 Put it this way, it's very low risk and high reward for women and it's high risk and low reward for men And the reason for that is because of hypergamy How you been bro been good. Yeah, what's new? What's new and exciting? Yeah Just you know helping guys unfuck their lives basically. I'm actually interested about that story Like looking back in the last you know as as a long-time friend and seeing your growth and evolution It's been impressive by the way like it's amazing where you are today What what would you say is one of the catalysts that kind of started you on this trajectory? Oh, my own need to unfuck my own life. And how did you come to that conclusion? Well the results I were I was getting was with shit and You know one of the concepts that I learned from you know Colin collard No, I don't think so used to do EO facilitated retreats and one of the things he would talk about is You know the belief system governing your choices and your choices govern your results sort of thing So I can always tell what somebody's life is really like when you take a look at their results Because you then know what choices they make and you know what their belief system is that governs the choices that they make They're just you know, it took me a while to look at myself It's like why the fuck am I getting such bad results in so many areas of my life when I've been called a weapon by Like wicked-ass entrepreneurs that recognize, you know my my skills when I'm capable of You know like I'm world-class at these things at what I do and sort of stuff So I just had to take a look inside and really Unfuck myself and I did that, you know, I you know, I left Entrepreneurs organization. I left certain, you know circles of influence and friends I left certain organizations that were like, you know men's clubs You know that that really didn't serve me and I just kind of like kicked off and did my own thing It was some soul-searching and I actually use, you know, YouTube is a little bit of therapy, you know during that time too and Here we are today and people aren't aware you run the YouTube channel entrepreneurs and cars Yep, which is that you see actually originally started off with cars and entrepreneurs I started out interviewing friends and their success right and I ran out of friends with cool cars I could do interviews in and then I just started filling in the gaps I started calling them like in between us so it's talking about stuff like how I hire people with parties and how you use lawyers Best in your business and stuff like that and then one day some guy goes in the comments He goes you should do a video on the kind of women to not date I'm like, okay. I just broke up with this crazy check. Let's you know, let's do video on that and that blew up I got picked up in the algorithms and it was like most videos you'd upload and publish and you'd get like hundred views Thousand views if you're lucky, this was like a hundred thousand views within a couple weeks I'm like, oh, maybe we're on to something here All right, and then that's kind of was a catalyst to change your channel a little bit towards that direction Yeah, one thing I learned from Do you ever meet Mike Gehry the guy that did the six-pack shortcuts thing? No, but I know who you're talking about. Yeah. Yeah, one of the things he told me once was You know the categories you want to look at is get paid get laid get six-pack apps Sure, right and he did the six-pack mass or hierarchy. I need stuff. Yeah, so it's like Accidentally, you know, I tripped into talking about something that added clarity to guys lives that I somehow had intimate knowledge on that I didn't know that I had intimate knowledge on and then they just started like consuming it like crazy I got like DMs and emails and I was booking coaching calls like crazy They just turned into a business, you know by accident. I just kind of fell into it and so you You know one one of your themes and I'm not a big person on labels But one of your themes is red or red pill blue pill. Yeah For the layman or the neo fights. What is that? Well, it originates from the matrix, you know the first one and it kind of started You know when neo woke up when he kind of entered the matrix and Morpheus says to him He goes or you know says why do my eyes hurt? He says because you never use them before and then they kind of like take him down this rabbit hole and they talk about you know the red pill being Basically the reality the way the world works and the blue pill you take that when you go back to sleep and re-enter society is a You know clue to sleepwalking zombie sort of thing So it's a placeholder. I mean, I'm not particularly fond of all these like pill labels Because they come a lot of the time with like negative connotation There's a lot of people that blow stuff up and they manufacture indignation out of it But it's really just a placeholder to say I've woken up to the reality of the way the world works Like I'd say that you're a red-pilled guy, right? The blue pill guys walking around going well, you know on social media All you got to do is go happy wife. Happy life and everything will be tickety-boo Yeah, I say happy me happy life That's right You got to make yourself your own mental point of origin You got to put yourself first if you want to be successful as a man in the world and truthfully That's what women want. They want to be with a giant. They don't want to be with a wimp That's like happy wife. Happy life. Those are the guys that get divorce rape Those are the guys that lose access to their kids and they see their money flow to their ex-wife while she's out porking guys and the Salsa clubs and he gets to see his kids every other weekend, right? And so what do you see a trend right now in society? Like I know you coach a lot of men and a lot of men come to you towards advice But what do you see? What's the current trends right now in society that you are witnessing? weak weakness man a lot of a Lot of people, you know subscribing to weak belief belief systems that don't serve Society it certainly doesn't doesn't serve them right like we were talking before About polyamory and how you know the mainstream media really pushes poly lifestyle now and it's like that's a that's a mating strategy for beta males, right? Because it's all they can get right so like we like there's been a Decline in male testosterone for the last 50 60 years I mean you go back to the 1940s and 50s you look at data from then like a 67-year-old guy has got more testosterone the average 25 year old guy today and you can see them I mean you go to the gym in the change room. There's men walking around with breasts, right? That's that's because of low T and high estrogen. It's you know, it's a function of diet lifestyle choices belief systems All that sort of stuff. So there's a general weakening of mass like there's a weakening of masculinity and There's no push for femininity what it is is you see a female primary social order Pushing a toxic version of feminism like the whole point of feminism really was to level the playing field create a little more equality But but it's still going it's still pushing into an area That is unknown and it's turned into a supremacy movement, right? Like it actually hates guys now Yeah, you talk and I think they call it what the fourth fourth wave of feminism or third wave I forget which wave it is. It's not stopping anytime soon. Yeah, but if interesting thing that I've been witnessing is like Let's you know, we'll label the feminists like but feminists from the 70s and 80s Don't like the new forms of feminism There's some you know There's some flip-flopping back and forth into that So one of the things that you discover when when you kind of go down this rabbit hole of the sexual marketplace and understanding What women respond to because we're always told what to do is guys by society religion media culture family Government, you know, they always tell you what to do But there's a significant difference in what women respond to and what men respond to versus what we're told, right? And it's it's so beyond me today, you know when I see a lot of conversations like all you got to do is go to some of these Facebook groups and become a fly on the wall on men's groups and you see the The beta ties conditioning that a lot of the a lot of these guys live in right like, you know You read their story about how they've got three baby mamas and how You know, this girl is banging some guy at work and should I take her back and then you click his profile picture And it's a picture of him down on one knee, you know, basically looking her toes given her a diamond rings sort of thing It's just it's just beyond me how guys have let themselves get to this point But it's not that surprising too, right? I mean like if you go back through evil psych We're talking about that before but if we go back to evil psych It's like in times of safety, you know, like liberalism like where we live today like it's widespread now You know in times like that Men become weaker testosterone levels drop You know, we become more like free love polyamorous, you know, bonobos just banging each other all the time You know not really strengthening or building up a significant or useful society versus like the chimpanzees Which is the others, you know flip side of the coin, which were very very similar savages savages, man We're worrying fuck they take no prisoners. They don't fuck around, right? And it's in times like, you know war or trauma, you know where there's like There's a need for masculinity. Yeah, you know, you know, there's there's this phrase that I that's just really like the dumbest thing I've ever heard is toxic masculine after you've heard it a million times. Oh, you're toxic masculine or as toxicly, you know You know masculinities in the way, but it sure comes in handy when there's a flood You've probably seen that you know meme where there's a soldier carrying the woman with the child in her arms You know in the floodwaters it comes in handy that right like that's when we need to talk toxic masculinity But you're not gonna have access to that if you if you constantly Undermine Traditional