 This has to be the narcissist worst nightmare That's what I'm going to be talking about in today's video and Yeah, you can see the view behind me Don't know if you could see it too well on yesterday's video. It was a bit dark Here we have this really nice Lake right here. I'm really in nature here All the palm trees everywhere. It's just such a nice view very peaceful Now first I want to make something clear and that's that The narcissist is never going to regret losing you as a person narcissist don't do that unless they develop some kind of self-awareness And they realize where they went wrong That's the only way that they could do that but otherwise if someone regrets losing he was a person and they actually miss you and There's feelings Involved then That would suggest they're not a full-blown narcissist Because narcissists don't tend to do that But yeah narcissist Don't miss you as a person it's more about superficial things and That's why they ended up leaving Because they thought the grass was greener on the other side They thought they found a better deal They thought they were done with you because they drained everything out of you, but then You started to progress You started to become better and this is really their greatest fear Their worst nightmare because They will regret Everything that you provided to them The treatment that they were receiving Because you did a lot of things for them you validated them you made them feel relevant They felt stable and secure around you Because you remain unchanged You were predictable But they didn't appreciate you They took you for granted and then you leveled up you became better and you moved on And they were very hurt by that They were very bitter about it But they tried to move on and find someone else But they never find better situations. They always go down. It always gets worse for them But when you do become better Healthier and stronger Of course, they're gonna look back Of course, they're gonna be wondering How the hell you managed to do that They're going to want to know Because they thought they made the right decision by leaving you They didn't think that things were gonna get any better for you Because you weren't doing anything great while they were with you So they didn't expect you to do better After they left because they never came to the conclusion that They were the cause of you not doing well That was only when they were around you because they were weighing you down So yeah, they look back and they're just shocked They can't believe the entire time that they were with you They had you They had the winning lottery ticket in their hands And what did it what did they do? They just threw it away like it was garbage Like it was nothing because you weren't doing big things when they were with you Or at least not as big as what you're doing now And this is their greatest fear When you elevate When you level up when you boss up when you glow up After they discard you They get really envious and jealous They may not want you as a person Because if they are narcissists It's all about the benefits and conveniences the treatment But they will Envy who you are the person that you have become after they have left They will want to be you And to have the things that you have Because you managed to move on Progress succeed and become a better person without them Something that they could not do They may not miss you Or love you or anything like that But they just hate it that you found happiness without them You found something that makes you feel good inside and they hate it when you feel good Remember when you were with them They never wanted you to feel good They always try to make you miserable so that's really the greatest fear is when You move on and you find things that do make you feel good and they look back and they think I was with that person I Was once a part of their lives and now I can't partake I Can't have some of that I Can't have a piece of the pie because they will remember back when they were with you You were giving them some of that But they thought they could get more They thought they could do better But now you're doing even better And it eats away at them Because they're not really doing anything They might act like they've moved on and they're happier without you But it's all fake It always looks good from the outside Because you don't see all of the problems all of the things they go in through Most often they're experiencing the exact same things as they did with you Because they never change They never take accountability. They never see what they're doing wrong So wherever they go they will experience the same things They run away and they think it's gonna go away But it follows them Because wherever they go they are that common denominator They are the cause of the issue And while that's all going on for them You're moving on and you're doing bigger and better things Things are going great for you. So of course, they're gonna be envious and jealous Because they feel like they've lost something They feel like it's really unfair for them Because all of the things they did to you are now a Barrier to them coming back They burned the bridge They can't be around you anymore You're not gonna accept them And it fills them full of shame Even if they did come back, they couldn't even look you in the eye anymore They couldn't even have a conversation with you Because deep down they know that you don't want anything to do with them And that really bothers them There's one thing a narcissist hates. It's being rejected Being ignored Given the silent treatment Especially when it's by someone that they feel entitled to Because they see you as an object that belongs to them They had you before and they think that once they've had you, that's it for life But you don't want them You don't want anything to do with them All of these things that you've been working hard for Since they've been gone Maybe you've been going to the gym Three times, five times a week You've slimmed down Your body is looking better than ever Your muscles are looking hard and strong You're looking really