 It's so stupid, it's positively bruised Charlamagne got him brewing it is podcast Andrew was not here this week. I don't know where Andrew at. Where's Andrew this week? Nobody knows he's in LA doing something. Angela. I need you to stand over here cuz I guess He thinks your eye candy and I like my guests to be inspired Okay, Angelo Jason Lee is here. Yes Lulu and Lala I have What I don't like to say from KTU Like to say Lulu and Lala KTU the radio station that they work for here in New York City. Yeah, they're part of the I Heart Mafia Okay, are you guys reckless or what's the show? We're a little bit of both. Yeah, we do the night show. So A little reckless Thing y'all never done on the on on radio you think I don't get in trouble Talked about well, we got in trouble because we talked about Trump's hair. And so that one of the fuck out of here Yeah, I'm not even joking on KTU. Yeah, you got in trouble. All right Well, we were brought to our attention that there were a couple of people listeners that didn't like the fact that we made fun of his hair And so we were told to you know tone down and maybe not talk about politics So you should have called him a cheeto. I should have I've never gotten that phone call. Well, you're shawty me. So it says it's a little different. It's a little different I'm glad you know god damn it. Hey, I'm glad that y'all are here though. Cuz I'm Jason We love Jason. Jason is trying to book out first and foremost. Where's the book? You have a copy of the book. Can somebody give me the book? There you go. Oh, yeah, the book I'll call God must have forgotten about me. Yeah, okay It's a great read Jason has been through a lot of things in his life We can get to all of that but first and foremost, what do you do when you want to bag somebody, right? Like like like like Lulu and Lala when y'all want to bag a guy. Yeah, how do y'all make it known? How do y'all fish? Why don't you tell them the story of how you bagged your boyfriend, Nala? I didn't yes You did totally we're fishing I grabbed and now you're together. Okay, you know the term it all went down in the DM Down in the DM I met him at an event. We were doing Fiesta Latina and he's he was a background vocalist for for an artist And I just thought he was cute and He asked for a picture and then I found him on Instagram and she DMed him. No I just liked his a few pictures that enough for him to be like, oh, who's this and then he reached out Have you ever tried to DM anybody? Here Way to a date and saw Angela You know me got a girl, but she likes me so we could all have fun. Yeah, I saw Angelo. He had you know What he did he did that sneaky shit people do what he do posted a video and he tagged me But here's my messy ass I slid in the DM saying what's his Instagram thinking it was Taylor Then he was like ha ha you funny. So I go to the page. I'm like, oh, it's that nigga Yeah, so he you know, he helped me out, but yeah, I slide in DM all day long Yeah wax thanks for like introducing Yeah, then they did then you know, I didn't really know how to catch the vibe So I told my staff I was texting them on the law I was like, you know, yo get the camera guys number because we need camera guys in New York You know and I believe in like helping everybody make money like just make your money You know we can go on a date on the side So they was plotting on getting the number and then they told me he was a twerk. God. I'm like, oh shit. It's lining up This week His own name is because it's called twerk God unlocked. He named himself here Family yeah, I made a man crush Monday every day on my Instagram right now Wow You buy Early I'm coming back tomorrow now easy to turn guys out. I don't know about turning out I just think that every man wants to every man every man. Well, y'all got it y'all got it hard Not every man cuz he waxes over there getting he get ready to say not me You know, you got the ass thing downstairs. I'm not the fuck's going on with that But I think every man has had an idea or at least try to conceptualize in the mind So once the seed has been planted, I think you just got a poor one. That's a trick question though I don't know what that's a question. That's a trick Ideology you have not in Europe meaning meaning that yes as a man We've drove around like why would a man want to get ahead from another man I Didn't say that You've thought about it. That's why when I talked to one of my homies I want to know like okay So have you been with a woman and if they say yes, and you've been with a man So I want to know the differences. I mean, that's that's me want being curious about trying it though Yeah, what is the difference? I'm curious to know. Well, I never liked hot sauce But like the one day I got a piece of chicken. They're like, yo try some hot sauce I tried it now every time I get chicken. I gotta have a hot sauce. I mean, I had to come back to meet in your mouth Yeah, I just think you know I mean, I don't know I've seen more guys and there's a new epidemic now, right? Like men love transsexuals and I'm not mad at that like I I'm not mad I just think the playing field has gotten a little uneven now because these men love Transsexuals because somewhere in their mind is just like, okay. I'm just not gonna look at the balls I know they got balls Men that love you know sexual that love Man their wife is sitting at home taking care of their kids waiting on her wife Sexually love transsexuals Oh, I get what he's saying. Well, I don't know what's going on, but something just happened in America They just now start coming around they've been out there But a drag queen in a transsexual two different things Man, that's just a love. Yeah, like RuPaul is a drag queen. Yeah, but he's not Madison is a transsexual. Yeah Flay my role, you know flame a rose a different different type of transsexual Right Does that make y'all feel like you know I'm comfortable. No, not uncomfortable. Just pickings of slim. Damn. Just tell on yourself, huh? I haven't commented much I'm just listening because I didn't I don't think you make that comment where it's like all men now are more attracted to transsexuals I don't how do you come up with that conclusion? We'll see in your mind as a woman and as women you don't think about your man in your mind You do not wake up thinking about your man looking at another man. So you watching every other bitch in the room But a lot of women whose eye is on the other female has really taken her eye off of what he's really doing I mean It's a lot of men that I meet and it's scary too because it's like I find out they got a girl later like Angelo I found out he has a whole girl So he flirted with you first and then told her he had a girl He started it Now he's flirting with you or did you have many assumptions? Angelo's in love, but he don't know. So it's like a process. So it's like, okay, Angelo, let's take a trip Okay, you know like let's go somewhere tropical like we ain't even got a like Are you a trick Jason? Oh hell yeah I'm a trick Are you crazy? He said he's gonna take them shopping When Angelo come to work one day y'all gonna look at me y'all gonna know when it happened So you're like Jason took you so long Got him Absolutely But you're supposed to take care of the person you way I think it ain't tricking if the person is worth it Right damn right green eyes Oh shit What's the most you ever spent on a man, Jason? What's your rent like? Um it just depends I mean like I've had relationships where my partner didn't work for three years. So and I had money You know Well what's the most you've spent on a woman? I mean my wife Yeah I mean it's endless I don't know what that feels like Charlemagne's wife walked in the room looking rich at Tiffany Haddish part Like you guys look great together so you either take care of each other I don't know what's going on but she look great She is she's yeah Is there a certain amount of money that you should spend on your partner? A certain amount of money Like when you're dating not like a wife or whatever I think everybody should act their wage Um and I think that you should do things that you want to do for that person I don't think that you should spend on that person because you're trying to make them like you anymore Or make you make them like you more or anything like that You know what I'm saying? Like I think if you got it What you mean? If you don't want them to like you you want them to be happy No no I said like that you don't want them to like you What did I say? You don't want them to like you more You know what I mean? For that You're not doing it just because you think that's gonna make them like you more You're doing it because you really want to do it for them This happened to me the other day I gotta tell the story I ain't gonna put the person's name on blast I mean I put my friend Rob Smith on blast on another show who's a hoe but this one I'm not Okay, so I come to New York all the Dominicans out here know that I'm weak for Dominicans Like it's literally my weakness and I always tell my team like there's gonna be two ways people are gonna rob You like the gage old button What do you mean? Love the Dominicans Oh shit you caught me I didn't know where we was going What? Joe you're gay? Like low key I supposed to No so the other day when I left your show I went on a date, right? So we on a day we chilling and they like yo, I just want to come back to the house I'm like, all right, but I'm really trying to get to know you like I don't want to ruin it because we go back to the house I already know what I'm gonna do it like I don't want to do that So I'm trying to be a gentleman for the first time in my life, right? Finally we get back to the house So my team is at the house So my team is kind of walking around so they're like let's go in the room I don't want to go in the room because going in the room is personal, you know Plus you gotta leave your phone out here and you know other issues But so we go in the room soon begin the room they go yo, I'm going to Thailand for my birthday There's this hotel. I really want to stay at you know, it's like seven hundred eighty dollars and blah blah blah I'm thinking we just start hanging out like the other day So, yeah, I do believe in tricking But if you like you just trying to get with me to get some money like you got me fucked up Yeah, yeah, you gotta know the difference though Yeah, look at them of course they're great. You look great. Thank you You would be a fool not to get tricked on. What's the most y'all got? Actually Like I've never taken it. I know that sounds like Baseball players and football players and I'm just like because something is expected and I'm not gonna I'm not that type of person I'm not gonna go on a trip with a baseball player that I just met which is we're cool But it's still that there's that awkwardness In this situation Yeah, cuz I think that and I'm not saying that y'all are wrong I'm just saying that when you're dealing with somebody like a baseball player. He's a multi-millionaire. Yeah, that's just what he moves Right. It's like saying let's go to the movies, right? So saying like let's go to the Caribbean or whatever I'm gonna go to Europe Sometimes they're involved with so much drama with other women. I don't want to be involved in that I'm gonna tell you I don't need drama Don't