 Ladies and gentlemen, let me see something. Yeah, my little light Tony Gaskins here Get this set up want to pop in back to my regular now. I'm on my camera the night Tried something different last night Probably I'll be retiring that because I coach all day. So I coach people throughout the day To get on there and still have to coach for free Long coaching sessions. I said no I might have to retire that though Mmm. I got the charge for that talking on the phone This right here easier for me y'all post a question put your hashtag Q in front of the question The moderators will be deleting all extra stuff. So for the first Part of this here just questions in the comment, you know, just questions in the comment so I could see them Baby daddy and I go in the court next month for visitation me and his girlfriend don't get along How should I feel about my son being around her? Well, if your son could speak for himself Then you should be okay. If your son can't speak for himself And she got a nasty spirit then you got to worry. I probably mentioned that to the judge because She might be thumping your son in the head if he can't speak for herself in your video about men And women in their lives, you know, we all would like to know about the baby mothers Slash ex-wives. Where do they fit? Can he ever put you before them if you don't have his kids? Um, yeah, he will put you before the Baby mother and the ex-wife He may not put you before the kids that he already has But when he falls in love with you, he will put you before those women Can you make a video for the hopeless romantics? How can I stop being one? This is a real condition a difficulty to appreciate McDonald's when you had gourmet God bless you Well, you kind of got to change your mindset on that Because you really ain't have gourmet because you had gourmet. You'll still have it So what you thought you had really was cuba's arconia in a tiff in these box because Diamonds are clever So you really have to shift your mindset about it and understand that you still caught up On a man's representative that you dated He played representative. And so now you're comparing fiction with nonfiction How do you know that you are healed? You will know that you are healed When you can love like you've never been hurt before my daddy taught me that And I was one of the deepest things I had ever heard And um, that's when you will know What do men think of the pick me type of women? They don't think much much of them You know, it kind of feels sorry for a grown boy or a user and he'll pick her And get her for everything she worth but Really deep down When men see these women out here showing all the body doing all that it's kind of he just shaking his head And a grown boy he'll deal with her just because she know He he knows that him just dealing with her just sleeping with her Or give her a little bit of boost because those type of women get to the place to where they rather half of a man Didn't know man And so he'll do some charity, you know be with her for charity for a little bit If I haven't heard from a guy in a week. I've been dating on an online dating app. When should I unmatch them? The day Yesterday and you need to tell them day naps What you need to do right now and just see if a guy could pick you by your eyes Put your mask on and go to the grocery store Let them pick you by your eyes and your hat You know right now and it's 19, but you need to stop them dating apps because let's help Y'all keep playing with them dating apps now They're not going to let that hit the media because it's a billion dollar industry So what you got to realize these dating apps making billions of dollars So because they're making billions of dollars they paying billions in taxes So the media work for the government So these women that get chopped up into pieces and put in a freezer From somebody they met online. That's not going to be on the news It's happening po-dunk Kansas, Arkansas, Louisiana Well, it ain't gonna hit the news, but you keep messing with these men online All right, you're gonna come up short. You're gonna meet the Lord early Let me tell you like this right here Real men They ain't getting online. They're not doing online dating real men ain't doing online dating Belong to God blessing Rosie rich. God bless you now Now hold on I was on the street answering all the questions in the road and the y'all didn't got a hand got out of hand with any question I was I was going in a row. I was doing good If you don't have kids should you just stay in your lane and not date people With kids that's a personal choice Because you might have a heart of a mother of a daycare director And so if you got a heart of a daycare director, you might do perfectly fine with somebody with kids How do you help a male friend? build his self-confidence Um by getting out the way and letting them meet a girlfriend Staying out his way because you ain't doing nothing by hurting them How do you know that you have healed? All right, y'all copping pasting the same question now Because y'all ain't paying attention Now I answered your question Hi, Tony. A lot of men don't know how to date correctly. Do I have to tell the guy I date? That I expect him to call me every day for an hour As men may not know they have to do this. Hi, I'm from the uk um No, you don't have to tell him that And he knows he already know men know how to date because this stuff is in eight My six-year-old know how to court A girl in his class These boys six years old know know brain flowers how to put their arm around them how to hold hand walk them to the playground Men know what they're doing. They just if they're juggling multiple women. You just ain't gonna get that energy, but No, that's not something that you tell a man You got to watch a man because you don't want a man that you got to be raising You got to watch him see what he does already what you're doing is just checking them when he do something wrong But you don't give him a Outline of what he need to do I'm 40. I'm tired, but I don't want to be lonely Is it still such a thing? As jota see boys the men love Um Well, if it ain't a thing now, it wasn't a thing then that just was something they were saying about But love's still here. Love's still out here. Love's still around So you got to understand that there now I met someone but it seems too good to be true. I have been hurt. How do I know? It's the real thing Take your time and watch the signs. Take your time. Watch the signs Pay attention You'll know it's real because you'll see consistency and he'll be thorough He'll be consistent and he'll be thorough. You'll you'll know That is real now Hey, tony god bless been in a situation ship with a guy I've known for one and a half years Stop sleeping with him for six months and left him Now he's back cut off all females and it's all over me. Can I trust? um Probably not Probably not one and a half years He was gone for six months. He might be real lonely and bored right now So you got to be very careful Set a timeline for yourself that you're going to give him Time that you have to waste if that's a month if that's three months Set the timeline you keep it in your mind and you watch to see if he's consistent Thank you, tony. God bless you. Um Bue look god bless you now Then yell star worth bless you nine. You said no nasty movies, which makes sense What about men that like horror movies? Or really violent does that speak to their character as well? No, that's totally different. That's totally totally different because There's no different than than women loving to watch snapped and first 48 and killer couples and all of that is just like that's more so Study in human nature. That's like being in psychology class, you know And horror movies is kind of for a man It's like his moment of vulnerability because men don't get to be vulnerable often in real life Men got to be tough and how does bravado and all of that so that horror movie give him an opportunity to like Drop his guards and be vulnerable Me I don't like the horror movie because I don't like nothing that's gonna make me jump. I don't want nothing That's gonna make me holler So I don't like going the Halloween horror nights at the theme parks on like watching scary movies None like that, but it it don't really say much. That's totally different than sexual perversion Which is on nasty movies that got to deal with him Giving in to lust and then he gonna end up cheating on you watching the horror movie He ain't gonna go out in the woods, you know be looking for nobody Like that. So that's that's entertainment Oh put your track shoes on god bless you now. How can we protect ourselves from being someone's test dummy in a relationship? I want marriage, but I want to make sure I'm his wife Not a placeholder starter wife soon to be replaced wife or dummy What you got to do is you got to pay attention to the sign So what you what you realize is with a test dummy That test dummy getting ran into the wall over and over and over So once you get ran into that wall one time now you got to hold on now. Whoa, what's going on? What we doing here and you check them right then He knows to get that get that in line Now if he keep running you into that wall now, you know, he trying to use you as a test dummy. So it's really just you getting out Before it get to be too much. I ring god bless you now um Yolanda bless you. I just paid $199 twice. I didn't know how it worked. This is not about a relationship How do I find out about your ghost writing service? um Yolanda god bless you. Yeah, you Now I see now the way I'm gonna tell you this right here Now you see how them $10 up there Now when you coming in with that $0.99199 then that $4.99 Now, I don't know if that means you got a scarcity mindset I don't know if that means you that you frugal But if that's what it means Don't write anybody no ghost writing Ghost writing start at $10,000 Okay Ghost writing start at $10,000. Okay, so You really got to have a bag on you and be ready Now I got other ghost writers some is as inexpensive as $2,500 But you got to realize ghost writing is very strenuous It take a long time Yes, and and you also Getting someone's intellectual property that they can never use again So that's why ghost writing is so expensive because Somebody's intellectual property could earn them hundreds of thousands of dollars