masculinity. Well, my theory in toxic or whether it's toxic masculinity or femininity It's just a selling point like the label something to group people together and to sell ads or to sell a story to make money Yeah, well, it's all driven by the mainstream media. Of course click Let me get your attention. Look at us over here. Yeah, you know, that's really what it's all about It's also like to I always tell people when they say something like a open-ended statement like please define in detail what you're talking about and a lot of the times, you know, they can't you know, they can't like instruct a Recognizable argument that makes any sense I made a post on Facebook a while ago and I was showing stats how young men aren't having sex anymore and I didn't write this. I saw a tweet a thread for this. Yeah, there's a study on it Yeah, yeah, and I got into the sexual marketplace theory. You want to kind of dive into that? Yeah You know, it's funny because if you make certain certain points and I'm gonna dig up a text message here from a female friend In a second that was in a business group that I was in at one point a few years ago And I put a social media post out. I'm glad I kept this because this is exactly relevant to what we're talking about and You did a screenshot haven't talked for in a few years and I'll let you just look at that list and you can see who that is, right? So just so just read out that list like that's a list that somebody's grandmother would have told their daughter Yeah, so this is from tweet how to keep a man in six simple steps Number one learn how to cook amazing dishes Number two be feminine long hair makeup nails. So look pretty for your partner number three Don't nag him over small things number four beat that free number five Don't be a single mom and number six know how to please them in bed. Great forward stuff. Yeah, right? like this is a conversation that Women would have had with their mother grandmother not too long ago, but today that offended her Got this big long lecture about why that's so offensive and blah blah blah and how could you say that they got like 10,000 retweets and all kinds of likes and stuff like that But we live in an environment today where it's okay for women to tell men how to be men But we can't air any kind of requirements whatsoever So speaking of a diving into the sexual marketplace There was a blogger and I did a video on my channel about this within the last three weeks or so And she had a list of 70 requirements not seven 17 Wow, but 70 requirements that would need to be met for her to abandon her single hood But you have a but you put a list together of six as a guy and You should you should see just everybody piling in the comments all the white nights piling on you You know, this is you know, this is why you're the set and the other thing they point and sputter They're really just guys that are trying to support the feminine imperative And they think that it's gonna get them late and the common response for many with half a brain in their head is like Well, she's still not gonna bang you Kevin You can say that as much as you want. She's still not gonna bang you bro But we can flip that around to and be like from a woman's aspect. What do women want? They want a good-looking guy, you know, a symmetrical not asymmetrical You know, they want a guy that it's not even about money. They want to this is from evolutionary biology and psychology They want to they want a man that is has goals So they've done studies on the monetary value that you bring in it's not actually the monetary value That's a turn on is the fact that you have ambition. Well, it depends where you're at If you're if you're in your 20s, yeah, then that matters sure right then actually having acquired resources But if you're in your 40s women have no patience for a guy in his 40s that hasn't acquired resources, right? You have to like as a guy as you like the difference between men and women is women need to preserve their value Their femininity their beauty, you know, because that's what they bring to the table. It's it's it's why inherently We don't want women that have been with a hundred guys, right? I mean, it's why inherently for thousands of years, you know virginity was so prized But men need to create value. So that's the you know, that's the difference There's too much of this will men and women are the same men and women are equal No, they're not men and women are very different and they're complementary to each other And they should be complementary to each other because they fill each other's gaps, right? Like men need to create value. We're we're born as nothing. We're nobody we're weak simple We have no no skills whatsoever, but as you age and you grow as a guy, it's incumbent upon you to demonstrate competency skills You know be able to demonstrate resourcefulness, you know The ability to acquire resources to provision and protect it's why women like big strong burley alf, you know Alpha male type type guys. I want to use alpha male, you know, again, that's just a placeholder as well like beta male is sort of thing, but That's what that's what they respond to that's what they're attracted to right Yeah, like that's how I view it from a purely evolutionary point of view and I think I Think what the problem becomes is everybody tries to carpet their belief system or carpet their values on everybody It all depends on what you want in your life Like if you want to live a new kid or family or have a couple of kids and have a certain structure, there's a There's ways to do that for success You know, I mean like if you are if you are a single woman career driven You don't want to have kids, right? Many men do want to have kids So right away you eliminate a huge portion of the men Demographics because they want to have kids, right? So it all depends on like aligning what you want in your life Which what someone else wants the cognitive dissonance happens where it's like and this happens all the time was like you have You have one you have to highly career driven individuals But what you know, they want to have kids But no one wants to let go of their career to support the child Well, it's because we've been told for so long that you can have it all girl Yeah, you know, you can have your university degree. You can have you can climb the corporate ladder You can have a husband. You can have a family But if you're spending 10 years in university and then 10 more years climbing the corporate ladder I found this out when I got divorced because that was about 39, right? So until this enter the sexual marketplace you start dating You know, you use the apps and stuff like that and I was blown away by this concept coined as baby rabies And there's a lot of rabies baby rabies. Yeah, there's a lot of women 35 to 40 41 42 even like kind of pushing in their 40s as well where You know, they spent the better part of their life chasing a degree chasing excellence at work, you know making a name for themselves and You know, they got to the age of 37 38 their eggs have dried up there are higher risk pregnancy You know the higher probability chances of autism and all kinds of things like that you talk to any teacher right now in school versus teachers from like 30 years ago and they'll tell you the reason why kids behave like assholes and They require so much attention is because parents are putting off having kids or having them later on in life Yeah, which causes more problematic. Yes, you know issues with children as they develop and as a gross sort of thing So they think that they can have it all but what they end up doing is they put it off to the very end They end up having high-risk pregnancies and they show up and they're like I've got baby rabies wife me up and it's like You don't even get a chance to vet them for a couple years to see what they're really like because what they do is they push most of These beta male providers into a marriage Have the kids she realizes five to seven years later that she's not really that attracted to him She we she watches eat pray love on Netflix and decides. You know what? I think I'm gonna bounce on this guy because divorce laws totally in my favor He's gonna be paying me child support and I'll get the kids anyway So I'll just do that and I'll find the next guy and there's so many guys out there that have been divorced right by women I mean they go through the divorce machine and I'm not saying this is like women that do that does this But this is the way that family laws construct This is the way that we've designed the system is to always protect the female because the male has always been disposable And that's not me saying that I mean that's evil psych like that's evil inclusionary history, right? Men have always been disposal the disposable sex and women have always been the protected sex So that's so it's no surprise. That's built into family law So guys go incredibly wrong Wiping up the wrong woman in the late 30s. They get divorced five to seven years later and they lose all their shit And they don't even get to see their kids Yeah, you think that's gonna change anytime soon. No Anytime soon at all. It's just gonna keep getting worse It took one of the main benefits of marriage out like two years ago There is no incentive to marriage to men no more incomes. I didn't listen I'm vehemently opposed to marriage today any guy that gets married married as a muppet And I tell them not flat out straight up to their face and There's people that are waking up to the reality of and I wish it wasn't that way because I'm because I'm pro family Like I'm like I'm pro kids like I like we need kids man people talk about population We the biggest threat to humankind is we're not producing enough babies Well, the biggest problem is dumb people that don't have access to resources that make incredibly bad choices are out fucking the smart They're talking about idiocracy Basically guys if I haven't seen a diagra see go right now and check that out So, um, yeah, so back to the point. No, I don't see it changing anytime soon. In fact, it's just getting harder It's more hostile for guys and at the end of the day