yourself off the ground at least you know even with me being a female like before I came to this show I had to make sure I was on point you know a nigger he can just go get a haircut throw on a white T and some fresh horses in quality today not this nigger you knew you was coming to see me though I was coming to see you not this nigger but the average you not an average nigger but the average one so the average nigger with a nice haircut and a white T-shirt and some white T-shirt and some white Air Force ones he can pull me he can pull me if he came and I'll let you you and I'll go cause he cleaned you know it's not about the labels and things like that so the bar is he if he says the right thing he's not there not just off the look we just heard a guy he's presentable cause he's cleaned up but he definitely has to you know say the right thing I don't even feel comfortable talking to a girl if I got a white T-shirt on I kind of like that but never cause you had a long white T-shirt back in the day this ain't that day no more now she's funny for that that's a good one yeah this perception different cause this T-shirt was longer so it's like yeah we ain't talking about the actual long T we ain't talking about the regular we talking about the Wasteland we talking about the regular long T you see how nigger get a couple dollars change on you that's so funny but I remember the actual long T but to answer your question the men the men are actually more like they usually have their investment the females are harder to deal with once they're locked in the men are harder to deal with when you're trying to deal with them like once you gain the artist's male trust it's cool once you gain the female trust it's like not cool it's like it's crazy it's the opposite yeah cause you know once we love you it's like now the cycle turns on yeah that's so true like soon as when they be chasing you chasing you they just be loving you and give you telling you everything you want to hear but then once they know that you love them they be wanting to just pipe up on you like male and female like damn that's cool interesting yeah the men do I mean a lot like at least 85 90 92.5% of the men be doing that like it's just from my experience it's just from other people's stories you know what I'm saying it be all Cinderella in the beginning but soon he got you it's like Erica that's why you gotta do like months you gotta be like okay three months I'm gonna be nice and three months I'm not gonna be nice put me down put me down put me down I'm too brown for that but no you gotta kinda do it put me down cause girl I just kinda gotta do it I ended the relationship because I felt like once he had me and I compared it to bank accounts it's like when I was in the checking account and he had to like you know make sure everything was good at all times I was handled a little bit with more care but once he knew I was all in and I'm now in the savings account and he ain't got worried about me no more then he kinda eased up on don't stop now cause you know I'm yours like you supposed to go harder now that you got me to prove that I need to stay here where does that mean when they say go harder now that you got me cause I stay so keep up with your consistency keep that same energy exactly so you want this thing to keep trying to impress you and go not impress not impress not impress not impress okay so of course like when a man trying to impress a woman I'm gonna take you somewhere nice and I said one of these little trips somewhere that $2,500 trip $800 restaurant shit like that yeah that's the pressure to wing you in but if you expect for a man to do that every week that's not what they're saying that's not what they're saying I'm talking about staying consistent with just communication staying consistent with with the reassurance with the high rate it's a little being thoughtful you guys are describing courtship you want your man to court you still what they're describing is pay attention to detail like if I say I like flowers if I say clean the toilet clean the toilet if I say I want you to take a shower before you lay down so I can feel sexy and I feel like you dirty take a shower before you go to bed Coco you saying do that last part again the last part you said I said take it like you know women don't like a man take a shower take a shower yeah but yeah but what y'all understood I got my nail no no I'm a girls girl okay I got my nail kit in my purse it's okay one thing that she was saying Coco is if I say but it's some women who expect to not have to say they don't know how to communicate they don't know how to communicate they don't know how to ask what they want but that's a lot of women though a lot of women be like you're supposed to know what do you think if you think that's just them needing to grow up do you think that's them they don't understand the value of communication they need to grow up yeah you don't know who you're dating once they don't know how to tell you what they want exactly even down to what they want what you want to eat exactly when you're like the grown woman she gonna know we gonna know I'm gonna know he don't like this in them grits don't put no salt in his grits don't do that we're gonna know everything about that man cause we pay attention but I never ever told a man how much money I make or neck and shoulder that's not cool cause that's something that ain't on your business when I got married don't cut time out how much money you make in that business excuse me I'm talking about before I got married oh before you got married I thought when before I got married when you married you ain't gonna tell your husband how much you make now she will then hold on when he was married when she was married usually when I was dating God you didn't do it when I got married I was thinking that was the right thing to do now mind you he was gonna call my daddy I'm gonna take care of her I'm gonna do this I'm gonna do that do that all that right he told her how much money he made so when I said come on let's look at our finances you know what I'm saying let's see what we finna build what we finna grow like show me yours and then I'm gonna show you mine when he showed me his like my heart like drop kinda drop like this all you got like all in your for your whole life this is like this your whole like in your entire life this is but you be going and doing concrete you got all these contracts this can't this is not the novel nigga don't spend that shit on you no he done no he done where the rest of it and then when I show mine I like this is gonna be an issue but when I show him mine it made him back down I just wanted to be that person for me you know what I'm saying that wanna take care of me wanna provide and stuff like that do you think that your figure made him feel less than or insecure about what he thinks probably both I want my girl to make more money than me I hate that and it's so sad it's like that's just one genre it's just a lot of things that go with that once a man know that they got you or you a certain type of woman a dominant woman they say I for whatever that is I really want to be soft nigga like that yeah me too that's really what we want I think y'all only wanna be soft for first certain moments like you know what I'm saying say it again say that louder girl I'm tired I feel like you I feel like you want cause I get a kick out of feeling empowered all day but you know you do wanna feel nurtured when