 Dating advice for Asian guys. Let's see what the internet said and maybe what we can all learn from it Yeah, we got to talk about it Andrew the Reddit forums They reviewed three different Asian guys who wanted to help with their look obviously probably in regards to dating Andrew We're talking about the e-boy the jolly PhD and the anime all-star and of course reddit is compiled composed of like Hundreds of thousands of people weighing in this piece of advice that piece of advice Yeah, and the reason why we make these videos is not to call anybody out or make fun of anybody absolutely not But also we just think that generally these types of conversations Maybe don't happen amongst Asian guys enough because I just look at this Like we're reviewing game tape or like offensive schemes and defensive schemes that we've seen in sports and soccer or basketball Yeah, any any teams were football even so it's just like you're just reviewing game tape and reviewing your players So that that's all this is I agree with you and I'm not saying every family isn't different everybody's situation Some people got cousins some people don't got cousins But it's like I just feel like the Asian-American community because everybody came here It was just so focused on surviving that maybe some of the bro coaching for social life things and see sort of Micro details kind of got overlooked possibly. Yeah, I think there's a reason for that So anyways guys, please hit that like button check out other episodes of the hot-pot boys and check out smaller sauce It is our very own finishing oil It's very kind of spicy a lot of aromatics very delicious check it out smaller sauce calm All right, the first guy is the e-boy Andrew this guy. He said he's 15 years old I think he lives somewhere in the Midwest and he was saying that a group of Males and females were calling him very feminine looking it crushed his confidence He had to go to Asian Reddit to sort of like just ask people like what should I do am I do? I look feminine. Is that bad? Is it good? Like what's going on? He's clearly kind of lost Yeah, so right off the bat David, you'd say if he's 15 16 years old, he's got a lot of time Yeah, he's got a lot of time to change and he's in his formative years So while that might be somewhat of a traumatic experience Finding that out that while the world kind of views me this way, which he kind of is viewed that way I would agree, but I guess that he has time to work with it or change Yeah, he could jujitsu it he could judo on it he could double down he could go away from it When you're 15 your life is like very very very far You're not far enough on any path down the lane where you can't make a switch exactly So the very first comment was you do look feminine. You look just like this e-boy meme. Yeah, like an e-boy pretty boy He looks about like a nine out of ten guys. I'm not I'm not joking on I'm just saying he doesn't look exactly hilarious comment Somebody said yeah, you do look like this meme So either double down on it and go for some hot alt girls who are into that if you can find them in your neighborhood Or change up your hairstyle and hit the gym Somebody said that Edward scissor hands look is doing you no favors and it does not make you look happy But somebody said I don't know guys people are into this look nowadays at least a growing niche of yeah So my thing for him is that since that is a niche look and it does work in some niches But it's like is that the niche he wants to be in what you have access to that niche and what type of world Does he want to be and I would generally say like if this guy has not joined any sort of team sports yet in his life I would say definitely recommend trying out a martial arts gym Which is actually an individual sport not a team sport totally But or play a team sport somehow like in high school just join it like one of the non-cut non-tryout sports Just do it because I think a lot of it's gonna come down to his personality Mmm. Yeah, I mean as far as martial arts training though sometimes the the physical training is group training Right, right, though It's our group, but anyways just be around other people and develop your personality because I think at 15 He's so young. He still has room to grow his personality if he was 35 years old. It's a little tougher You know what was the shame though is and this is sort of the main part of the video We're gonna get into the advice again But like he was saying he has an older brother But he doesn't get any advice from him and that tip goes back to the original point of why we had to make This video it really actually bothered me when he said that you know what it is. I'll say this Having an older brother or older cousin it doesn't mean that they have to have all the right answers But that if you guys work together and at least share information and share Discussion that's gonna help a lot. Yeah, so if you're not communicating with your Cousin brother or male figure or whatever it is about this stuff It is true you are missing out on at least the conversation and the ability to figure things. Yeah Yeah, I mean I gotta say Andrew we did have Like a close family friend who was actually half Irish and half Chinese give us a lot of bro coaching growing up So shout out to John. I always want to shout that out Justin Bieber Harry Styles and just about any teen idol also look pretty feminine You learn to use your attributes to your advantage. Somebody said kpop. You know what I mean What do you think that this guy should do because he's not really working with bad cards, right? Because he looks like the e-boy