 night game. Sweden what I noticed is it's very similar to the United States for day game only they aren't as approached and when you do go about it like you have two different ways to go about it. First one is you play the tourist route and I was doing this for a couple days where all I did was I had a map and I'd walk up to random people as you know say this person's going this way I'll come up I'd be like I'm looking at my map like hey do you know where is and they'd be like oh it's over here over here and so then I would do an introduction and then I would just continue walking with them and talking with them and allowing them to have the opportunity to get to know me as a person so then when it comes down to asking for the phone number there's more of a relevance to it then hey you're really hot I want your number so I can bang you so that's one approach another one that I ran across is at the trains these people are bored they got nothing to do they're waiting five ten minutes for a train to show up and they're just sitting here I had this happen to me was it the eighth I think it was the eighth I was going to meet up with Anthony and Dion for dinner and I got off at the stop ahead of them ended up finding out that they were at the stop before so I was like okay great this like fucking sucks you know it's a little rainy kind of annoyed and they decided to hop back on the train as soon as I get downstairs on the platform I see this Jamaican slash Swedish girl and right up my alley she just standing there by one of the little podiums doing absolutely nothing and I'm like you know what I don't know where this interaction is going to go really don't care but you know as like like Durham said yesterday you miss a hundred percent of the shots that you don't take so I decided to fuck it walked up to her and immediately I'm just like I like the style that you have going on here I like your outfits it goes really great with your skin tone and you look phenomenal hi I'm Jared and that led into conversation we got on the train together we ended up sitting down together talking a little bit and right about the time when I had my my exit which was only one stop so I had maybe five minutes max time to talk to her and it getting her number and I started just doing my text game met up with her the first day of the convention and so instead of me staying here I had a date then the the following day I had another date on the day three I closed her now this is just some girl that I randomly met at the train I mean this these are things that if you live in the United States you can do the exact same stuff one thing that is actually really really really key to my game that I see a lot of guys in the community do this all the fucking time and it's kind of annoying but you know it if you're in field of me and you're doing this hey cool you do it I don't care I'm gonna do my thing it just means more opportunities for me to meet women and less opportunities for you a lot of guys they hesitate and by hesitate I don't mean just okay they see a girl that they want to talk to they're like thinking in the head should I should I wait for the perfect moment should I wait for you know her to turn her back over here should I wait till she's done with getting her drink pain no fuck that there is never a perfect moment you're always gonna run across and interrupt you're always going to run across the fact that these girls you could be sitting there waiting for this perfect moment yet you don't know what's going on in their lives they could end up being just about to leave so you're like okay I'm gonna wait two minutes I'm gonna wait two minutes I'm gonna go talk to them and then you're just kind of looking around the room and actually you know you see that they have the coats and they're out the door and you've just blown your chance at that like the only other option is just to fucking run after them and just chase them down I really had to come talk to you I saw you and said the club you know also with the with the hesitation if you feel something you do it like for me I escalates all the fucking time like from the initial meet I naturally just do it with my touch like if you notice I move around a lot I I talk with my hands so it allows me to kind of go in and out of sets you know where I'm invading space here vain space here when I'm talking to like a girl or even guys like my hand will be on the shoulder could be around the back could be you know behind the back and this builds you know the comfort for it but this is the way that I feel and it is just a natural escalation when I'm going about trying to sexually escalate on a girl same thing I don't look for those perfect moments I don't look for okay I need the silence I need her to have this certain chemistry with me if I feel it in my body that this is the true thing for me to do I follow my heart you know because the same thing as you miss out on 100% of the opportunities that are presented your way I've done that before when I was younger great example when I was in high school I didn't know this but there was a bunch of girls that found me attractive yet I was such a shy individual so introverted so to the point where in order for me to talk to a girl it would have to be like hey do you know what the homework is for today okay page 196 and we do numbers one three five and seven okay thank you that was pretty much it's never went to a party while I was in high school had like five friends and then I find out years later like through other people that got to know me through you know obviously through Facebook you know like acquaintances got to know me after I got into the community and go out with them to like a bar and they're like who the fuck are you like like what the hell happened to you and it just was what it was like one thing that I noticed about I don't know where some of you guys are in your life for me I was at a point of scarcity where I had no life like I had a couple of friends I had nothing really going on with women and I was on such a low and I forget where I heard this from but this happens in all walks of life it's in health in fitness in relationships the people there's like you know scales one two three four five people that are at one that's pretty much rock bottom two a little bit better three is average four is above average and five would be like if we're talking about wealth would be like Donald Trump okay my life I was probably about in between a one and a two like I don't say one because I wasn't homeless living on the street you know so those people that are once in twos usually end up because of this desire this need inside of them it drives them and then they become a four or five that is where my success came from being comfortable with where you are is not good like you are always either going up or going down and that happens with abilities like I had that even happen with myself after I got engaged when I needed to be on I'd be on like I taught on AFC Adams 14-day boot camp or 7-day residential in Vegas I hadn't approached a girl in like six months because I hadn't had to the only times that I had approached was when I would be teaching a students and you know I was teaching for free in Chicago so I would be showing people be like okay this is how I work a room this is how I do this this is how we do that but other than that it had nothing personal to do with me so I basically was on vacation from pickup and so I get there and I'm sitting there I'm like oh man I don't even know if I remember how to do this like I don't know if I'm gonna be able