you do get with your man love you Coco we want balance we want to have our boss our boss at times but we also want to have our baby but I get it I get it baby daddy am I your baby like daddy I'm your baby daddy I'm your baby daddy I'm your baby I wanna say that to somebody I can't say it now I'm like can I hear you say it Erika can you say it in your best tone say it again Erika from the west side she's still delivered on west side chicks know how to talk to you but they niggas they be like shout you out and I say it I'm like I'm like daddy I'm your baby you like that shit so cap ass so I ain't going for it such a cap ass it's not good to me Erika daddy am I your baby okay Gigi you know Gigi gonna do it better than all of us baby yeah when we have it it's so man we like y'all though I want men to know like we don't hate men we enjoy everything about y'all you know it's just y'all it's just I think actually I was just telling Jetty the other day in my home girl Jetty my business partner I was telling her the other day I'm like hanging around certain males I realized a lot of them be going through divorces and breakups and it really be on they mind more than we thought because we think they don't talk about it but they be hurt y'all be hurt when y'all with y'all boy the difference between women and men is there it's kind of like the switch like you were saying with your artist so in the beginning a woman is like all destroyed and sad over you know and the man is like fuck that bitch with the next one at and then the women gets into her fuck that nigga I'm about my life shit and now he like damn I miss my bitch like it kind of flip-flops you know they go through it we go through it first and then they go through it last but we all go through it you know it's rough and the narcissist thing is it's heavy out here yeah I just had to do my research on it and it's different levels of I experienced that narcissism narcissism are y'all aware of narcissism as men? absolutely narcissism is a real disease I didn't know that it's like a mental illness it really is it's a real it's a real it's a real human thing my first time ever hearing about it I used to see people talk about Trump say oh yeah narcissism but I would thought it was just like calling somebody ugly or stinky like an adjective but it's an actual disease you can get diagnosed with at the doctor I did not know that like bipolar yeah like bipolar it's a mental illness and it's thing it's thing from like childhood trauma is trauma especially when a man or had like a dominant woman in his life it triggers something in the male um corazon or something I don't know but I know what I did with my me studying and being with me and that suffer from that or what not it made me go back to my son my older son who was with me through like everything the trenches and slept with me in the cars and all that and I see he got some of the symptoms so I had to go back to my mother and just apologize for certain things or awaken him on how why I had to be the way I was raising you by myself and not knowing the DNA of a man you know what I'm saying I'm just coming from this thing point as a mother and as a woman but it do trigger them so they helped him with his therapy and stuff like that I didn't even know that he was talking to his therapist about certain things you know what I'm saying just how you talk my tone like I can get real you know what I'm saying say just sit down nigga what the fuck wrong with you boy I'm gonna do the lame ass shit you know they do some to a child you know what I'm saying but you just thinking you're a mom you're raising men strong yeah so you talk to them a little different but once I got older and started realizing even like in my relationship the men be like damn child when you said such and such they just did some I know I got a power for my because therefore I wouldn't be no comedian you know what I'm saying this is this mouth for my is a gift in so many ways so I had to talk to myself I can take accountability for but like you know what y'all you need to really learn how to start talking to people a little bit you know what I'm saying without being so aggressive you know what I'm saying because even with my little girl she she's gonna be kind of upset but I would get in that ad you know what I'm saying and shit like this so I just think that would come from you only do what you know Erica someone gave you that knowledge and you just passed it down to your kids that's what happened to all of us I tell everybody all the time all of us know who we are from second grade like you can remember yourself from second grade right you can't remember who you were in second grade I remember my teacher I think I was quiet in second grade I was quiet and I I didn't get ratcheting bad in turn I didn't get my identities I probably like in fourth grade not even that but you can remember back to something that happened in second grade yeah I can remember that but you knew you at that time you knew how you responded you knew your character you knew who your teacher was I ain't no telling what Jack was doing in second grade no telling ain't no telling seven years old oh yeah that was a good birthday but yeah yeah I was on one I was I was very into myself I felt very sexy yeah I was I was out there okay at seven at seven yeah Jack was very advanced I was very advanced I can imagine he was doing at seven yeah he did what at seven I was very advanced I'll let him say I think I heard what you said I just wanted to make sure that's what I heard if you think you heard it you did what you was doing at ten years old I'll give molested right Right. The right way. The right way. The right way. There is no right way to get it. Wow. I like what Erica said about DNA because I feel so strong about that, like, yeah, I want children. I don't have any kids. You don't? I don't. But I'm, like, because of that. I don't got no kids, even. This is crazy. Jack, you trying to have a baby? I mean, we can talk about it. OK, I got to hear you out. I got to know if anything's going on with you. Because I'm real, like, inquisitive. I'm going to ask questions, like, you got this going on. I have answers. You know what I mean? Because if your blood type is not right, you can actually create a sweet baby. Mm-hmm. Yeah. What's your blood type? I'm going to say it online, because I don't want anybody looking for me trying to procreate. Oh, they going to be running that game on you? Yeah, you feel me? I'm telling my blood type. They going to be here. That means she got that good blood. Yeah. If you know, you know. With the good blood. No, I was just talking shit. And I just really learned about that, like, when I got pregnant, about different blood types and stuff like that. I didn't know anything. I thought my doc was trying to tell me I had something. But in a doctor kind of way. Because he was like, you is so funny. Like, if I said doc, if you say positive with anything. Yeah. Yeah. You still sad. I don't think you just think it off. I'm thinking you don't game me something. Heart rate, don't you? Yeah, I'm saying you try to break it down. You know what I'm saying? But I'm a teenager, so you not trying to just give it to me straight. All right. But yeah. You should use that in one of your comedies. Yeah. I keep saying that every time I be like, but I got a new set. I'm going to start working on my new set. You got to come see. You got to come see. I'm the queen. I do this. Ain't