 Hello my YouTube family Welcome to another live video. As I'm beginning this video. It is 11 11 Here where I am It's pretty cool. It's the first time I've seen that but yeah, this video It's a very important message Quite possibly one of the most important videos that I have ever made And it's something that you need to pay close attention to Maybe watch it back a few times as well because this information is going to reveal everything to you It's going to help you to understand what you've went through and How that happened to you many of you who watch my videos I've noticed that we have something in common Not all of you but most of you especially the clients that I've talked to You see despite a lot of things that I've said And I did actually touch on this in the beginning as well if you watch my earlier videos But there is something I need to go deeper into And that is it That's really the missing piece something we don't really Talk about as being important But it is very important and I guess it's because in many ways we've been trained to not think about it and Instead to question ourselves as though something is wrong with us But yeah, this is a very important part of it all in my earlier videos Of course, I wanted to Introduce myself to everyone Explain my background where I'm from I'm sure many of you you can relate to it in some ways and it's One of the main things that really sets you up to being involved with narcissists Smear campaigns and gang stalking so basically My history by childhood I come from an upper middle class background where I Was raised in a home with Four bedrooms a Swimming pool we had four cars and Nissan Two Mercedes and one BMW. They were all brand new. I've asked just the environment was raised in I Went to private school my entire life My entire life. I was pretty much just In a world of my own in a bubble separated from the rest of the world from most people I Never got involved with them. I never even knew that this world existed. I was at a world full of Unicorns and rainbows We're at home. Everything was taken care of for me You could just jump in the pool whenever we wanted to and I know that's kind of normal these days to have a swimming pool But I'm talking about over 30 years ago, but everything was just normal We drive around in brand new cars It was just we didn't see it as anything out of the ordinary or at least I didn't because I was born into that environment And going to private school To me it was just boring. I didn't think it was anything special I guess my ideas of myself based on what I experienced with other people on the rare occasions Who weren't in private school? I felt like I Was an outcast From the very beginning I felt like I was weird or I was like growing up too fast. I was in a child like everyone else like I was sheltered like I was too soft That's really it. I mean Even though not all of you may be from an upper middle up a middle class background You could be from working class But even then maybe you were raised in a sheltered environment You were kept away from most people you were raised in a bubble But maybe you just go to school you spend most of your time by yourself you don't have too many friends And then you go back home you just do your homework Just watch TV play video games all night, then you go to sleep You're not around most people You're not out on the streets like everyone else drink alcohol doing drugs As early as when they're teenagers that already getting into that You weren't involved in all that stuff So you grow up to become quite soft. I would say quite innocent because you've been protected from Things that are corrupt you haven't been contaminated. So that's become your personality then But then you wonder How does your family turn against you your parents aren't like you? Because while you may have been raised in a sheltered environment and you may be from a upper middle class background That doesn't mean that your parents were That doesn't mean that that's their identity Because they may have been raised in poverty and when you're in poverty you've got all of these difficulties not just financial but everything else as well because For those people they're always in survival mode They haven't got everything figured out for themselves and for their lives So they're just constantly figuring out how they can survive from one day to the next They haven't got any time to think about love connection a relationship And they can't think about that because their childhood Would need to have been stable first in Childhood you need to have Things figured out you need to be sheltered in some ways So that you're not just thinking about how do I survive? How do I get from this day to the next? And then you can think about having empathy for other people, which means you can connect You could experience love intimacy at connection. So that's a very important point to make People who are raised in a low-class environment Where their needs weren't met Where they struggled financially They didn't have enough to eat Later in life these people aren't going to be able to experience love or can owe a connection They're just going to overlook you. They're not gonna think of you in that way. They're not gonna take you seriously They're just gonna be thinking about can you help me to survive or not? Can I get what I need from you? That's the only thing that's gonna be on their minds. It's like an animal Because they've been raised in the wild We haven't we were sheltered and I know many of you who are watching this Can relate because you got involved with narcissists smear campaigns They target sheltered people because it's very easy for them to manipulate us We don't know much about the world. We don't know about Other people's nature based on how they were raised So it's easy pickings for them They see us and it's like a walk in the park because you haven't been