men need to wake up to these realities Like I get that if you want to have kids and you want to be in a relationship and you know Do all those traditional things, but I wouldn't do it under the guise of marriage, right? Like there's no safe way to get married in North American Western family law right now because it is so hostile and unfriendly towards fathers It's like put it this way It's very low risk and high reward for women and it's high risk and low reward for men And the reason for that is because of hypergamy. So women always marry up. They never marry down Yeah, that's why the thirty thirty thousand dollar a year hairdresser marries the $200,000 a year Accountant yep or VP of sales or whatever So like the number one way for women to acquire their wealth today and this isn't me speaking again I'm just a messenger, you know delivering the story is your divorce That's that's how most women acquire wealth today still they don't make it for themselves There's a lot of great women out there that are smart entrepreneurs that have done it But the vast majority of women that have acquired their wealth, especially on like Forbes lists, you know Stuff like that of you, you know the richest people in the world divorce mm-hmm like Kenzie Bezos classic example, you know There's more to that story though for that divorce. There's a lot to that story But I couldn't technically sell his shares. Yeah, he had to give it to her. Yeah. She's a brilliant woman Yeah, she's not stupid. Yeah, she's Melinda Gates. You know, yeah, right down the list. Yeah It's it's interesting because you know I look at I'm glad that you brought up the marriage and and And the whole the whole family law Whenever I see a young and I've been with my wife now coming up like 10 years You just got married last year, but I didn't we were engaged for three years I didn't gauge until like the 60 or this fifth or 60 year then engaged for another three years then married on the fourth Years was on them like like until like year nine that we finally got married And that's the way to do it really because you need a long slow vetting period Oh, yeah To really collect some data points to understand what you're getting into yeah because you're always Dating and living with and being engaged to the representative of who the real person is It's often when we say I do and we all subscribe to the fairy tale myth of forever and ever until death do Was probably the blah blah blah there's no forever Men and women are not like we're not particularly monogamous right like we're more monogamish like you know there's some some that would even say that we're not even that but Like monogamy is an outlier in the animal kingdom. We're not monogamous Well, I think it depends man context matters right depends on what kind of if you want a family structure depends on where you are in your life Depends on how old your kids are it's got to be chosen is what it's got to be chosen I think a lot of the time it's enforced though. Correct Yeah, I think a lot of issues stem from the fact that most people are just following a Predestined path. Mm-hmm. They're not making their own path I always ask people why getting married why you buying a house in this market like his most fucking foolish thing I've ever heard of like why buying a car like why why why and Really don't get a detailed answer response. Mm-hmm. Well The house purchase is usually pushed on him by the wife. Yeah, because it's an asset Right liability to my eyes. It is at least in this market, but in but in basic, you know thinking from that order It's it has value. It can be sold for a million dollars So if it needs to go we can you know, we can clear it out right because everybody wants a house We were sold that narrative of the white picket fence way back whenever it was with Freddie May and Mack and all that sort of stuff but You know the grim reality of is like a lot of the push to spend like women still make most of the decisions when it comes to Who buys what men men still bring in the bacon and she finds a way to fry it and eat it or spend it Right, you know sort of thing like that's just the way that it works And that's not a you know, that's not I'm a massage in his statement. It's just you know Again, I hold up a mirror. I just reflect back the facts and I point to them sort of thing You know you talk a lot about in your videos about self-improvement like what are things or what's advice do you have for young men up there today? Chase excellence not women. I like that. It really boils down to You you have a responsibility as a man to become the absolute best version of yourself Nobody gives a fuck about you. I tell guys all the time women don't care about your struggles They hang out at the finish line and they fuck the winner, right? And that's a harsh reality like that's a harsh truth a lot of people watching us right now are gonna be offended They're gonna get in the comments. I'm here. I can't believe you got rid of this guy. I'm unsubbing from your channel I hate you you prick But that's again, you know, I I look at what women respond to not what they say, right because Actions express priorities, right? Yeah, listen like everybody wants to be with their winner. I think I think it goes back to love It's an ongoing joke with my wife. I'm like, I love myself more than I love you and it should be that way You know, and I always tell you you should love yourself more than you love me And it should be that way. No if I can't love myself who the fuck's gonna love me Yeah, and truthfully, she wants it that way. She wants to be with a giant She wants to be with a man of vision and purpose. That's what satisfies her Hypergamist nature right because that's what's the driving force for all women They have to be for them to be satisfied in a relationship for their hypergamy to be satisfied They always have to be with a guy one or two points better than them three four five points better than even even better But where guys go wrong? So let's say that you're like, okay, you get married You say I do you were always making yourself your mental point of origin And then what happens to a lot of guys as they go through this Betatization by a thousand concessions process in the marriage. It's like any guy cut with the paper What's it called? Yeah, it's like death. Yeah, like death by a thousand paper cousin to starts with Amir Can you do me favor and brush your teeth in the bathroom Amir and make sure you put your black socks in the black Hamper and the white socks and the white hamper a few years down the road. It's let's go vegan together a few years down the road It's like let's have an open marriage. I love I'm the most ignorant Motherfucker there is I love you, but I'm not in love with you. Let's get a divorce, right? So, you know that whole betatization process. So let's say when you get married You're like a you know, you're a stud you're a nine out of ten, right? You know, she comes in she's a seven out of ten You're definitely a couple points better than her on the SMV scale, right? But throughout time you start to relax you start to subscribe to the happy wife happy life notion You you say yes wife, you know to everything You know over three or four years couple babies pop out sort of thing. She's no longer having sex with you You know the biggest courier is for married guys. How do I get my wife to sleep with me? like Most guys get married if you believe this or not because they think that they're gonna have access to reliable Consistent sex. Wow, right? That's why they get married. You know, I'll just settle, you know, I'll get married I'll keep having sex sort of thing but for most married guys that declines You know like over time and it's and it's because they stopped chasing excellence They put her first over his own priorities and I'm not saying he's got to be a dick, right? And you know Make her life miserable or make the family household miserable But it's like you need to prioritize yourself as a guy in this world because nobody else is gonna do it for you And you've been told everywhere to make concessions your entire life and not put yourself first, right? So you know, they go through that cycle and it's like at some point He's wondering, you know, he's going to Google and he's searching Why isn't my wife fucking me or you know, how do you get your wife to have sex with you sort of thing, right? And that's like that's a real query like like that drives a lot of men, right? so Sad reality of the sexual marketplace when it comes to the dynamics between men and women throughout time is you know As we kind of grow and evolve in the relationship patterns a lot of people hate that I mean they hate it when I talk about that But this is gonna be a controversial When I'm not a controversial person not at all not at all I always tell people like okay, let's go back to hunters and gatherers I'm down for that and let's say you and I are women, right? Yeah And like small tropic dump bars number like you know, let's say like under on yeah under 150 and We got to find a good mate, right? You know if our mate is not capable of getting us food and protecting us from the elements, you know, peace out Yeah, that's that's really what it boils down to and the interesting, you know reality that dynamic using us as women let's say is Women are happy to share a high value alpha They would rather share a high value alpha than be straddled with a faithful loser. Yeah, right all day long There's actual there's dynamics and First Nation tribes here They're very similar to that. Yeah, there's a lot of talk about that and Chris Ryan sex at dawn book too I mean, there's there's some hokey pokey like kind of hippie as you know Bonobo free love sort of shit in that book But there's a lot of realities, you know tied into the evil psych learning of that You know dynamic between men and women too Yeah, it's interesting man, like I think right now Especially with the advent of social media. We're having these eco chambers and it's propagating negative ideological belief system whether it's like mick tau as we talked about or certain forms of feminism or this white knight's which I'm not too