nobody fucking with me. Nobody. Talk that shit. I mean, I mean, I don't line them up. Knock them down. I don't, I don't see them. Because everybody, everybody like, this is my guilt. Like, this is what God want me to do. Because I just knew I was going to be either a stripper or a real estate agent. Either one. One of the two. It was going to be either one. Listen, a lot of strippers end up being real estate agents. And this is where I was going. But thank God for the lady at my job that I had. And she told me you were missing out on your calling. And I want to try it out. But I noticed what I was supposed to be doing. I used to, I was just looking back on some stuff. I used to go to barber shops and ask them, can I tell them some jokes? Because people used to tell me, the only reason why they laugh is because they know you. You know what I'm saying? Go around some people you don't know. So I go around some people I don't know. To the barber shops, to the saloon, like, hey, can I do some jokes? They be like, yeah, do some jokes. Clap for everybody. Clap for girl, you funny girl, yeah. You funny girl, you know what I'm going to say. You know what I'm saying? So I know this is what God, but it's deeper than that. It's deeper than common. It ain't all about just making people laugh. When he give you a platform, when he give you this gift that gravitate people to you, you got to do right by it. So it's deeper. In my DM, it's nothing about nobody. Some people say, girl, you did good last night, but I have stories that makes me sad. You know, they be telling me about people that don't molest them, people being on them. I like, hold on, I thought I was going to make it a laugh. But it's deeper than that. So I got to find out what else is, what else I supposed to be doing because it's not just, this is just a starting point. You know what I'm saying? Right. But I love, like women, you know what I'm saying? They come to me, they tell me I love us. That's why I did, a couple of years ago, I did from teens to queens. I put a whole event together by myself in 30 days. I rented out me a little warehouse, got some tables so people just start coming and donating stuff. I remember that. Yeah. That's why for me and everything, I had a whole movement. I got internet influencers for the little girl, I just got a point and stuff. And I got like some pastors, some ministers for the women. It was just a moment. We was in that thing preaching and networking and kind. It was just that, that's what it's all about. And somebody told me, they said, you get so caught up in your calling, you forget your purpose. Right. That's the purpose. That's a big thing because one of my biggest prayers every day is I'll be like, God, allow me to walk in my purpose and don't let my time pass me by. I say that every day. And it's crazy that you're talking about a calling because remember when I sat down and y'all were like talking about my voice. It's like I get critiqued about it, but at the same time, people listen to me because I talk like this. But I got something to say if you listen. You know what I mean? You've been saying a lot. Yeah. You do know we take you seriously, right? I do know that. I know that because I take me seriously. I know nobody taking me for a joke. I want 100%. And I'm very aggressive. I'm going to approach you. Yeah, when you are. Yeah. Even when I came in here, I spoke to Gigi. I'm like, you know, Gigi is Gigi. You know what I'm saying? So all the guys are like, what's up, bitch? I heard what you said. Yeah. Yes. So when I say that. But you know, for me, it's like, you know, you got staples in the city and it's certain people when you see them, you show respect because they changed the culture and she changed the culture. Yes, she did. You know what I'm saying? So when I see her, I don't really be like and approach nobody, I'm like, hey, Gigi, because it's respect. And I was talking to her. I'm like, I bet these bitches don't know to say, what's up to you. But at the end of the day, you change the culture and your impact of it. And I really appreciate you. Oh, I appreciate you. Thank you. Thank you. I love it. I love it. Excellent. Excellent. She got stopped. Folks be at me. Can you please just tell Gigi? I mean, you ain't gonna know it. Gigi was a part of it. That's a Gigi effect. I love it. I love it. I got this to her. I'm damn sure I ain't finna be telling her, you know this. I love it. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. You're a legend though. You know that. Yeah, she is. And I love it. And you cool it, then I'm up. I'm just giving you a flower. I told her how to do that. I told her how to be like that. Jackie taught me. Your whole aura, it's just so womanly. Or is that a word? I just made it up. I like it. I'm trying to mix womanly and welcoming together. Womanly. Yes. I appreciate that. Yeah. I really do appreciate that because when people, people look at me and assume I'm a certain way. They think because I look very polished and, you know, bougie that I think that I'm better than people or that. You do not look bougie. Or yes I do. Or that. I know I look bougie. Or that. You know that I'm not approachable. Right. And it's when they get to know me, I get this a lot like, dang, I didn't think you was going to be this cool, you know, seeing you on the show. I, you know, I hear you talking, but I still look at you like, damn, she not, you know, she not. I just really was on a date with somebody and they told me that for a long time they had a crush on me and that they, you know, was scared to approach me because they thought that I was unapproachable. And I'm just like, I'm very much approachable. So somebody going on a date with Gigi? Yeah. Who Gigi date? We might not have a second date, but. Okay. So you dating the farmers to write or you just dating to go eat some lobster tails. She want to get married. She want to get married. And I'm not even going to the restaurant to buy lobster tails. I'm going to find my brother and cook them myself. That's right. No, that's right. Gigi cook. Actually, I'm going to go to the, to the, to the farmers market and get them. Gigi cook. Yeah, I'll be cooking. Like really. I'll be cooking. I really. That's what I'll be doing. But yeah. So, um, for Erica to say that I really appreciate that because I know the type of woman I am. I know that I am caregiving and welcoming. And I, I'm, I am known to have taken my shirt off my back and give it to somebody. Do it now. I've done that. I've done that. I was a man. I was a manager at a strip club and this girl couldn't find her shirt. And I literally took my shirt off and said, bitch go home. Put this shirt on and go home. Um, and I'm just that person. I'm going to, I'm going to help those around me. I'm going to take initiative to fix something. I'm going to take initiative to give my advice if I noted it might help. And people don't see me that way because, you know, they get, I don't know this perception that they have because of how I might look. But I'm definitely not that person. First of all, I'm a whole nigga. Like I look like this, but I act like a man. I act like a boy. Like I'm very rough and I'm soft and pick on the outside, but I'm not very rough and I'm soft and pick on the outside, but I'm very rough and very masculine. And my thought process is more of a man's thought process. I don't know if that's why he puts here or not, but my thought process is more than a man's thought process compared to