They're giving it to you when they ghost write To earn you whatever it's gonna earn you so ghost writing is a different ball game So you got to really make sure you all in but I tell people if you could write a sentence You could write a book. You don't need a ghost writer but if you you know saving up right now and Trying to put put some Duckies away. Don't go to ghost writing route. Just do the birth your book course. Learn how to write it Do it yourself. You could get it done. Trust me. Good to go Got to go. God bless it. Now y'all using my quotes as y'all name It's beautiful hearing you say my wife and I always miss each other and we Love going on dates marriage gets a rep these days for being painful. What keeps your marriage so beautiful, especially after 13 years I'll be honest with you Being faithful Just me being faithful a man being faithful typically marriage breakdown because a man is unfaithful Me being faithful and me every day looking to love her Me looking every day to do something that show her love and she's looking every day to do something that show me love And we're speaking each other love language every day I tell you no lie. I just text a little bit ago She was out doing a drive-thru birthday party For my son team and I text I said baby, I miss you. I want you to be home And she was like, I miss you too. We had a full day serving others So we home we've been laying on the couch. We watch tv looking at her phone Looking at my phone looking at stuff sharing stuff She laying on my on my real cage right here because that's where she come from my real She was laying on my real cage and we were just watching us some Netflix For the last hour before I had to come in here and serve. You see just Continuously building love and being romantic instead of Getting distracted and starting focusing on other stuff How do I get to the place where I can love like I've never been hurt? You're gonna have to keep getting the knowledge. You're gonna have to keep getting knowledge, you know When you get knowledge It builds confidence and that's why they say knowledge is power Because it builds confidence. So the more you learn about love and relationships The more starts to make sense from your past So what happens is when when your past starts to make sense now you can compartmentalize you can put it where it goes Now once you can label that box it up label it put it where it goes Or dispose of it now you able to move forward because you're healthy you hold and you heal D love god bless you now god bless you x of one year returned I gave him my stipulations yesterday tried to kiss me I push him away and I said if you want to make this work We need to take things slow His moves shifted and his last words do whatever you want. What is his problem? His problem is that He really Is not about you You know, he's selfish. He came back out of ego and He his ego is hurt when you pushed him away And so he feels like he still owns you that he still has that space in your life And he was testing you to see if he does So that's what his problem is he came back out of ego and not out of heart Because that's common sense You don't come back to somebody that you love and they all the back don't dive in for kids And you could got out of 19 So he come back trying to get you the 19 on the first day and it's like come on, bro You supposed to come back. How are you a mask on? You know, how are you some gloves on and just sit there and have a conversation through that mask And just let me see if I can understand you through this her mask because he coming in here You know trying to get some time That's disrespectful But that means he feel like he's still on your body. He feel like he's still on your mind He feel like he just could walk in and out your life So you showed him right you got to stick to that If a man is zoning in And during that time the woman walks due to catching him In a lie, how would that affect the man? Um, it teaches him a lesson It teaches him a very key lesson that you can't play with me That whatever you try to do i'ma catch you in it So it corrects him and that's what you need to do you correct him right away So he knows Get on the straight and narrow and do what's right because you're not dealing with a fool You ain't dealing with booboo the fool looking like who shot john and forgot to kill him like your ex Now you're dealing with a real one. So if you're gonna come come correct So that's what it does when you when you check them quick Coach sheriff god bless you now moderators caramel kissing all y'all God bless you now Tony hope you can answer this question. All right now Darsha make sure you listen in darsha make sure you listening Can you apply the same principles of real love in a same sex relationship? Now see I ain't know whatever we were going right right there. Okay Now listen I'm gonna tell you like this right here. I only talk about what I know something about Okay, I don't have a clue What it's like A man a man woman a woman Don't have a clue heard somebody say yesterday A lady say she's tired of me and she's going to women but Now I done coach same sex relationship women and listen to me that woman a woman don't things get crazy then man a woman and because With a man a woman you could balance each other out With a woman a woman If y'all crazy y'all just crazy ain't no balance But see when you different now you could probably find some balance But the woman a woman relationship that I don't have to cope I was like, whoa I know you ready to go back to you a man. You thought you you thought it was gonna be easy over there Met your match and now y'all monthly then came at the same time Y'all isn't there like cats and dogs Yeah Y'all throwing money at each other Oh, I can't believe it. So I don't see any some stuff. So I'm gonna tell you like this right here. Love is love but It's a balance. It's a hormonal difference that could bring balance remember it's opposites that attract so when you Same him on same You might run into some issues that A man thinks differently than a woman So that's why you could balance each other out when y'all think the same way I don't know. I don't know But hey to each they own now, but I've never been in that situation so I I try to speak from experience. So God bless you praying praying the best for you out there Raquel God bless you now. I found out my boyfriend of one and a half years Has a side chick We are long distance. He is in the military and struggles with loneliness He says he loves me and wants to be with me. How do I know he means what he says? I told y'all about those long distance relationship that right there pretty much happened in 9.9 out of 10 times What you talking about I'm gonna be honest with you that pretty much happened in 9.9 out of 10 times In that long distance y'all opposed to get married and somebody got the mood of somebody and so, you know you got to Understand that there. I really I would say if you got cheated on if he really loved you if he knew God and he loved you he could be fateful Obviously he either don't know God or he don't love you or both So in that case right there I'm going about my business. I'm going about my business because While he out there messing around talking about he struggled with loneliness That's a part of life sometimes, you know, you got to grow up and mature to that point And so while he struggled with loneliness, he been and brought you back a gift that keep on giving If you know what I mean He brought you back something that he done picked up from one of the ladies that they deal with when they're on deployment Marie God bless you now. Bless you Let me see. La Nina. Thank you. Bless you Belle beauty Bless you. How long should I hold on to a ex's exercise equipment? It feels my Two-star garage we broke up about a month ago. I'm not a storage unit Yeah, I mean you should hold on to it long at all. You need to go and get rid of it And so just let them know like hey, I'm gonna give you x amount of time to come get your stuff or I'm gonna have to Um, call salvation army to come pick it up And so just gonna let them know and he'll go on rent him a pickup truck from enterprise And get on over there and go on get it. But yeah, I don't know. Hold on to that Uh, to be good. God bless you now Now Tamika McCray is a coach. I believe on my mentor So y'all might need to visit my mentor and book your session with Tamika powerful now powerful Financial literacy. You need a budget. You need to work on your your budgeting Skills and your financial future to me could be a a good coach for you because you put me on to some stuff Hey coach, thank you for your sacrifice and determination to help us women level up Reconnected with childhood boyfriend after three months in exclusivity Very consistent says he's wrestling with monogamy For life says he's just being honest. We're both 49 All right now he told you all right. He told you So see a lot of times what happens is a man come to a woman and he's and he tells you What he getting ready to do to you he tell you what he about to do And you if you ignore sometimes your mind will say oh, well, he's struggling till he met me I'm that real deal. You're gonna struggle with that with me because I'm the real deal You tell yourself that then a year later you find out he cheating on you But the thing about is when you look back he told you a lot of times It's another thing a lot of times. It's a man said It's a man said I'm not ready for a relationship I don't believe in titles. I don't believe in marriage. I don't believe in God I'm not a Christian. A lot of times a man tell you exactly where he stand at But a lot of times women are here some different So listen What might what might an angel who told y'all? Okay Rebecca God bless you now. Thank you Tony for your consistent dedication to our growth. God bless you Now after the night I don't plan to be back on here the Monday night now So don't y'all get the thinking oh Tony will be there every night I do I'm trying to do the weekday Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday Lord willing and take off Friday Saturday Sunday on your lives I still try to get a video up though Nikia Jones. God bless you Thanks for the ego verse love video had a guy try to come back after one year Tried everything to offering to eat peach cobbler told him no next day says he's dead to