in the wrestling bring your entire life You haven't been rolling around in the mud You were kept safe. You were protected You were loved. You were cherished even if That was fake. You thought it was real when you were a child You thought your parents cared about you and loved you Even though maybe it was just about their image and this is a real problem when you get out into the world I mean when you come from a middle An upper middle class background and Like for myself You're from quite a wealthy affluent family You're raised in a sheltered environment. I mean as I said I went to private school my entire life. I Had speech lessons from a very young age. I Even remember Having Talks with therapists as well When I was a child Just to check on me to see that I'm okay. Everything's going well so there was a Lot of external support not really from my family directly Because of course with narcissistic people they do they might provide Financially and take care of their children in that way to support their image But not emotional support, but I did have that met as well because We lived next door to a church minister for Pretty much throughout by the early years of my life Until I was an adult so all of these things. I mean wealthy families especially narcissists they want their child to be Raised to be perfect To be this ideal image to be Highly attractive highly desirable to everyone They want it to be so that you're well presented You conduct yourself well Around other people you speak well you express yourself well Your disciplines hard-working self-motivated They instill all of these traits into us Thanks for the donation. Thank the Lord. I appreciate it Yeah, they instill all of this into it into us But not only that because then our statistic our families They also want to keep us down and control us So then it ends up making us quite soft So you just think you've got all of these qualities And you will raise very well, but then at the same time you're soft I mean It's it just makes it easy pickings for these predators these narcissists when you go out into the world And especially you think since because you're so used to Having everything There for you when you need it when you're raised around narcissists, and it's all about their false image And not only that but even your family's friends They're likely to be the same way as well with their children And they treat you in a similar way Like you're their own child So you're well looked after It's great While you're sheltered while you're in this little bubble But what happens when you go out into the real world where people are struggling everyone's suffering They're just trying to survive from one day to the next They're not gonna know how to treat you They're really not I mean You have to think about it like this The environment that you were raised in it's like not even 1% of the population I've think about it like this What do you think you would what do you think would happen? if you gave just as an example a Ferrari To just anyone a random person out of 99% of the population What do you think it would look like if you gave that to them? Or that you returned to them Even after a few weeks maybe a few months in some cases They wouldn't know how to take care of it They wouldn't know how to treat it. Well, it's the same thing as just giving a $100 bill to a two-year-old child They're not gonna know what to do with that and this is how it is When you go out into the world from a sheltered environment But you've been taken care of you've been looked after Given the correct treatment in some ways in other ways, maybe not which is then How you end up around these people because that seems normal to you as well where you were abused in some ways And your emotional needs were neglected So then you go out into the world and you experience that type of environment And it's like I mean at some point I just got to say I mean What do we expect? Seriously, what what do we expect? And we're wrong we have to take responsibility in some ways when we go out into the world You know, you're from like An upper middle class background or even working class, but you're in a sheltered up environment It treated well you're given love Did he go out into the world? But of course They're not gonna know how to treat you they're not gonna know how to love you How to respect you they're not gonna know how to take care of you You may know how to take care of them Because you were raised that way you you know how to be polite respectful considerate You know how to present yourself well to communicate You know how to get your point across This is why when you get around a lot of people they just use these tactics to pretend like they can't hear what you're saying They give you word salad they gas like you They just change the conversation because they know how you've been raised they can see that they can They can see the way you talk the way you walk all of these things as a narcissist pointed out to me before on the first meeting They can see all of these things Because they've been raised in hunger and poverty in low class environments They get around you. It's like a breath of fresh air It really is but then they don't know how to treat you Again, they just their personality is just survival That's what they were raised in then their personality became fixed It's all about just getting their needs met All they can do is think about themselves They can't consider you or anyone else And yet you're getting around them and you're thinking about How do I make this person feel comfortable? How do I take care of them and they're not thinking that way about you So who do you think's gonna be left with the short end of the stick? Of course, it's gonna be you of course, you're gonna be the fool Because of how you were raised and how they were raised and when you come together They know this environment all too well, they're