meme there are e-girls, but it's a matter of like does he got to go on? Omegle to find him or like how does because he's in the Midwest He even his world might just be like his middle school or his high school He doesn't know how to search the globe yet because that's something people do when they get older Yeah, I mean work on yourself, but also what what is he into we don't know anything about his personality So when it comes to it, is he really into anime or is he really in the sports? He probably isn't really in the sports But what is he into figure that out and then probably for college if he can Maybe go to a the big city whether that's the big city in the Midwest or at least one of the coastal cities Right for school if that's possible, you know what I mean and then like it's okay to move It's okay to say like hey this environment that I grew up in is maybe not prime for me But you have to understand who you are first, right somebody said you're just 15 relax, bro You got the rest of your life ahead of you You just need to eat right exercise get enough sleep so you can get your natural testosterone production all the way up And then just go to like somewhat of a more expensive barber that is probably Asian, right? Like a 12-pell is gonna be able to break down exactly scientifically what he should get and give him like three options Do you think this this is the last thing I'll say about the e-boy It's harder to be 15 now Andrew than it used to be because there's 15-year-olds that are popping on TikTok Making three million a year live in the life of like a superstar You know what I'm saying and it's like kind of putting a lot of pressure on people a lot younger than the old days Or even like ten years ago. Oh, maybe man. Yeah. No, I could see I yeah, I got to talk to some more 16 year olds about this. I guess I got to ask them because I don't know fully I'll tell you this the more and more I learned about the social media era like That in Howard regards to like people who are there in their teens right now the more glad I am that I'm not from that era Oh Good point moving on to number two. Andrew. We've got the Jolly PhD this guy's 26 years old right now He's a registered nurse. He's going for his PhD right now He's got a lot of smiley photos and he was like basically saying yo, man. I'm not doing anything on hinge right now Well, when you say PhD or you mean a Doctor doctor, I don't know His field it's not like a History, right? It would make sense that he's trying to be a doctor. But anyways, um, yeah, let's take a look at his pictures Very good smile good energy. He's Catholic. He's Filipino Filipinos always radiate that good energy. He got a Filipino vibe. He's probably Filipino. He likes to cook He he does be out there with his Hawaiian shirt. I think this guy Can definitely find a girlfriend. I think that that You know, it's gonna be more based on his personality, right? And I don't think that it all depends on people's expectations, right? Like is he trying to casually date a lot and hook up with cute chicks? You know, that's really that's hard You're talking about the the f-boy or quasi. Yeah, that's a very like don't not everybody clearly He's I mean even the dog. He has that's a dope dog, but that's not a f-boy dog Right, you know what I mean? So he clearly and the choices the micro choices in his life are not aligned with like trying to achieve that Like so and I don't think he is to be honest But somebody just said man the lifestyle you convey is kind of boring There's no sex appeal and someone said bro Your drip is actually Kirk the Kirkland signature drip. Wow, which is the Costco brand obviously the generics Actually, their white tea is pretty decent, but you kind of got to be stocky to fill them out Somebody was just saying man I don't like the gym selfie pics unless you're like super buff and someone said yeah Gym selfies and all these like bathroom selfies. They only work if you're like a super Chad only work But only work for who I feel like that Obviously, there's a lot of girls who are not gonna be impressed by that But then isn't there some who gonna see his like smile and his ambition and that he's he's like a Nice guy and see like a good boyfriend. Yes. Yes But maybe not on hinge and maybe not the city that he's got his hinge location in he might have to try coffee Meets bagel because coffee meets bagel is more for more serious daters. Yeah, that's a good point. Hey listen, man There's different like apps. It's almost like okay If you go to the used car lot full of used exotics So you can get like an m3 with 45,000 miles on it just because you want to be in a m3 That's a completely different situation than going to you know a different car lot where they only sell the cars with 100,000 mile warranties, but it doesn't feel as you know Exhilarating it just depends man. Yeah guys I think that even with dating apps hinges like a pretty solid one But but even consider things like coffee means big. It's like each app is a little different is what I'm saying Yes, yes, yes different demographic. Let's just say my friends Who got tattoos? They use Tinder a lot. Oh my goodness, man. That's a whole nother thing That's a whole nother post somebody said on first impression. It's a dating app profile, bro Not a LinkedIn account. So why are you just like saying everything? You're just listing everything out literally like you're trying to go on a job interview Well, I think he's gonna get I think there's girls who are gonna appreciate that But yeah, I could see tuning the focus a little away from that somebody said, you know The only