me You did the right thing by telling him that and you got to see his true colors All right now Ashley, I see you question here now pay attention now see you question How can I get over boyfriend flirting with my friend in front of me while drunk? My friend didn't shut it down and I checked him after I don't speak to him anymore deeply hurt How can I stop thinking about it? You gonna have to think about it go and think about it Don't stop thinking about it go on think about it and think about why you got with him Think about all the red flags you seen leading up to that Think about do you want to be with a man who gets drunk? Think about do you want to be with an immature man? Look at all his attributes all his qualities all his characteristics his personality characteristics and learn The type of man that when you recognize that next time that you know He's immature the type of man you need to move on from So don't don't don't stop thinking about it. Think about it until you get the lesson enough To where it makes you stronger and confident to move forward knowing that you won't Settle down with a man. That's like him again Uh, key. Look God bless you now husband liking women's pictures on social media I'm not insecure at all, but he will have a heart attack if he sees me like anything of a man's And sometimes that's what you got to do Sometimes you got to mirror a man not saying disrespect yourself But you got to sit down and bring that to his attention and say listen You liking these women pictures. What would you do if I was liking all these men's pictures? And then that's when he gets to see now if he says he don't understand that or if he says He can do it, but you can't That's a red flag. That's when you know that you with a man That's gonna be doing you like this like connor McGregor and about another year from now You hit me so you better pay attention to the signs, but You got to let people know What's non-negotiable Hey, only questions in the chat. I know we've got new people probably your first live Only questions in the chat right now We ain't got an open chat right now. I'm just trying to see questions in the chat No commentary and mojis and all of that now God bless you appreciate you Do men have that same frustration in finding love as women do if so, how do they handle it? Um, I mean, I don't fully know how frustrated women are and uh But yes, men do have the same frustration It's it's good men that I know That can't really seem to find the woman that they want that they want to be with because Women starting to lose they mind too Getting caught up in the reality shows and the range rovers and the Louis Vuitton purses and thinking that's all that means Something if a man can't get get them a range robo a g-wagon or a Louis Vuitton purse or buy them a house right away Or get them X amount of size Carrots on their finger then he's not a man And so it's a lot of good men who may not be in that position yet And may may want to build real love and then build financial Freedom with a woman But can't even get to that point because women so caught up in his height and his income And so yeah, men is men are becoming very very frustrated as well looking for a woman who really knows what matters And has the the package that he has, you know bringing complete being And the Louis Vuitton God bless you now bless you forgive if I say your name wrong Hey Tony my ex 24 years old broke up with me three times because Didn't know what he wanted now wants me back, but is willing to take things slow and be celibate Should I give him another chance? Absolutely not Absolutely not He didn't know what he wanted. I always tell y'all they don't get real for a man before the age of 25 He didn't know what he won't But you don't have to know what you want to know what you want when you see her So no man knows really what he's want exactly what he wants and what he's looking for But when he sees you when he meets his wife, that's when he knows So if he met you and y'all were together and he didn't start to see you as his wife You're not his wife, especially leave you three times Basically what you are you will hold me down H.O.L.D. You will hold me down Meaning he just come to you for company for convenience to have somebody to be with While he looking around when he find a woman That he believes is his wife He's gonna drop you like a bad habit You ain't gonna he's gonna drop you so fast. You ain't gonna know what hit you Asia god bless you now. Hi Tony Can a man tell if a woman is weak or strong before ever having a conversation with her? If so, what are the signs of each? No, he can't No, he can't now men read women now, but he But he can't read you like that now now he can try to get an idea But even that might he might come up surprised because you can't always judge a book by this cover And um, I had a client write a book called judge this cover and Because she gets judged a lot and so A man could try to read you and then get to you And even when he talking to you he think he got your pay And then he try you try to make a move get him a feel and you stop him You grab I thought because you were so chill and so cool with the conversation That I could make that move, but then you show him otherwise True like god bless you now just sending my offering god bless. I so appreciate it Um, I lean bless you now. I know you probably meant to put a question with that. Oh, yeah, I lean. Yeah, I lean Trying to figure this thing out. She's dropping all kind of money on here And they have a question with either one of them Now I lean on me calling for no charge right now What age is too old or young to date for a 41 year old? You want to try to stay within five years? So you really don't want a man that's five years younger than you and you really don't want a man That's five years older than you the reason why is because when you five years You typically like within the same decade now It might be not not technically but See when when you get 10 years out now you getting into a different type of music that was coming out a different way to dress A different way of thinking different laws Different whole different error almost, you know when you get 1990 was different from 2000 2000 different from 2010 So you got to try to stay a little closer so that y'all kind of see stuff pretty similar Amanda gale bless you now bless you Almost a year dating and I finally confronted him regarding the social media activity Loving other pictures and posting like he's he is single. He seemed thankful now. He has withdrawn A year is a deciding point Uh, it's a deciding point. Sarah e okay. I think about that video though So now that he he he them withdrawn he kind of like okay, you caught me you caught me you right I don't respect you you right. Don't I'm not in love with you. You're right Don't want to be with you. Thank you for calling me out. Will you please get the strength to walk away? That's what that's what he's saying I lean. Okay. Bless you. I lean. Okay. I lean double blessing me Felicia, thank you for this raw and unadulterated truth. Hey god bless you now Felicia Let me see a man met a woman At their gym and after a year of exercise and after her 80 pound weight drop He asked her out. Is he genuinely interested? I don't know. I don't know because you know in a case like that it depends on that human being It depends on that man. That's not a one size fits all No pun intended because she lost 80 pounds, but that's not a one size fits all question and something like that But what it does show you is how when we change when we go up Our options change our options go up So that's why I try to tell y'all like if I go And I go from this two pack that I got to a eight pack I'm gonna attract a different type of person If you go from a gd to a bachelor's you're going to attract a different type of person You go from a bachelor's to a master's master's to a doctorate as you go up and you glow up You change your options and who who you are Attractive to so that's really what could have been in play right there To shon take god bless you now t shon take blessing God bless you Tony. He decided to let us go never dated I realized he's been following me around why? I don't know I do not know sound like Ted Bundy because you better be careful Merriam god bless you now hi Tony How should a woman handle a man that asks about her past relationship should she speak on it or say The past is the past and it's just stay there Merriam you want to do the latter in that situation The past is the past because see a lot of times a man asking you To see if you're going to be crazy enough to see if you're going to be naive enough to give up your game Because one thing we're supposed to do is try to check a person relationship resume Just like when you're getting ready to hire somebody on a job or you're getting ready to get hired They want to see a resume if they see That you don't have 15 jobs in the last five years That's a red flag Because you can't stay nowhere They want to call your references to see what is why are you not there anymore? That's what a man is trying to do when he asking you about your past relationships He want to know What he can get away with what you're going to put up with if you was cheated on by the last man And you stayed with him for five years now He know that you're weak and you're naive and he could get away with cheating or at least try to So that's really where you're trying to kind of peg you to see what he can do and what he can't do One gold digger god bless you now On that's a different kind of gold digger now. I see just for people that's listening and ain't reading Talking one and a half weeks asked him today what he wants from us He said fun and no drama red flag He likes to video chat every day for over one and a half hours sometimes with no real substance Long distance overthinking um The fact that it's long distance that right there's a red flag off top Two you asked too soon what he want from y'all it's one and a half weeks You supposed to be watching you supposed to be trying to see what he want from you Versus asking a man ain't really gonna tell you not Now three the fact that you asked him that and he said fun with no drama That's a huge red flag because at least if he was serious he would say I'm honestly right now I'm dating intensely because I'm looking for my