to do this this should be interesting and just immediately it was like okay the necessity bam just on and it was fucking phenomenal like another thing that I noticed in the community and this goes with the whole three second rule and people like I wish I'd go talk to her wish I could do this do that do that and it goes further than just you know like pickup it's your own personal intent like there's a lot of people that say I wish I could do this I would like to do this for me I decide that I'm gonna do something like I make it an absolute must example I decided that I did not want to spend my money for this trip coming here okay I had money saved up and I was like you know talking to my business partner I'm like you know I'm not gonna touch anything I have in the fucking bank for me the money that I'm gonna have for my trip and I told them how long I was going for it's like I'm gonna go for 24 days so obviously I'm gonna need some cash I'm like the money that we make this week is the only money that I'm bringing with me like that was it it was a must I made it a necessity that I had to do this I was gonna do this no matter what it costs well same thing when it goes to being in the bar with women you see a girl you like sure it's nice to like see some eye candy oh well she's pretty whatever blah blah blah well you'd like to meet her same thing you make it a decision no matter what's who cares about if you get rejected who gives a fuck about that you never know what this girl is gonna think of you you know make it make it a deep desire like an intent that you're gonna go and do this no matter what no matter if her boyfriend shows up no matter if you get fucking surrounded by six of her friends like and yes I've had that happen to me where that's a fun one where you see the single girl I'm thinking oh it's a lone wolf awesome this should be great so come up talk that that that that that that and next you know I look around I'm like I'm in the middle of a fucking circle I'm like you know these people oh yeah this is a this is my roommate it's her friend it's to her date and this and they're all just kind of you know stand there like this like if they were judging me and just like paying attention what I'm doing like if I was the middle of a show and yeah it's an uncomfortable feeling but I still stuck with it anyways which leads me to another point a lot of people they I don't know who set it and kind of coined it premature not ejaculation but ejection it's a lot of guys they get to a certain point where okay I've opened this girl and that was nice okay I said this I said this and okay my brain just went to fucking scattered like it's fucked right now it was really nice meeting you I'm gonna go like find my friends I'm Jared by the way and then they run off fuck that put the sexual tension right back on her can I borrow you for a second okay okay you notice she just started like cracking up and smiling right well you will get that also what will end up happening is like she this is a different scenario like she didn't know that you know you know like that felt kind of sexual that felt like there was tension there obviously as a girl you would want to break that and you might engage me in conversation where it could be like so what do you like to do you see what I'm saying yeah I'm gonna call you back up in a second anyways but thank you and that's the thing like us as males like yeah you're gonna feel that with anyone I mean I don't care if I did this with Anthony the same fucking thing would happen like we'd be staring at each other and one of us is gonna have to break let it be the girl that'll cause her to invest into you you know like if you run out of things to say cares it'll allow the conversation to flow more and it will build sexual tension another thing that I look at when it comes down to like escalating every set that I go into I push it as far as I possibly can I will do it in front of the friends I will do it anywhere I've been known for all types of like fucked up scenarios I'll give you a good example I had never joined the mile high club I went out to Dubai for a week on the way there I had noticed this you know really attractive black girl totally my type like cuz I like black girls I like Latinas totally my type I saw her I'm playing on my computer but the way that it was logistically set up was she's all the way across the room I'm like you know chilling over here now if I get up and I go over here I've just signified my intentions that I want to talk to her which puts me in a different you know scenario so I was like okay how how shall I work this right well my seating was before hers so all I did was I went through I gave the ticket I waited by the the entrance and I just stood there had my bag let people flow by look into the side I waited until she got close to me as soon as she looked over at me I just held the eye contact and it's just like this like I expected her to open me and communicate with me sure enough the tension between that caused her to spit out I really like your hair I had it up in a mohawk and she's like I really like your hair soon as she did that I was like thank you that's all I needed walked up blah blah blah thank you for the compliment I think that's awesome like for me I love the style I'm Jared you are and you know she gave me her name now mind you we are about 20 feet away from boarding the airplane so I'm like okay I gotta do like speed game here I gotta figure out logistics and everything I'm like well we're going on the same plane what seat are you at like are you gonna be in my neighbor or something and you know pull out the ticket pull out hers turns out she's a seat ahead of me I'm like oh my god this is perfect this has a really good setup for this so I'm like you know what you know what we should do is because we're both fucking cool people we should sit next to each other and it'll be fun like we're probably the most interesting people here she's like we should totally do that I'm like this is the only way this is gonna work though there's gonna be a lot of people on this plane and you're gonna be stealing someone's seat so what we have to do is for at least this plane ride you're my girlfriend okay that's what we have to tell them we have to let the you know whoever is gonna have your seat that you're gonna be sitting in that you're my girlfriend United Airlines fucked up on the tickets and you think about that who in the right mind if that was a true scenario would break up a boyfriend girlfriend from sitting next to each other like I looked at us like no there's no way this is gonna happen trust me babe it's totally cool sure enough we end up walking all the way to the back of the plane because we have the back aisle so chill in there some fat guy sits down next to us sure enough another guy comes up he's like oh one of you is in my spot and I'm like well my friend I was wondering if you would be willing to exchange seats because you know blah blah blah we're boyfriend girlfriend United messed up I don't know what happens would that be all right with you and he's like yeah sure so I'm talking to her and just kind of the basic bullshit so where do you live what do you do and I use for me I use sexual priming any of you guys I don't know if you've seen my any of my other speeches what sexual priming for me is something that I ran across that it hits three categories yes no maybe and that's based on the statement that I say and her response to what I say is completely subconscious there is no you know she has to think about it she just reacts to it so