familiar with but it seems like it's like What's that the old the old the oldest symbolism and man in the or Boris Hey, they're all just like eating itself. Yeah, man. They're just eating themselves. You ever follow Jack Donovan? No, I know Jack Dalvin and though. Yeah, have you read the way of men or becoming a barbarian? No, no, I've read You'd like it. It's a good book. Yeah, really good book. I think you'd like it. Yeah Yeah, that's what he talks about. I mean, you know, I did a talk at a convention I was at a couple years ago. I was also speaking that year too Yeah, but he used the oraborio over the snake Yeah, sort of eating itself, but it's like like men are tribal Creatures, you know, we we find a tribe. We draw a perimeter around our tribe Mm-hmm, and we you know, it's called like the gang basically, you know, we've come like a gang, right? What happens when the shit hits a fan, right? You think there's guys out there that would be successful that would survive That's what masculinity is gonna be valued again, you know when the shit hits a fan Like you think it would happen at some point like it seems like it's overdue. Yeah, right But it's like that's when traditional masculinity will be valued That's when we'll go back to the whole tribal nature of sapiens as a being where we are gonna define Perimeters and we're gonna protect our own tribe from like us versus them like one of the things he talks about in the book is About the Empire of Nothing, which is what we've created today, you know, we live in an empire of nothing We think it's something we think that we have impact. We have some value We have influence our vote matters, you know sort sort of shit. You don't it is an empire of nothing, right? It's why you have to create your own inner circle. I mean, it's why I built my own tight men's inner circle community off my YouTube channel I call it the 1% because it's a very small conversion rate. It's 1% that converts to that group But that tribe of men are men chasing excellence, you know, they're not making excuses. They're not chasing women, right? Women are a complement to their life and it's a part of that But they make themselves their own mental point of origin so they can put their own dent in the universe Whatever that looks like I know we have a lot of young people listening in or watching And you know, you're a seasoned entrepreneur in many businesses What advice would you have for like young people who are considering like how do I financially make myself better? It's never gonna happen work for somebody else. I mean, let's call a spade a spade, right? Like let's quit fucking around because a lot of people are are still going is like school does not serve men Everything in post-secondary education does not it doesn't teach men the way that men learn it doesn't benefit them, you know, the way they Need to be benefited to to receive the tools that they need for the outside world The funny thing is, you know when I started doing this YouTube stuff a lot of people started putting in the comments Completely unsolicited in it, you know, there's a pattern. It's like rich. You're like the father I never had and I'm like, where is this coming from? Like why am I the fuck like those random guy that talks to a camera through a microphone on YouTube and uploads the same Button as Casey and I stat and I'm your rosa can everybody else How is it that I've become the father that they never it's because I'm telling him shit that they Need to hear and that is completely absent from their belief system, right? So I helped them understand those concepts so they can do better in the world So it's like, you know things like school, you know, we've heard this before Never let school get in the way of your education, right? A lot of guys still do that Yeah, you know, they still make choices that drag them like I was I was talking to this guy on Monday night So I do this show like every other Monday nights on my channel It's called before the train wreck and a lot of guys will call in during that segment and the last questions Trying to avoid a potential train wreck because there's spidey senses, you know warn them something coming and there's this guy You know, he's 29 he's been in school for whatever it is seven years He's got another year left in his degree, but he fucking hates what he's doing He doesn't even want to do it when he gets out of school But it's his backup plan so we can have a job, right job job just over broke It's really what it stands for and it's like well do like what do you like doing? Like, you know, what do you lose track of time when he's like traveling and you know writing when I'm traveling and You know talking about these destinations and how to do certain things It's like the why are you taking this engineering degree when yeah, you're not even gonna do anything with it Or if you do do something with it, you're gonna create a life for yourself that you hate I'm like dude, you only go through life once. Okay, as far as we know, you're dead. You're six foot under. You're done Yeah, maybe there's a bonus around afterwards. Maybe there isn't I don't know, but you only go through life once So why are you fucking around making choices that aren't serving you? I agree my my usual advice for Actually, this applies to anybody if you're trying to figure out I'm gonna say financial freedom, but for you to get any form of freedom you need to have Knowledge tool sets and a belief system regardless of if getting in shape or making money or whatever and You know, this is just through my own personal experience as well. It's like I always tell people listen join a startup Get a job during a startup you'll learn more in a year or two than any other job anywhere else and Go do some consulting on the side with the knowledge you have You're pretty much getting paid to learn other people's problems and through this process, man You can find out you one You're getting paid way better money than working for anybody. Yeah Number two, you are learning amazing skills that fuck like you would never learn on your own And number three this gives you an insight within the industry that you're focusing on to maybe solve a problem That industry has most guys are rudderless Yeah, 20s like I've even talked to guys in their 40s that are completely rudderless. They don't know what to do They don't know where they're going. Yeah, it's like the dead fish kind of like, you know, get pushed downstream sort of thing Yeah, that's how the vast majority of guys operate. I talked to guys mostly So, you know, a lot of this might apply to women too, but that's what I focus on You know as far as my demographics and it's like They're completely rudderless. They don't know what to do. They don't have a vision They don't have any kind of purpose and that's fine, you know for a while But if you've been doing it for five years seven ten twelve fifteen years You got to be asking yourselves questions like what the hell am I doing wasting my time on this? Right because before you know it, you're gonna be 46. I just turned 46 is here, right? Maybe 46. You're gonna have a bad knee Right, you're gonna start looking at like shit, you know I was really good at this 20 like your eyesight sucks And he's a fucking stem cells down. Yeah, like dude the reason why I'm downtown today is because I went over to the Clinic over on Yorkville and they're doing like a scan for a clear clear lens replacement I had great vision when I was 25 you ever consider laser or what laser doesn't work for my eyesight because because of because of the Farsighted it's like a plus 4.5. Yeah, so clear lens replacement is like the only viable solution It's like like that's an intrusive surgery like this is shit that you end up with when you're 46, right? So like time flies and guys waste it guys waste their time doing dumb things working for people that they hate doing jobs That they hate being in relationships where they're abused or with women that they hate They're just miserable man. I think it goes back to environment like if you look at you know I'm a firm believer free will doesn't exist and we are the product of our environment It's mastering your environment creates a proper external triggers to master yourself So why do you say for free will doesn't exist? Like why can't we become self-aware and say no? I choose to be different When I say free will like you look at just being the devil's advocate. Yeah, it's good question So a couple of things one There is a spectrum of Richard's behavior like a bell curve. It's not like binary where like Richard has zero choice That's that's not what I'm saying. There is a natural behavior. You've had your whole life It starts with the substrate of your genetics your DNA from your mom and dad, right? Then you have epigenetics or the software the programs how you behave from childhood Now if you look back in hindsight regardless of if it's a good decision or a bad decision There's a spectrum how you behave right? There's a way that you're wired And person does really good deep dive stuff as you know, I'm Stephen Sissler behavioral disc profiling and so you you look at this this Bell curve the spectrum in a nutshell every human being behaves in here. I'm not saying you don't have consciousness But I'm saying you have innate characteristics innate traits no matter how hard you want to change it You'll never change. Yeah, it's fundamentally a part of you. Yeah, I would agree with that I mean, there's a lot of guys that will take a look at their weaknesses. Yeah, and then they try to improve their weaknesses And all they end up with is really good weaknesses. Yeah, like it's ridiculous. Yeah, fuck your weaknesses Yeah, focus on your strengths. So you figure out your strengths like what your God-given gifts are Yeah, and and then double down double down the fuck on that and then figure out how your environment Yeah is conducive for that behavior. Yeah, so so I mean like you do have a certain degree of ability to maneuver There's a spectrum there's a spectrum there is free will in there, but from a From a perspective of I guess, you know genetic editing and DNA and you know, like a