wife. I don't know if you heard I don't know if I'm your husband, but I'm dating intentionally. I ain't playing no game but he said fun With no drama. So what he mean by that is he want to turn that face time into a nasty movie okay, you probably got by 90 days at the most for he try to turn that face time into a nasty movie you hit me watch what I tell you Generally God bless you now. He came back after I left him because he wouldn't commit I told him we should take things slow only for him to take his apology only For him to take his apology and promises back After two days and say that I was toxic for him confused Take his apology and promises back. Okay All right. All right. All right. That's that that's what you want to happen That's what you want to happen And I mean you is confusing because you leave him for not committing then when you come back you say we need to take it slow So now he like listen now. Do you want to take it slow? You want to commit? So you is confusing now But the fact that he could just pull that apology and promises back and say man, you know what forget you I'm going about my business. Let them go. Let them go y'all y'all like a roller coaster. Okay You're gonna be the throat up. So just stay off that ride and just go about your business Darlene Grant God bless you now. Why Does a man pick his sister over his wife of 10 years or more even if he is sick I'm asking because mine picked his over me until the day he died Darlene it really Have to do with a man just with that particular man just not trust him He believed like his sister has no reason to need anything from him to have any ulterior motives Because she come out the same woman that he come out of So he was a person that struggles with trust And he couldn't trust that your Feelings or that your treatment to him was genuine And he was afraid and he didn't trust so he was looking for pure love And he had not dropped his guard to see that in you or believe that in you So it's more so him than it is you Uh jackman god bless you now I just wanted to send a small blessing because your ministry is helping me a blessing not jackman. I really appreciate that Irene Blessing now could you elaborate on a relationship? That has such a big age differential example woman 60 and man 30 Really ain't no elaboration on that other than you wasting every single second of your time You're racing every that that's your son He young enough to be your to be your grandson Because when you 60 you could have a son that's 40 Meaning you could have your son at 20 Your son that's 40 could have a son. That's 10 You see what i'm saying if i'm doing this mouth, right? Yeah, you could have a son. That's 40 You could have a son. That's 42 If you got started around earlier 16 your son could be 44 you see what i mean So your boyfriend could be your grandson. Come on now. Come on now you're playing yourself That boy don't want you because it's impossible for a 30 year old man to be attracted to a 60 year old woman It's just the age gap is too different. That's literally like being attracted to your grandma it just it's She twice your age It's just that that's just not going to be attractive to a man being that men are visual creatures unless this woman Look like she 30 you see what i mean and that's really going to be hard to do because Halle buried them with all them treatments and really going Struggling to pull that off So understand that doesn't I don't play yourself Yolanda fortner god bless you if I purchase your Mentor course may I think you're talking about a life coach certification Can I take it at my own pace? I'm taking an online class right now, but I don't want to miss your discounted price Well, you about to miss that discounted price now because that's changing uh June 1st And yes, you could take it at your own pace. It's a self-directed. You have lifetime access on that online course. So When you sign up for the life coaching certification, you use the coupon code My mentor and it'll give you a little something off it'll give you a little discount but it fluctuates now so And uh procrastination is what hurts you so yeah, don't be mad with me now, please Uh chari annison god bless you now I separated from my husband because I was an enabler Put my boundaries back and I'm being a woman of my word. What next? I'm guessing wait and keep working on me. I thank god Uh, yep, you're right. You're guessing right You're guessing right keep moving keep it moving keep doing the work working on you Sabrina god bless you now. What is a guy's thoughts on when they come back into your life and realize you are no longer naive Thank you for giving away the game It's actually what he's hoping for Because to be honest with you a man really don't want a naive woman A man wants a woman that can hold him accountable that could check him that could call him out That's the woman that a man ends up maturing and growing for and settling down with Um, if he don't want to grow then he's not gonna like any he gonna keep going about his business It's so god bless you now. Hi, Tony um Okay, a okay dose Raise in men matter Not sister Yeah, that type there was some typos on here that throwing me all the way off. Okay Keep those Or are they all the same? I only dated mexican men I want to branch out i'm 28. What do you think about interracial relationship? Now? I don't remember that maybe you about to put me some Spanish in there's an espanol in there So I don't know what that. I okay. Don't say I don't know if you got caught up between that espanol In that english, but now i'ma tell you this Okay, does racing men okay matter somebody help me out the racing men matter Are they all the same? Now i'ma tell you this I'ma tell you this. All right y'all I get what she's saying now all y'all translators um I'ma tell you this now They're not all the same. Okay. They're not all the same now when you notice a lot of mexican men have 12 to 14 kids It might be a minimum for a mexican man to have three kids I don't know why that is if it's just about, you know prolonged, you know pushing the race forward You know, I don't know why that is but It's all it's been long said amongst men that the mexican men Is nasty when I say that I mean freaky Because I be saying the mexican men they be looking at women in a way that I've never seen men look at women You hit me It's like a mexican man look at a woman and it's like her clothes just start to fall off of And they be out, you know when they be working and stuff and they be on their lunch break and you ride bomb and they Be looking I mean they'll look at your wife and undress your wife in front of you And if a man will do that you start thinking man this man He'll crazy. Do I even want to say something to this man because he's looking at her like like i'm a ghost like i'm cast for So to be honest with you Being that you only dated mexican men that that mean you might be well trained for for other types of men because them brothers they're They they're strong about their ways. Okay, so they They're strong about their ways. So now A Caucasian man might be a walk in the park after dating mexican men A black man. Yeah, it ain't gonna be too much different. All right The key is The key with men. That's what you got to understand The key with men is is trauma so When a race or a people has gone through a lot of pain That's when you're going to deal with the most issues with those type of men That's why it's kind of been said that You know white men are more stable than black men Or hispanic men And but in america The white man has gone through the least The white man was never a slave in america. He was never discriminated against. He was never held down He was never held back the mexican man Now they putting a wall up for him So he he got to try to Hop cross a wall Got to try to get all through here and done all this swim moves You know, he got to go through a lot a black man He was enslaved. He was discriminated against his his community was broke down So see we don't think about the history What you got to realize is the makeup of a man is his history and his biography And so that's what you got to think about and realize when you're dealing with these men is where Does he come from? What is his lineage? How much pain and stuff has he gone through? So that's really what play into it more than anything else. Teresa. God bless you now You're long to bless him Been dating this guy for a year Now and he recently told me that he wanted to marry me I told him that I needed consistency and that I wouldn't marry him if I didn't get that Did I do right by that? You absolutely did and by this year right now if you ain't got consistency It's time to be looking to go on about your business now to be honest with you Nicole. God bless you now. I've been celibate since You've been asking since 2018 Taking your advice and waiting for marriage My concern is my body. I have stretch marks. Will this be a turnoff to my future husband? I feel self-conscious over this. No, no, no Uh Stretch marks ain't no turnoff A lot of men love stretch marks, you know, it just mean your body Didn't then grew like you didn't been up. You didn't been down. You didn't been through You know, you you didn't grew you didn't shrunk It just your body responded. It's it's uh, it's like a it become like a beauty mark Men don't really worry about that now not no stretch marks. And you got to realize When it go down It's in the dark can't see no stretch marks So that there really ain't no issue and a lot of women worry about that stuff But you got to realize a man think about one thing. Okay He think about one thing. Okay That the that the work the same way stretch marks or not. It worked the same way He gonna get the same feeling get the same response. He worked by no stretch marks Uh rain of god bless you now pastor you have truly changed my life and no amount of money can show my gratitude Now y'all know ain't no pastor, right? You might just be calling me that just okay. Thank you But I try not to say pastor because I had to get a little more raw a little more real than pastors could get because of religiosity But um, I appreciate what you're saying Your video how to become love is my bedtime story if you haven't listened try please do I pray for your continued patience respect how to become love. I forgot it. I even did that video, but thank