 The narcissist doesn't want you to know this. They don't want you to know that they don't really care about you. They don't really care about your health or well-being. They don't have your best interests in mind. They just pretend that they do to keep you around, to keep you coming back to them. To make you feel as though you are safer and more secure by being around them. And so the world is a dangerous place and without them you will be at risk of danger or harm. They don't want you to know that they are the danger. They are what is harmful to you and the longer you are around them, the more pain and distress you will endure. They keep coming back to you because it makes them feel powerful. It makes them feel as though they have influence and control over you. It makes them feel as though they have a strong effect on your thoughts and feelings. They keep coming back to you because you let them. Because you keep giving them another chance, regardless of what they do to you. And that makes them feel powerful. That makes them feel like they are in control, but they don't come back because they care about you. They come back because of how it makes them feel. When you forgive them and give them another chance, despite everything that they have done to you, because all they have to do is make you feel like they care about you. All they have to do is make you believe that they are good people who have your best interest in mind. When all they really care about is manipulating and controlling you. And keeping you as their source of supply. Thank you for watching. I hope this video wears in it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you'd like to donate, my paypal link is in the video description. Coaching requires you can email me and that's howforcoaching.org. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.