things that work for Asian guys in 2023 are refined Cape Pop-ish style or a manly or rough around the edges style Yeah, but here's the I see people mix the two by the way June Cooke is like mixing the two right now Here's think assuming he's Filipino because he he doesn't look like Fully East Asian, right? So I think that he is a little bit. He can kind of play around with the Latino side. Yes Yes, which I think it's very limiting to say oh only Asian guys because I'm like well Asian guys have different looks to them Like yeah, if you're very East Asian looking the simple answer is refined Cape Pop or masculine or like wear a suit Right. Those are the simplest two sentence right for like East Asian Asiatic looking guys, but I'm saying if you Can kind of be ambiguously ethnic then you can play around more with like the Latin vibe Yeah, he does got some big biceps somebody said you seem like a nice guy like a total nice guy who never gets the girl type of vibe Basically, this guy was just like saying man. You just scream harmless Asian guy stereotype I'm not with like this is never gonna work in America in 2023 Agree or disagree like it just obviously if he's out there trying to Just get a bunch of cute girls like this profile is like super not gonna work Yeah, but I mean dude that's not even about I feel like he's looking for he said he's looking for a life partner He's looking for something long-term. I was almost a hit up like a map First of all, you're still gonna have to change, you know do some upgrades and stuff like that But go to like almost like a matchmaker or something like that like obviously whatever different sites There's different things. Yeah a few notches towards that somebody said hey man for me I'm a nerdy tech Asian guy and I used to get no matches Here's my old profile in one year. I was able to level up. Here's my new profile and I'm doing way better No, his glow-ups real I can see a real difference. Yeah, shout out to this guy I mean I kind of figured it out right in the pictures and just like the way that the depth of feel on these pictures is is definitely Higher end it looks like his life got better and this guy says man I don't really like the advice that you get on this forum because it's so stereotypically masculine Maybe this guy should not be trying to like be alpha or anything, but he just needs to double down on his lane What is double down on his lane mean? What does that look like? I'm not saying he's wrong because I think that I can agree with part of that because I don't think all advice is The same, but I think that I do think getting fit in those things. That's not that's not really bad advice for anybody Yeah, I would almost say it's like Kenny Lofton, Jr If you guys know about Kenny Lofton, Jr in the NBA He is the only person with his body type that like that body type was even rare in the 90s But Oliver Miller had it and stuff like that But he's somehow able to make it work right and enter Kenny Lofton, Jr Trying to get super vertical with a jump super high that wouldn't have worked either right He's like doubling down on just bumping you're saying Kenny Lofton, Jr looking at this guy He shouldn't just drop all the weight and become as lean as possible because that's going to actually take away From how he usually plays and his advantages right and he's like not even going to make a good version of a lean guy Right because he's so naturally fat to be right right right. Yeah, I mean, but ultimately no I mean this guy has a good disposition man. He's super jolly and happy and seems friendly. Let's be honest And I think he should definitely take a look at the Philippines or or just or or anywhere in Asia in general Yeah, and I'm not saying like get a male lord or bride or anything like that I'm just saying like look overseas because I think that in 2023 Unfortunately, you could say it's right or wrong or just the natural progression of late late late stage capitalism and the culture of where it's at right now Women in America like a lot of edge And he doesn't have any edge right like it almost seems like a youth pastor more vibe from the 90s Yeah, I mean, I think that who knows maybe he is born in the Philippines, you know, and I think maybe Yeah, you know what I'm saying like a woman overseas may appreciate that seventh heaven like almost like immigrants Uh, we'll appreciate different things. I'm moving on. Andrew the last guy we got is the anime all star I'm gonna compare this guy to mackayl bridges or cam johnson in the sense of like man He's working with a lot But it still needs more explosion needs more iso moves needs more wiggles to make that next jump to all star Right. Why why is that because uh, he looks he looks pretty good to be honest Yes, this guy is considered a I would consider him like a short chad In the sense of like anime chad. Yeah, like anime chad like if he goes to the cosplay world He's got his pick, right? I know a couple guys like this. Yeah, but then the tattoos, but they're not like Thugs, right, right, right Even though I would say the tattoos that he has they're probably a little bit more street than he is in real life Possibly. Yeah, so um long story short He was basically asking about like what hair should I get to try to convey who I am And he posted a bunch of photos of like anime characters and somebody was like, yeah I'm not gonna lie. You don't really need any help. Do you think guys like this they need help or they don't But i'm saying like if you look at a player like mackayl bridges like yes, he's still pretty good He's making like 30 million a year He could still get better