you for Listening to that. Let me grab this right here Because it'll disappear on me this 499 um 25 oh, bless you now is he serious when he gives you a copy of his house keys. Yeah. Yeah, he's serious He's serious when you get a copy them house keys serious And he but I mean to some degree he could just cheat at her house But so he that mean you number one you might be number one what that does what that mean That don't mean he completely faithful and perfect now, but you're number one So you got to keep your eyes open though um My shell god bless you now Guy i'm seeing made a comment said he loved being In that because nobody been in that but him Former player broke it off because double standard. Am I wrong? um You ain't wrong you never wrong for listening to your intuition When you when you listen to your intuition, you're never wrong for that Inspired faith bless you Have ex's baby picture that I found while cleaning up getting over him and don't want to keep it What should I do with it throw it away thinking I should mail it to him thought mail it to him Ain't no sense of throwing the man baby picture away might be the only one he got Go on meta time. There ain't no sense of doing the man nasty now Shanice God bless you. Hi Tony question been writing my first book. I'm getting stuck on breaking up chapters Got a lot of ideas popping up in my head as I write so not sure how long I should do a chapter seeing that it's my first book ever um Now you probably need to take the birth of your book course While it's 50 off because I talk about that in there In every chapter all you want to do is tell a story and make a point So when you find yourself going into a new story, that's a new chapter So you tell this story of the time that you got jumped in middle school That's the end of story the time that you want the spelling bee next week After with a black eye and could only see out of one eye. So you had to study with one eye open That's a chapter on perseverance. That's a chapter on vision. Okay, the chapter about you getting jumped That's a chapter about It don't matter how many times you get knocked down. You got to get back up You see what I mean? So you tell a story and you teach the lesson from that story now it's time for the next chapter So don't get caught, you know in the same chapter telling too many stories I say god bless you now. Thanks, Tony. I'm from the uk I want to know if I can still complete the life coach certification So I can coach clients here in the uk. Will it be invalid because it's from the u.s. Thanks No, it will not be invalid coaching is not regulated anywhere in the world So coaching is not counseling or therapies and so yes, you could take it We got um students from all over So it's certain organizations that's trying to like appear as if they regulate coaching Or as if they are credit courses or as if they You know the new world order, but it's coaching is not regulated because it's really like mentorship It's like it's a person's choice to pay you to help them Set their goals and hold them accountable Because you're not giving them medical advice You're not diagnosing them and you're not prescribing medicine. So You could be anywhere in the world and be a life coach and it's it's worldwide Shakita god bless you now. Shakita always be showing up. I don't know what Shakita have going on But Shakita show enough be blessing me Now y'all let me see if I miss any of us like stickers the ones that only go in the chat or in the 499 y'all hold on i'm felt like I had some More beer from a haircut now. We don't open bike up now with him florida y'all know our governor love So we can open bike up slowly. So I was able to get me a haircut y'all let me inspire faith I don't know if I miss your question now All right now if I mission now understand if if you send a Thing that's under $10 youtube delete you real quick. So I miss it on my end y'all might still see it on your end, but on my end It get on up out of there because see really this ain't supposed to be paid for play All right, this ain't really supposed to be bang for your buck They really make this donation thing just for people to say thank you So y'all send it and y'all ask me a question. I'm giving you something in return a lot of YouTubers that just they just collecting donations, you know, I'm giving you something in return. So understand That's why they have it on a timer and it disappear So y'all forgive me if I miss that Janessa god bless you now. Why would a man tell his wife for three years and mother three kids? Tell his wife he had a dream about her friend Asking for a friend literally. Okay, you asking for a friend Oh, he telling her that because He doesn't respect her He doesn't respect her. He doesn't fear her. He doesn't he's not in love with her And he also telling her just to see if she loved him enough The maybe see by inviting old friend Into the situation. He also he tested in the waters. So he didn't hit his head Okay, he didn't hit his head and now he's testing the waters Because it's some women that will say, well, all right, if you dream about it, then why don't you do somebody? And then he like, huh, really? What you mean? I mean, I can't stop you anyways and who knows she might like you I'm over that. You know what just as long as you pay these bills Do what you want to do if you want me to ask her It's women that do that it's women that do that and it's people that's pushing that that agenda You know, it's people that are pushing that agenda like these comedians And these celebrities these rappers they pushing that agenda. So these men is seeing these men Regular everyday men are seeing men on instagram Talk about and show that they want and go out and recruit other women Women going on the radio and saying that that's what they do for a man That they go out and recruit other women to bring into the bed So men starting to have Everyday regular broke men starting to have Rich man fantasies and want to see if they women bought their life So that's really it just the perverted world we live in She's just slapping them in the mouth and ran All right, Tony. Thank you so much for the messages. I'm learning so many new things from you Is it okay to date within the same social setting? Example church work school and if so how to go about it surrender Lena. God bless you now If you know that you know like if he approaches you that's one thing Two is if you really feel an option in your spirit That he could be the one he looked like the one he looked like what you thought about prayed about dream about Okay, that passed that first test You talked to him for a week two weeks Everything smooth. He seemed like he feel like he could be the one Then you might be okay proceeding. But now here's the thing you talk to him a week. You talk to him a month Before things get serious and you see red flags Got to go You get gone now. You don't have to change schools churches work nothing You ignore the red flags. You'd be naive Y'all date for six months Mesh around and fall in the bed Then y'all break up not you in a not not you in a pickle Now you're gonna have to change where you where you work Where you go to church because that soul type is going to strangle you if you got to see him every week God giving God bless you now Is it wrong to stop my baby daddy from coming to my house because I found He was dating someone else while he was coming to get house Coming to my house acting like family um It's not wrong But if that's your only reason Then That would be a little confusing, you know, because y'all wasn't even together So if y'all weren't together and you would let him come over Now you don't want to let him come over because he's talking to somebody then That is a little confusing because It need to be in our like when he broke up with you He should have been you should have been done with him regardless whether he talking to somebody or not So now that you having this stipulation, it's gonna send a message that If we could get back together if you want me you could come over here You talking to somebody else then so that mean My my kindness has some stipulations based on if you want me or not So it's gonna look a little petty. It's gonna look a little immature, but it's not wrong It's not wrong But at the same time he could just tell you he ain't talking to nobody And that you wrong and you confuse and now he coming back nice again So you need to make up your mind. Does he have refrigerator rights or not? And that has to be regardless of what he's doing with his life because you never really gonna know So are you done with him or not? And if you done with him to hit you need to meet him at the door for the drop-off and to pick up Now, let me see. Hold on now Key to cross with God bless you now Thank you Tony for always trying to expand ways to help us the phone last night was very enlightening. Hey bless you Bless you. I was just trying so I don't know if I'm gonna do that again now MJ Cooper God bless you. Hi Tony. Can you please share what beauty mask you're using for your glowing skin? Thanks. Now I'm gonna tell you what MJ Cooper I don't have a clue Come wife and I'm trying to get that glow off of me. I'm seeing him looking like my goodness I mean, what the world you put on my face? So my wife been having me I wash my face with Chanel face wash, you know Chanel the coco Chanel make the bags I use that face wash You know, it likes on white foam. Oh, I've been using that for years now But then I don't want to just wash my face and I'd be done because I like a dry face But my wife now she got this thing she put on here No, it's just a spray or something that she pat on there Then she got a cream she put on there Then she got another cream and she dripped some oil in the cream and I rub it on and put on them So it's a process. It's probably like I don't know feel like six seven things And she say the full routine like 11 to 15 thing I don't know how to pronounce none of it. You hear me? So I told her You know, I let her come on my channel and do a little Face routine because but see me purple. I like to be dry face all the hill glowing in the dark I'm like, hold on now. What's going on? Oh, Stephanie Deon God bless you now. Thank you never never you turn for all that you Do and all that you give a blessing now Now y'all listen ain't got much longer on here now. I got