an example of that would be hey buddy if you don't stop looking me like that like right now I'm gonna come over there and I'm gonna kiss you okay that right there like triggers the brain and it's gonna hit either a yes of what what are you waiting for how do you know I want to kiss you is also a yes I know is a I don't want to kiss you and a maybe is the like the look of a deer in headlights okay so I'm talking to her I'm connecting with her a little bit and she ends up asking me you know how old I am and I will use like questions like that to put myself as more of a prize and I used her kissing me as a prize I assume that she wanted to kiss me and I just said if you guess it right I'll kiss you she got it wrong didn't kiss her but it already gave me the information that I needed so then about a minute later we started making out a little heavy hardcore intense little session I got this fat guy kind of watching us I'm like okay cool whatever and just getting to know her more like you know emotionally connecting with her finding out passions about her life telling her about myself telling her about me being a dating coach the reasons why I'm a dating coach where I was when I was younger like all these things to build commonalities but also a way so I can like touch her soul and get a feel for who she is a person and do likewise for her where she can get that feeling for me so I can build this emotional bonds so this way I use it all the time this way I don't get flaked on as much by girls because if you think about it with a girl what reason does she really have to meet up with you again if you were just like this fun guy but if she can look back you'd be like wow her and I we you know him and I we had this amazing connection this is something that I rarely have when I'm dealing with men sometimes even with women there's something special and unique to this use it to my advantage so talking to her about half an hour into the flight took my jacket put it over my lap and I'm now testing her boundaries and I do this based on like muscle tension like you know how comfortable she is with being able to touch me so it started off with I guided her hand you know up my arms to my chest notice that there was no pullback so I had to go down here I got her all the way down to my penis and she just started rubbing it and I'm like okay I know what this means this is something awesome I'm like jackets up unzip my pants undo the bun put her hand there and I'm getting a hand job while I'm sitting in the seats and I got that boy over here and I'm like this is fucking great okay regardless this is gonna be an awesome story for me anyways and I'm always thinking I'm like where can I take this how far can I take this right I'm starting thinking about I'm like hmm I wonder if I can get a blowjob on the bathroom or in the bathroom I wonder if I could fuck her in the bathroom I'm like I wonder if I could actually get her to give me head right now here so I'm talking to her and I kind of tilt to the side you know to kind of block you know what's going on here and making out with her and I kind of lift the jacket over to the side and I get the little tension on that I'm like okay not ready there so I decide to rezip up you know put all my shit back together flip the jacket back on her because I'm like maybe she's not aroused enough for this so undo her stuff start fingering her and I can see that she's really getting into it she's really fucking loving it and next you know if I can flip it back to me zip put it back together zip and try to go for it again and she goes down a little bit and stops like like literally this far from here I'm just like come on oh my come on let's fucking do this right well she comes back up she's like but there's people around I'm like there's a bathroom right here let's go to the bathroom it'll be okay she's like no what if we get caught like the US marshals like we could go to jail I'm like I'm like it'll be okay no no no notice I promise all right I'm like I promise and she's like no can't do that I'm like fuck and so I'm like okay let's see how I can deal with this maybe I can't get a blowjob on the airplane maybe I can't bang her in the bathroom and I start talking to her I'm like you know what we really should do when we land in Houston they have these things called bathrooms that people can go in did we should go in there and fuck like rabbits she's like we should do that I'm like am I as soon as she said that in my head I'm like oh this girl is down to fuck this girl is down for everything I'm like okay how do I make this happen how do I make this happen I'm in sales right so for me when I'm dealing with people I use emotion I use energy I feed people off with it right so one thing if I'm running into a person that's kind of being like a hard sale there's always that impulse that all you have to do is go into the tonality of it you know we're like emergency emergency this needs to happen right so I started re-escalating on myself and I tried to get her to go down and she's like you know same type of hesitation and I'm like I'm like listen this is gonna be amazing for you okay you're gonna have a story to tell your grandkids when you get older who can say that they've given someone a blowjob while some fat guy is sitting next to them on an airplane and she like kind of giggled a little bit and just was still hesitant I'm like fuck okay how do I do this and I look and I see that there's the little stewardesses that are kind of you know pushing the carts and I look at her and I'm gonna do it sideways I'm like I'm like listen like dude do you see that like right over there like dude they're coming they're gonna be here in a minute do go and she just so now I got a fucking blowjob real quick I was like oh fucking awesome and I'm like great now I get like 40 minutes left on this plane with this girl yeah that's fine whatever I should be good to go by the time we land again and so we end up talking you know just kind of connecting a little bit deeper building more rapport getting know each other better and as soon as we land if I'm grabbed it by the hand I see a fucking bathroom I'm like let me see if I can do this now I'm like soon as I get to the bathroom she kind of hesitates a little but she's willing to come with I walk in and there's like 15 dudes and I'm like I just let the hand go went in took a piss came back out waited for her to get out the bathroom and now we're walking through the terminal and I'm like talking where blah blah blah blah blah and everything seems cool like she seems like she's still down for this I'm like thinking I'm like I'm like man I don't even know this airport she's like yeah I don't know this airport either I wish there was somewhere private where he'd go dude as soon as she said that I'm like this girl's still down to fuck I'm like okay ding ding ding in the head I'm like parking garage let's go there there's privacy we you know we can fuck between cars she's like I have my car parked there I'm like I'm like perfect so we end up getting out there find her car had sex couple times while some guy was over yonder taking pictures of the scenery and go back in have lunch and you know had a sea and like that was something that was an experience where I personally never thought I could do that was possible like I've heard stories of oh the mile-high club and overnight and you know like you meet someone and there's you know the beds and you can share it and there's the sleepers right and I didn't think that it would be possible for that quick of a a day game pull on a completely