go if you ain't trying to give nothing up. Don't go with that baseball That's why like there's been lots of offers and I'm tempted but I'm like You gotta be like look, you know if I go with you don't expect me to have sex with you I hope that's not why you're asking me to go that happened I said that to one of them and it was like Unfollow blah blah See every every man wants to believe there's a chance they can get it So you've got a finesse in a way where he believes he's going to get it Just don't say but you ain't saying he's gonna get it But his mind let him believe he's gonna get it my friend right here, sir I'm gonna throw under the bus she got out of a seven-year relationship or something like that And I said you have to have a whole phase like you have to be a hope You gotta just walk in the club with me and walk up to my somebody and say I want to fuck you tonight. Did you do that? No, she's approved Let me tell you y'all could finesse so major right now like I'm gonna teach y'all how to finesse Don't think much for a guy to think he can have sex with a girl high works, you know Why why do you guys think like that? I'm sleeping with her tonight. Yes every guy I think yeah, don't even say tucks back in the DMs don't say thank you Nothing if I put if I put nice or hard eyes or whatever if you say thank you. Oh, she want to give me some Forgot where I'm at black Show me some a wax DMs wax got some corny as DMs he be sending y'all You can't tell nobody you in town That's not nothing isn't if you not in Canada, but you're sending a girl in can't send her a message talk about you can't tell Nobody you in town you don't even So I have a question all right, so let's say a girl answers back your DM, right? What is it that she has to say that? Oh, this one's gonna fall. I know I got her in the bag already like what are there key things like oh She replied to this that's my in well, what is it that makes you guys think that okay? I got anything back to anything at all. I think she won't give me some that is crazy Or you recall yourself in the work out a lot just DMs is just a fucking another thing like tender Like a like a tender one of those Yes, no, we're in 2020. That's where people communicate. Oh, okay. I have a question. Do you think that if you give your? Instagram it's like giving out your number No, it's the safer way You know Charlemagne's Instagram But if you're if you're not Charlemagne and you be like, yeah, I can't give you my number But hit me up on Instagram same thing just did the same thing Give you email that me like I did hit my manager But doesn't the context of I can't give you my number Let you know that maybe this person isn't interested. He's kind of just throwing you to Graham just to give I got a man, but I smash you I gave my Instagram I got a man, but I smash you if I give you my number is like I want to be in relationship with you Listen, I don't speak singles. Well, I just came out of singles. So I still know it a little bit Just came out of single wax in love matter of fact You didn't get wax wax love Dominican women really back and I told him that when I did my show I said bro you was me back in the day, right? But I was confused what that means Lot of similarities between me and straight man, I'm an aggressive pursuer. You're still a man Yeah, if I want something. Yeah, but some you know like some of the more daintier, you know guys who Just want to like skip through life and be caught. I ain't that guy like I'm going out to fish. I'm on tinder I don't even meet nobody on tinder. I'm just on there cuz it's fucking fun. Have you ever turned a straight guy gay What is a straight guy? I don't know what that means. Well, I think we need to get rid of that term I think it's problematic gay people are crooked Women I think I think every man should love women. I love women too. I love them from a distance They love them in a more personal affectionate way Yeah, I'm trying to tell you right now. Have you made a man that only Like the bar home I mean have I had a guy who says he only loves women say I was his first guy of many times But I don't know that that was true. Yeah, maybe it was maybe it wasn't hopefully I was but if I wasn't it Doesn't matter to me now. Could y'all be with a guy who is open with you about his love for other men Oh The thing is I'm very selfish So and I'd like I wouldn't I don't think I could see myself ever having like a threesome with a guy or with another girl because like You're mine. I don't like why why do we do this whole possessive thing where mine is my like you both are twins Y'all should be living y'all should be up and down like you're coming home with us I The last thing I want to see is my sister naked. I see her all the time How she is sexually like I do not Exactly the same you already know the answer The first time I have not seen y'all dressed alike in forever Naked we do not look the same But similar but not the same and I'm very what's the word territorial like if I'm with you I'm like no other bitch is gonna be around I'm Cuban Yeah, it's very aggressive. I appreciate when I see a good-looking girl. I'm like watch has a nice ass her boobs are amazing I love her hair, but do I see myself ever being with a woman sexually? No, you're in love right now. You're in a relationship. Yes, so you're in love. Yes, and he loves you Yes, and you would do anything to make him happy as your man. Yeah, okay, so you're out you see a girl You say yo, she has a nice ass and he goes she does I Doesn't make me mad because I'm the one to put it on that was an invitation for you to say baby If you want to bring her home cool In America is that we're so possessive like you belong to me No, what your phone belongs to you like your bottle of water it belongs to you But like your partner you should be like yo, let's think a little bit more European Because you can build an empire off of being a really good partner and but being a relationship is more than just possessing a person I think it's more than saying you belong to me. No like our house belongs to us But as long as we don't fuck up our shit, we should be able to like you know No, your house does not belong to us because then all the other girls are gonna be wanting part of that house Girls what if your man says he got Jason's coming home I Don't know I guess it hasn't happened yet, but I don't know I guess I don't know okay cool Yeah, I don't think your instincts would say you're jealous of another man. No instincts would be say I'm jealous of another woman But I was in a relationship like he had a best friend and it bothered the shit out of me because it was like, yo Why are you a best guy friend? Yeah, like Best friend so I'm like yeah, like he would give him But they was fucking You're a woman. Yeah, you're smarter than everybody in the world My conclusion was like there there's got to be something going on that he doesn't want to admit because it just doesn't make sense to me Like why are you so like with this person you were the other woman chapter six in my book I think it's called love on the low or something like that boy read that chapter You're gonna go through your roller-decks and be like that nigga was gay Chapter five. Oh, yeah, why you say why you love on the low? I mean I read it So I know what I was like on the I was on the low I had a girlfriend and he my name at this guy that I heard was gay But he didn't know I was gay so I met him and I lured him into a relationship And he was with a woman and like we were in a download relationship for like years I like how you looked in Angelo's side-eye when you said that Angelo's flight is already booked Your girl's upset about this, okay, is she what she said he said his girl likes me so I'm also on the low he told you that his girl likes you But he didn't know he just was like yeah, my girl's a fan. I'm like, okay cool like let's all hang out But that's what if you know you want to fuck this girl's man. Yeah Go out and eat with them and kick it. I mean their relationship is for them to manage like I got hollywood unlocked to manage I got a show Focus on that and I'm really respectful of their boundaries, but like if they leave a loophole, you know, you know I have no problem getting in that loop Much of a gay magnet waxes really My gay guys love him Like I mean, it's unbelievable guys that don't like I mean we was in a club one night Why to just sit in their mind this business dude walked up to wax to shake his hand She took his hand and lifted it up and kissed it. No, they did not Yeah, but you a big nigga like I push the boundaries, but like when it gets physical like you get your ass So I told him to like till the fuck out So it does it offend you when like gay men like trying to approach you and People do way too fucking much And then we get mad, yeah, there are some cool ones, but then but then we get mad when y'all get mad Like, you know, you got to be able to take what you give pause and like, you know, I'm grateful that, you know Angelo's not mad at me You know, we built a good rapport over the last couple of days and we just gonna keep building No, I got a I got a homeboy named Terrence. Oh the white dude He saw wax in a white t-shirt lost his mind. Really? Yeah, and he he he said the wax He was like, that's your brother. I said, yes. He's like, oh, he looks I've never seen him in a t-shirt I said, why come in yo I was like, yo, I'm just looking for a chase Terrence said I'll chase you anyway But you know what I heard gay guys don't like ashy hands, so I keep my hands ashy all the time. Really? Yeah, what they got to do with us. I don't know what does that mean dude was lying in a Gay dude telling you how to groom you know, he said that I don't like all wax hands always ashy So I don't like him. I said, oh perfect So you purpose to keep your hands ashy. Yeah, I mean, I personally don't like herpes So like don't have herpes Ashy hands Adam got lotion in his bag Out of their way the proof they not gay something might be a little those are the gay people No, if you're homophobic like if okay if you're homophobic to me, that's a really clear set like pastor Troy That motherfucker dressed like big birds sitting up there talking about his gay son bet his son better not be gay This and that probably the same motherfucker getting fucked by Oscar the grouch Then you sit around and you look like what the hell because gay people ain't even checking for you But you so concerned about you so consume a homophobia because something happened doesn't assault you when you had Guys say that they act like gay men aren't men like a gay man won't beat your ass. Oh, you know Yeah, I do because you'll be surprised and you know You just there's still men at the end of the day. We're still men. So yeah, I'm surprised There's so many stereotypes and it's really predominantly in our all girls all code our culture you go to like Yeah, cuz I saw that I saw the woman that voted for man Pete in Iowa on Monday Which for whatever reason she just found out he was gay after she voted. She's like I want to take my vote back And that was a white old white woman from Iowa, you know, I think homophobia is just a thing I don't think it's a black thing or white thing or prevalent in one community I just think it's a thing especially because of religious content the