rough and ready. They've already been through it They used to it. This is how they live every day. It's how they've always lived You you're not used to it You were brought up differently, so of course it's gonna be different to you They're gonna see that and instantly they know they've got the advantage They've got the upper hand Because it's like you're walking into the wrestling ring and You've never been into it before You haven't had any training. You don't even know how to put on your gloves And it's like they're standing there. They're all ready. They're warming up Ready to take you down because you're just not used to it. You're not familiar with that many of you you are compared to them compared to other people you are rather pretentious rather conceited raised in a sheltered environment away from the cold hard world You weren't brought up in that you were kept away from it So you're quite soft and I I see it in myself as well. I was very soft Until I got out into the world and I had some experience even still at my core In my heart, I'm still Quite a soft person. I could only be rough when I need to be and even then that's only just to protect myself Because I know what other people are like I instinctually know now Now that I've gone out into the world and I've had this experience And that's what we really need is that experience. I guess Well minimizing our losses as much as we can We need to experience it It's just a shame that has to be in the way that it is That we weren't exposed to it a little bit at a younger younger age Many of you you just don't know what the world is like That's really what it is You were raised in a bubble your entire life Do you think oh, it's just sunshine, unicorn and rainbows It's like a fairy tale everything's so pleasant Everything's so safe It's not It was like that for you. Yeah It was like that for you in your your upbringing Where you were taken care of You were given the love the respect that you deserve And then you get out into the world and you meet these people And you think there's something wrong with them That's how you're looking at it and then you get caught up in smear campaigns gang stalking You're thinking god. Look at all these crazy people. What's going on? Because your entire life you're you're bringing You're around your family Your family's friends They were all kind of the same way professional people They don't get caught up in that kind of stuff. They don't hang around those types of people They work hard. They're disciplined They take good care of themselves And then you go out into the world and it's like Maybe you don't realize it initially, but most people aren't like that Most people are very rough They're ready to fight for what they want They have a scarcity mindset You were raised in an environment of abundance I'm not saying it was perfect. I mean, yeah, you may have been neglected in some ways as well emotionally You may have been abused. There may have been violence As for just your needs and this is the most important thing about it all For where other people were raised in poverty This is extremely important for a child It really is Because how can you think about having empathy for other people? How could you think about connection? Things like respect love compassion How can you think about any of that? When you don't even know when you're going to have your next meal or when your parents are Worried complaining about the rent How can you think about any of that? That's how it is for them For most people in the world, that's what it's like And then that becomes their personality. They're constantly in survival mode. They can't think about anything else They can't think about love connection respect empathy compassion. They can't think about any of that They're just constantly in a fight for their lives And your entire life you weren't fighting You experienced abundance you Were more focused on taking care of other people Thanks for the donation. God fight giddy Appreciate it So yeah, you get out into this world Many of you you didn't even see it. You didn't even realize how different you are To most people Being sheltered You were kept pure uncontaminated But if you're kept that way Where you're sheltered To a certain age. I'm not sure what age it is It could be different for different people But if it if it's to that certain age you remain that way for the rest of your life At your core you may Try to develop a like a defense Against these toxic corrupt people but at your core you're still there This uncontaminated Pure innocent Often naive loving caring and compassionate person. You're still there Because you were sheltered all of those years About how narcissists get around you they They get you so easily they trick you they scam you and you don't even see it coming That's how they managed to do it because Their core is very different to yours theirs is contaminated impure corrupt evil immoral They've been that way since a child But they were children they were already thinking about stealing Shoplifting Going to go into people's houses. Maybe their own relatives and thinking Wow, that that looks valuable Slip that into my into my pocket into my bag That's their mindset I You know, this is how we are like we think about these kinds of things and it just makes us laugh It's like a joke. It's like why do you have to do that? But this is how it is for them. They're always in survival mode They're constantly just trying to survive And they see people like us and it's like taking candy from a baby. It's like easy pickings Because it's like they intuitively know At some level Oh, yeah, this this person doesn't know what they're doing. They didn't even see who I am They can't even see you they can't even see me It's like because You've been raised in a sheltered environment You haven't been exposed to predators to corruption To scarcity You haven't been in