packed plane but yet I decided you know what I'm willing to risk this I'm willing to see what I can do because I learned from a mistake I made a while ago I was coming back from Mexico last year and it was a night flight there was a stewardess that I just thought was smoking hot and I ended up talking her into giving me free alcohol and then like unlimited supply of those little packages of peanuts and shit well there wasn't a lot of people on this plane so I've been talking to her and when the seatbelt sign was off I get up and I'm like okay come with me and we went to the very back right where it's kind of dark and you know got a blanket over us and I'm talking to her and same type of deal like get into know who she is as a person finding out the depths of her dreams why she's an airline attendant what she wants to do with her life where could she see herself if she could do anything and I'm telling her the same things about myself well in my reality at that time I had never heard of you know like that shit yep yep you can just get the stewardess to give you head here dude to dude right and so all we did was make out and I got her number and it kind of didn't go anywhere because I was kind of seeing someone and there was that and so I was like okay that was a potential thing and I learned from my mistake I was going with that but that's okay oh this one actually should be great for a lot of you guys everyone in this room is different okay like some of you I'm sure are you know comedic others mysterious I know myself personally I have a combination of different things I have charisma but there's also this mysterious aura about me and I tend to talk and look with like I'm gonna fuck the world in a sense so those are three strengths that I have that I capitalize on mind you I have weaknesses like there are things about me where it if I decided to focus on those it wouldn't help me get women you see what I'm saying so what you need to do is figure out for yourself what's great for you like the way that I game like I can go high energy I can go chill I enjoy high energy game because what I can do with that is it can be very speed did did did did did did and I can entrance a little bit I can keep the fun going on with these people and that makes things like a bathroom pole fucking in an alley getting her to leave her friends without even saying a word to her friends and go off somewhere with me it makes it very very very easy I hate to enter entertaining groups like I mean I'm cool with this but when I go into a bar I really do hate having to sit there in a six sets and hey that that yeah we're shooting this shit fuck you I'd rather have a lone wolf or a two sets with the two set what I do is I either do one of two things I will either juggle them both together and flirt with both of them so I'm not giving them any inclination of who I want like Jason and I we were talking about this yesterday and what that does is it eliminates the cock block like I've heard from other people before they're like I hate two sets two sets I'm always like someone's pulling away you know the fat girls pulling away or whatever well that's a way to fix that if they don't know what's going on it builds jealousy plotlines between the two of them and it also makes it so you eliminate that potential pull away and then at the end of the night there's a couple things that you can do one you get both their numbers and it would be very secretive like you talking to one you're like you know what I really like you and I don't want to be rude in front of like your friend but what's your number right and then a little later on when you get the chance you do the exact same thing with the other one right so now you have both their numbers and you're kind of keeping it hush hush and if you want to meet up later you know obviously you find that the logistics you can tell one girl hey I'm going to this place and the other girl you'd be like hey I'm going to this place and the girl that you want just go to that place that's one way to handle that Jason was telling me what he likes to do is you know something similar only he likes to you know take both girls back to his place to get a threesome with them and that's another way that's totally fucking cool another thing that you can do is since there is that secretive thing between you know you're trying to keep it a secret you know that's why a frame is hey I don't want to be rude that girl that's her friend she doesn't want to be rude either to her friend you know and be like hey you know how the guy was flirting with both of us he actually liked me that would kind of suck you know like example if you went out and you both met a girl and the girl was flirting with both of you and you didn't know that he got the phone number but then he kind of like threw it in your face how would that make you feel you see what I'm saying and girls don't want to do that to each other either so then if you want to play the field on that and work them both and try and bang them both separately that's another way to go about it another thing like I'm very social when I go and actually go talk to people with the club because girls that I'm not even interested in right I will make friends with them to possibly party with them later because they have friends okay regardless of even if they come out one or two of them and both of them are kind of like and whatever I have a base set and then I can bounce and move throughout and talk to other people now you can also run across the scenario where girl not so hot has a smoking-ass friend and a couple of cute girls that they bring with now massive like social value there also you have that warm approach because you're introduced to the girls and now you have free reign to kind of game them if you want to take it further you can also meet other girls and guys and bring them into your sets to kind of build this dynamic where you're the man and then kind of try and take your pick find out which ones are into you and go from there hmm okay earlier I was talking about how I got in this to find love right at one point in the community sex in a way kind of did become a drug where it was like yes there's the male validation that you get on forums like oh you're the man blah blah blah whatever but also there was just that you have an ability to be able to pick up women and I wouldn't go after anymore what I wanted it would be okay I have a date with you and maybe I decided to turn you into fuck buddy where it's we just talk casually occasionally or I just don't talk to you again well what I did there for the longest time was I didn't even give myself the chance to find what I wanted like I started chasing after just getting pussy instead of going to try and find a girlfriend find love again that's why I'm talking about being genuine to yourself you know figuring out what is it in this community that you want find out what your goals are for what you want like obviously some guys here may be wanting 12 girlfriends you know all throughout the fucking country others may want a wife others may want a girlfriend others may want just to have the experience of you know being able to have multiple threesomes nothing right figure out what it is fucking go for it personally when you know you start going after goals that you do not want it can become shallow like it can become just an action like I've had nights where I went out and I'm like yep I'm gonna go out there I'm gonna go like because I did a variation at the beginning I did a variation of mystery method with my natural style so it's routine