religious context. Oh, yeah, people love to go to that Bible and say Well, that's true. I agree So, you know how you're always out and about and you have making that friends Do you ever how do you deal with the like the stage five clingers like the people that end up catching feelings for you when you're Just trying to have a good time. You're not really trying to get into anything. I don't really know that I Don't really focus on feelings. I guess I don't know But I mean there's different levels like you fell in love with the trips or you fell in love with the Conversation, I don't know what they follow, but we all have a very love what you did Well, I mean, yeah, yeah, there's that too But I mean if you got a girl and then you got some situation over here You're pretty much focused on your situation. I would think I would expect them to don't get focused on me What are y'all doing y'all have stage five clingers? Well, I tried to avoid that from the start how by not giving them conversation or just cutting them cool turkey I know it sounds bitchy and mean but it's either that or deal with the drama or the stalking and whatnot But don't the clingers come to me like after y'all develop a relationship like say you might smash a guy And then he's all into you but you might be done with him, but he just can't let go It's kind of annoying if I'm gonna be honest I know that sounds bitchy, but it's kind of like dude get a clue like what we had was cool But that's what it was and there's nothing gonna be after that. So Keep it going Sometimes they don't get that and so it's like you have to and then that's why you have to be bitchy to them So they can get the the hand It's like when you go through a breakup you got to just shut it down. No, I'm not gonna follow you on Instagram I'm gonna block you for a while because I see that you're still like I can't I get along with my exes I all except for the one in the book But all the other ones so I just had dinner the other night with two of my exes together I don't have any problems with any of my I don't what I don't think my ex cheated What I'm saying is you're in a relationship you get cheated on you're still gonna be friends with that person? Don't lie don't cheat don't steal like those are just three basic rules sound like life, you know And I've had somebody lie cheated and still all in the same month But the other two at my other relationship is not we all ended amicably. We're all still friends We follow each other. We support each other like we're good. How do you don't want to cut a guy off though? Well, you know when any relationships run its course, you know for me For me when I write when I was gonna start Hollywood unlocked I was like, okay I'm gonna go for this thing and I need to know my relationship on my partner's like in it with me And I and I said if they're not in love with me because I was in love then I'm out And he was really honest and I said to him are you in love with me? And he said no, he's I love you but I'm not because he didn't I don't think at the time had the capacity to be in Love with anybody that was my signal to leave How do single people know though because it's like if you was single I feel like you would always want to have a rotation like for me Sadly, you know before I got my life together. I was always in a relationship So I've been wanting to cut something off just because it couldn't go nowhere anyway Like so how when you single how do you know when to cut something off? I feel like you would always just keep that in rotation. It's always that gut feeling like you know, okay I've done it's been all this years or months. It's not going anywhere. It has not gonna get any better This is all that person has to offer or all I have to offer why keep wasting each other's time just cut it Really, I think girls cut it off more Because me I just keep smashing till you do something or till you act crazy Like oh, she's cool. I keep her around but she ever act crazy or try to look through my phone or anything She never do that type of stuff or fuck on my car. Are you staying wrong forever? Let's see wax is the guy that makes girls crazy though You mentioned something the phone wire guy is so Sensitive when it comes to their phone we got naked pictures in there But you should have naked pictures of your girl anything I don't understand that it's like no you can't look through my phone. I'm not trying to look Well, I have an easy explanation. I own a media company that has a lot of private information You know, you can't look through my phone, but no, I mean I'm so transparent out. I'm but I'm not in a relationship Not in a committed relationship. I couldn't be in a situation where somebody says I need the password or all your shit Never if you're that insecure you need to go find another fucking person because I'm not that guy Do you think if a person loves you don't never lie to you Or do you think you lie to the people you really love? Damn, that's a good question. That is a good question What's a white lie I think so if you love someone and you lie to them, it's that's something like oh, it's a surprise party So you're gonna lie so certain things like that but to lie on you know, bigger issues like oh, I cheated or whatever else It may be then then no then you should Because what if you did a mistake like oh, fuck, you know had too much to drink I don't want to blame it on the alcohol, but some should sometimes it happens Do you tell them the truth because you know what it's gonna, you know what's gonna happen or do you keep that? Take it to the grave That's not like a woman. Yeah, you might need to take that to the grave because why would you drink it around this guy? Anyway, I'm just I'm not saying me. I'm just saying hypothetically I used to think that if you love somebody you lie to them because you don't want to Like all your girls that you don't care nothing about you tell them the truth. It's worse. How would they come find out? But it's so hard to lie. The truth always comes out. Somehow someone, yes it does. Now if you don't tell it, it always comes out. It's so hard to lie though like I like when people tell me stuff They'd be like, yo, I'm gonna tell you something, but don't say nothing. I go okay They know right away, that's a lie like I'm going because I can't I just can't control myself So I tell people don't tell me a secret people only say that to make themselves feel better Don't say anything to anybody. They really want to get that shit off that chest. They want to share They just say that to make themselves feel better Yeah, but I do feel like lying is so complicated because you have to remember everything you lied about So I just feel like if you're honest you build a relationship on honesty like my last ex was so good about Grounding me and holding me accountable and saying like, yo, you were rude to that person like you did too much Or you you know, you keep fighting and do this or you know, the real supportive So the communication was really good. I never had somebody that was like I asked what I did But not like in the last what seven eight years I don't think you're capable of love jason Just by reading your book. I think that you have to do the work On yourself and deal with some of that childhood trauma I think you lacked a lot. You didn't get a lot of love when you was younger. Yeah And so now you take it. I'm not gonna say you take it out on people You just I don't know if you know how to love. Yeah, you know, we both have a mutual friend tiffany hadish Every time she gets off the phone. She goes love you and she blows a kiss And I find myself like cutting off the phone before she does it I don't know. I had to call her back the other day and I said, I love you Me and tip through that every time we go to the phone. I love you. No, I know but it's just like It's a weird thing and I and I do know it does come from like I haven't done the work yet So I'm like now I'm going through the process. I've got it all on paper and I have something to work with But um, yeah, it's really uncomfortable now if I'm with somebody I'm in an intimate relationship with I I'm very affectionate. I say I love you all the time and I'm I'm that guy but just generally like It's really hard the hell if y'all No for me I say I love you to everybody because I truly like I love you guys Yeah, but one thing you say I'm in love with you Huge different. Yeah, one last thing you've been in love The last time I was in love Well, I just ended my relationship Um, so I'm pretty much in that phase where I'm like This shit sucks, but whatever it's time to move on. You still love them. Yeah, why'd y'all break up? How long we are together? Yeah, we were together for three years Wow Almost a whole year of thinking I go back. No Um, he cheated Yeah, okay. So what? Okay. I'm gonna say so what but yeah Give me contact. I mean, it was a long distance relationship. He are the god. Do you tell me you tell me about Well, you know about two. Okay. My first relationship was like 13 years And then the second relationship was three and a half and it was long distance. He really didn't like the business I worked with a bunch of guys. He was very Jealous and secure and so I always tried to make it to him like I don't care about anybody else It's all about you. Um, but it was always a constant battle Like there was a just a lot of when we were together. It was good when we were apart. It was like Was the sex good? Amazing. It was amazing. You still let him smash Yeah Yeah, but he didn't support you every time we had an event he would make you feel bad about it somehow But the thing is I understood him because if the roles were reversed and he's got a bunch of bitches around him I would feel a type of way. I don't think you would Well, I would understand the better, but I could understand his point of view You know, it's not easy being in this business. It just isn't a lot of people can't take it majority of my friends are women I have way more home. The majority of my friends are men It's all men my wife don't be tripping because you know, I mean she know them Like we all cool. We hang out together. We kick it. They like her more than me a lot of the time majority of my friends are men too He's a good man, I don't know if I was the woman for him he cheated on you Yeah, because we had taken a bird He was jealous of you and your industry and the whole time he was being a fuck boy But that's where it comes from that's where the whole jealousy come from It's guilt. You know what the dirt that he was doing right? But he was taking it out on you one reason I don't cheat no more make my anxiety too bad You know I'm saying your sister made you break up with him. You wouldn't have broke up. She did that Well, no my sister Like it would affect her and so then on our show it would affect because her mind wasn't honest She wasn't focused she's sad and depressed and that pisses me off like don't fuck with my sister There you go Rihanna, you look so dumb right now Did you ever have a whole time like you were being cheated on where you're like damn I could have been a hoe and it had been all right Right now. I'm in the stage of anger where it's like fuck. I could have been doing something else I could have been with somebody else. I wasted a lot of time, but I would think