 Then most people aren't unhappy marriages or unhappy relationships or unhappily single to so to me When you meet people at the top you find they're like they're like awake. They notice things. They're they're excited They they say Warren Buffett says he tap dances out of bed every day. He's so excited About what he's doing. So he loves every part of his life So that's the difference in it in it But it also is they are smart in the sense that they're reading they're listening to other people