function of society with where you're at Yeah, you're right I mean there's only so much will that you can exert in direction, but it's like you're stuck in a It's like you're on a highway. Yeah, and you got four lanes. Yeah, which lane you want to go in sort of thing You can't just kind of like dry or I'll give you example of the phone You have the hardware and no matter how better the software becomes it's still Conducive to the substrate of the phone hardware. It's still an Android. It's still an Android until I update the physical hardware Which in the future we might we're like CRISPR and gene editing will what's the same thing with men and women, right? Like men's hardware. Yes is to scatter seed. We just want unlimited access to unlimited women. Totally. That's what men want. Yeah women You know women's strategy is open hypergamy where they always want access to the best provisioning male They can get and that's never gonna change You know, you can try to like people try to contract out of that like Guys will think that they can contract out of hypergamy by wifing up the perfect religious woman from a conservative family Family with big, you know, lots of siblings and parents never got divorced and all that shit Well, if your sexual marketplace value declines and you're no longer as valuable to her She's gonna start looking at Kevin the VP of sales when she goes to work one day when he comes over It's always Kevin. Kevin's one lucky guy. Kevin from sales gets a lot of action Kevin from sales Steve from accounting. Those guys are doing a lot of work. Yeah Chad the pool boy You know, it's bound to happen at some point, right? I think there's a lot sticking is basically what I'm saying Yeah, listen, I think you know, you look at biology yet And it's it's a hard pill to swallow, but you look at young women around the age of like 1920 That's when they're the most fertile. Yeah 1920 to 2120 like they say that a woman's sexual marketplace value peaks around 2122 yeah after that it's under decline women hate that I have a video on my channel It's got close to a million views. It's it's called. What is sexual marketplace value if you look it up? and You know the bell curve on that it's about 21 22 for women's when it peaks and then it goes on a slow decline over time Men on the other hand usually peaks around 35. Yeah, because we need to create our value Women's value is is in preserving their femininity Even beyond like I mean superficial like let's say your let's say you have the same looks at the age of 40 That you did 21 like just say how pathetic exactly the same looks. Let's just say what I'm talking about is literally the health of the eggs Yeah, the biological eggs. Yeah, like if you're talking about women's eggs. Yes. Yeah, they deteriorate over time. Yeah, I mean I remember Around the age of I think was 32 You know when I was engaged I started hearing stories about like, you know I was looking at this chart on Google and it says every year, you know the chances of a Autism retardation, you know this that and the other thing goes up by a certain, you know percentage It's like we got to get a move on here, buddy. Like, you know, you know shit or get off the pot, right? Whoa, whoa, whoa, you know, like, you know at the time was like, okay. Yeah, okay So, you know, but today it's like, you know Your inability to plan and thinks and and thinks think things out does not constitute an emergency on my end sort of thing And that's and that's the bitter pill a lot of guys need, you know Swallow today is you know into the 30s when women start feeling baby rabies if they haven't had kids and You know, they're coming to towards the end of their biological clock They're gonna start pushing guys around and saying, you know, you need to shit or get off the pot A lot of guys will go for it. Yeah And they get into bad scenarios where they get into relationships with women that don't don't have strong genuine desire for them It's just like, okay, you're good enough. Let's go. Yeah, right But this is why at the beginning of any relationship and this applies to business and everything There should be clear understanding of Expectations it's like, let's say you're in then you find like you things are getting serious and then then finally you guys start Talking about kids. I think it should be the first fucking first thing if I think there's an iota of us being Co-parents together and that's the first fucking conversation. I'm having well The funny thing is is around the age of 39 Sometimes if you use an online dating app sometimes within the first message, maybe even two message. Yeah kids. Oh, you don't want kids fuck off Right. Yeah But you know a lot of guys get rushed into it and it's like how you went through a longer vetting period Yeah, that's where guys, you know go wrong. So The first pretty girl that talks to them at 38. Yeah, they've made me maybe either been divorced that have never been married and she's given him attention She's like, you know, I really want to have kids and it's like we can't wait two years sort of thing Or three years, you know through the engagement period and they're like, okay We'll go get married in three months sort of thing. Yeah, it's like you don't know her dude like The show that I do on Monday nights with my friend dr. Shanti Smith. So he's a clinical psychologist He wrote a great book called the tactical guide to women and what he basically took was he took 20 years of practice and you know distilled what traits What traits it is that you want to look for When vetting for marriage because if you bring the right woman into your life, she can improve it You know, she can be a compliment to your life. You know, she can make things better for you But if you bring the wrong woman in you've seen a lot of guys get destroyed. I mean we see guys get zeroed out. So Anthony Bourdain, you know as a recent example guy committed suicide. Why because his girlfriend was porking some other guy There's a reason. Yeah, but he didn't know how to deal with it. Yeah, it was that Italian reporter, I can't remember his name, but there's a lot of guys that get zeroed out and even though they're Successful their world class at what they do, you know, there's a lot of great guys out there that have been zeroed out and committed suicide because of You know situations like that because they didn't go through You know true understanding of what drives, you know, desire what women really respond to what women admire and respect and men sort of thing they just kind of like pushing the stuff very quickly and That's one example of you know, what can happen if you don't understand women But there's also the other part where you know, you marry up the wrong woman and you have kids with her and Family laws got her ass covered like she's protected a hundred percent I mean all all she has to do in north america is point and sputter and say I think you're scary, you know You're a violent man and call the cops and you'll get hauled away in handcuffs even though you do nothing I gotta I got a guy that I was coaching His wife cheated on him, right? They were married for a long time. Good-looking guy. Wife was gorgeous. You know a couple of good-looking kids um, you know his wife was uh Cheating on him for years multiple dudes like even even guys that he knew right like the guy that trained his kids for jujitsu You know stuff like that nice fucking friend. Yeah, I know um and um, you know He was pissed at one point when they were going through the Divorce process so they're living in the matrimonial home Which is one of the things you're forced to do and family law today guys never leave the matrimonial home If you're getting divorced look at my channel and you'll learn why but um So he's stuck in the matrimonial home and he gets mad at her one day and he goes You're a fucking liar and that was enough with him pointing the finger, you know like that she called the cops on right and there's the accusation of domestic violence You can get hauled away in cups. Luckily it it dropped and cooled But if she wants to remove you from the household so she can have the advantage in the divorce process It happens more often than not, right? So it's very very dangerous. You know if you don't vet a woman like there's um Like there's dark personality traits, you know the dark triad Um, there's a great book by this x fbi profiler's names. Joe Navarro and it's called dangerous personalities Oh, I know it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So so there's what there's a psychopathy. There's narcissism. There's a macchiavellianism um, I can't remember what the fourth one was but You have to have a good grasp of what dangerous women can look like Right because they do exist and they can completely ruin a dude's life if they pick the wrong one Yeah, I agree and vice versa. There's crazy men out there the fuck up women as well And I think it just goes there's a general theme here though the theme um on both sides whether you're a woman or a man or in between whatever um Going back to fucking loving yourself man Because if you love yourself, you wouldn't be putting up with anything you won't tolerate exactly you will not tolerate bad behavior A man that has an abundance mindset that has options won't tolerate bad behavior But there's guys that don't have an abundance mindset. Yeah that don't um, that don't have the capacity to to get a Better quality female and they'll and they'll resign themselves to the abuse You know the narcissism the she's banging Kevin from sales and he puts up with it sort of thing like Guys will put up with a lot of stuff I know but I also I always question other people too like I'll give you an example um A guy's in a relationship with a woman. He's completely cheating on her non-stop Obviously, that's going to cause issues I always ask um Why are you with that person in the first place like why aren't you just single and Just doing your thing like why why are people craving a relationship when we know for a fact It's for late relationships going nowhere. Yeah, that's an interesting like I don't get like topic I always talk about that for three hours. Well, I always