never too late for a whole face Right, I never had that whole face Give yourself one year. I'm telling you just be a hope be be safe But just be a hoe you know what the whole is just having more than one penis a year It's not like I haven't a bunch of penis That's not me though More than one a year I just do what makes you feel comfortable. Yeah, like like hoe in is whatever you think is too much If you want a break Is the relationship over? No depends on what you guys establish if a break means a break Right, it doesn't mean the relationship over like we're gonna take a break from each other Right, but y'all just means y'all just want to fuck somebody else. That's what that means and after I fuck them If it's good, I'm gonna stay with them You just gotta hope that this person don't come back with a baby, herpes, hiv, that's it But when you say break I can understand if you are just starting and you want to break because you really don't know What this person's all about and you don't know if you want to waste your time But after three years you want to break If in three years you don't know the value that I that I could bring like you don't know me or you You're not in love with me That's not true lala I'm sorry. That's just the way I think You need a break from the relationship just to breathe or whatever that doesn't mean go fuck somebody else though You ain't breaking shit. It doesn't mean that but nine times out of ten. That's probably what's gonna happen Ten times out of ten. That's what's gonna happen. I'm not doing a break with nobody. No, we take a break. You Bye. Thank you. That's the way you're unsure. I am too busy to be fucking figuring it out My wife's been together 22 years. We took a break one time But you guys didn't you guys start young like you were like in like So that you guys were still growing up you didn't even know where you were going in in your careers and stuff So that's understandable But in your adult years after three years you want to take a break because you don't know Boy, bye What do you call adult years like when you're already past 25 And older if you're you already know kind of what you want for your future for a girl a guy exactly Exactly. So a guy 30. Yeah, because they mature 25 Yeah, because guys prefrontal cortex doesn't even develop till 25 Yeah, so we started growing at 32 When we start thinking about settling down 38 39 when we really commit to settling down 42. I am not committed to selling down right now Especially when dykeman's right up the block Wow, it's a little different for you to old jays though because you are you always probably been bagging dudes But now you're getting hot out here in this business. It's hard now. It's hard. Yeah, you're getting that industry dick. It's hard Well, no, I don't fuck around in the industry. I know not no more No more. Okay. No, you fuck some celebs into I'm not talking about that That's no. Yeah, I'm gonna say something. No, I'm not gonna do that Well, y'all 30 y'all 30 yet, right? We thank you, but no, we're a little older 35 35 Really? Yeah, I didn't know that Yeah, y'all was wasting your time. Yeah. Yeah, and especially for women like women if you want to have kids You can't be waiting until you're 45. Yes, you can. Yes, you can. Yes, you can See y'all be stressing yourselves off over with this clock first of all you can get somebody to carry your baby for you There's a woman who had a baby at 50. I forgot Who's got the money for that? That's She went away for nine months and I don't believe that either I don't believe it. You think Janet. She tricked us. Yes. Yes. So you think she was walking around with a baby Yes, so was blue was Beyonce pregnant with blue ivy. I don't know probably I don't know. Yes No, they've ever unfolded there was that whole controversy. I think she's pregnant, but I don't know the internet I think she was pregnant. I don't talk about the cars. Okay. I treat the car. It's like they're Jewish Okay, so y'all ready to have kids and all that type of stuff. No, not at all not even closer You know, family's like, oh, you're getting all you know, the whole latin thing and we're just like I'm good. If I don't have a kid. I have my nieces Do you want kids? I would like to have at least one But I'm not why don't you just volunteer like at the boys and girls club or something One of y'all got to have if at the age of 40, I don't have a kid. I'm not having one I'm just not because one of y'all got to have a kid like I think she'll have a kid. Yeah, one of y'all have a kid anyway I have a kid. Cool. If it doesn't happen, then it doesn't happen. Like I'm okay with that Really? I don't not that type of woman. That's like, oh my god. I'm 35. Clock's ticking. I don't have a kid I'm not married. No It'll happen when it happens. It'll happen when it happens You never told us how you got cheated on you I hate you, Charlemagne. I just want to know the details. I want to know how this happened. What is the girl you know? No, it was a complicated story. He was in a really bad accident last year I spent all of 2019 flying back and forth trying to help him out. He was a dick to me the entire time and uh No, I'm gonna start crying and then you know afterwards, you know new years actually we were uh talking And why I told them like look you were Pretty messed up to me last year when I was helping you out I need to give me like a month for me to get over the resentment I have towards you And nine days later. He was already with a girl in the bed. Oh because he'd been with her though. Yeah It was his ex. You called him out. Damn. How did you know he was in bed with her? When your gut is telling you something you'll find ways that's something I got to get women That's what yeah, that's what he said But can I can I tell you something when was he when he got in his accident was he's on pills? He's on drugs There's no excuse for that That's a good point. That's a very fair point whack boy. No, I'm serious. This guy's on drugs. He can't be that's a very fair point No, you know what? Honestly, he wasn't a lot of painkillers. He was on a lot of medications. Yes That's what will drive you kind of nuts and it'll have you thinking crazy thoughts Thank you It's not like he's fell into some new put see he went back to his ex Well, he claims that he didn't fuck her that she was just on the bed and I'm like, do you know how dumb you sound right now? Are you gonna tell me that you didn't do shit? Give me a break. The man was hurt and on pain medication He couldn't move. Please don't entertain this bullshit Listen real quick. What if he really didn't do nothing? Did you ever think of that? Do I even bring her to your bed respect? You weren't there. He probably needed something to drugstore Think about it. Think about it. Who's the next person that he probably could call to bring him something I wish him the very best driver Um, it is what it is. Did he tell you that he cheated on you? I finally got him to admit like just fucking being that's one thing I hate like dude. I already know just man up, okay And just tell me the truth. Just just tell me the truth. You owe me at least that Now that's the other problem when you do commit to lying and cheating you have to commit all the way Like you can't think you they got you out. I would deny that shit all the way if I wasn't a lot I can't believe men still fall for that shit. Just tell me the truth and everything will be okay Don't you think it'll be easier to just say the fucking truth because now you're complicating everything so much more Just say the truth. That's it. You already been caught. There's no going back. What is the truth? I really didn't do anything, but you won't accept that because you have in your mind what you think I did So you won't accept that. Maybe I did not fuck this girl But then you have to take ownership because why then did you lie from the beginning? Had you just been honest and be like, you know what he needs the water for the pills Whole conversation, which has been exhausting is the reason why I'm fucking single. Why my only dilemma is what you're doing tonight What you doing this weekend? What are we doing next month? It's a lonely life. Jason. No, it's not I'm single, but I am not lonely. I'm not lonely by any measure. I wasn't I wasn't lonely either, but I just wasn't I don't know what the fuck. Well, you got a fleshlight now. So you got you know, and then you got a fleshlight Locked down to look me. I mean, I just did it just try it and play around with I it's not like my new girl No, you need to listen to what he said about how he's fucking this fleshlight. It's I thought you got a girl I do. So that's not cheating, is it? No, that's what I do. Yeah, but like you're like a girl who's a vibrate all the time. Is she cheating on me? Yeah, but he's arguing with himself of whether or not he should come in the fleshlight because coming in It's like the awesome sick shit you out here Listen to fleshlight is only for like practice because you're supposed to count your pumps And not when I know when I do the fleshlight I'm doing around like six seven hundred pumps So I'm like, I was running on the treadmill counting what 250 pumps would be in a matter of you say what 10 minutes Yeah, if like if I'm if I'm like if I did leg day, it's like 25 pumps a minute If I ain't do leg there's like 40 pumps a minute So in 10 minutes I did about like 400 pumps I've never counted a pump and I bet you last longer if you do Sean man, why do you look so confused? I'm trying to figure out what the fuck is he talking about When you smashing And when we was on bully and the beast I told you like you got to sit there and count count all your pumps I do count I count thrust you do not count But no the reason I count my thrust because it keeps me from coming fast. There you go. That's what I'm saying I've never heard this shit in my life No, I'm wondering what my boyfriend does Does he count his pumps too? I don't he probably do his abc's or something like that. No for real You hum your favorite song I'm gonna tell you what else keeps you from coming fast Like if you got like the metal rod on the bed just reach up and grab the rods I'm serious when your hand touches that cold steel. It just keeps you from coming fast Like you got to do something to distract you from how beautiful your woman is how little You got to do something to distract you from that Fuck out your brain So I just count and I'm like for the especially oh the best thing to do is like fuck up on the counting You got start over So if you guys don't do what you're saying, what are you guys like two minute men? Is that what it is? I mean you will be I mean 250 pumps. Can you do that in two minutes? That's y'all fault though It's woman fault when we come fast. Oh god When you're beautiful you smell good and the pussy is amazing Like it's very hard not to come fast when you're with a beautiful woman But that's why we're doing the counting we're doing the counting Because we know it's selfish sounds like a cop out like you're so beautiful. I just came in like two minutes. Yes Yeah, I'm blaming on your beauty. You see I mean I always try to blame you for some shit Don't just don't do something just don't moan too much if you like really have a question You're gonna definitely get this man to get out of here moaning turns