based at the beginning and it'd be like yep okay here we go I'm gonna go talk to this girl ask you to be like routine one routine two routine three I'm gonna try and make out routine four routine five okay number eject okay routine one routine two routine three make out like and this would be the pattern right and then when I came down to girls dates I did the exact same thing and this is partially where I got the whole you know connecting more on an emotional level because when I would be out you know during the during the nights it would just be routine one routine to do a lot of them I made them custom to my life I wasn't like hey I'm this magician and you know I when I was younger I dated the stripper and I decided to help her out because she was being chased and I broke this guy's window I didn't use other people's fucking material I made up my own but it would just be same shit same shit same shit same shit on dates it started becoming the same thing too okay meet you talk about this talk about this talk about this we play a game of pool talk about this talk about this talk about this okay hey are you hungry at all would you like to go back to my place for a six pack and a beer and then I would just bounce and what I found myself doing was because I was doing the combination of the two and yes this is actually kind of a blueprint if you just want a lot of women and just a fuck a lot of women you can just totally do this short set it up at the beginning and then set up your dates learn text game set up your dates obviously you won't have a lot of free time for whatever else you want to do because you'll run into what I had happened was I would have like two hour slots for women I'd be like listen I am available to hang out from six to eight and this would be a pool hall that's like five minutes from my house right so you show up and about the hour mark I would push for going back to my place then from there I'd give myself half an hour to get close to closing her or closing her and if I closed her cool okay you're out the door see you later because I've got at 8 30 I have girl number two that is meet me at the exact same fucking place there would be there would be some days where it was I may have one dates but then there would be some days where I had three dates and I would just be you know think about that that's like one two three it's like seven and a half hours in a day that I could have been doing on things but hey if you want to just fuck a lot of women there you go there's a fucking blueprint for that I would in in field a lot of guys they try and you know plow plow plow plow plow like you know with sets that are going nowhere there's ways around that there's you know social proof some people like teach that you know I know Jared does does that I I deal with that sometimes but what I'm normally looking for is since I'm going around and I'm talking to everyone I'm gauging everyone's reaction and the ones that blow up just immediately going back to them seeing what's up with them and the first one that I possibly can that I'm interested in and if it's pullable I'm fucking pulling that check as fast as possible it just is what it is I don't care if it takes me 15 minutes from meat you know to I'm pulling her out the venue or if it takes me like an hour if it feels like it's on I'll stick with the set and I'll just keep going going going a lot of P ways like I said they make it way too hard on themselves and then at the end of the night they're like well I opened five sets but nothing really went anywhere like you know there was bitches there was this there was that fuck them you don't know what's going on in their lives I mean they could have just found out they have vaginal cancer or something you know what I mean you don't know these things you don't know what's going on with okay their mother their friends they've got a babysit whatnot maybe the last guy that talked to her before you was a fucking asshole and now her feelings are being translated on you skip those ones don't subject yourself to that you're better than that find the ones that are interested in you and just work it you know I guess the easiest way to put that is find something that likes you and don't fuck it up pretty much that's yeah some people in the community they find it from you know various reasons like I said girlfriend whatever if you are in this to make yourself happy pick up a loan will not make you happy there is no fucking pill for that no amount of women that you can sleep with that will ultimately give you a good feeling about yourself like if you know your life is shit if you know you're not happy with your job you're not happy with your friends learning a skill set to pick up girls is is gonna be a nice icing to pretty much a shit filled cake would be the way to put it and so if you have things in your life and that's why I constantly analyze what I'm doing in my life I make sure that I'm in in line where I want to go and if I think I see things I feel things that are against who I am as a person what I want I eliminate them because eventually they become like weeds and weeds they may start out small but then they fucking grow and then next thing you know you have this fucking garden of weeds and now you have a bunch of work to do you may fall into depression I've had that happen with some of my friends I'm like dude listen you've been talking about being unhappy for the last year with your job yet you're not willing to take the risk to go do something else you hate your boss you hate what you do for work but you're only doing it because it's paying the bills yet he's subjecting himself to all this pain and he's wondering why he kind of wants to go on medication and it's like dude analyze your life eliminate shit make your life better because when you have a more attractive lifestyle you're gonna feel better about yourself when you go talk to women you're gonna end up communicating in a different way with them like they will feel that's like because women are intuitive can I borrow you again okay this is something I need you to come back to right about here because we don't really have a lot of work here gambler was talking about how he works like high-end clubs I go about it a different way what ended up happening for me was there's some bars in Chicago and in other places in the world where they're like meat markets where you can't really get through it's you try and walk and it's you're just being constantly like pinball the rounds and it's not really that fun like and if you try and talk to someone there's always someone pushing and it's like okay normal game is not really working here we're like trying to be verbal the only you know we're only place you can really do that is at the bar again a drink and it's got to be quick so what I ended up running across is I've done this on a couple of occasions and it's helped me get laid it's helped me quickly escalate I've tried we're like in those environments trying to sexually prime it can get makeouts but still it's it's still a harder transition because you're getting like pushed around okay what this is is um nope nope nope go back a little bit this is uh this is how to get an instant makeout with with a woman okay like right now she's looking at me I could have been over here going trying to go through the club but as I'm coming around and we're coming in the same direction and this is all through body language and all through like the eyes okay so we walk in toward each other if I notice that she's still just completely locked on my eyes it means that there's