that fight in the wrestling ring You haven't been rolling around in the mud So you don't even realize that they're going to pull you into that You're not even going to see it Because you'd had to have experienced it before But what you have experienced Is you were taking care of in some ways In ways where it's like as a child Like you could have the things that you wanted I remember I'd go to the supermarket with my mum And you could just pick out whatever you like Even though a lot of time ago Where the world was much poorer 30 years ago Is a difference And you may not see it as much it may seem normal to you It doesn't seem normal to them Their normal is very different to yours and yet Because it seems normal to you When you go out into the world and you meet other people It's like everything's so frustrating It's like you constantly have to manage your expectations Lower your standards of the behavior that you accept That you would normally accept or expect And you're just thinking Why is it so difficult for them Why is it so hard Why can't they just get it together That's how you're seeing it And it frustrates you to the point where you then Find these videos And it's because Their childhood that upbringing was not like yours You were raised a certain way It built a certain character for you To where you could just do everything with ease I'm not saying it doesn't take work Yeah, you have to work hard you have to sweat But you can get it done You don't fail Or if you do fail Get it done right the next time you learn from it They just keep messing up again and again And yet They manage to get you to think that it's you That you're not right when it's like Hold on a minute If you want to know Just look back at the person's childhood that upbringing That tells you what you need to know Because I look at myself and I was In private school My entire life, I mean From the age of five years old Up until I was 16 I was in private school I had speech lessons as a child and Yeah That alone It creates a character for you Your personality You're sheltered from all of this nonsense going on outside All of this dysfunction where people are fighting there's all of this chaos There's poverty. There's hunger There's functional families You're sheltered from all of that Where other kids they're all getting into it at a very young age You're not So you're already prepared from the very beginning You're already raised Especially if you weren't drawn into your family's dysfunction when they were fighting. I know myself I was always running away from all of that I would just go outside for a walk Walk around in the forest behind our house I would go to the beach I just want to get away from it whenever they started fighting When my mother was raging I would go to my dad And then he would like to love bore me in And then When my dad would start raging I would go back to my mom So I always avoided it. I always ran away from it the fights anything toxic And that's what I've been doing my entire life running away from toxic people I run away from it And I'm sure many of you do too Once you realize what you're dealing with But yeah From a young age I was raised to be this way To be confident To be able to present myself well To converse effectively This is how I so easily amount So many subscribers viewers Who can relate to what I say Because I was raised to be this way from a very young age And to be logical and rational Rather than emotional Like a lot of people in this world today Who didn't have the tools they didn't have the proper upbringing the schooling the education Quite clearly many many of you did Even though you may not realize it I mean just think You're able to watch this video and listen to what I'm saying You resonate with it So it's you as well And that's how you're experiencing these things with Narcissist and toxic people And that's how you get so caught up in it because it's like You're so confident in how you present yourself and how you speak And if someone doesn't understand you just automatically assume okay It must be me So I need to try and figure things out. I need to be better for you But it's like no matter how good you are it's never good enough Because you're dealing with people who Are constantly in survival mode and they're going to be in survival mode until the day they die Doesn't matter if they Suddenly become successful They suddenly develop a business become a millionaire whatever it is They're still going to be in that survival mode at their core Because that's the environment that they were raised in Well as for us Our environment was more comfortable. We had our needs met We were financially secure So we conflict We're not compatible with these types of people Which is like 99% of the world It's like Other psychologist Ross Rosenberg said in one of his videos Never wrestle with pigs You might get dirty and besides the pig likes it They love to pull someone like you into the mud into the wrestling ring and get you dirty Because normally you're clean you're pure that you're uncontaminated They pull you into it. They love it. They just mark and ridicule you Have a laugh at you because deep down they know you're better You were raised better than that. They know it And they know that they're foul. They're corrupt They're no good So they love to pull you into it because then it's like Oh, so you're not so special after all. We're not so different Because if we were different then how come you're You're laying in the mud right now Or you're in the wrestling with wrestling ring with me I could just hit you You've got a bruise in your face So you're no different. You're no better That's what they think That's exactly how they think. That's the process that goes on in their mind When they come after you when they attack you and it doesn't always have to be physically even when it's emotionally psychologically and they They just