you guys. Oh, yeah It turns you off Yeah, if you if you moan too much of a nut Just shut up for a little bit. Do you know that like literally 90% of a man's sex life is spent Trying to figure out how not to come fast. Yep. Like I'm talking about since we from the time we started fucking to now It's how not to come every time I every time nobody smash a girl. My first thing is that I can't for come fast I gotta think of something before I got a smoke a blunt. I gotta sit there and think about something bad I just do the fall I'm a fall play king Like, you know, I'm saying you just got to make sure that she gets hers a couple times before you even start You know Because I'm at the point in my life where I'm happy I'm I'm I'm happy when I You know, but how do you Yeah, it's though 22 years. How do you keep sex fresh with just two people for 22 years? I mean, I mean, listen, we we've been together since we was kids Yeah So it's not like we the only people we've been with you know But as you get older you start to realize that it's not just about the physical It's about emotional and spiritual and mental like those connections with the sex Totally different ball game y'all haven't got to that level yet because don't nobody love y'all But when y'all get to that point When y'all get to that point where somebody really loves y'all and y'all a committee difference. Oh my god I'm playing pouring hub for my mind is just I can't like you can have I can have sex with a different Race at a different island. I can have park sex. I can have all kinds of sex It's so crazy Why I have more, you know when I need more when I have time for more Yeah, but yeah, but it's always nice to have that one person to really know you could count on on a deep personal level Making love even to share your like success. Yeah god me and god. That's who I I'd share everything with god. I'd be but you know, y'all never made love Who yeah, you never made But I was in a relationship of course, but now I'm so much like I'm literally Just because y'all moving slow don't mean that's making love That's slowing down You know, like I'm I'm just in the pursuit of something with my business like that So I'm really just in love with that like I think you know 42 now should I have a kid Everybody keeps saying oh, you need to have a kid for your legacy My book is my legacy my brand is my legacy like what I do is my legacy I know that I'm not going to be at least right now a good parent I just don't have the time now. I know if I had a kid I'd be like, where's my kid at all day long That's all I would ask where's my kid? Where's my kid? I just don't have any right now Y'all never made love lulu and la la I have Of course I have Thousand times I have but now I haven't so that's We're having a porn hub like he said Yeah, but you could get a man. I mean, do they still contact you at least You're assistant that around But the crazy part is you keep answering the phone Block that nigga. Fuck him. I will put his name out right now. Give me his his photo I'll put on hollywood on like right now Yeah, exactly. They still might end up there. I'm serious Is that the only thing he did that he ever put his hands on you or make you threaten you or something? No, no, that's vante davis to you. No All right, so so that one mess up for three years I mean, okay, it was the break thing he said the break thing kind of messed it up Well, it was just a lot of things just everything that was like pretty much latapal poma What You should learn to be more forgiving. I mean think about it. Ludacris went on a break had a baby him and his wife ended up together Yeah, Swiss beats went on a break and got married to early skis If they can survive break babies, you can survive just him, you know being high on pills I'm like Jason right now. I'm focused on my baby is my career and that's about it But you give me a hole on the side. You got to give yourself a year Man, I'm telling you boss up and you really like step it to these dudes like take control of that shit They'll all be all over you call that baseball player man. Let's go to Peru. Let's fucking go hiking in Peru Because I need to talk to you about this shit as nigga that man will shower you with everything you need when you come back Just like yo, I'm not ready yet. He'll keep giving it to you. What about you lala? What about me? Are you are you gonna be committed to somebody? I am committed to somebody How long y'all been together? I've known him for two years, but where you made it official like about nine months ago Okay, you love him. Yes, I do Is he from New York? No, he's from Miami. It's long this thing But he travels a lot and he I like that he understands the business that I work in. He's not jealous I'm not jealous like you he has a lot of female friends But he like I'm okay with all of them. They were all mad cool. I have a lot of guy friends He's not like he doesn't know I'm with that You like he actually supports me and like pushes me to like do more and like go bigger go harder go bigger He's the opposite of my ex. Yeah, he's a man Listen, I saw you make a face when I said the givante davis thing. I love tank. That tank's cool Tank is busy in the ring. Do you think he was out of line? Yeah, of course. Yeah. Yeah, I called uh, floyd's baby mama Melissa I was like, yeah, what happened? He was she was like it just happened so fast. He just came and snatched her up I don't I mean they're like that's his mother of his child, but that's not his girl I don't understand that girl. You can't let a woman get you to that point No, you know I'm saying to where you putting hands on her because if you do that in public Everybody's mind automatically goes to imagine what he does behind That's exactly what they said to and next thing you know, you're fucking up your money because now No, nobody wants to do endorsement deals with you and then god forbid you get a charge Which he ended up getting a charge with domestic violence. So it's just like you don't want that on your record Yeah, that's gonna follow him forever. Have you ever had a guy jack you up? No I would never allow that and I think if it was between forgiving someone that put his hands on me or someone that cheated on me I would I'll take the cheating anything. He did not put hands. I mean, that's still putting hand He didn't he just grabbed her like that was putting hands And you're that motherfucker strong. Yeah, he killed somebody. I'm a good punch But the but the way she reacted showed me like that wasn't the first time that happened Oh, no, she did. She reacted like a child who knew that they had got And she came back when it was over and sat down Really, there's no she was really embarrassed from what I heard. She was really embarrassed I couldn't even how could you even come back around? You know and no disrespect the white folks but all the white folks was like look at that shit It was just too. It was too. I don't know. She came back was embarrassing But the fact that she came back and sat down and finished watching the game Taylor hates her right and Taylor hates her because um, he took her on a shopping spree Yeah, Taylor right there. Hey, so you said you you didn't like his baby mama. You didn't like him buying stuff for his baby mama Gervante Davis Okay, so I ain't after you come on the mic. I just said you don't know because I need to explain my part You know, in matter of fact, I haven't used this in a while. Is she the one that wanted to sleep with sergi boxer or that was funny? First of all I Can you explain what happened though? But I don't remember. I remember coming on Davis took his baby mama on a shopping spree No, that's not what it was. Yes, it was and we had the conversation Is that okay for a baby daddy to take his baby mama shopping because he got to hold another girl Yeah, you know I said it wasn't I don't think it was necessary I didn't say I didn't say that was I hated her stop putting words in my mouth I said that I didn't I didn't think it was necessary. You have a whole nother girl You don't need to like I don't it's okay to like respect your baby mom But all that gets for a birthday. That's the mother of your child Well, not only that he's a public person and when you have a baby with somebody who's a public person You got to make sure they have security. You got to make sure that they could fly comfortable You got to make sure that they're taking care of you cannot So why do you have to cherish her with all of this? She's a good one and she's a good baby mama. Please. Yes Shower her what gives a shower. No, you don't need to shower If the mother of your child is happy your child will be happy. Yes, so she can be happy with like happy birthday a car No, Floyd's baby mama. Melissa drives a ghost or whatever car of the week that she wants She lives in a big ass house. She's dressed well. She flies whatever But you know, she's not going after him for child support. He's taking very good care of her and his daughter So wouldn't you want to have a relationship where we don't have to go to the courthouse and fight over You get 25,000 a month. Yeah, but then there has to be a level of respect for the new girl that you're dating Like if you're showering her with more gifts than the one that you're with there's a huge problem there And on top of that she that's it. It's over So the only time that he should be showering is the is the baby Maybe the mother's day is the baby and that's it I doubt it's the case that he's treating the baby mama better than his new girl But the new girl is the one that got to learn the rules. I was not the baby mama Just about to say this is the problem Y'all be getting in situations and wanting the man to change and give up everything for you because he's yours Stop that. It's okay as long as he can Take care of you the way that you need to be taken care of and still keep his daughter or child's household In tact with his mom. Why not it's close home to me because I had to deal with that shit and I didn't like it It was just complete disrespect. What do you have to do? There's no need at all for you to You know give her the like I just I can't I will never explain lulu. What happened? So my ex has a baby mama Because she was always like very in the way like always blowing up the phone wanting to know everything like why that's his baby mama I don't give a fuck if that's the baby mama, but it's over So your only priority is your kid and that's it as long as he's good and you take care of him And you're a great father. Okay. You have no responsibilities at all for the baby mama. That's not true The man's got another dude. So why why do you have to be all up in her life though? Can I can I try something? Okay, so in the book my mother my father was married to his wife He's still married to his wife for 45 years. They've been married. He had seven kids out of his marriage with five different women Okay, so with that idea That's probably the reason why my father was never around because his wife didn't you had that kid But you're not about to go over there and build no home with them That's fucked up and because of that all of us got daddy issues We're not saying But for him to be in the kids life, he has to have a respectable relationship with the baby mom Yes, one thing is you have to provide for you that house. So