an attraction there that there's kind of an on would you agree obviously you you know when you see a guy that you think's really hot sometimes you'll like scope him out and like follow follow where he's going well that's what happens there and all it really is is walking up and you you see how I started doing that slowly as I got close as I get close right here see how comfortable she is right here and if it's still locked on just go for it okay just kiss you now just like shock you yeah I feel like I should that's totally cool they're like oh my god you took my virginity but okay so that's that would be a positive and like I always look at things as like plus negative you know only those two things there's also a third type that's you know the shy girl the shy girl would be as I'm walking up she is doing this but she's still looking at me that's still a you know do that and then go for it there's more of a little pause there but but then go for it it's still in on and it's a good way to avoid getting rejected another one a no as we're looking and then she just completely looks away okay so yeah I want you to come in the center like right about here okay and say like I've already walked with you but now you've kind of turned to one side okay I would be walking up and I would notice it and just immediately just go past and it's eliminated any need for opening any need for talking it's I've already gauged the attraction that I have with the woman you can do it in bars you can do it pretty much anywhere I haven't tried it during day game but I'm sure yeah I'm sure it's possible nice yeah yeah we're good give a round of applause actually no I'm sorry I need to bring you back up okay another thing is when you are dealing with the girl there's always a little on moments and that just comes through like the touch when if I open the way you can have your hands however you want it's only cool when I open obviously I'm you know touchy I could be just be talking about something right here and I look for the mirror responses like if I rub down here like the small what I may get is she doesn't know what the hell supposed to do but I may get that right here we're we're kind of in an embrace right here this is an on moment this is you know her telling me that she's attracted to me oh you just I know you just totally fucking rub that that was great I'm sorry but you wanted me to show you I'm attracted but but no in that it's like right here if I if I start getting that where it's you know she starts rubbing a little bit yeah right right there I may start playing with the hair as we're talking and slowing things down and just seeing how comfortable she is with me you know so we keep gazing into each other's eyes as we're doing this too but I may just start caressing her and talking getting closer and if it feels like it's on I'll go for it and this is something that can happen within 30 seconds to a minute's right on your open too you know it's another way for an instant make out go ahead oh also other things little like caresses like when you're talking to a woman you notice how even though I'm going in and out like it's kind of like we're starting to have this little dance with her hands this is also what's considered like an on moment where it's building this sexual tension and also notice how like since I'm moving around you know so like each time I'm kind of going further and further I know she feel that and then I can like switch hands and I can just start playing with certain parts of her body and now from here rubbing and notice like as I'm doing it and I'm speaking to you I'm not really paying attention to how I'm touching you I'm just doing it and does it feel more comfortable and natural definitely less creepy there you go and the reason I wanted to bring that up for instant makeouts because the first time this did happen to me I was was in a club I was with one of my wings and was one of those super high energy places where you can't get a fucking word in like like I have to fucking shout in people's ears like for them to even hear me and there's the bustling around of people were the bumping into you and I was trying everything in everything in my I guess my tool bag you know my my abilities like I don't have great dance floor game mine is more I just do stupid shit I'm I'm sure that you've got better dance floor game than I do but I'm trying everything and I'm in a place where I'm like I can't even do this I can't do that like all options are pretty much off the table the only thing I have is going up to the bar and you can only stay at the bar for so long right I can't just sit there because people were like trying to shuffle through I can't just sit there and pretty much telegraph that hey I'm waiting for girls to come to the bar to where I'm at while I sip my drink so I can gain them so I'm like kind of bouncing back and forth tried you know sexual priming tried going even as far as opening with hey you look like you're having fun but you probably be having more fun if you were making out with me and engaging the reaction off of that and you know it got me a couple makeouts but still there was the still the people pushing so I'm like fuck this okay I have to do something about this I was pissed off I'm like I don't want this to be the way that my night is gonna end because the rest of it had been beautiful we had been in another place we've been at a party beforehand and it was lovely so I start going through the crowd and I notice I'm walking toward this one girl and that's exactly what happens was I just locked eyes with her she locked eyes with me and by the time we got this close I did exactly what I did with her and there was no flinch points when I reached up to the back of her head and I just leaned in and I kissed her and now everyone parted away from us because they saw that we had this intimate bubble going on so we're making out I end up pulling her over to where there's a pillar so this way you know people can get by and you know traffic can go do whatever it's got to do because at that moment I really don't fucking care what else is going on in the world this is me and her right so I'm making out with her I pull back I'm like what's your name she tells me her name I'm like oh I'm Jared back to making out okay I pull back and look at her okay let's go and at that moment I'm like I wonder if I can pull this girl outside and try and seduce her so I go to pull her outside and what I get is oh I'm here with my friends well anything that you get from her girl you have to handle the objections no matter what it is you have to find a way around it I think of it like was it judo where they redirect the energy that is given to them it's a keto okay but I was like okay well I got I got to fix this I got to make this right so she's like oh I'm here with my friends I'm like well that's totally cool I mean we're gonna be right back I actually wanted to take you somewhere where it's quieter because I'm sure you've noticed that it's really loud in here and I can barely hear you and I'm pretty sure you can't really even hear me because the music is pounding and she looks at me she's like but I don't have my jacket I'm like oh where's your jacket she's like oh it's over at the coat check I'm like over to the coat check right so I'm like seen where my adventure is gonna take me we get there and I decide to allow a little sexual tension to just you know creep into the air I said nothing to her we just stood there she had her ticket out I'm like okay she's done on this this is it should be good as long as this guy