how women think. And I always, I'll be talking to my brothers or my home boys and they'll be like, do I have to remind you that you're not a man? Like you are a woman. Like act like a woman. And I'm like, I can't help how I think and how I feel. Like I might agree with the men more than I agree with the women, but I still know that I'm a woman. But that don't mean that I'm acting like a man. This is just who I am. But I honestly think it's because I was supposed to be a boy. Like for real. Like my whole, my mother's whole, you know, I was born in 79. So it wasn't no ultrasound gender reveal. You know, you ain't see what the baby was until you seen the pussy or penis. So my mom had four girls, three girls. I was, I'm the baby and her whole pregnancy, they're like, oh, she finally getting her boy. She finally getting her boy. I had a boy name and everything. And then I came out of the girl. And but at the same time, I have brothers that are my age and I was raised different. My sisters were older than me. My brothers were my same age. What was your boy name? What was going to be your boy name? I don't know. I got to ask my sister. I never, I never cared to know. Like a George. George. So my real name is coffee. Coffee. It's coffee. Hold on. What? Coffee. Yeah. Your mom is Kosha? No. It's Hindu. My mom was, my mom was an herbalist. My mom was like, my mom was like Erica Baidu in the 70s. Okay. Yeah. She was barefoot all the time. She was always in like Moomoo's and like she wore her real hair and like individual braids with like the shells and beads and stuff. And she was doing it at the time where it was like in the 70s. Wow. So it's trendy now, but that's the time. So this is the lifestyle I was raised in. My children. We were exactly, we, I knew about Moomwater when I was a little kid. I thought that everybody knew about Moomwater. No. Yeah. I knew about Moomwater when I was a kid. Gigi, what's Moomwater? When, so on the full, on the first day of a full moon, you take some purified or distilled water and you put it in preferably a glass container and you sit it up under the moon. And it absorbs the power of the straight moon. And you can drink it. You can bathe in it. You can spray your plants with it. So like it was a thing like make Moomwater when it's a new moon. I thought everybody did that. Like even growing up with like nutritional stuff, everything was fresh vegetables. Nothing frozen, nothing out of a can. We didn't drink soda. I didn't have fast food. I didn't have McDonald's until I was 12. We weren't allowed to eat candy or anything like processed like American cheese, cheese with out the can. I didn't have none of that stuff. Everything was all natural. Our snacks and our candy was like trail mix and chocolate cup of raisins and dried fruit. Like I grew up eating like that. Do you still like any of those things that you learned from your mother now in your adulthood? You do. Just like my mother. I am my mother. Wow. And you said she's like herbal? I cook, I clean, I'm a plant lady. I'm incense and plants and I got an altar and yeah. I'm moon stones. I like your mom. And crystals and yeah. So are you a healer? I've been told that I have the gift. She didn't kill niggas. She fucked the ex-boyfriend. He had a heart attack and died mid six. He didn't die during the sex, but yeah he died. Yeah. We just talked about in the last episode, so it's fresh. So she's a killer. But no, I think that I have been told that I have like that. You know, healing spirit. But I get that from my mother. Like my mother was, my mother's house and like my ultimate goal in life is to open up a restaurant in honor of my mother and serve the dishes that I grew up eating. My mother always put her own little spin on something to make it special. And she always said that the number one ingredient is love. And that's how I cook. I cook in my house and I use fresh everything. We making biscuits from scratch. We not buying a box of cornbread. I mean cornbread from scratch. And this is because this is how it was raised. You know, everything fresh. Not frozen, the vegetables, everything fresh. And I just want to help and take care of people. Like I just want to bring you in and just make you better if I can. So I guess that's what a healer is. You are a healer. You define, yeah. If people don't know that I'm like that, until they see it. And then they're like, oh damn, I never thought that I thought that she was this way. I'm the complete opposite of it. Where's your mother from originally? Philly. Philly. Do you know where she got any of those traditions or practices from? Her mother. Her mother wasn't as deep into it. But her mother was sort of the same way. My great-grandmother was the same way. So it was like a long lineage of the women in my family. But I think my mom took it to the next level because of the era that she was in. Right. It was the 60s and the 70s. And I grew up with weed being a regular thing. That's right. Because it is. I was going to ask that too. I started smoking with my grandmother when I was 15. Wow. I would come home from school. I would come home from school with a blunt for Gigi. Gigi is my grandmother. Yeah. So that's where I got my name from. So I would come from home from school with a blunt for Gigi. And we would sit before I went and did my homework. Me and Gigi would sit in the basement. And she lived in my mom's basement. We would sit in the basement and smoke. And the reason why is because I was outside with my friends sneaking and smoking and I would come in the house high. And Gigi was like, you think we don't know you smoking? Come on. Yeah. She said, you're going to get in trouble if you get caught outside. Come in here and smoke with me. And then when they smell it, they're going to think it's me. Ain't nobody going to think you smoking. Wow. And from the age of 15, every single day when I went home from school, I smoked a blunt with my grandmother. My grandmother may never do that with me. And then I started smoking with my mom. Yeah, I started smoking. I want to show you this picture. It's my favorite picture of my mom. I posted it the day that she passed away. And then I recreated the picture. What about that? October 28. Oh, she a Scorpio. She was a Scorpio. She passed away in, let me turn my brightness up. She passed away in August of 2017. And so it had been six years last year. My father passed away on my mother's birthday. Hey, hug her. Y'all hug her. You want to hug her? Y'all hug her. Y'all hug her. Can we hug you, Gigi? Yes, we can hug you. Yes, thank you. Yeah, it's a whole other story behind my back. Thank you for sharing that story, that intimate story. Oh, my God. It's a beautiful story. I want to show you all that. Wow. And then I recreated it. And I recreated it around the time of her birthday, I think it was, when I was in Tulum. And then I'm going to try to get my daughter to do it. My daughter is like very tomboy. So I don't know if she's going to do it, but this is my recreation of it. Wow. That's beautiful. And I recreated it. So I have a cannabis line that I'm working on and that's the picture that I'm going to use for my logo. They actually just sent me some mock-up renderings. Is that yours? Is that yours? That's me. That's you. She redid it. I redid my mom's picture. Wow. Yeah, she redid it. So I redid my mom's picture. Gigi. And then I'm, so this is the picture that I'm using for my cannabis line, for the logo. But I'm going to try to get my daughter to do it. I got to talk her into it. I can talk her into it. I think that would be dope. I thought that was your mom. Y'all, you would like to win on this. I guess I can. Yeah. What are you going to call the cannabis line? Coffee. Your name? I'm trying to think of, I want to be like, cannabis by coffee or clouds. Like I'm trying to like play with names, but I'm definitely using my name. How do you spell that? K-A-F-I. This is what I wear on my chain. And when I do the restaurant, it's going to be my mother's name, which is Vienta. Yeah. Yeah. Very unique, right? Yeah. I love that. I like that. It's like all of it just coming together. You get it. Little circle, huh? Yup. That's God. Dang. Divine time and then purpose. Yeah. Cocoa, how old you was when you started smoking? Huh? Oh my back. Cocoa don't smoke, y'all. Cocoa don't smoke. Just say no. Erica, how old you was when you started smoking? Well, I don't smoke no more, but I started smoking. I was like 14. 