that's still I can't wait to y'all become baby mamas No, my dad right so we have a brother and my mom though my dad's Uh x or whatever she was respectful. She never got in the way But my dad has a great relationship with her. So does my mom. It was done respectfully You know, my dad didn't have to go and buy her anything. He provided for my brother I don't even call him. I have brother because he's my brother. You know what I mean But she wasn't blowing up the phone. My dad wasn't She had a flat tire, you know, it's not my dad's responsibility Go call up the new guy that you're with or call up a brother That's a question too. Does he does he have a boyfriend? I don't know. Is he that's it too. You'll be okay If yes, let's make that make sure that they get us something Make sure he get us something, please Okay You don't know that we're gonna share stuff. Yep. Are we taking the stuff back? Keep the tags What kind of car you want, baby? What kind of car we getting what kind of car? Givante buying us Yes, absolutely Why are you not buying this for me? Well, why do you but why do you care if you're already getting yours? Why do you care? Because like I guess people look at it like yeah But that's the that's the problem. And that's why everybody's single but me Well, you're I mean, I mean, I'm you know having broken relationship issues like you're married. You guys figured it out I ain't got time for that. This is too. It's too much No, I think that I mean because I see it I've actually I have friends who are actually in those situations I think they take very good care of their families and their baby mom and their kids and all that But then they also take care of the people that they're with I'm not saying not to take care of them But there's a fine line that you don't cross now when it comes to the mother of your child Because that's really the mother of your child. That's the care keeper the CEO of your child's life You have to make sure she's good. You want her to be good mentally emotionally Sexually you should be able to hit the baby momma once in a while Oh I'm just Okay, then be that but I'm not gonna be there. I'm not gonna be Why does the gift have to be what I'm sorry? No, I'm just saying she's waiting for the white picker fence. I don't know You're we're just talking about one thing he gave her mad shit for his birth her birthday Not necessarily You could give her a nice little dinner That's not doing like making sure she's good like that's not making sure she's good So if a guy showers you would guess is that If any guy decides you want to shower you would give just because whether he likes you or he's just showing his appreciation Is that necessary in that particular situation? That's not what it is That's the mother of his child. She earned that Whether she's getting it in child support every month or he's deciding to take her on the shop She earned that. What's the problem? Keep her happy. Please. There's a level of respect. There's a level of respect I'm on about Okay, y'all need to stop it is not No, but think about it too because the baby mom could easily just twist around like oh well He got me this stuff too. He's might be so likes me and loves me And that new man is going to be living off the you're the old it's just too complicated It don't matter if you if you just want to take davis and you paying $10,000 child support This is your baby mama. If she got a man. He got he got that too. It don't matter What's that mean that whole ain't what? He's also paying not only is he paying for the girl that he's with the baby mama and the baby mama boyfriend How stupid are you with the baby mama's happy y'all are gonna have a lot of peace in your relationship too Like could you imagine what's the opposite? He's now going to court every month with the baby mama getting drug over publicly shamed You ain't shit now. She's fucking off his brand now He can't get money to take you where you want to go now. You don't like that either You got to pick a side. You want the drama or you want peace? But he's also setting a whole thing. So she's going to expect that every year for a birth like I don't know So what he's rich you can't say that it's young You're putting a he didn't even got this big payday yet. He's putting a perception in her in her mind though I feel like but somehow you all are translating it like that's taking something from you because that's gonna Cause me out of peace like I'm like, well, why are you like that's uh, that's your fault And by the way, if we being honest you just a girlfriend Yeah, if you if you're looking at the stales, baby mamas Take president over the girlfriend all day. Oh, where so you're every mom does I'm gonna hold totally different situation When you're the girlfriend you're not thinking like at least for me, I'm thinking all right. This is gonna lead somewhere else I'm not thinking it's not gonna it's just you know another two months and this this shit is gonna be done You know what I'm saying? So I'm not thinking it like that and I listen I need I said a good baby mama good baby mama take care of her before she puts you on child support and deal What I'm doing you guys think most guys Most guys that got baby mamas they're keeping everything kosher with the baby mama So they can have a great relationship with the kid Yes, so if the new girlfriend puts me in a situation where I got to choose either Oh, you're really asking me to choose between my my child or the kid not really the baby mama in you And this is why I'm a good side nigger because I don't care I'm fucking up your shit. Okay. The baby needs some milk. Cool. Your girl need books for whatever she doing cool Whatever like I'm gonna help y'all out If you could do that if you know how to take care to give help give a present. Yeah, I'll here keep you forever Forever you ain't never going to miss while y'all losing out to us because you're so busy dealing with that bullshit We over here like what's up Damn, it's real gay men have learned how to be better sides than goddamn women flights at 730. What are we talking about? Angelo, come with me to LA for one day Take some pictures man. Take some pictures man. Come here. Yo, he said he said twerk got unlocked One locked. Come here. Shadow Michael Jason How much on a scale of uh One little nizacs How gay are you? I'm a one. I don't believe so he says his chances. Well, I only need one It's a chance. You ever thought about it? No I don't believe that Yeah, I'm just a friendly person. I'm not gay though. Okay. All right. What do you think jace? Uh, you know, I'm not really into like outing people. Everybody should be whenever they want to be But I just feel like people should just like hang out and vibe catch a good vibe Once you catch a vibe all that gay straight shit just go right out the window. You can like damn I have my slang for my dick. One of my home boys said man, you're so cool, bro. I said see that's how it starts Wait first thing watch it. Do you smoke weed? Yeah, I got a weed man that pulls up anywhere Number two you a sneaker guy. No, okay. Well, fuck that. What else? Okay. Wait, wait, you like pussy though Oh, I got some bad ass girls like girl, man. Yeah, but that's okay. That's that's home base. He likes cameras, jason Speak to his heart They got cameras at love and hip-hop next season on love You hold the camera, I'll tell the story No, I'm just playing he cool. He's a good guy. All right, angel. Bye. Thanks Still got to get your number before y'all think jay-z and b you think everybody Blewed out a proportion that jay-z and Beyonce didn't stand for they know you went to rock nation See rock nation date. Fuck with me. We get money on the side But they'll never let me know because I got to ask like how do you create a partnership with the nfl And support cap Which I think you asked the question when you were there right because people were trying to understand this Then go to the super bowl because you managed demi levado and you managed to cure Yeah, but then you sat during the show like it's such a conflict because it's not like the money They get from the partnership is going to caps foundation. That'd be great It think it's sending a mixed message. I'm confused. Do you believe what he said though that he was so focused on like Jay-z is smart as fuck. No, there's no way you come out of marcy and get to where you are and not be smart You know what you're doing. You're the biggest star in the world sitting there during a halftime show, of course Did you see the video? Yes It was mad people sitting in that section It wasn't just jay and Beyonce it was white people sitting in the section people weren't standing that whole headline of Oh They Was they didn't stand for the anthem they were protesting. Where did that come from? That's like rick fox dying Like somebody made that shit up like that shit came out of nowhere Yeah, but you they matter like they matter more than all those other people sitting down like when you see Beyonce I went to puffs house. I was standing outside for the Grammy party Everybody was coming there were tons of people outside, but you only saw Beyonce walk through hundreds of people So that's our fault then because we're not really we're not really focused on what they were doing We're focused on who they are Because it was mad of the people in that section sitting down and nobody had the problem with them not staying What he just said because they are the biggest stars right now in the world like it's jay z and Beyonce it's queen b So obviously all eyes are on. What are they gonna do? America needs to stop being so focused on celebrity I agree because because when situations like this happen. I don't look at the celebrity I look at the actual issue the issue is you're mad that these people didn't stand up for the national anthem So what about everybody else in the section but Beyonce has come out recently and said that she's now doing music That's more important to her legacy in the culture and for black people like she's really on her black shit And we we love it right she showed that in her performance at the halftime show You had to sit in the bleachers to hear the sound Usually the sound guys were on the stage I don't know that you need to sit in the bleachers to sit down and precisely focus on Whether or not Demi Lovato sound sounds right. I just think the whole thing is kind of contradictory I didn't really understand like the partnership with the nfl when they sigh with cap But the money is not going to caps foundation. It would make it would send a really piercing message I think if they donated the money to caps for the money's going to a bunch of different foundations That's what the whole inspired change thing is inspired change is a foundation that they Allocate money from the nfl to a bunch of different Organizations, but where's the money that jay z and rock nations getting going to what you mean like so You gotta pay me for my partnership Right. So what but what you do with the money you're paid can send a message Like i'm partnered with the nfl. I took the money and I gave it to cap. That would be like wow I mean would cap take it who knows? I don't know who know i just don't i just don't like i don't like when people say things like um You know jay z and beyond sarah trying to co-opt capronix movement. Let's