at a lot of things Yeah, I would say in my opinion if I was gonna improve this guy Which I actually don't think he needs that much help that that's the truth But just visually speaking as I mean, I don't know his personality Maybe his personality needs help, but I would say A longer hair would give it a different vibe with the tattoos if you got a longer hair and perms First of all growing out your hair takes like a year to be honest to a long length. It really takes a very long time So it's a long commitment. I wouldn't do this like Anime hair particularly I would do this more curly hair for him And I think that would switch up his vibe because that's gonna give him more of that rock star almost like Latino vibe right to an Asian guy, which is different and that's edgy now But he may not be able to live up to it because if we look at the samples of everybody posting the perm wolf cut To me, this is a cut that really works probably for southeast asian guys a little bit better That people who can really embody that sort of like ride on the wild side. Yeah, but I mean again Yeah, it's purses personality. I don't know if he's just like a nice guy in finance But he's got a little bit more edge then him even already having those tattoos and being in finance Is to be honest already edgy, right? And you're already limited if you work in an office place by what haircut you can get you need to be on zoom in the morning You can't have the wolf cut. Yeah, so I don't really know. I mean, I would just say He's doing okay and like, you know, just keep He probably needs to get haircuts just more frequently to be honest, right? Hey, listen guys Follow 12 pel 12 pel does these breakdown videos on instagram very Basically like analyze people's like head shapes and like their desires and what sort of uh Subcultures that identify with and then give you like one or two options for sure for sure I guess david so we saw three different guys at different levels. We saw what the internet said We saw what the other bros on the internet said overall Do you like the advice and what other things would you add overall? I like the advice and I would just really quickly, you know, because I'm kind of you know NBA season is on right now. I this is what I would compare it to the e-boy andre. He's kind of like Duncan robinson when Duncan robinson was still stuck in d3 basketball Nobody knew that Duncan robinson had the potential to be like an mba starter and make that much money when he was in d3 Right because Duncan robinson had a crazy journey He had to transfer from d3 to d1 go to g league go to the mba So i'm saying he has the potential because he can shoot being shoot When I mean that he can shoot It's like he has a niche in a cultural gap of the e-boy that he can shoot right right right and it's a growing niche It doesn't mean that Duncan robinson's like the most dominant player in history But it's just like a growing thing that people want in the society right the tall 3nd Yeah, just the shooter just the shooter shooter sharp shooter. I would say the next guy He's almost like kenny loften jr Because he just got to find the right team with the right fit whether it's overseas Or in america in the sense that it's like it's not every team wants kenny loften No, but but he's it has decent cards and he has good ambition, but possibly his value may be maximized Amongst a different group right right right. It's gonna be like I think kenny loften jr. Ultimately probably will have an amazing career I think like a yeah And the last guy andra i'm gonna compare him to michael bridges france wagner evan mobly guys that people are like Yo, this guy could be so good if he just was able to pick up more of the superstar details Which is uh, yeah, so I think that everybody's starting at a different point You know, uh, like I said, uh, as far as like an asian guy dating mba player comparison I always said I was like tj mcconnell. Yeah, I ain't got the best stats, but it's just like I got the iq reads You know, I like I like what you said man. It's like for me. I guess I'd sum it up The e-boy has potential but is young and just needs to be on right the right track and then the middle guy Needs to find his niche and needs to know what he's looking for and find who appreciates him Because he does have something to offer for sure and then the last guy is more like polishing Yeah, he just did polish some details. So anyways guys, uh, let us know in the comments down below what you think These are three different asian guys in different situations. Would you think of our advice? What are some advice that you would have for these people and hopefully this All these videos just also turn into I guess somewhat of a message board themselves People just sound off and say how they feel and what they did to get better because I think at the end of the day We're all just trying to have a healthy discussion About getting better. Yeah. Are you surprised in 2023 that this many people still? I guess are missing that iRL in person brocoach. No, because there's there's less relation There's less friendships and relationships out there. There's maybe everything's more internet center, but people are finding more Mentoring more mentorship on the internet. So that's why videos like ours or a bunch of other videos out there Also will give you breakdowns as well But it's important to have these kind of like discussions man Anyways guys, let us know in the comments down below what you think check out small ass sauce very delicious finishing oil Cool-looking bottle too. 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