managed to get you because you're sheltered. You were sheltered as a child You're quite soft You're more willing to agree. You're more adaptive more flexible Rather than maladaptive like them So all they have to do is just you know, they know all the tactics They know what they have to do to get you to agree to act in accordance with them And then it's like, yeah, I got you Bruised you emotionally psychologically Then it tells them are you're no different to me So you're not better. You're not greater after all And that's what they're looking for that's the reaction the response that they want Even though it's not real Remember they have to use this false character bring you into their false reality Because our world is the true world Doesn't matter that we're such a small percentage of the population We were sheltered from all of this nonsense We are the ones who are real And that's why they've got to pull us into their world We're not trying to pull them into our world They're trying to draw us into it so that they can get what they need from us Because we had the tools a long time ago to be successful To build a fulfilling life for ourselves and other people But they didn't Our battery they would draw some to us. It's these qualities Because remember people want what they don't have They come around us because they want these qualities That we got from being raised in a more functional Maybe a more developed A more sheltered upbringing They kind of like that in a way because in their childhood they were more focused on survival On how to survive from one day to the next while for us Because those needs were met we could focus more on love connection I mean I remember when I was a child in school I had all of these crushes on the girls and Sometimes I would have dreams about them Because I could You know, I wasn't having nightmares like thinking oh god You know What am I gonna have to eat but how's my mom gonna pay the rent? I didn't have to worry about those things that was never a concern to me I never had to worry about money or anything like that as a child I never even had to worry about getting a job nothing Never had to think about that and I know that's the same for many of you Those needs were taken care of Because then that developed into your personality To where you became quite soft. You're not so hard like they are Then they come around you it's easy pickings because They've already been through all of the battles and their lives They've already got all of the scars They've been through it and then they come around you They're the predator you're the prey Big dog red says try growing up with the projects That's the thing as well You get into the projects into the hoods It doesn't mean that every single person there is like that. They're not all thugs. They're not all gangsters You always come across these needles and the haystacks these rare few people Who are probably just in their home all day. They never go out They keep to themselves. They avoid the thugs So even in those environments And somehow they manage to get by So you will have those rare few as well It's not all about being rich and you know, I know I talk about my life and I was from a An upper middle class background I mean, we didn't have financial worries You know, as I said, it was a four bedroom house swimming pool that I was raised in And four cars to Mercedes at BMW and Nissan and they went up to being In a five bedroom mansion five bathrooms with four floors Two brand new Aston Martins AMG Mercedes You know, we didn't have any worries like that at all But it's not always that a person needs to have that affluent background Also, although if you do Then the more likely it is that you become a target you will be smeared Your name will be smeared You will be gangstalked all of these things. They will want to destroy you And you got to look at it like that. I mean everything that they're trying to do to you Is not already who and what you are Everything they're trying to do to you is not already who and what you are And that is like the missing piece to the puzzle. That's what solves it all That keeps you from being gaslit From being manipulated because it's like why are you trying to do this to me? If I'm not already that if I'm not already that way So when they're trying to pull you into it to the toxic environments the fights the arguments the corruption the problems It's because you're not already that way Like when they devalue you They're taking value away from you. It doesn't mean you don't have value It means that you do that's why they're taking value away And then when they go to discard you they treat you like your garbage It's because Yeah, you become garbage once you get involved with them then you lose all of your value So this is it This is everything that they do They're trying to make you into the opposite of your not because they look at you And I'm not saying this is what we are. I mean, of course No one's perfect, but they literally they idealize you They view you as perfect when they see you I've heard about it from narcissists many times before when they love bought me They idealize me in the beginning the way they talk about me They literally look at you like an angel and then later on they act like they're like that Everything they're trying to display to you. They're trying to be like you They're trying to compete with you because Honestly the way that they see you the way they look at you If you could see yourself from their eyes In the beginning where they love bomb you before they take your value away Before they try to corrupt you They really view you as a very special person Even though they have to be in denial. They can't really admit it to themselves But that's really how it is But the problem is they don't know how to treat you With the love compassion and respect that you can give to them From how you were raised so you know