be clear protest and police brutality Is was not capronix movement like he wasn't the first person to protest police brutality How do you co-opt social justice? But that's our fault the same thing with everybody saying that shan king is some messiah for the black Lives matter movement when he posted the shit about kobie after kobie died like who the fuck made shan king I don't know that was real. Well, they was on his facebook. I went to his facebook. I went there to see it I saw it. Yeah, i took it. I posted it. Yeah, I didn't understand it. Yeah, I don't understand that Like I think people I think it goes back to us putting so much Stocking this is the voice of black people like no, you know what like I look at you the breakfast club That's the only show I really pay attention to when it comes to stuff because I feel like you guys are fair You're gonna ask our questions But you also go dig into what the people want to know everybody else I feel like they trying to do what you do or they trying to do what wendy does wendy's she just reckless She don't give a fuck. She's gonna say whatever she wanted to say y'all motherfuckers need to be standing up If you don't love america get the fuck out of here Like what the fuck that was a lot Jesus. I was in the back like Wow, what are we park going? Yeah, let's be clear the national anthem is racist It always has been that's what it was written by rations. It's a third verse. That's all about slavery. It's like If I see any black person saying that I would not I honestly don't think that they did it on purpose or that I honestly think they didn't even notice that they probably were No focused on how demi sound was looking and a Beyonce has done Super Bowl So she knows what the deal I don't think they were trying to be disrespectful or anything But I also think that people have become so sensitive for everything everything. It's so annoying But they knew they knew the out natural anthem was they did not exactly You know that the national anthem is gonna play It's one of the biggest events besides the game and the halftime And you know, everybody's filming you you're Beyonce or you're standing next to be I wouldn't care the black people They don't want to stand up before that But it's because that because it's such a big event and everybody knows how big Beyonce and jcr Do you think they purposely sat down so that they could get the backlash the day after? I don't think they were thinking about it thinking about it when we're at these places, right Charlie, you know Beyonce is always on I don't think she was paying that shit. No attention when you when the anthem happens If if people don't stand up around you then you'll stand up I even if it's a standing ovation You'll stand up when everybody else is standing if you're sitting in a section when nobody's standing up you cool Charlemagne, I went to the super you've been to Super Bowl. No, okay Super Bowl I've been in football games, but the Super Bowl you're like every single seat is filled Every single seat has like a shirt or something that there's like a uniform color when they come out If the whole place it's like the craziest thing where everybody stands up You know to stand up or not stand up. They knew what the fuck they was doing that section If you go back and watch that video nobody in that section will stand up like one person I think jay-z is like oprah. I think he's reached a place where black people are just going to accept whatever they do No, oprah starting to catch it now It's starting to crack Because now you got social media and the power of social media shit can move across the world really fast I was just honestly kind of annoyed that we were even talking about Beyonce and jz When the halftime show was about Shakira and Jennifer Lopez like Beyonce honey, you got your moment. You had a whole Super Bowl This is about the latinas my way two women rocking out It was not the best And we're talking about jay-z and Beyonce not standing for the national anthem. You're right. Lou. You're right I was I was mad at that. I'm like dude. Yeah, like you had your moment. It's not about you It's about Jennifer Lopez and Shakira doing something that's never happened. That's not Beyonce's fault That's not Beyonce's fault. Yeah, that's the people's fault. I'm not saying it's Beyonce's fault It just annoyed me that I'm like, I can't believe we're taking away from these two women because of what you know Beyonce and jz Did well and credit to Beyonce the woman kim burst behind jaylo and Shakira's performance was Once Beyonce's person so she did kind of help her but yeah, I agree with it. It was a great performance I loved it wasn't the greatest halftime show of all time Like some people from the latino community or trying to say it was close. It was close I say it was one of the I'm not saying it was the best michael jackson to me was Bruno mars michael jackson and prince from Beyonce's first one. It was They also try to dig Whitney Houston out the grave and give it to demi levado. I don't think she'd beat Whitney Not at all. Not even close. I didn't even hear it. Yeah When demi we were at jamie fox's house one day and demi was walking through the party She really wanted a picture with flamie weather So I Her person says hey demi really wants a picture with flamie weather. I said, okay, hold on Hey, floyd demi wants to get a photo with you and he was like, who was that? And I said demi levado and he was like, okay I'm not not really familiar with you and so she's like i'm a singer and i'm like, yo, she's big on instagram I pulled it up. I show all this whatever so she goes uh, so So they they meet they take their photo. They walk away and her people go Hey, yo, can you help us get demi to sing the national anthem at the connor greger fight? I'm like, yo, that's a big ask But if I get that I need demi to partner with hollywood unlock to put out this limited edition merch And then we'll partner and we'll make all this what this is how I was just thinking whatever So I go to floyd and i'm like, yo, I got the perfect idea for this connor greger fight Demi levado could sing the national anthem. She's this much followers on instagram She's gonna bring in this audience. She's gonna this that and she sings the national anthem and afterwards That's a greger fight at the greger fight and afterwards they sung me on the deal No Yeah, like I've never told that story, but I kind of feel like when she was up there saying I put that Shit on mute. I didn't want to hear that shit because I already heard that shit and I lost money when I heard the shit the first time Wow. Yeah rock nation. They they move, you know, they interesting Oh, so that was our nation you were dealing with the management. Yeah Really? They couldn't get demi to sing it. No, demi doesn't really do that But that was great that she performed at the at the uh event. Yeah, they say jay got her to do that personally No, I'm talking about the greger on the greger. Okay. Okay. Okay. Got you got you got you So so did that really mean something to the latino community? Yes, it did Talk to me why huge because you You don't really see it out there. First of all, there isn't in the past there hasn't been diversity Jason's Dominican too by the way. I'm not a black And so to see, you know, Shakira and jennifer lopez. Well, Shakira mostly she was singing in spanish You know, there was a little spanglish in there. It's kind of like, oh my god I can't believe we finally got we're in general market people are seeing us And not to mention the mics were off. So let's say they were performing So to see women that are in the older part of their lives still doing their thing up there That's like, uh, that's a big thing. I was inspired. I'm like, damn I was proud. Yeah, I was proud. I'm gonna say it. Like you said, is it the best Superbowl performance? No But they did a great job. They really did great and I love the fact that they brought out jay balvin and bad bun Rotten rabbit I was on the spanish block and they was going crazy That's why diversity matters because I've seen like the latino community was on a high And also the the message behind like the the children behind the cages for every, you know everything that's been going on and in Puerto Rico as well. They've gotten such a You know shitty response whenever they they've even now Puerto Rico still having earthquakes and no one's really talking about that. Like That's horrible. So seeing them as older women inspired you to just the way they look Yeah, because it doesn't matter how old you are like you're out there doing your thing It doesn't matter. Like they don't really say that when a guy's performing. Yeah They don't you know, like they don't say that and it bothered me that they were some people were like, oh, they were This was like porn. They were half naked adam levine last year had his shirt off nipples exposed Nobody said anything about that. Like why don't you know when a guy takes off his shirt? It doesn't matter if you're gonna bitch about something. It's got to go both ways As a Cuban woman do was there ever any fear that y'all may not age gracefully? Never, okay Never A lot of people tell us you shouldn't say your age on the radio You shouldn't do that because it's bad, especially in this business, but I'm proud. There's I've got There's a lot of friends. We went to high school that didn't make it like there Been six feet under so to me. I'm like Oh, I thought you meant like didn't make it like they got fat Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so I'm like I'm happy I'm 35 People should have been on that stage But people did the the pre-show I think I think that's why he wasn't on that main stage because he did the pre-show before the Super Bowl Uh kicked off. I think flow writers should have been up there. Yeah, I think Cardi B should have been there. They did I like Cardi was there and she should have been up there. I heard Cardi didn't want to. I heard Cardi turned it down Oh, really? I don't I don't know how true that is. That's what somebody told me And a part of me thought that Shakira was gonna have white clav there for the Y'all y'all Puerto Rican brother Which by the way, he won't ever admit to this but when we first started here. Yeah, he was like, hey, I think bad bunny is corny Do you even know about your culture like maybe Research a little bit more and we brought him into that culture. Now. He's like 100% proud Puerto Rican You're lying. He didn't even know he's Puerto Rican So he just started representing Puerto Rico. You know, he's always represented but he wasn't as knowledgeable He was like this guy's corny like what is he trying his style like what is he trying to say or do like I don't understand it And we're like just just just just give him a listen to the music and give him a chance Like listen to the lyrics just like with hip-hop listen to what they're saying so you could understand He was like, oh it's corny. I'm like, you don't even know this dude He said no black people were necessary because the whole point of it was to Raise up the next generation of latino Culture I don't think that's true. I feel like like I said if a white clap would have been there, uh Flow rider, he should I yeah, you know, we worked in Miami for three years and flow is our friend So I'm like, you know, he is Miami. He could have been up there. You know, he could have been up there I think pit bull for sure Pit bull and cardy for sure I was surprised that pit wasn't there but but I could understand it because he did the pre show Yeah, but I don't know. I don't know what happened there I don't know what happened there. All right guys. I think we've had enough music What Taylor Take that take that they broke up Oh, you got to let them hear it though. I don't think they heard I heard it I haven't heard it. I don't know you gotta let them hear it. Taylor let jason and lulu and lala I hear it. This is a good note to end on. All right. Let's take a quick break And show some love to square space, man All right, you can turn your dream into a reality Which square space square space makes it easier than ever to launch your passion project Whether you're looking to start a new business showcase your work publish content sell products and more Square space is the tool for you. 