say like if I and I bring this up publicly too if I was A celebrity one of these crazy celebrities like Charlie Sheen I would do what Charlie Sheen did So back to the whole uh monogamy thing, um If you if you're going to enter into a monogamous relationship has to be Chosen it can't be enforced because if you you know, it's like, uh You know, you start dating for a bit One day she's like, uh, hey amir I just I want to have a talk with you. Where do we stand? And you're like, you know, well the way I see it baby I'm standing at the front door seeing you off and I can't wait to see you next week sort of thing um That's what the guy is going to do and he needs to put it off and give himself some time But some guys would just be like, okay, let's get into relationship right now sort of thing and um It's not chosen. It's enforced. It's negotiated Right. You don't ever want to get yourself in a scenario with the opposite sex where you're negotiating desire You need to stop banging other people right because we got to be exclusive You know sort of thing and some guys will do that But by the same token men and women are not particularly faithful Uh women cheat as much as men do Uh, they cheat for different reasons, you know, like men just want to have sex We just want to scatter seed women usually cheat because Uh, something's not going well for them in that relationship and their support or something and they're looking a monkey branch to a better deal. Basically, right? Um, so it's not like they're usually banging multiple women. It's like there's one guy on the side Like you're having an affair sort of thing So they do it for different reasons, but there's no buffer for you know, because You know, like you're my boyfriend or girlfriend sort of thing. We are going to be monogamous forever It doesn't I mean we aren't like there's there's very very few animals that mate for life With that one mate and they stay with them forever and ever until kingdom come till death do as part sort of thing But there's this narrative through There like have you ever read Stephanie coons' book uh marriage a history a good book. Yeah, that's a great book. Um The origin of marriage has never been about love No, never. No, it's never been about religion. It's never been about anything other than the acquisition of in-laws and resources Of course. Yeah, that's it. It's you know, I've got five acres. It's a corporate merger You've got five acres your family's influential. My family's Influential let's get married blend it all together and we'll make an empire sort of thing Correct, but throughout history for millions of years Men have always had side pieces. Yeah, and women have always monkey branched up to a better deal It's always been that way. So why is Why is monogamy such a hot topic today? And I don't think that like I'm not encouraging people to go polyamorous or open marriages or open Relationships, but you just got to look at the facts, right? Like if there's a conflict between what the narrative is like you're cheating on me I can't believe you cheated on me in the satin. You're the thing you violated You know this social contract. It's like well I don't know If I stopped chasing excellence and I got fired or I couldn't hold down a job I shouldn't be surprised that you're banging kevin from sales, right? Same token You know if we get in a relationship for a long time and you pack on 150 pounds and pull the pin on the fat grenade and explode Don't be surprised if I'm going to want to go somewhere else My attention is drawn to that attractive woman, especially if I continue to chase excellence. I'm looking after myself You know all that sort of stuff You know, so there's like there's so many different layers and complexity as to why this ends up happening What happens? Right. Yeah, it happens, you know, I think Hopefully people start waking up and just loving themselves more. That's kind of my My message always that's what you got. That's that's what you got. That's what you can control, you know, work on yourself Yeah, you're your best ROI. I was talking to a buddy about this on a broadcast the other day because because there's always guys call an Ingo and how do I get the girls? How do we get the girls rich? Yeah, this buddy mine Aaron clear He's an author. He's got some great books. Shout out to him in bachelor pad economics Um, you know, I asked him while we were shooting the shit because we're talking to something I'm like, do you think it's easier to create a business that makes a million dollars within a few years than it is to find the perfect mate? Without question very quickly absolutely 100% the business. Yeah. Yeah The best everything's in your control the best ROI as a guy is to chase excellence Yeah, the problem is is we've been conditioned to chase girls And the funny thing is is when you make yourself your own mental point of origin and you chase excellence You put a dent in the universe and you're doing something of value and impact that people respect. Yes, right The women will chase you. Yeah, you know, they're going to slide in your dms They're going to be hey, what's up? I haven't seen you in a while. Let's grab a coffee Yeah, right you ever have women to reach out to you about your Um, not so much. I mean I get these like red pill groupies that kind of like watch my stuff. Um They're not him like they're not even in my league right sort of thing, but um Most of the guys that I talked to like 95% of my audience is men You know, it's men looking for answers on things that have confused them to me a lot of the times, you know Women hear my stuff and you know, you like there's gonna be women watching this right now I can't believe he said that he's so offensive. Amir, you're gonna get text. Amir that guy rich cooper. What a prick I can't believe he's well Why are you so offended? You know if it's not true Yeah, I had a nick Nick dobson no hot sins. Yeah, nick hot sins on here. He's a phd in behavioral science uh, and I'll give you example of like outrage because people don't even know why they're triggered. Oh, yeah So I'll tell you the I love it. Yeah, I'll tell you the question. So A guy buys a chicken dead chicken from the grocery store goes back to his house He's gonna eat it but first he fucks it then he eats it Okay, but majority of people weird, but yeah weird, but yeah, and for me, I don't even fuck what he does with the dead chicken He didn't kill anybody's not harming me. I do whatever you want with the chicken. All right You know, you're gonna eat it regardless, right? There's guys that bank sex dolls. Okay, so I'm not surprised. This thing is like flesh Okay, yeah, and he eats it but majority of people get outraged. Yeah, and you ask them why Why are you feeling outraged for? Can you define me or outrage? Where does this outrage come from? Yeah, the same thing when people get offended. I'm like words are offending you Why are you offended? Where does this feeling come from? You know, why are you having this emotional response? Why can't you control Your reaction because that's exactly what you're doing is you're reacting as opposed to responding and having a civilized conversation with me Yeah No, this this like outrage cancel culture sjw Like I've seen it a few times with stuff that I put out on social media because because I've actually gotten You know the point where it's actually good like I know how to trigger people Yeah, and um, I mean like all you have to do is say Hey ladies, here's how you be attractive to a guy learn how to cook be pleasant Compliment his life enter his frame, you know be useful, you know, don't be promiscuous Don't have a high-notch count. Make sure you haven't banged the entire football team sort of thing like that And they lose their shit, right and this and this outrage is manufactured because It's I mean it's encouraged like it's it's celebrated today You know, we we actually celebrate outrage And this cancel culture and there's and there's people that'll like they'll dive straight into all my material You know old tweets. They'll go through my website. They'll go through, you know, my youtube channel Um, and they lose their shit and it's like Bitch, I'm anti fragile. You can't fire me. I don't work for anybody I mean, there's a there's a big reason why a lot of guys in the space that I talk to they don't show their face Uh, some guys will even use like a voice sensitizer They don't show their face and they'll disguise their voice as they're doing podcast interviews or if they're live or something like that Because if you outrage a lot of these snowflakes, they'll try to get you fired Right, they They'll want to get you off like booted off a platform. I mean, there's a reason why I don't use patreon There's a reason why everything that I publish publicly on youtube Can be discussed in a swishale restaurant with a couple families around because I know how to talk at that level But it's behind the paywall. You know, it's in greater depth. It's in the coaching sessions that I do It's on stuff like this because I mean, you know, um, you know, we're talking about ideas and concepts here And this is your podcast But it's places like this that I can get into deeper elements and in concepts because nobody's gonna want to fire you They're just gonna say I'm your your guess was a dick and I don't want him on ever again And I'm gonna unsubscribe and it's like Dude, I'm anti fragile. You can't fire me. You can't do anything. Yeah. What are you gonna do? Like I've got about 16 different sources of income Right. It's like just because I say something that you don't like Maybe there's something there. Yeah, you know, like, why don't you like it? Like like start asking yourself questions about, you know, there's something with your beliefs You know, it's something that I said conflict with your beliefs. Is it really that like are you hurt? Most of the time you've looked at psychology anytime somebody feels offended or angry It is a representation of a sliver of truth within that statement Always. Yeah, that it always boils down to That yeah, so one of my favorite books of all time and I recommend everybody to read it I read it every