how to be that way But with them They don't Like I said, it's like giving a Ferrari to Pretty much just anyone from the 99% of the population You really think they'd know what to do with that You think they would know how to take care of it And they come around you and they project that onto you but that's really them Just look at people's lives Just look at how they're living Do they take good care of themselves? Most people don't. You really think they're going to know how to take care of you? Of course not It's like giving a hundred dollar bill to a two-year-old child They're just going to tear it up. They're not going to know what to do with it They're not going to save it. They're not going to invest it They're just going to go and blow it all And this is just how it is in the world today There's a lot of people in this world. They want to have power. They were never meant to have it They were never meant to have it Power should be given to those who are pure Those who are not corrupt those who Were raised in more of a sheltered upbringing But also those who can appreciate it those who don't just take it for granted So that's important as well Sadly power these days is going to some of the most immoral corrupt people And yeah, then when you look around and we wonder why the world is the way that it is today This is just how it is How many of you I know it frustrates you it confuses you When you go out into the world around most people and it's like The first thing you should notice is how They love bomb you they manipulate you they try to reflect your own qualities of virtues back to you They're always trying to get you To agree They're always trying to get you to act in accordance with them Why? Because they want to feel like there's no difference between you and them as though you're the same They want to feel like they're like you And that's how it's like the analogy I mentioned earlier They want to pull you into that wrestling bring into the mud They get you dirty You got mud all over you Or they hit you Then you got a bruise in your face And then to them that tells them There's no difference between you and them So that's really what that is when they do that Well, that's for us. It's the opposite because of how we were raised. It's like We don't want to see anyone hurt. We don't want to see anyone down. We want the best for everyone And that's part of the problem as well Because you get around people you're wanting the best for them You wanted to give them this amazing relationship this amazing connection You want to share a home with them build a future and you're trying to do that with people who Were raised in the opposite environment of what you were They're constantly in survival mode. They're just trying to survive from one day to the next Are you all coming around thinking about love connection relationship? Come out of some point we've got to think is that going to work out well Someone who Didn't have to worry about surviving Things were already Fine for them and their childhood their needs were met Get around someone who had the opposite experience. They were just thinking about how to survive You put those two people together. What do you think's going to happen? Of course, they're going to eat you alive They're going to tear you down Just use you for whatever you've got just so that they can then survive I mean just think about that. It's just obvious And yet we don't see it Because we don't realize who we are Well, that's just how it is. It's like throwing a piece of meat to a pack of dogs. They're just going to tear you apart They're going to tear you to pieces They really are Just like they did to jesus Jesus was not meant to be around those types of people This is just how it is We're not meant to be around most people We're not I mean, there's a reason why And the projects and the hoods You're not going to see Wealthy wealthy affluent son or daughter In that type of environment. I mean, what do you think's going to happen to them? How do you think people are going to treat them? You think people are going to be like, oh, yeah. All right. Let's roll out the red carpet for them. Make sure they got everything they need No Instead they're going to be looking at everything you've got Are they going to be plotting and scheming of how they're going to steal out from you? And then you're going to be the one who's left without anything And it's like all you've really got is your qualities And then they're the ones who're going to have this false image pretending to be you Because yeah, they they wish they were you I mean, it all goes back to the childhood. They all wish that they Have that love that special care That special attention when they were a child And that's why they spend the rest their lives Trying to have that Trying to look like they live a comfortable life Trying to look like they're well taken care of Even though it's all fake even though they may be corrupt and they just Cheated people they stole It's a trauma response Well as for us what's our trauma response Trying to take care of everyone else the best that we can neglecting ourselves Because that was our experience in childhood We had a lot And we could see that other people did not So we're going out into the world thinking oh Baby How can I love you? How can I take care of you? Let me just hold you and give you the love that you need Let me give you everything. Let me give you the world Based on our trauma response in childhood where it's like we had everything we needed Our needs were taken care of We lucked out into the world we could see it's not like that for everyone else And yet they had the opposite of bringing. This is how you know straight away Because they come around you and it's like They know they're there nothing like us It's all about how do I cheap this person? How do I get it out of him or her? And then I can present this image as