takes the ticket gives her the coat we should be able to go outside so standing there waiting she gets her coat I look over at her I'm thinking I'm like well I haven't really gamed her too much I know she's highly attracted to me maybe I'm her sexy stereotype whatever it is I don't care this is something wonderful happening so I ask her I'm like how old are you she's like I'm 19 and in the clubs in America especially Chicago you got to be 21 to get in so I look at her and I tease her I'm like oh you're fucking terrible you're a bad girl listen you can keep a secret right because I promise if you're nice to me I won't tell security on you I won't turn you in I know you got a fake ID I know you don't want to lose it I cost you probably like $5,000 so she like giggled and laughed about that got her coat and we went and went back outside now I'm outside and I don't know the area I don't know what there is really around me besides the streets over here you know I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off I had really done same night lays before we're in the bathroom her place my place or in a car and like I had hooked up outside but it never had dawned on me hey being outside in an alleyway is a seduction spots like if you think about it anywhere is a seduction spots you're in a club which has like dark corners and the girl has a miniskirt that's a seduction spot it could look like you're dancing and you can be fucking her in the asses no one would know okay so I'm walking with her and I'm like okay I need to figure this out I actually need to kind of use my brain and not be on autopilot so I became captain obvious where I'm walking with her and I'm like well if you notice that like it's quieter out here and the reason I brought you out here is because I can't hear you in there you can't hear me in there and I don't know too much about you I don't know where you're from and at this time I'm like scanning the area and I see an enclave and if any of you guys don't know what an enclave is it's where a wall goes straight and then it breaks inside like there could be a doorway in here it's like a cave in a sense all right so I see this and I pull her in there and there's like five or six dumpsters in there for the local businesses so I'm like okay well let's see what happens here and so now I'm still on this bullshit stage of making crap up that I'm talking to her about just kind of like yeah normal conversation blah blah blah and as soon as I get her over to a wall I slam her into it I start making out with her and I start testing for her comfortability with me again I pull my cock out she starts playing with it I'm like okay well that's stage one let's go to see if I get a blowjob I flip her around so now my back is into the wall we're making out push the head down she starts giving me a hide I'm like okay this is cool now you know like after a couple of minutes I'm like I'm wondering if I can go further with this so I flip her around where she's got her ass you know into my crotch and I pull her panties aside and I start fingering her she looks back at me and asks if I had a condom and I'm like done deal slapped it on had sex with her people were walking by finished up and walked her back to the club and by the time I was like done for the night I'm good I'm cool I got what I wanted what I was hoping to get and we parted ways like ships in the night I'm just like you have a good night and I ended up going home so that's where I got that from two other things real quick well a couple things before kind of going to Q&A for me when I go out to a bar it's all about entertaining myself not entertaining them like it's about I'm gonna do what I want to do what makes me feel comfortable what you know I will fuck with people I actually did this to you in a sense because I got bored of watching the two of you talk and you're just like so close together I'm like they should be making out and this is just not happening right now and I've done it to students before when they're just not seeing in the windows so what I ended up doing with him was obviously I don't want the girl that he's talking to to know that I'm his friend so I just came up and I'm like oh my god you guys are like the cutest couple I've seen like tonight and like oh we're not a couple we just met I was like oh that's cool and immediately I busted into a routine and it's a routine to make two people kiss what I ended up doing is I'm like did you guys know that you guys could be psychic together I think me how had this fucking shit but his was you know let's link hands together and here this will be magical like fuck that take my own variation so I end up talking to them and I got them to go through the whole envision this on a blackboard put it in white chalk close your eyes I want you guys to think about it and try and telegraph it to each other like seriously try and link your brain waves up together and obviously I didn't want his answer first I wanted the girls so this way he could agree with her so I told them to open their eyes I looked at her I'm like what was your number he's like oh it was three and look at you I'm like what was your number he's like it was three as well I'm like I'm like that's amazing I'm like hold on let's see if this works again and so I did it the first time like that so she would be comfortable comfortable with this is exactly what's going to happen like I made the you know I made it conclude the way that I said I was gonna make you conclude so then the second time had them do the same pattern okay I want to look at each other okay I want you to think of a number between one and ten I want you to think of a number between one and ten okay close your eyes put it on a blackboard write it in white chalk and I don't know if you guys notice it but when I said white chalk you just got the reverse of a three I do that girls if I actually use that routine or you know one to ten seven it kind of registers up here so we started going through the pattern got them to close the rise and I continued through that same the same pattern of okay I want you to try and sync up your brain waves and as I'm doing this my hands are on the back of their heads and I'm slowly pushing them together and by the time I got to the point of okay so by now you know you must have by now you must have transmitted what you were thinking and they were so close that his mouth touched her mouth they started making out that's all I needed and I fucking walked away left them on their own and then later on in the night they ended up going home was it to her place or you went to the forest okay so yeah I got it so you guys went to the forest and they ended up having sex and so yeah another thing that I'll do and this will help you also in field is I like to play matchmaker with people if I have it where I don't really have too strong of a connection with like a girl but she's you know cool with me she's warm with me and it just I don't feel that that sexual attraction for her what I'll do is since I'm talking to other people in the venue I will bring them to her reason for that is you know they may have friends right I look at it as a mutual exchange of sets in a sense like Jason example if you're with two girls and I'm with two girls and yours are friends and mine are friends if I come up to you we talk and I'm like yeah dude you're a fucking cool guy you should meet my friends like they constantly bitch about not being able to meet you know like guys that are in fucking weird you would take that in a positive way correct and then I could bring them over and