quarter every four or five months is Victor Frankl's man search for meaning From the Holocaust and efforts and he talks about the buffer is like They took everything away from me killed my friends and family Um, the only the one thing they could not take away from me is my response I control that. Yeah, no one controls that about fucking me. Yeah, but people are So open to give away that attention and that response like it's nothing like it has no value It's just like I'm outreach and then they'll all get together in some group platform somewhere And then they'll post like a screenshot of something basic like a tweet like I just showed you there about You know 45 minutes ago and they'll lose their shit, dude Yeah, I remember there was actually that exact one if not that one the one before it got picked up by news media Really? Yeah, like uh nine or ten times and there was hit pieces written around the world Australian New Zealand even in Ukraine even in like eastern european words free pr bro traditional conservative sort of values Saying something like don't be promiscuous is apparently offensive Right don't show up to the table, you know looking for a relationship as a single mom. So the thing that Is so offensive about that is When you get into a relationship with a single mom, you're basically signing up for your own cuckoldry Okay, right So you're basically Abandoning your sexual strategy to look after the dna of another dude. So there's this concept We'll call it alpha seed beta need right it's also known as alpha fuck beta alpha fucks beta bucks where Women will get knocked up by the alpha And she's got the kid now and all of a sudden I mean They're even so brazen about it I have people that send me screenshots from twitter and bumble and stuff like that from all over the world now And it's like, um, you know screenshots of these like 20 year old girls That are eight months pregnant looking for a boyfriend. She's got the alpha seed now, right? She got knocked up by the guy from Cancun Ibiza from her summer vacation from the football team whatever she got knocked up He's gone and now she's looking for beta need to provide and provision for And guys that are all too happy to placate that They're basically signing up for their own cuckoldry Right, so they're taking care of somebody else's genetic investment, you know, there's studies done on tribes Yeah, just on this situation where they've seen Even in marriages today. I think the stat is something like One in it's either one or six or one in seven Children born in wedlock are not the fathers are not biologically the fathers Interesting Yeah, and there's places in the world because of the way the female primary social worker works in the way that Law is you can't even run a paternity test. So I think in france if i'm not mistaken You can't run a paternity test in france on a child. It's illegal. What? Right. So yeah, what the fuck? Yeah, there's places in the world like that. Yeah So I can't even ask for a DNA sample. Well, I would do it anyway Like I pluck a hair or get some saliva and send it in. Yeah I mean, that's that's one of the things guys should be looking at if they're looking at a baby And they're like that's suspicious. Nobody in my family has blue eyes. I don't understand what's going on here Nobody in her family has blue eyes Fucking crazy, man Right It's insane But I also think as a society in general we have One it's very difficult to raise a child today from an economic person Even if you're like bringing a lot of money, man, like depending on what you want to do and and You know, those people don't raise their own children. Yeah, they don't You know, they'll go and get their careers Yeah, and then they'll just drop the kid off at daycare. Correct What kind of parenting is that correct and then they'll drop the kid off at school And then they'll blame the teacher for you know, the kid's bad behavior. Yeah, right? It's like if your kid's an asshole It's probably because you're an asshole and you suck at being a parent Right 100% but again people, you know And families and mothers and fathers have been told to prioritize Careers over family. So, you know, 38 year old gets knocked up has her 2.1 kids Goes back to work after 8 10 12 months something like that and start dropping off the kids at daycare Dude, I remember when I dropped off my daughter at daycare. I bawled I bawled my eyes out like a little bitch I couldn't believe that I was doing that. I couldn't believe that I was leaving my own child in the hands of other people Took me a couple of days to get over it. It's even kind of like, you know, freaking me out a little bit right now But it's not natural. It's not natural for sapiens to entrust the care of their kids to random people No, but we're all too happy to do it today. We're all too happy to let the state Schools daycare centers other people raise kids whereas in the past it was grandparents or parents Like for me right now my my wife and I are Talked about kids or in the process at that and like I'm fucking world schooling. Yeah homeschool for sure. Yeah I would I like in today's world I would not have kids drop them off at daycare or put them in the school system Homeschool them for sure for at least the first 10 12 years. Yeah, one of my benefits of my past was I Could barely go to elementary school and I kicked out of high school. So I bypassed the whole returning system Dude, I was talking to my daughter the other day, you know, she's 10 and I said something about gender or something like that She's like, why would you just assume the gender? I'm like, you gotta be fucking she's an elementary. No. Yeah, elementary school. Yeah, catholic school board too Like they're actually talking about that in catholic school. Why would you assume gender? She said um On durham durham region here There's a I just saw the case uh on the star I think daughter It's actually the same story as your daughter's story The teacher was asking in the spectrum of genders, which one you are spectrum, right pick whatever you want And the young girl said I'm a girl and she's like, no, you can pick anything. You don't have to be a girl You're not a girl The parents and she told the parents parents like what the fuck you talking about She was the teacher was forcing and she remember she said you can pick anything So she picked the girl, right? There's there's a shit ton on the spectrum She picked something else whatever but she said I'm a girl and the teacher said no, no, no, no You're not a girl. You can do whatever you want. You could be anything So it's so bizarre to me that we live like this is a conversation that I would have never had in school No, like it wasn't even thought about that you could pick it like pick whatever gender you want Yeah, it's like, you know, if you stand up when you're p you're a boy if you squat You're a girl. It was it was pretty much as simple as that. It was you know clear as night and day but but I mean it's like There's that case in texas. I don't know if you heard about it about that guy I think he was a pastor, but you know, he's divorced and his son Who dresses and behaves like a boy at his place plays with cars, you know, military planes and stuff like that I think he's like seven years or so Did you hear about the story where the moms? No, you didn't hear about the shit So she's actually having a court order in force to transition the boy to a girl Against against the father's wishes. What does a boy want to do? Well at his house, he behaves like a boy a lot of video evidence He's had the media behind it all that sort of stuff In her house, he dresses the boy like a girl And as a father, you have no rights To parenting In today's world, I mean In a state like texas of all places, which is a pretty conservative state from what I understand I mean, I've been there a couple times But she's actually going to get a court-enforced order to transition him through hormonal Treatment to a girl Dresses as a girl when she drops him off at school. She tells him to use a girl's bathroom And this guy's like fighting for his life. He's like, I'm you know, like I'm trying to protect my son here But because she wants to turn him into a boy, she's against the law man They should wait until he's 18 for him to make his own fucking decision Well, you know that a lot of guys that um, you know go through Sex chains, you know procedures or hormonal treatments Most of them end up regretting that a lot of them commit suicide too, right? The stats are high I think it was uh, mylo yinopoulos that said that um, you know, they like But for me, listen, I don't give a fuck What the fuck you do as adult? I don't care if you transition to a horse all the power to pork a duck chicken I don't exactly the chicken. I don't give a more of a libertarian. I don't actually clap. I'm like power to you, man I love it But for me in a case like this, this is fucking child abuse. It is you have no choice as a child. Yeah It's fucking crazy. Yeah, but This is the reality of the world that we live like it's like it's a dangerous place That's why you know when guys are like, well, I want to have kids. What's the safest way to have kids? You know what leave north america go to eastern europe go to a country that's front That's at least not hostile towards men. Yeah, go to a country where women are still feminine masculinity is still valued There's not hostile laws that are going to allow, you know All of your money and resources to flow to her while you live in your parents basement and she lives The high life and then wants to change the kid's gender from a boy to a girl without your consent You can't do shit about it. Go to another country, you know, that's like there's really no safe way to do it But they don't like that answer That's too much work. I don't think I can do that. Where am I going to go or pick have better Be better picking partners man There's no buffer man because one of the things that you know that you learn when you go down this rabbit hole I mean I've I mean I've coached probably close to 500 guys now Women always reserve the right to change your mind at any given time right, you know, so if