though that's who I am Because this is what people want You know when you go for a job or Wherever it may be you're going into a partnership for a business A lot of people they do want someone like that so when it was raised in that type of environment It's highly attractive. It's highly desirable People don't want to be around those who are just from the hood Unless they're like that then they yeah, they might feel more comfortable around those types of people But sociopaths psychopaths they want to be around more high-class people They do because they aspire to be more like that But as for the lower end Of the spectrum and asses them or just looking around You know get around those types of people just to cheap them to steal and then to go back to the whole where they belong And this is why you can't be around most people Because they didn't have the same upbringing that you did Sometimes I wish I wasn't this way. I mean I was with an asses before and she Trying to explain to me how you know, this is how it is. This is the way the world works I didn't want to accept it at the time The more you look into it, this is actually how it is If you had a good upbringing You went to private school You need to be around other people like that Sadly for me my my father was telling me this my entire life I didn't listen I was just like no, no I want to go out into on the streets See what everyone else is like the people who are poor. They don't have much money They haven't got a good family who's there to protect them. I wanted to be around those people And now I know now I realize why Because they had qualities that I was missing I was so soft. I wasn't street wise. I wasn't rough and ready like they were I didn't know how to fend for myself And so I wanted to I was curious about it I wanted to explore what was that like To be like them And of course I went about it in the wrong way. I should have listened to my father back then Because you coming from that type of upbringing you get around these leeches these parasites. They're gonna suck the life out of you They're gonna leave you to rot Seriously, they're gonna they're gonna they're gonna eat you alive Like throwing a piece of meat to a pack of dogs If they haven't already they're gonna destroy you They will I mean that's the whole point. That's why You were raised in a sheltered environment That's the whole point of it To protect you from that That's why You don't see The rich upper class people just go it about in the projects in the hood Getting around just common people getting on the bus Taking the train the tube. That's why you don't see that Because they already know exactly what's gonna happen to them They know these people are gonna tear them apart They're gonna destroy them their life. It's gonna be over. It's gonna be ruined That's why they don't invite those types of people into their home because they already know They're gonna walk in where they dirt your shoes all over their expensive carpet They're gonna Steal their stuff Maybe they I don't know They got some expensive paintings when they're not looking all of that's gonna go missing. It's gonna be gone And they might just go and spread rumors about them to spread at them Just try to ruin their life Because they're just jealous The jealous are extremely envious Remember that these types of people are very competitive Because they're in survival modes They're trying to compete with you And it's sad the way the world is This is just how it is people like us We cannot be around those people We have to Have these boundaries we have to create this divide But not all of them. I mean You know, there's always the exceptions People who recognize this truth People who recognize that yes, if you're raised in a sheltered upbringing A certain level of social class That other people are going to be able to get you there are going to be there to try and destroy you to steal from you People from a lower class A working class who can see that truth and they accept it And yes, I have met people like that as well Those types of people they didn't try to discredit me They didn't try to sabotage my life And if anything they accepted it they were like, yeah It's right. You you are from a higher class You are from a sheltered upbringing. I'm not They were able to accept that And we still got along well And we got along well because they weren't in denial They didn't have a false self. They didn't need to pull me into a false reality Just so they could feel comfortable and the reason why is because Those people are self-motivated They still believe in themselves So they're not completely corrupt even though they may be from A working class background so That's another thing to consider as well You can still have friends like that And they may have qualities that you aspire to have for yourself And that's good as well because we should learn from each other just don't do that around most people They will seek to destroy you They will leech off you like a parasite. They will steal from you They will do anything to try to ruin your life To discredit you to make you into the everything into everything that you're not Pull you into their wrestling brain get you dirty just like them They will try to do all of that because they just can't accept reality They can't accept that they're them and you're you It's just not fair to them They don't like it They just look at it like how is that fair? How is that fair that you were sheltered you were raising a A comfortable environment you had everything you needed and that's for them all of those years while you were Cushy and comfortable in your home Everything was laid out for you and a plate They suffered all of our time they struggled So then they see you and then they've got this entitlement Then it's like all right now it's time for you to pay It's time for you to make it equal After everything that they had to