introduce you to them now what I've done there is I've brought you some value and then it allows me to game your girls no it's a it's a mutual exchange they write that down there you there's a couple other things I wanted to go over I have like no time okay another thing if you guys go out in groups with you know like you know you have a wingman what you can do is this it's a variation of social proof and also like value exchange I've done this with students before they've done it with their friends before what it is is this can I get you to come up here real quick yeah yeah yeah put on puts on your book right okay now say you're you know you and I were like friends and shit like that and we're both in we're both in the bar he doesn't need the mic okay we're both in the bar and you go and talk to a group of girls that you're interested in right now if I come over I'm like hey dude I haven't fucking seen you in forever I was looking for you there's like people over here that want to meet you now and then you're like oh hey there's these girls I'm like oh hey and nice to meet you I'm I'm Jared by the way I'm listening we got to go and then I drag you away right now the girls are like kind of like what the fuck was that right now what a lot of happening is five to maybe ten minutes later he goes back to that same group guess what happens a couple minutes later I come in and I do the exact same thing I'm like dude where the fuck do you run off to do there's more people that want to meet you bro come on bro let's go and I'll do this like three times and what ends up happening is the guy that does this like what I just did with him it's best if he has better game in a sense the reason why is the girls are then gonna think I'm fucking rude okay and now I have to win them over so then I wait for him to go a fourth time and this time I come into the group okay what's up bro now they're kind of expecting I'm gonna steal him again and I just hang out and I talked to them and what you'll get is at least one or maybe two of them that are kind of bitchy and one of them might actually go straight up you like like what was that earlier like that was kind of rude we were talking to our friends you know well you can sit down real quick what this has led into is ridiculous adventures I had a student that I did this to him all fucking night right I did this to him with the one sets because you know it's training and shit and then we ended up spending another two hours with that group well at the end of the night you know there was a four chicks me him guys kept trying to come into our set and I'm like this ain't fucking happening and I'm just like booting them the fuck out I'm like this is ours I don't need any more fucking headaches and problems and then tonight he got himself a foursome and I peeled one of the girls off for myself like on the way up to the hotel I was like dude you saw like how I was like we had talked about shit I'm like dude you need to fucking just make magic happen he decided to throw a little after party at his fucking hotel which was like two floors you know above mine I banged my check he banged the other three so it's something you guys can play with like you know if you have a wing it's entertaining I've taught it to some other people and they've told me stories that have happened where it just makes you look like the fucking man and you can do this in a party too where it'll end up where people will think that you threw the party and then actually you know you'll get people coming up to you and they'd be like hey I had to come meet you totally reverse dynamic two things and I have like two minutes okay cool yeah that'd be great yeah be fine okay well really simple I'm on Facebook all you have to do is search for me I have a bunch of free content on there that I've just recorded over the years because I actually like helping people it's something more like I've got shit on text game other types of articles got audio stuff like that RAT I S S E and then space PUA so it's my separate Facebook and that one is specifically for other pickup artists I go on it occasionally if I'm on the chat box and you have a question feel free to hit me up there if you know you're stuck on something you're curious about something feel free to shoot me an email through you know the I am there not a big deal I usually respond to people which one oh how to find me RAT I S S E you know and there's a space and then PUA so you know kind of like first name last name because Facebook wouldn't give me a one-word name so I was like okay well how else do I do this two things the rest of my journey here is I'm gonna be here until the 15th 16th to the 23rd I'm going to proc the 24th to the 29th I'm going to Berlin this is open only for the people that are here in this room and if they have the time since I'm going to those and if you want personal coaching I'm charging 500 bucks for either trip you get your flights we stay together you're my wingman and I hope you you know magnify your game as much as we possibly can and with that being said any questions about what we've talked about so far yeah you were mentioning two sets earlier and you said you were talking to Jason about what to do and the final option was a or the second option was a threesome I'm sure most of the guys in this room are fairly interested on how that would be accomplished you want to go into that real quick sure why not when you don't have a wing because you kind of talked about it just now okay um there's two ways that I go about that first of all your best scenario is to find two girls that are dating that is easy like that one if you can get the dominant one because there's always in a relationship a dominant and a submissive if you can get the dominant girl to be into you she can tell the other one what the fuck to do you know doesn't mean you may fuck the second one might get head from her or whatever that that's irrelevant but that's how you would pull a threesome probably the you know one of the easiest ways another one I heard this from Adam Lyons is he ends up fucking some chicks and he has them come out to a bar with him and then takes both of them back to his house and sets it up he's like oh you guys are gonna have the bed and I'm gonna have the couch and then he tries to work the threesome angle there pulling chicks from the bar that are friends a lot of girls are you notice they will make out right you know just for fun shits and giggles right well if you can get them back to some place that's like a seduction location you know like obviously your place that's where you kind of build that you work it you guys you know the two making out to get a three-way kiss maybe you started off with you kiss one you kiss the other once girls get aroused they kind of go into more of a primal state so in that scenario if you can get one of them and this is well why you'll escalate in front of the other one as well and just not pick one and let her kind of chill but if you can get her to the point where she's you know sucking your cock or whatever you can possibly get the other one to do it too because in the girl's mind her friend is not looking at her as a slut this is something that it becomes like socially acceptable like social proof in a way like hey it is whatever the fuck it is and then from there you just start working the clothes coming off you find out which one of them is kind of your teammates right now which one is the more down and you use her in a sense like your wing to try and seduce the other one yeah no anyone else are we good oh dude I'm good so