good Better than you did when they were with you But you don't want them to touch your body You don't want them to have a feel of that Or maybe You're making more money now And you bought a new car But you don't want them to sit in it Maybe you bought a new house And you don't want them to come over You don't want them to sit on your new couch Watch a new TV All of these nice things that you have going on in your life You don't want them to partake in that And of course they're looking at it They're looking at all of these things you've got going on in your life And they're like Damn I want some of that I want a second go at that one But you don't want anything to do with them You don't want them to come back Thanks for the donation, Jewelcy Just bought a Benz The haters multiplied Congratulations Enjoy it Yeah, they're looking at all this stuff And of course They are human They do feel desire For things that other people have And actually more than anyone else They desire this stuff more than anyone But you won't even talk to them You're acting like they don't even exist But there was a time When they had power over you Where they said jump And you said how high They got whatever they wanted But now They can't get that They can't have it And it eats away at them It destroys them But of course they will try to move on I mean they've got to do something They've got to try and outdo you Try and do better But they are so mad inside So bitter And resentful They feel like life is so unfair to them So hateful, so envious and jealous But it doesn't matter Where they go or who they find They can't enjoy anything They're not going to experience pleasure And satisfaction with anyone Or anything in their lives Never Because all of that envy and hatred Is going to spew out on whoever they're with In whatever activity they're engaged in It has to come out somewhere They can't hold on to it for too long And I'm sure you will remember that When you were with them Constantly all of the anger and hatred Is just pouring out of them onto you That doesn't go away It just gets worse Especially when they see that you've moved on And things are going better for you But yeah they moved on Because they never thought this would happen They've done this before This is not the first time They've done it to their exes And Maybe things didn't turn out too well for them Maybe their exes were in tears They broke down Some of them may have wanted to kill themselves Because they were so affected by the narcissist So the narcissist assumed That the same thing would happen to you You would just give up on life You would stop trying They didn't expect this to happen They never thought that things would get better for you They never saw that coming And that's why they get so obsessed They're stalking you Constantly watching you on social media Because Now they feel like they're missing out on something Something better They just can't Stop They can't focus on anything Knowing that you are out there somewhere And you're doing so much better now It really gets to them Dominates their minds And that's the reason why they stalk you Because deep down they know They made the wrong decision They should never have left Deep down they know that And that's why they're constantly tuning in Watching all of the improvements You're making in your life All of these good things that are going on All of these experiences you're having That they can't be a part of Yeah, they have to have a good look at that Because that's All they really can do is look at it They can't participate in it They can't be a part of it They can't enjoy it But they thought you would have fell off by now They thought you would have been all down and out They didn't expect you to keep going To keep growing To keep glowing No, they didn't expect none of that They thought you would have let yourself go They thought things would have gotten worse for you And you would have deteriorated And that they would no longer Desire you Or decided to be a part of your life They didn't think that you would keep going They didn't expect you to keep working hard Just getting better for you But even when things do get better The last thing you should do Is give them a helping hand You shouldn't try and pick them up When they're down Because they were never there for you They were only there To get something from you So you should not feel bad for them You should not try to help them They made their bed, now let them lie in it Let them deal with the consequences Of their own actions Or just forget about them Because all they're going to do When they come back They're just going to leech off you again They're not going to come back To give anything to you They're very selfish They only care about themselves But trust me Narcissists have desires They desire things more than anyone else That's where they do what they do That's where they have no morals That's where they cheat line steal And yeah, they're looking back Remembering everything they had with you And they're stalking you And seeing everything you got now And they wish they could be a part of that Yeah, they wish They could put their hands on your body again They wish they could sit in your new car And if you go into any nice restaurants They wish they could go there with you They wish they could do all of their stuff Because that's what they want That's what they desire Remember how they were always on social media Comparing their lives with you With what other people have got going on They were always looking for the better deal Well now that's you Now you're the better deal But they can't have you And it destroys them Please give the video a thumbs up If it revived with you I have a feeling that it did 135 Live viewers in your right now Please hit that thumbs up button It helps to support our community Which is growing every day Pretty soon we will be at 150,000 subscribers And 40 million views Massive achievements It means a lot I thank you all for your support And yeah I'm just gonna head out now and enjoy my day And I hope you all will too Depending on where you are And what time it is for you