 Most times when people find interest in someone on more than a friend level, they focus more on chemistry than connection, which is much more surface level. Next time you're looking for a romantic partner, don't just focus on the butterflies and the fireworks and all those zingy feelings we get in our body, but look for someone that you can connect with on a much deeper level. Someone who understands you, who supports you, who you can be your most authentic self with. That's the kind of connection that will last a lifetime.