14. I started smoking. I'll never forget me and my best friend. They don't got us some weed. Went behind the building. You know it's bad. We went behind the building. And we was singing that song by Tupac. Why they had to kill my nigga? Kato. Hey. We named the blunt Kato. Oh, so y'all was the first one to name y'all blunt. Yeah, we did it first. We did it first. Fuckin' hilarious. No, rest in peace with my friend, my bestie, Niki. Boy, she gone. We talked about that. We were talking about that. You know, all the time. Kato was the name of our little joint. Well, I know my brother don't smoke. I know my cousin don't smoke. And I just wanted to ask about this for females. Would you marry a woman and smoke? When you say smoke, do you mean the act of smoking? Yes. Do you mean like edibles? The act of smothering. Smoking weed, rolling up, smoking anything. Weed, cigarette, vapes, shit like that. So weed, yes. But here's the stipulation. You can't be one of those people where I can't eat unless I'm high. I can't sleep unless I'm high. I gotta get high before I go. If you one of those type of people is going to put a damper on everything that we do and I will never enjoy time with you. You know, let me and not be like defensive because I am one of those type of people. It's not that I can't eat unless I'm high. It's when you start smoking weed and you really like to become a real smoker. It controls your appetite. So I'm not going to want to eat. I'm going to smell the food and I'm going to want to eat the food but I'm only going to take two bites if I ain't smoked first. So that's what it is. It's not because I gotta be high. You heard William's hungry, happy, sleepy. That's what we do to you. When you say control your appetite. She's saying it's not mental. She's saying it's not mental. It's literally you can't do it. You can't. You're not hungry. I took this girl on a date one time and she was like she couldn't eat because she ain't smoked. She ain't that girl again. It's not that you want to be high. It's that you know you're not going to eat no matter how hungry you might feel. You're going to make a plate and you're going to take two bites of it. But if you roll up a blunt smoke, you're going to fuck that plate up. Luke, I walk her. Now I don't have to be high to do everything else. You smoking? I mean you married a woman that smoked. Luke, I walk her. You married a woman that smoked. Cigarette, vapes, weed, blunt. You know what? I would marry for like six months. You know what? I was just telling my friends the other day I don't like guys that do too much of any of that just for the purposes. I definitely engage in all the above. Okay. But I'm occasional and I'm social, not coke. Okay. Let me not say all the above, but here and there I dibble and dabble. I like drinking. Dibble and dabble. And I do like herbs. But I'm not going to be like trying to find somebody that match my energy. I actually like a guy that don't do either. Like all the guys I dated in the past, they didn't drink or smoke. It's not that powder. Oh my God. And they really are way more attractive than the guys that drink and smoke. My favorite. Look, my favorite. My favorite boyfriend right now. That nigga smoke. Halloween. And I be so happy like, yes baby. I realize that girls that smoke like that like guys that smoke like that. Of course. I remember I was dating a long time ago. I was dating this girl that smoked heavy. And it just like our chemistry really wasn't hitting like that because I ain't smoked. She ain't smoked. And then she ended up marrying a dude having babies and happy family. And it's a nigga that I knew that was like a rap nigga. And he smoked every day. And I was like, I knew y'all was going to get together because it just makes it. Smoke weed every day. That's all he do. That's all you do. Y'all can just. But he's not my favorite because he smoked. But it's just a couple of things. Why he your favorite? Because y'all vibing. Y'all high and vibing. He my favorite because his score rates the highest all around the board. Okay. What is the board? Yeah. You know when you put everything into accountability. The personality. The. The finances. The looks. The sex. The personality. Okay. Just him as a person. His integrity level. His. His mannerisms. His respect for me and himself. His children. You know what I'm saying? Like when you put all of you put that all down versus you know this guy and that guy. Like he wins. Go Gigi. That's what makes him my favorite. He knows he's my favorite. I'm being single this year. I don't want nobody. You heard me. He knows he's my favorite. Because you know he ain't my only one. Erica and Gigi have y'all ever been single. Oh my God. He's single too. When you single you're dating. Yeah. You know. I don't want nobody. I'm around. What did you say? Have y'all ever dated industry guys? I haven't. I've had sex with one. But not. Oh my God. Not just dating. You been in industry this long? 15 years? You only slept with one industry guy? Mhm. I've been in the industry going on 11 years in July. 11. 11. I don't want them. But I'm standing. Y'all prefer them. I don't prefer them. My ex is the president of a major record label. And I honestly feel like guys that might want to approach me don't because they know that we were together for so long. We were together for like 11, 12 years. Wow. So I'm known to be his, even though he wasn't married, like I'm known to be his wife. Wow. So it's like I feel like, I feel like, you know, guys kind of put me on a, you know. Back burner. Not even a back burner, but the untouchable list. Like I can't even try to highlight her. Because I have the respect for who he is. And not just because of who he is as a person, but how high above he is on the food chain when it comes to the industry. Yeah. But no, I see I be around them. The guys that I'm around, I would never want to deal with them. Not saying that they're wrong with them. They did that. I ain't going to say I ain't had a few of them just because you had to do it. You had to do it. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. It was a few before him. It was a few after his ass. I don't know. I know. I know. I know I want somebody that got some emotion this time. I know. I want somebody. Yes. People to mine. Yes. To mine. To what I got. So my preference is honestly the, honestly, the first thing I want from a man is honesty. Like if you can't keep it real with me then, cause I'm going to keep it real with you across the board. If you can't keep it real with me, then we have a problem. I feel like you have to lie to me or tell me what you think I might want to hear because I can't handle the truth. Then we have a problem. Come on now. Men seem to do a lot. They tell us what we want to hear because either they're scared to tell us the truth or they think that the truth is just too much. So they just going to soften the blow by telling us whatever. Oh, the truth is going to always fuck them. What about you? You date in the industry. I want you date in the industry. You mean recent or have I dated in the industry? Both. You heard him. A little bit about it. I had a 11 year relationship. That's him. You better go girl. Yeah. I've been single for five years. Oh, wow. That's a long time. It's nice. But yeah, when it comes to guys and I'm going to go back to this guy that I was on a date with that said that he thought that I was unapproachable. I know who I dated in the past and I know how people look at him. Right. But even the guy who told me that he didn't want me to smoke no more. I mean, not 60 probably fiance, but the one who told me he hate weed. I mean, he is like, you know, somebody up there in the ranks of like wealth and shit like that. But I am not out here looking for a rich nigga. I am out here looking to be a rich bitch. Like I've learned from dealing with Richmond that that's the day money. And if they not trying to share or do for you, then you're never going to see it. So they can have it all they want, but it's never going to be yours. So why are you talking about that? You want to get your own money. Right. Now when it comes to, well, what I did a guy that makes this or makes that. I just need you to meet me where I'm at if you can't take me higher. Meaning if I'm booking myself Delta Comfort or first class, then don't try to book me on Spirit or Southwest because I'm not going. If I'm putting myself at the Lowes and W the St. Regis, don't try to put me in Marriott on a double tree because I'm not going. And not to say that I'm too good for that, but I've got. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what I'm saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. I've got my flexibility. So if you can't meet me at my Comfort level, then I'm cool. I feel like that's where. It's just and that's just like well, realistically one year, you might not be able to do that for yourself this year. So and he might not be able to do it either. No, when I meet a guy, if I meet a guy, for example, I met a guy, I was in Philly. I met a guy, we was in the club talking. I didn't give him my number, clearly, but we was in the club talking. So he was like, I was like, oh, I live in Atlanta. He was like, yeah, I'll be in Atlanta all the time. I said, where, when you be in Atlanta, where you stay? And he was like, what you mean? I'm like, he like, what you mean? Like what area? I said, no, what hotel? Like what hotels you be saying that? He said the courtyard, I did like this. And he was like, what? I'm not staying in the courtyard. Sorry. You ain't going to visit me at the courtyard? No, because if we go somewhere, you're not going to expect for me to stay at the courtyard. I'm not doing it. Sorry. Where you gotta stay? I stay at the W, at the Lowes, at the St. Regis, at the W. I'm just saying, that's where I'm going to put my sofa at. But realistically, I just put myself to Austin for softball. The St. Regis and, the St. Regis and a W was like three times the price. The W probably, the St. Regis and the W, how much is the W? About 450, St. Regis like $1,300. I'm giving the range, I'm giving the range. You can get the Lowes for $200. I'm giving the range. St. Regis like $1,300. You can do the W. I'm giving the range. I'm not saying we gotta stay at the St. Regis. W, 250. But what I'm saying is. I ain't fucking with the St. Regis. Four seasons. But what I'm saying is, I'm giving the range of where I'm looking at the St. Regis. Okay, yeah. We're spending a hundred more out here. Where I can do for myself. Right. If you see me with a Chanel bag, don't buy me no Michael Kors bag. I'm not a Michael Kors bag. I'm not a Michael Kors bag type of girl. And no shade to the Michael Kors bag. Cause I was a Michael Kors shade. I was, I wasn't always a Rolex girl. I was a Michelle watch girl. But now that I got a Rolex, don't buy me no Michelle watch. Respect it. What about a Mavado? I'm not gonna do that to you. I'm not buying you no Mavado. I'm not, I'm not buying you no Samsonite luggage. I'ma buy you two of me. No G-Shot? You ain't for a G-Shot. I'ma buy you a Louis Vuitton passport holder. Not one from Ross. You get what I'm saying? I expect the same. Okay. And this is why I expect it because I'ma reciprocate. I don't want you to give, give, give. Put the gun down, Gigi. I'ma chop a cake mama. What's your love, Lange? Okay. Physical touch. I wanna live in your skin, baby. Oh shit. I wanna be with you at all times. I wanna touch you. Physical touch. Kiss on you, huh? Physical touch. Physical touch, words of affirmation and like gifts and shit, you know? Okay. What's your love, Lange and Coco? Um, I like what she said, affirmations. I like, I like affirmations. I need to reassure you. Word of affirmation? We talked about this earlier. Yeah, that's me. Do you like words of affirmation? Mine, we assured. Yeah. They ain't in the love language. That's words of affirmation. Good. Well, that's ain't what it called. Yeah, that falls on the words of affirmation. And to pay attention to detail. Okay. And it's the small things. It's not always about the big name ticket. That makes sense. I like, I like physical touch and quality time. I don't really need words of affirmation. I don't need nobody to tell me I'm handsome every day. I don't need nobody to tell me I smell good. That's not what that means. Affirmation can be like, you can just affirm whatever I have going on in the moment. If I'm crying, it's okay to cry. Go Tiger, you're the best. I believe in you. That's not what it is. It's just being present in the moment. Affirmation was like present. Yeah, being supportive. Yeah. No, being supportive and words of affirmation is kind of... No, it's not. It isn't supportive and affirmation is the same. My support is show up. I believe in walking the walk and not talking to talk because I done seen a lot of homeboys, homegirls, shit, sometimes even family members say they gonna do some shit and they don't do it. My thing is like, I don't like words of affirmation. I don't really care about receiving gifts because like Gigi said, I can buy my own stuff, buy my own shit. What was the other one? I like quality time and physical touch. Like I wanna be up underneath you. I don't need the... But it's your hygiene okay to be up underneath you. I will hope so. Because that's what the problem is with men. Like, you know, y'all don't think y'all have to be, you know, feet crusty. You know, this is real shit. Guys talk about stretch marks on booty. Niggas be having stretch marks on their booty. You know what I'm saying? Niggas feet be crusty. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? Arm pain, hair nappy, you know what I'm saying? Like groom. I heard a baby. Ball hair nasty. I like no, like you see a groomer. So you like a man to manscape? I do. I don't say you got shit, you don't do it all. But just clean it up. The word manscape is crazy. Like what? Manscape is a real thing. I know, but that's so crazy. Just thinking about a manscape. You like hair? You like hair? Cocoa? I like a scape. I like a scape. I like it. A scape? I like a manscape. Oh, you want it to be bald? Yeah, don't be crazy down there. Okay. So you don't, what about a landage trip? You cool with a landage trip? A man with a landage trip? Yeah. No. It's a landage trip. It's a landage trip. I could have done it. I could have done it. I just don't like it up. The hair on the balls. That's the, I just don't like the hair on the balls. I put them. What should we do with the balls, Erin? Who wants to take care of the balls? You gotta take care of the balls, girl. I get it, babe. I ain't about to put no hairy balls in nobody's mouth. Like if I'm down and you put some hair. If I go down and I out, it's just all hair. You got the hair. You know what makes me mad? Yes, I want to know. What makes me so angry is seeing, like, we like nice drawers too. Like stop wearing bogus drawers. I was just telling it to my mom on the other day. I didn't see like two guys with their drawers inside out. Like why do I see the name? You know what I'm talking about? No. The name of the drawers, like whatever drawers y'all wear. Okay. I don't know what the name. Like if it say 100% cotton, I can see it written on the ass because you got your drawers inside. Oh, you got your drawers inside out. Yeah, I see that on the app. What is that on yesterday? Who did that? He was. He was and he's inside. Who, man? Who? I believe that. He took them all. I put them inside out and put them back on. What kind of niggas you be fucking with, my boy? I didn't say that. I didn't say I fuck with them. I said I see it a lot. So if you ever dealing with a man and his underwear are inside out, it's because he's trying to get the best use out of them. That's not true. He just got out of jail. He can flip them and do it again. Believe it or not, we looking at that. We like nice drawers. That's a nasty shit. I know Aaron. I'll be with you. I'll be with you. I'll be with you. I'll be with you. I'll go buy some. No, yeah. Hold on. I've seen the man before because I ain't like the way his box is now. Time out. Time out. Coco, I got to ask real quick. So this something going over my head right now. How old are you? Why you got to do that? I need to know why these niggas. This is younger than G.T. Erica. I'm younger than G.T. Erica. Huh? Just now I'm younger than G.G. Oh, I know that. I think that much. I'm in my... You want to playboy friends? I know you. I want to playboy friends. I'm in my early 30s. Oh, okay. Okay. Got you. Early 30s. I'm in my early 30s. Yes. Got you. Look, G.G. Erica. Look, I had to do it a little bit because I'd be the... I've never heard of none of this. I've never heard of none of this. I've never heard of none of this. I always talking for like the young bitch in the room. And I love being... You just say that the other day. Daddy. I love being grown up. Didn't I tell that? I told... I said... I've grown up. I love it. I know that's right. Yeah. I love it. What is going on right now? Okay. So I got a friend that lied about her age. And I'd be like, girl, what you lying for her? Okay. She tell people that she five years younger than what she actually is. And she really like stand by that. And I'd just be like... That she is too young. The man thing, man thing, girl. Mm-mm. But yeah, I've never lied about my age. I embrace being older. Yeah, me too. I'm grown. Because... Because here's the thing. And then, you know, it's always a lot of like old shaming on the internet. It is. The first thing somebody want to call you is old. But do you want to die young? Ain't that the point? Ain't that the point? Motherfucker better hope they get to live to be your age. Motherfucker better hope they get to be your age. You want to see 40. You want to see 50. I want to see 90. I love it. I love it. Put it this way. Put it this way. I can fuck your mom. I can... Listen, you're gonna... You're gonna fuck your dad. You're gonna fuck your daddy. Old enough to be your mama. I can fuck your daddy. And I can fuck your brother. So I feel good at it. Oh my God. Erica, you out of control. Can I hang out with y'all so I can start feeling like the young bitch in there? Yeah, yeah. Okay, but... Because I be hanging out with my girls. They be making me feel like I'm the older bitch in there. You just mature. I am. I think that is too. I believe that is too. Yeah, take her under your wing. Y'all take my girl under your wing. I'm gonna talk to her about some stuff. She's my little sister. Okay. Yeah. Where does that come from? Experience. Yeah, and I love it. Do you want to die young? Do you want to not go crazy? But guess what though, Jack? Little experience. Guess what though, Jack? Or do you want to grow old? Girls like ourselves. We're actually... I'm calling you big auntie. Preserved. I feel like we're way more preserved. Big auntie, baby. Ain't that right, Erica? Huh? And Gigi, just... Cause I'm really intrigued in what all of y'all are saying, especially y'all two right now. I feel like women that were born in our era, we're a little more preserved in the girls now. I feel like they doing drugs, they having sex. It's more STDs, it's just more looseness going on. Yeah. And I feel like when you hit a certain age bracket, you understand soul ties, you understand being attached, you understand babies. Come on now. So you're not just fucking, you know? You're not just fucking. I have all my good, my walls are just so good. I believe her. Me too. Me too. Big group is could be my nickname. They don't even know about gripping. Snatching condoms. I'm snatching condoms. Oh wow. Snatching condoms. Snatching condoms. I snatched every condom. I snatched every condom. When you grab something, you walk that thing. I'm gonna win. I'm gonna win. Okay. I'm gonna win that. That nigga be like, you snatched the condom every time. I love everything about me. I believe that's the Buddha hoe. I think y'all brats are the Buddha hoe right now. Oh, it's different. This pussy, the condom snatched you. I ain't never heard that. You ain't never snatched a condom with your Gucci. Not on purpose. You mean like it was... She talking about what? Having sex in the condom slip off because your pussy's so white. And it was in there. You gotta get it out. No. Oh my god. That doesn't mean he did too little for that condom. Niggas walk around with big ass magnums on it. Niggas got the mini packs. But no, not that one. Yeah, them the worst condoms to buy. Magnum got a little... Magnum's pink. A little... S.C.D. or something. Or they got a little yeast or something. Oh my god, y'all. Whatever. Whatever. They put a little yeast in it. The lubricant in it is not good. I'm on a par. Alright, let me get this shit back on the course, y'all. Okay. Alright, so here, Coco, you got new music out right now. Yes, I do. Yeah, tell us about this project. With my new music being out right now, it's a single. It's called Bone. I love it. Thank you. It's produced by Zatovin. I've been working with Zatovin for a long time. I also do A&R work for his label. So we was, you know, working with some artists and I'm like, shit, play, you know, make me a beat, you know what I mean? Because I want to get back into music business as far as what I had going on. Yes, because I toured for 10 years. So I know what is important as far as being on the stage and things like that. Because I've made money just off performance. So, you know, I made another record and I'm putting, you know, together