go through So what it is really they just don't want to accept reality They don't want to accept that you are who you actually are And that they are who they are They don't want to accept that their dirty foul corrupt immoral people They just don't want to accept it and that's the big part of the problem is that denial Because I put myself in their shoes. I can have empathy for them compassion That's just obvious what I would do if I was in their shoes I would just accept it. I would be like, okay. Yeah, I'm foul immoral and corrupt So what do I have to do? To be pure But then that's the problem as well because it's like They kind of need to get around people who are pure who are innocent to be that way And once we're awake and aware we don't want them around us Because all they're going to do is corrupt us again So we want to keep them away As I said, I mean There's always these exceptions There's these people who Yeah, they may have had a difficult upbringing They may have Struggled in their childhood That's a lot of people do As for these rare few exceptions They had something special They were self-motivated. They had this belief in themselves That they knew that no matter what they were going to do it. They're going to make it They knew they were going to make it happen for themselves And that's great But doing it the right way as well not by cheating people And I think a lot of times what they have is faith in God I think that's really what pulls them through Because I don't believe that people can really do these things if they If they do actually believe in God But yeah, this is just how it is For many of you who just can't be yourself Around most people They don't want you to be you They don't want to accept that that is you They want you to be something else That's why they were to pull you into the wrestling ring Into the mud To get you dirty Caught up in all kinds of stuff That you should never have been involved in That's why they want to get you caught up in that They want to ruin you, destroy you Make you just like them Just so they can feel comfortable And to kind of Numb their envy and jealousy of you a little bit Because they know they're not like you They're never going to be like you They're never going to be pure They're always going to be these corrupt people They're always going to be that way And why? Because they don't want to accept it They want to remain in denial So this is what you have to understand About most people in this world They are dysfunctional They are corrupt They're immoral, they're impure You get around them and they will contaminate you This is why they want to be close to you And it's why you should distance yourself from them It's good for them to be around you They can Steal your qualities, mimic you It's easy pickings for them But for you It's no good Obviously all that can happen is that you're going to lose Around them And they're going to gain Even if it's just your attention, your validation Of course they want that Of course they want that from you I mean someone who's raised in Another environment A purity Like a real person Good natured Just all around better Of a higher class But you need to be around people like that as well Stop giving people all of these chances Start looking for other people like yourself People of a higher class A higher caliber Higher value people People who went to private school People who take good care of themselves People who are trying to do something with their lives You need to be around people like that Not people who are just going to get you dirty They're going to pull you into the mud You've got to stay away From those types of people You do not belong with them It's so much better than that And they know that That's why they've got to pull you into it To make you like them So that they can feel more comfortable around you You've got to start looking at yourself Of who you are Celebrating yourself Celebrate where you came from Celebrate your background Stop feeling bad about it Just because they're jealous Just because they don't like it Just because their upbringing was not like yours That's not your fault Love yourself And that includes everything Your childhoods Everything that you experienced Yes, they may be jealous Insecure They want to try and make you just like them Celebrate your purity Every time that they try to take it away from you Celebrate it Love You Stop choosing other people Over yourself Again, I'd just like to Say thank you To those of you who donated As you know And the target of many Smear campaigns and gang stalking So my life is very different than how it used to be And how it should be I'm still that same person inside At my core I'm still that same person In the environment that I was raised in And I'm always going to be That guy And that's just it as well Sometimes it may not look that way on the outside In all circumstances Because a lot of people want to be us They really do And they're going to be seeking that For the rest of their lives That environment they never had in their childhood Or we just see it as normal It's not such a big deal to us Because that's already who we are inside We're not trying to Combatate for it on the outside But yeah, that's just how it is Thank you as the nations I appreciate it You can also donate to my PayPal as well It's paypal.me Give the video a thumbs up If you found it helpful If it resonated with you Let me know what you think about the video In the comment section I reach a comment every day Hit subscribe And click all notifications to be notified When I upload a new video And if you would like to book a one on coaching session with me Just go to my website It is Narcseviver.co.uk And you can follow me on Instagram It's Narcseviver YouTube Thank you all for joining me On another live video I appreciate all of you And I look forward to speaking with you In another live video very soon