about 30 minutes now. I miss I feel like I miss Something in here. So y'all tomorrow brown bless you now. I see you there Okay, okay, she'll walk her Okay, okay. I see you right there How do I address a passive aggressive future sister-in-law? She is my fiance's big sis and He doesn't see her actions as disrespectful Just ignore You know, just ignore if you give into it now you show your lack of emotional intelligence And that's what she's trying to do She's trying to trigger you to see if you emotionally intelligent to see if you responsible to see if you mature And if she could trigger you then she could prove to her brother. See I told you she talks it So just ignore her because you going home with him you marrying him So she really ain't got no power and no say so and he might not see what she's doing as disrespectful because He might have sick her on you a tessa tessa. See how she responds. Let's see if she's crazy So she might be his guard dog So, uh, so don't don't just just pay her no attention. Long as she don't cuss you out call you out your name or put no hands on you and uh You'll be all right Let's see god bless you and watch my video today that I posted earlier today explain to you why she acting like that Y'all let me hold on right now. Let me make sure I try to Got some in my eyes. Mm-hmm. I was burning on me Standing here light Hey, I thought I think I got about everybody now. So y'all forgive me if I miss you. So Let me get over here to the Let me get back to the general admission Usher at my church I usher at my church and my pastor makes me feel Little a lot degrading and is the first lady Feel a little a lot degrading and is the first lady Hates when I stand up for myself through her attacks Seven years in and afraid to leave advice. Why are you afraid to leave that what you in a cult? But you pray it leave by god in a well god in your house You ain't got to leave your house to talk to god. So You got to question your religiosity you in a cult if you scared to leave now you and again disrespected that any work of the lord So you so Y'all in there if the first lady spirit off that mean her and her husband prayers ain't getting past the ceiling So it ain't no anointing in your church So if you can't speak up to her or you can't let pastor know and they get that in in check You need to go on somewhere else because you wouldn't know what the devil The devil coming in and and and took over and and that's why Her spirit might be against your spirit because you might be a pure spirit and they have evil spirit They ain't done bezeling money. That's why she trained your nasty That's the only way a first lady gonna be nasty Unless you feel like you want her husband and you shoot an eye to the pastor You shoot the eyes at the pastor or she intimidated by you by her her insecurity, but either way God anywhere you go you hit me god god come to you So don't stay prison or trapped in somebody church when they When your spirit is being disrupted you can't even receive the word Because now you just wasting your time When you could be connecting with the lord and growing spiritually you wasting your time Tamika Wilson god bless you now Um been talking to a guy who was boring Conversations are what you doing? How are you? How's your day? I'm hungry, etc. No substance Even in person and on the phone. Should I stop talking to him or tell him he has no substance? Well, he already know he has no substance, but it's really like that just because you're a roster filler You're not his main woman. So he doesn't have brain capacity for you. He giving that to somebody else He giving that to somebody else Hey, only questions in the chat No, no commentary right now. We ain't open the chat all the way up. Yeah, I'm trying to be able to see these He'll question. Let's expense god blessing now. Hey, Tony got back with my boyfriend On chapter 14 of a woman's influence. He loves it. How long should I wait? Until intimacy he's trying to change Weekly relationship meeting and virtual church every sunday. Okay now sister now listen what you're saying Now what you mean by intimacy? Because what good is just gonna is it gonna do you to be getting new knowledge and then doing dumb stuff Then what good does it make to get new knowledge being virtual with church every sunday and then on your back So now if you mean by intimacy a hug y'all can hug If you mean a peck on the lip y'all can peck on the lip Unless y'all living together that peck on the lip then he gonna be pecking on another set of lips You hit me. So you really got to think about this thing It don't do you no good to be trying to grow mentally and trying to learn That then be on your back In for an occasion you might as well not even go to church because Like the good boy say it's better to tie something around your neck and dive into the deep ocean Then to know right from wrong to know what god expects from you and still choose to do wrong. You see what I mean? So intimacy When you get married Wait that he marry you because if y'all than already been Sex-reactive he already know what that's like. So now it's put up a shut up now Let's get married now. It ain't oh, I need to see if if the love making gonna be good before I marry you Because if y'all than already been there, he already know what that's like So now you're gonna drive a car with a lot or you finna ask for your 50th test drive Listen, sir. We're not finna let you put 3 000 miles on our car test driving We don't gave you a test drive sir. We could need you to Buy the car or go on about your business. That's the same thing in the relationship If you're not already laid down with him, okay Let your sin stay behind you now it's time to get married If y'all in love so that the bed is not the file and then Or y'all let each other go and go on about your business You see what I'm saying because he wants you to lay down You know already consummate it just your souls and spirit together anyway. So you might well get married Been dating a guy if you love each other been dating a guy for three months not on my back He's twice divorced 55 years old I asked him if he ever cheated on either of his wives and he said yes once red flag. He could have lied to me um You know, that's a tough one because that's like a plead the fifth question You know, he should have pleaded the fifth but then he still would have been guilty. So you can't ask a man for Honest question and and expect a lie Because now he cursed if he do cursed if he don't if he lied to you he wrong He told you the truth now you saying he wrong So the thing about it at least he was honest with you at least he was honest with you Now it probably was more than one time But he least trying to be honest because he probably feel like if he said no You probably know that majority of men cheat especially if he doesn't been married twice Okay, something he doing some right So more so than his answer to the question the other question is why you didn't why you didn't have two failed marriages Let's talk about that Versus, did you cheat or not? Absolutely cheated failed married twice unless he telling you they cheated which Unless you talked to them and they confirmed that you really don't know God I'm dating All right now I got about 20 more minutes on here now I'm dating three months keeps including me in plans Viewing of house being built and decor once only see each other one to two times a week But talk an hour a day is he serious? Yeah, he's serious now. He's serious But hey, that don't mean a whole lot So right around this three month mark it should be coming up on Hey, will you be my girlfriend? Can we be exclusive? That's what you should be coming up on if you ain't coming up on that if you really ain't know You got about another three months don't get low to sleep because he buying houses now Because a lot of times a man will show you what he's doing to test you to see if you a gold digger Okay, so oh you a little get it about this house Oh, you acting get it about this house. So What's your true intention? You see what I mean? He might be test you to see how How get it you get to see if you start Ignoring red flags because he's showing you his financial stability So you still got to pay attention to the signs now Why do you say a man? Loses respect for you if you're on a higher level than him and entertaining him Is this not letting a man's character be his currency? Or were you saying that man has bad character? Yes, I'm saying that man if a man with bad character I'm not when I say level ain't talking about if you got money And or you got a degree and you entertaining him I'm saying If he's a drug dealer if he's a no good man and you talking to him Now he realized you a reflection of him Because if you a classy woman and he a trashy man He knows you wouldn't be talking to him because class don't deal with trash So if he trash and you talking to him that mean you trash too So this what you got to understand If you hear me say something and it don't make sense then you heard me wrong Because I only talk sense I ain't on here to sow confusion Everything I say it got to make sense And if it don't make sense to you that mean you might need to listen three different ways Because this where I'm hearing from okay, I ain't on here. Just speaking opinion I'm on here speaking facts because I see this every single day Thousands and thousands of time throughout the year. So whenever you miss here some You need to listen to it again because I ain't on here spewing confusion. I'm here to bring clarity So don't ever and I'd be having to block some people because they be trying to put words in my mouth And trying to cause confusion in the comment section just like satan be doing block block block And and especially If I see you in my comments causing confusion and you ain't no blessed tribe member So you come in every day and you ain't even know blessed tribe remember block Out of spraying my ligament in my thong Blocking people so fast How do I break it to him that I want to wait until marriage? I don't mind personally We are in love and we're intimate before and we're intimate before getting back together Um Yeah You see what I'm saying Y'all ladies act like y'all dating the pope You know like y'all dating the king You know in the bible the king They had to scout for his for his women the queens and or the queen and then