 and I was so happy. I was in the place that I always wanted to be. South Florida was wonderful. I had really great connections. I was lining everything up and sure enough love had other plans. I ended up getting back together with my high school sweetheart from that small town in Ohio who was commissioning into the Air Force. Yeah, now were you from a military family? No, and so this was all new to me. I remember honestly just thinking like what is happening. This is not part of my plan. How on earth am I going to be able to have my own career living the military life because I didn't really know what it actually looks like. We hear everything and we see everything but what does it actually look like to be living this life. So when I decided to go for it after I finished my master's we got stationed at our first duty station. I'm not going to lie I was lost.