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Let's get back to the show It's been said that his legacy is complicated Because of sexual assault charge, which was dismissed in 2003 2004. Is it complicated for you as a Woman as a wnba player It's not complicated for me at all Even if there's a few times that we've been at a club at the same time Kobe's not the kind of guy never been like, you know, please go get that girl or tell her or send her this I have other nba friends that are like that Kobe's he was never like that. I just never see have ever seen him being the kind of person that would be Do something to violate a woman or be aggressive in that way That's just not the person that I know but Lisa you wouldn't see it though Is this friend you wouldn't see it and that's possible I just it's just I just don't I just don't believe that and I'm not saying things that didn't happen I just don't believe That things didn't happen with force. Is it even a fair question to talk about it? Considering he's no longer with us and that it was resolved or is it really part of his history? I think That the media should be more respectful Um at this time, it's like if you had questions about it, you've had many years to ask him that I don't think it's something that we should keep hanging over his legacy. I mean He went to it went to trial It was the case it was dismissed because the victim in the case refused to testify So it was dismissed and I think that That's how we should leave that. That's how the fuck we should leave it I And I blame black people talk to me because y'all keep giving motherfuckers hall passes to be disrespectful I feel like you know, no matter what opera says. She's god. She could get away with it No matter what gale king says because that's opera's girl Friend it can't say she can get away with it. Like uh jz. He could do whatever he want. No, like That's why people like what we do is important because you gotta hold people account What no matter who you are like, why are you not focused on the many many many white men? Who abused their platforms or their positions in hollywood? And I know they keep bringing up harvey, but he ain't the only one There's so many other people the same with like, you know, I mean, I don't know I just find it really interesting now That we're allowing these legends or these icons to be disrespectful to our people lulu and lala I think it's completely disrespectful. I mean the man isn't here And if they did have questions, why didn't you say something when he was alive? Like why are you gonna bring up his dirty laundry or whatever the case may be after he's dead? Like it's disrespectful not only to him but to his children and to his wife that they're still They're mourning right now and now they have to deal with this. I think it's just completely wrong. I'm offending Yeah, I think it's uh two sides of every story, right? And for me, it's like Okay, a young woman says coby bryant sexually assaults her coby bryant says he didn't sexually assault her He said that they had consensual sex. Guess what you're free to believe whoever you want to believe According to law says that you know coby bryant didn't do it. She felt she didn't want to testify The case got dismissed. So if gale feels like and I don't even know if gale feels like that But if she does feel like coby bryant sexually assaulted that woman cool If somebody like lisa lezley feels like coby bryant didn't that's fine, too Don't try to push anything on anybody. You know what I mean? Like that conversation should have never even happened It never should have happened Up If the woman who was an alleged victim or whatever wants to come forward now and tell her a story I don't think anybody's are you in that she should be silent? She's do whatever she want to do But I feel like there's this baiting now, especially anytime they talk to somebody black Like what you think about coby back in x day like what that's what we doing Yeah, I just think is I just think it's crazy In my mind I was online with people when he died the idea that he could have been holding his daughter as they crash and died Why wouldn't even be having this conversation right now? I don't even know if he's not even buried yet, right? No And why do we keep even let's just hypothetically say it is true Why do we reduce people to their mistakes? Right? You know what I'm saying? Like why do we reduce why do people setbacks become their identity? Yeah, clearly that man grew He evolved great redemption story came back one championships had kids became such an An ambassador for women in a real way people will always remember the bad things that you do And they will never remember the good things because he did a lot of good things for a lot of good people And so we choose well They choose to focus on that instead of Focusing on something else. They whisper your success and they scream out your failures How uncomfortable for Lisa Leslie though like That's my point even if you talk about it from a journalist perspective, right? Because you know jason we do this But like me and jason we ask these we ask questions that people may be like, why would you ask that? But at least i'm asking it to them. Yeah. Yeah, why would I be asking lisa leslie? About koby right just because they play in the same city just because they're both basketball players like I'm surprised that she even answered. I probably would have just gotten like this. It's over. I'm not don't even Not to mention lisa leslie's role in la with the uh sparks, right and into basketball And how she's been uh a trailblazer for females in basketball LA just went through the death of nipsey hustle. Let me just put this in context la in general right now is so Down like you just went through this with nipsey now koby on a whole other level the day of the grammy It's nobody was even talking about the grammy we were talking about koby and And like the dust isn't even settled yet and not just keep thinking about His daughter and the fact that her her school has an empty chair her her house has an empty But like I just can't get over that so I think it's just way out of pocket But again, we've just made it permissible for these icons to do whatever they want to do and What's the point? Yeah Conversation yeah, what are you trying to do like what I don't I don't understand the point I love gail whoever wrote them questions I was like wow Shame on her But gail had to say that I mean you you saw what was on the paper she gail has enough cloud to be like no I'm not going there. I hope she explains it. I'm sure she will you know once she starts to see the back Last I just want to know what what she was trying to get out of that conversation I think that's what I would like to have you do you remember that? Oprah had received an award at the golden globes where she got up and spoke about Me too and she said, you know, I can't wait to the day She ended it by said I can't wait to the day that no woman has to utter the words me too again She really like had the world behind her and champion and you know champion women and wanted to get behind the me too Movement but I have said like me too movement has become the new hiv It's just moving all over everybody's catching it anybody can catch it. There's no Regulation for it. There's no cure to it. And if you say somebody has it you just treat it a certain way It's not it's the coronavirus Well, maybe let's say well, we don't know coronavirus And me too takes you to fuck out. Okay, maybe maybe there's been advancement advancement in medicine Maybe that's not a good analogy, but you know what I mean like at this point is not really I don't feel like it's really fair um And so yeah, I mean I think it's something that she started out really getting a lot of women behind her on But now it's just that's that's just too much. It's become and I hate to say and I'm a woman It's kind of become like a joke really like it's not the seriousness that has been Diminished to a certain extent. That's because they put everything in one basket You know I'm saying like like it's like if a guy You know grabbed your butt back in the day and they throw you in the same bucket as bill colby You know, I mean like it's it's it's levels, right? Like everything is not the same Everything shouldn't be in one basket and that's what they did. Yeah Well, listen, uh jason lee god must have forgotten about me is out right now. Yes, okay Thank you for coming jason. You won't give me a twitter than instagrams and all that stuff all that Oh my instagram My mind was on posting. Yeah, uh, the only jason lee and ad hollywood on locks lulu and lala Give me instagrams. Oh lulu lala. We share one l u l u y l a l a lulu I follow You follow. Yeah, you follow all of us We share one instagram. No, but I follow one of y'all personal personal. Yeah, you do. I don't have you on my personal page That's the page. I'll cheat on It's really not entertaining at all Like not the public profile, but then dm's lit. No Well, listen lulu lala. I love y'all. We love you guys. Appreciate you jason. We love you Love you even though you don't like to say it back. I love you too. Charlemagne. Oh Hey Are you coming out? Can you come on hollywood on lock please? I'm there. Okay. I'm gonna be in la a lot In march like I got like 10 la dates in march because I'm taping something. So I'll be out there a lot What? Oh wax god damn it Wax wax who keep his fly open Why are you looking? Listen, what was we here when you had your dick out? Oh that we was in socket line What crazy we was in socket line and we went to the barbeque restaurant, right? Oh my god Yeah, I went to the bathroom. He came back. He's just leaning on the counter Me and my cousin kente like I'm like, they're gonna make you register the sex He forgot to fucking dip his pants up. That's horrible. Give me your instagram wax. Uh wax king w xky and g and uh Bullying the beast podcast. Yes. Check out the bully in the beast. No podcast. Can you go to my instagram to phyangelo? All right, uh, as always if you listen to this podcast, you think we're smart. You think we're intelligent You think we're brilliant. You're absolutely right But if you listen to this podcast and you think we're just a couple idiots who don't know shit You're right too. It's a brilliant podcast. Thank you for listening