the the concubines they had to scout for And then he would have these women and he will He'll sleep with this one on monday night This one on two tonight. This one on wind the third fried soul on that's why the ester The book of ester is so Important because she was one of the kings women But she was she approached the king without being called And technically in that time she was supposed to be killed for approaching the king throne For the king's quarters without being called So that's how it was back in the day. Y'all women today still operate with that same spirit How do I break it to him? What you mean? Uh, yes, I really we didn't already slept together. I'm not interested in sleeping together anymore before marriage Just like that you you ain't got to go get a notarized Paper you ain't got to have nobody sign no permission slip You ain't got to do it while y'all skydiving hoping he don't hear you right You don't have to cook no big meal his favorite meal and Listen, I have something really serious to talk. No, just tell him. He's not no king He ain't he's just a man. You see what I'm saying? That's your body You can't ever be scared about telling the man about what you need for your body About your standards and your stipulations. See when you scared to talk to a man Cool calm and collected he know that and that's why he take you for granted and that's why he use you And that's why he could play on you. See if a man know you fear him He'll play on you and he'll be reading the woman's influence He'll be watching the videos because he know that's gonna get you to drop your weak guards even more And then boom he gonna get to do what he want to do because he got you weakened And then you get weakened and you get so scared That he's gonna leave if you say something and you want a man so bad and you want marriage so bad So you scared that if I say I want to wait until marriage to sleep with you again You scared he gonna leave You can't fear that and that's why I said on the post that a lot of people didn't understand went over a lot of people Had when I say you have to be willing to lose him in order to keep him Because if you will do anything to keep him you're gonna lose him anyways because he's not going to respect you So you got to be willing to walk away You got to be willing to speak your mind to stand your ground and to have your standards And you got to be okay if he's if he want to walk away And when you got that kind of energy that you're not afraid to stand your ground because if he walk away, you know, that's his loss That's when you able to keep a man But when you walking on eggshells Try not to offend him scared to say what's on your mind That's when you're gonna lose him anyways because he don't respect you So y'all understand that now come on now Pretty many god bless you now single close friend tried to ask me for threesome single Close friend tried to ask me for threesome with her boyfriend Said no not interested. Is that a real relationship? No, that's not a real relationship And this right here speaks to the question that somebody else mentioned about the man telling the woman That he had a dream about her friend And this is right here. Why it happened This is exactly why it happened because yo Lord, let me not call the woman no friend. I mean no name your friend Lord bless or pray for give a bottle of olive oil Go tomorrow and get you a bottle of olive oil Get her a bottle of olive oil and get her a holy bible And you get her that Let her get offended she get offended let her get offended every holiday every birthday by her New bible with her name etched in and she gonna say why you keep buying me bibles friend Well, just you know, it's just a thoughtful gift. It's a also a collector's item You keep getting the bottles you keep getting her bibles and olive oil Because your friend needs some help. So no, that's not a real relationship You got to be praying for her praying that them shackles get released off of her That that she find the strength to walk away that she you got to be praying that she wake up and smell the coffee in the morning Donna Donna god bless you now bless you Now where we at? Okay moderators. Y'all don't have to work no more tonight I appreciate the moderators in here keeping the chat clear for me Y'all don't have to work if you already asked a question the night Take the rest of the night off If you if I ain't getting your question then keep posting your question If I have not answered a question from you tonight, um pretty black. I done seen a question in here from you Um, Ashley, I feel like I seen the question in here from you too If you ain't asked no question then put your question in here You already asked the question then go on take the night off. Let me help somebody What's the difference in a man's representative versus his potential? They seem similar They are similar, but what you have to realize a man representative is him faking That's him faking a man potential. That's who he is So potential means He's reading his bible. He's praying. He's living right But he may be making 30 thousand dollars a year But because of his character, he has what it takes to go from the school teacher to the assistant principal See the representative is he trying to be rico suave pretend that he prints charming But he smoked weed he get drunk He when he get drunk he curse you out See he showed you his representative that was opening doors and pulling out chairs But when the stuff hit the fan now he yelling screaming cursing See the man with the potential he's a man of character. He has character He's not yelling at you cursing at you, but he may not be where you want him to be financially He may not have the job that you want him to have But he has the character and he has the work ethic and he's on his way So see what you also have to realize is sometimes a poem only makes sense to the author So that's good that you asked that question because when I talk about potential versus representative I maybe didn't come up with the term But I put it together And so because I put it together that mean i'm the i'm i'm the Picasso or that So when you don't understand something that's what you got to do Ask me what I mean instead of trying to argue with me about what I mean And that's what some people go wrong and that's when I know somebody operating from the wrong spirit See you operating from the right spirit because you could have said well, Tony You know, you're hypocritical because you said it's okay to date potential You should be trying to date potential But then at the same time you said you shouldn't be dating a man And you got to watch out for a man representative. So that is the same thing See you could have came like that But now you asked for that clarity I'm able to help you understand the difference between a man with potential and a man who Showing you his representative fake in the phone Stop talking to a guy I was dating for the second time left because I felt He was dealing with others says he loves me and wants me and wants to make me happy Is he sincere should I give him a final chance? Oh Marie you got to make up your mind You see what I mean, you got to make up your mind now when you give him the final chance He might take this final chance to get the last laugh So you got to understand that when you keep running in and out of man life You messing with his ego. You see what I mean? You you stepping on his toe. You you playing with him So when he asked you and he tried to get you back It might be to get the last lick to get the last laugh So you got to ask yourself if you already had to leave somebody two times Why do you want to go back a third time? You see what I mean? Because you playing games you're gonna end up playing yourself when you're done you need to be done And so and if he say he want to love you and he want to do all of that Then he need to be showing you beyond a reasonable doubt I mean beyond the shadow of a doubt so that now You know that he really really wants you not it just came out his mouth But he ain't really done nothing to really show show show improve to make you believe it He works 7 p.m. The 7 a.m. And I work bankers hours So it's hard to stay consistent in communication during the week He still calls on the weekend when he's off. Do you think he could reach out more often? um So When when you at work he getting a little sleep But see you get all five So you get all five he don't work till seven He could he he probably get up You know, he might be sleeping six hours. He get off seven. He get home eight He's sleeping about two or three he get up three o'clock He got from three to five till you get off if he really bought you From five to seven y'all could be talking you see what I mean and building Every single day from five to seven y'all could be talking and building So if he just calling you on the weekends, who else getting that five to seven? And he might not be sleeping from eight To two or three, you know, he might sleep eight to twelve. He might sleep eight to two You feel me that six hours But from two to seven that's five hours that he got to do a whole lot of stuff If somebody else worked night shift, he could be talking to them too Somebody that he worked with be talking to her because they don't get to talk at work So nine by the time you get off three 34 o'clock Five o'clock at the latest you work bankers hours. He got time to talk to you if you ain't getting that time Okay, what's going on? You see what I mean? So you got to go ahead and put it all the way together If my mom told me that God told her to tell me to leave my boyfriend alone Should I believe her even though I know she don't like him? Why would God tell her to tell me that? When he knows I know she's very messy Now that's a good question them ZZ Um, and you got to ask why your mama don't like your boyfriend You know, why doesn't she like your boyfriend? Has he given her a reason not to like him? is the is she And is she messy Do you feel like she telling you that because she don't want to see you happy? Or because she don't want you to get taken away from her Now if he didn't cheat it on you if he didn't curse that her If he didn't lie then you didn't told him some of the bad he didn't done Then she got a reason not like him if she just don't like him just not to like him But he's given her no reason and