a tour for the artist this year. So I'm like, shit, if I got the stages, why not put a record for me? And then I possibly might hit the stage too, you know? 100%. Thank you. And I tell the artist that all the time. Yeah, nobody else. And I don't mind sharing the stage. I'm not selfish when it comes to the artists in my platform. I've had my show for three years and I've only performed on my own show one time. Mmm. That says a lot. It does. That's awesome. Yo, it's done. You only did it one? Yeah. In the beginning? Yep. I was in the beginning. Yeah. You have a host and stuff like that? I do. I book host. I book comedians, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like, I've gotten people that say, let's chop it up. Yeah. Speaking of comedians, you done did the Country Wains and the Desi Banks. Who are you don't work with? Let us know. As far as comedians? Yeah. Skitwise and your comedians. Country Wains, Desi Banks. And then when I do like stuff with Funny Marco is more like, like independent stuff. Yeah. So that's what we did as far as at the studio stuff. But yeah, I've done a lot of skits with. So you got your hand all over the industry? Yeah. Hand will be, you know, what's good about these guys that I work with is they open their books to me. So I've booked Country Wains. I've booked Zaytov and like, so if I'm bringing a lot of business, you know what I mean? They fuck with me because I'm like, I bring them a bag. I bring them a 60,000 or a 50,000 or a $30,000 deal. And I get my commission. So sometimes I might not have to work for six months about a good deal to Zaytov and our Country Wains. Or, you know what I mean? And it's not to that magnitude. It's probably probably. Look, not to that magnitude. But what I mean is if I'm like real serious about my booking and if I'm like, okay, I'm tuned in and I'm like people hitting me up about different artists, I can eventually or easily run my bag up in a short amount of time. If I focus on that, I can run my bag up if I focus on my platform. I can run my bag up if I focus on me. So I just try to create avenues to where I can make money, multiple streams of income and most artists don't like sharing a platform, Jack. But one thing about me is I share it and create spaces where people can come and do stuff with other people that are involved with me as well. That's awesome. 100%. Yeah. We definitely got the network with you. Yeah. Let me bring out some business. Man, we really are privileged and you know what I'm saying? Very honored to have you here today. Thank you. Now you've been such a blessing and a light and we've learned so much. Thank you. This is the first time but I know it ain't going to be the last time we have you on the show, man. Is there anything you'd like to say to the new Jack Thriller City audience before we get out of here? So shout out to the Jack Thriller City audience. Shout out to Gigi, Erica. Shout out to Playboy. Listen, me and you got to talk because me and you go way back. Way back. And you told me you married with kids now. Can you say something about that real quick before I say what I need to say? Because I was really, really shocked and surprised. Oh, yes. Yeah. Just real quick if you can. So I am married. Yeah. My wife's name is Chelsea. She is a Gemini. Shout out to Gemini gang. My birthday is 6'9". Shout out to my son, Kai. He'll be four in November. And it's just a beautiful thing being able to be present and be involved. And, you know, every day I have my son. I work from home. So he's with me. He reads on a fourth grade level. He's three years old right now. And it's just a beautiful joy to be a part of his life as well as my wife. I'll be married two years in November. Oh, you got over the hump. Yes. Two years in October. October 4th. And I want to give a big shout out to the DJ some more because no matter where she's seen me, no matter where we are, she's going to ask me for my record and she's going to play my shit every single time. She's so genuine. Very genuine. Yeah. You know what, before I go, I want to pop my shit real quick. You know what I'm saying? Pop it. You know, it's just a minute, right? Okay. And no matter where I go, I don't care if it's your neck or the woods, your neck or the woods, my neck or the woods. I got to give love to the DJs. You know, DJ Bluetooth in the corner, I see you too. No matter what club I go to in Atlanta, the DJs, they see me and they be like, Cocoa, what a new music. You know what I'm saying? That makes me feel really good because people don't get asked that. And Playboy, I know you can attest to that any time you are with us, our music going to play all up in there. 100%. And it's really hard to, you know, be like that in Atlanta, but I appreciate you guys that will bring me to a platform. This is my first time doing a podcast. Oh, what? Okay. I was wondering why you were here. Okay. Now it makes sense. You was dope. Thank you. I wonder why you were asking me them questions and stuff. Like, what are you going to talk about? What's going on? I needed to know. I've done all kind of other things, but I've never done a podcast. This was cool, right? Yeah, it was great. And I learned a lot from Playboy, you know, and I learned a lot from Erica and Gigi. And then I told you me, you got to talk because you're the baby for me. But I just appreciate being on platforms like this because it is, you know, hard to keep up. Yeah. It's hard to keep up with Atlanta, so you keep your foot and though you're doing some I'm from old Atlanta. The real Atlanta. I love old Atlanta. Okay. You know what I mean? Shout out to you guys. I'm going to just plug April 22nd. That's my next show date. So make sure y'all pop bottom. We're going to be there. Y'all going to be there Playboy you performing too. Yeah. Gigi, you know rain, right? Rain night. 22nd. Rain. Yeah, but I I'll do my event there. Yeah, I've been doing it there for two years, but I do it once in my, you know, it's low key is a private event. So it's not like a part of the club. They just thought I used to do it on Sundays and I changed it to Monday. Oh, yeah. But now I got the rain. So it's crazy because that was when I first stopped drinking and that was a real test of me too. If I can be behind the bar and be around so much alcohol. You remember that when she came like this, I hadn't even had a glass of wine or nothing. But but I was good. It helped. It actually helped. Like I would be the I mean, of course, you know, I was smoking my weed, but but I'm being I learned being a sober person in the room full is actually fun. Yeah. Then I'll tell y'all what else up here because I don't want to spill my secret. Right. Let's just say me not drinking. Let's just say me not drinking was making me money. Was making me more money. Got you. You're throwing back the water. That's smart. But yeah, y'all can follow me on my Instagram. Everybody in this room, y'all got to pull y'all phone out. I'm going to look at everybody if y'all don't follow me. Hey, jazz, follow her. Hey, we about to get some behind the scenes, get some pictures. Yeah. Yeah. So my Instagram is Coco kiss me in a C-O-C-O-K-I-S-S-M-E and I'm going to follow everybody back in here so don't think I'm going to excuse me. Yes. Kiss me. Follow me back too. Come on now. Let's take some pictures y'all. Yeah. Let's go. I love you. My little sister. Thank you guys. Y'all got to get me out of the house. Come in now. I'm going to knock on my phone. This looks like an event.