you've given her no reason and you know she messy Because if she messy God don't even talk to messy people because God can't bless mess So God can help you come out your mess, but God not gonna sit with you in your mess So if she messy God don't even talk to messy people So that's one thing you got to realize and understand now She could be messy, but still bring a message because she your mama Because you could turn your mess into a message now So she could have been through so much mess that she'd know when you dealing with a messy man So you got to be able to look at this thing and really read it and don't get caught up in your feelings because you won't love Because that's where the mistake happens a lot of times our parents try to save us because they them been there done that And we think they just hating and they then they just jealous and then we end up up the creep without a paddle And then that's who we call it The to come bail us out of jail or to come help us move out of this toxic relationship Help us with first and last month rent for a new place to stay when they try to tell us all along So you're gonna have to dig a little deeper and really get to the heart of the issue To see what is about On k y god bless you now. Oh, let me call you kai. Okay, so the k y on me on I was deleting old i g messages To move on and accidentally video called x but hung up He kept asking what I wanted. I finally told him it was a mistake. He said, okay Next day. I was blocked why? Because he thank you play too much He thank you play too much and he coulda what he coulda did Is use you For some clout and some brownie points with his new woman So he coulda said my ex video called me Because his new woman kind of acting like he regular like he average So he want to let her know hey, let me let you know i'm popping my ex chasing me My ex video called me the other day on instagram. Oh, she did. Well, what are you gonna do about it? Well, what you think baby, you know, i'm all about you. I'm feeling a blocker right now. Come on. Come on. Look at my phone Look at my phone. Okay. Here. Go. All right. There she go. All right. Boom. Boom block Just like that. Man, what you think? I'm all about you. So that's how he coulda played you now. He coulda used you for a little clout But it don't make no sense for him to block you unless he just really got a soul time He trying to break he lives to a soul time video Coretta god bless you now I feel like you probably meant to put a question with that blessing now That's a show. No blessing. I bless you Everybody who sent a blessing a thank y'all god bless you now y'all y'all Be blessing me Oh, thank you Rosa v god bless you now only ever dated my ex husband who I was married 21 years and three kids How do I get the confidence to date again fiercely independent? otherwise 40 plus year old 21 years you need you by four sessions of coaching With yours truly Because what you got to do you got to think about it like this when you've been married that mean you've been locked up That mean you've been locked up from the dating scene So that's like being sent up the road for those y'all don't know what being sent up the road is I'm gonna tell my wife. I got to skip this face routine tonight. I'm around here Glowing in the dark you hear me Hey, baby. I got to skip this night routine tonight I still got moisturizer from this morning Hey, they said let them know what this face products is got me and her looking like a slip and slide Um, now what I was saying. So what happened? It's like being sent up the road It's like you being sent to prison and then you come out and now it's an iPhone Think about what it was like 21 years ago to what we got today. You come out It's tech talk and you you like what is all of this and they got instagram. They got facebook Didio chatting you on a live with people submitting questions and it's like, whoa That's how it is when you've been out the dating scene for 21 years You got to come out learn how these men moving Learn what's out here and then go from them Um Lea Camille God bless you now. God told me he isn't interested in dating me So I told him I'm not looking for a friend and I told him thanks for the honesty and have a great day Less than five minutes. He called me expressing. He doesn't want me to be mad. Why? He just that men don't like to hurt feelings. Honestly. So don't don't don't pay too much attention to it Um, MJ Cooper bless you now. Don't pay too much attention to it Right there Now hold on hold on. I almost in the chat on y'all. Let me see something Asia will more Don't pay too much attention to what he said. Just keep it. Just keep it moving He want to keep you there How can I learn to be more supportive of a man who has great character and treats me like a queen? But I'm worried about the kind of provider he will be Uh Asia, uh, now I'm tired of addressing this with y'all. Okay. I'm tired of addressing this with y'all about this character I keep telling y'all about the same thing. Okay Now remember this Let a man's character be his currency If you can't get that If you can't hear that right there Then you gonna have me and going outside your head for the rest of your life You gonna have me and cheating you and dogging you out So you got to realize your value realize your worth and know that you're a queen Do you believe in god god gonna send a man that's going to treat you like a queen So why would you reject god's gift to you? They accept what the devil trying to send you Because you weren't about a provider Now see if you get your bag up You take your courses you do what you got to do and you get your bag up Then you ain't got a word about no provider Because now you know your head on straight so you could help him See what his gifts are see what his talent are now y'all become a team y'all could build together He ain't got the you shouldn't be worried about no provider If he got character because if he got character and he has ambition He's gonna be able to provide because once he gets you on his team And he treat you like a queen you're gonna be able to speak into his life and help him see what he can't see He's gonna be able to maneuver and he's gonna be able to build Um well site don't show the discount for entrepreneurship with purpose Uh The disc the coupon code for that is may 2020 It's may 2020 But I don't know if it's expired It's a lot of questions in here now i'm i'm i'm in overtime now y'all got me in overtime now Um renora god bless you now i asked my boyfriend about relations with a co-worker There were reasons for my question. He immediately immediately replied no Yet he went ghosts all day Normally he's calling texting throughout the day. Is he guilty? Um, yes, he may be guilty Yes, that it sounds like he may be guilty. It's not for sure The other thing the other option that it could be i'ma check on this coupon code while i'm here. So y'all let me Because i'll be don't forgot and then y'all be writing all them customer service emails and then you got Got my my team tied up answering all these questions. So i'ma check this here The other thing is is that he may be training you not to try him So sometime when you ask a man a question and he don't appreciate the question you ask him He'll put you on ice. He'll give you a silent treatment To scare you to make you start talking to yourself and make you start saying you know what? Let me not ask him. Somebody say may 2020 works. Okay. Um moderators y'all y'all don't have to delete the comments anymore Y'all don't have to delete the comments anymore. Y'all y'all could y'all don't Work hard tonight y'all caress. We we we in um overtime Let me see if may 2020 work I appreciate y'all moderators for keeping the chat clear. You could take the night off now You could take the night off So that's what you got to realize too a man when you do something he don't like he'll try to train you Krista, what does it mean when a guy says i'm focusing on me to better my finances? But i do want to get to know you it means you need to go about your business. It means go on about your business Um because he trying to tell you what that really means is Okay, yeah may 2020 that's for the entrepreneurship with purpose. It expires june 1st. 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Let me see I Think I got Coretta if I didn't tell you thank you. I think I did Coretta bless you Think I got all these here questions. Hey God bless y'all. I appreciate you We don't come to the end of this y'all. I went we went five minutes over and over time I'm trying to get back To my wife. I still got all this moisturize on my face from earlier today And she about to have me shower and put some more on here So tomorrow ain't no telling what I'm gonna look like tomorrow. I might look like a little richer to somebody So y'all got to forgive me. I don't know why my wife Trying to get my skin hydrated because she said if I don't hydrate on be scaly so God bless you I appreciate you for being on here and to the new life coaches Congratulations to all of you new life coaches, I'm looking forward to you being on What's my mentor dot life and Doing that. Yeah, Tracy the it's just the system with that light color on the Coupon cold. It's just the way it's cold. They said that it's a it's a old Template that I got But to be honest with you It's probably one percent of people that missed the coupon cold I say that because sometimes it just feel like it's more than that But most people put the coupon code in right. I got a client that's 72 or 73 She she used it and put it into the right way and she said tone I don't know how anybody miss it So it just really people be rushing because they think coupon cold mean that It's gonna sell out. It's not like trying to buy a pair of Yeezys You could take your time scroll around through the page You got to hit account summary let it drop down to show you the summary of your account Then you could put coupon cold. So it's two different check my systems on there Penny God bless you God bless you, but y'all must see if I could update this here system to a To a new on to a new template so it'll help me out Hey, God bless and we'll talk soon. I think I'll get a video up tomorrow. Oh, no I might not start I might not do videos on Friday. No more. I got to see how my spirit feeling Because y'all be tied up on Fridays, but we'll talk soon