they update their beliefs and they see that Um You know, there's there's some advantage to behaving in a way that might be completely against the father that benefits her Then she'll always choose that almost a hundred percent of the time Um, you know, it's just the you know, it's just the grim reality of the way things are right like you can't you can't contract out of Things like hypergamy. Just can't Like there's no way to do it You're uh, you're writing a grim story here, bro Well, I'll tell you what, you know, I got a chapter in my book that I was editing a couple of days ago and There was a woman that chimed in in the comments on one of my videos once and I screen captured, you know, both of those comments and it's based on a a I think was based on that Like hit piece sequence that happened back in the spring where there's about 10 different news publications that picked up my tweet on be feminine, you know, don't be promiscuous Don't have tattoos, you know stuff like that and um, there's a lot of women that freaked out on that ship I made a video about it kind of breaking it down It's like women can air a long laundry list of demands for guys. You got to be at least six feet tall You got to make at least six figures. You got to have six inches in the pants You got to have a car with 600 horsepower. They call it the six sixes, right? I go down the list and it's like, you know, this long laundry list is aired And then you say two or three things about what men would like, you know, from a woman and they lose their ship And then when that got picked up and got passed around, um, there was an There was a comment from a woman that said, you know what? You're absolutely right. I'm married My husband and I have have two kids and I was having a conversation with a woman at work That does the exact same job. She's on the same pay scale makes the exact same money as me And she gets an extra thousand dollars a month Over what her and her husband get combined so combined income Two incomes in the household One income with the kids because she's got custody of the kids Makes a thousand dollars more as a single mom than what the family gets The state encourages single mother. Yeah, it's fucked up. Yeah. Can you believe that? I believe it man. Look at our welfare system Yeah, there's people that make more money in the welfare system and people working I mean like they're like they're comparing notes, you know, that's what we do You know, we like to compare notes. That's what we're doing You know, we're swapping ideas we're comparing notes But but when these two women were comparing notes She learned that her girlfriend as a single mother makes a thousand dollars more a month than she does Yeah, and a lot of the narratives that a lot of women have is well, you don't need a man You don't need a man. So it's like, well, why wouldn't she leave? Like are you surprised that he got divorce raped and she's getting the extra thousand dollars a month And she doesn't have to put up with a husband and his shit. Yeah She got what she wanted. She got the kids and you got the money now, too You know what the state is ahead of the household That's the fucking men are men are no see men have a hundred percent Responsibility, but we have no authority anymore. Yeah, whereas a few hundred years ago We had responsibility and authority, you know back to Stephanie Coons' book You know marriage and history one of the things that Happened a few hundred years ago was the family was responsible for school for health care for care of the elderly for resources for linear like all everything like there was no state involvement in anything but slowly throughout time as a function of this You know this change with this dynamic of the female primary social order It's changed to the degree where Men still have a hundred percent responsibility But the but the authority has been stripped away and given to the state and to the feminine imperative, right? And that's not a disparaging statement Just pointing to the facts, right? But that's but that's where we've gotten to yeah We're in a nanny state for everything and what makes things worse is For the kids this perpetuates behavior. You have whether it's a a daughter or a son Being raised by a divorced parent depending on where they are obviously 80 percent of the time It's usually the mother. Yeah, there's negative consequences for that for psychologically speaking and they perpetuates when they're older It's a vicious fucking cycle. Do you know what the consequences are? Oh, you tell me the vast majority of the incarcerated. Yeah, single mother household vast majority of teenage pregnancies single mother household vast majority of runaways single mother household vast majority of gang activity single mother household vast majority of shitty marks in school single mother household vast majority of suicide attempts single mother household of the 27 last school shootings You know with these with these beta male guys that like, you know the guy that rents the van in Toronto drove over people Oh, yeah, yeah, he was the only one that had both both parents intact in the household of the of the 27 last mass murders from these like What do they call them in cells? Which stands for involuntary celibate for those of you that don't know what that is Which means these are guys that want to have sex with women but aren't great so they suck so they get mad So they go to schools. They shoot them up. They rent bands. They're like 26 out of the 27 single mother households, right? So like, you know the narrative that we hear in the media about strong independent women raising, you know, sons Like even see it on father's day, like you'll see memes on social media on father's day, like You know, let's give a shout out to the women that are doing the mother's and father's job No, it's it's it's called father's day. Yeah, like let's stop hijacking a day for fathers and trying to repurpose it and brand it for Feminine imperative men are needed. Both parents are needed, right? You need masculine energy and you need feminine energy. You ever hear about that study they did in Africa with Poaching, you know with elephants. No, so You know, this is you know, this is an interesting piece because Poachers got out of hand for a while and they were killing all the adult male elephants for the ivory And what ends up happening was The young male elephants that didn't have fully developed tusks um They ended up misbehaving like behaving incredibly badly and they were actually killing a lot of these I think it was white rhinos. I can't remember the rhinos, but they would they would charge and kill these rhinos And they almost became extinct because of the poaching of the ivory for the adult male elephants when they When they got that back under control and the adult male elephants were You know back in place as a place of authority in you know, the pride tribe, you know, whatever it's called Um The rhinos recovered the young male elephants behave better Like it's it's it's throughout, you know, the animal kingdom. You need masculinity. Like you need strong leaders and Men in that man teachers like fuck man. It's not rocket science. Yeah I mean, that's why these guys in the videos are like, hey rich man You like the father I never had because there's an absenteeism I'll tell you from my own personal experience the reason I was a motherfucker when I was younger a while I didn't have a dad, right? Well, my dad was in my life, but he wasn't in my life. If you get what I mean Like ghost, okay. So like he left the family or he was like a piece of furniture or piece of furniture Okay, so he was in the house. He just wasn't interested in being a father Yeah, never went to school never give a fuck like ghost men got it. Okay. Yeah, like physically. He was there Of course. Yeah, and you know, like is it any surprise that you you know, because my dad would reel me in He can't control me. I was fucking crazy. Dude. I remember my dad When I was like 16 or 17, like I started pushing right like I was like, you know pushing in a boundaries I was you know, I became more of an asshole because that's what you do I mean kids have a way of throwing rocks in the ice to test it, right? So I was pushing boundaries and one time in the backyard My dad was like he was coming at me and I I was like dodging. I'm like, yeah, you can't get me a old man Look at this shit, right? And he couldn't get me. He got pissed off. Cool down, you know, 10-15 minutes later I'm walking down the hallway. He's going the other way. You know what he did body check to Soccer punched me, right? Solar plexus knock the wind out of my lungs But guess what? I learned who the head of the household was, right? And I'm not saying that, you know, you need to beat your kids or do any of that stuff But I think it's important that because moms can't reel in kids like that. No They just can't it's like especially boys, especially boys. Yeah, especially boys And that's the other you know, it's funny because I was just having lunch at a restaurant because I parked over by the U of T campus and there's just kind of like breakfast place And there's a lot of moms in there with their boys having lunches Complete absenteeism of fathers, you know, just like I'm so aware now Like I listen to the conversations and it's like, you know, is everything okay? My boy, you know, are you pooing okay? You know, you're on regular intervals taking dumps every day you eating well You know, he's like, well, you know this girl I really like but she's not really responsible She's like, don't worry about it. Just be yourself. The right girl will come along. Just be a nice guy right and it's like they They just swallow this narrative of like be the nice guy. Yeah, and then they end up being this Guy that gets incredibly bad results in life because they don't like less agreeable men make more money have more sex Are happier, you know, I can go all the way down the list But what they end up doing is they end up programming weaker softer beta males soy boys, you know Dudes with breasts, whatever hell it is. You want to call it? Yeah, like, you know before this talk I said I see a trend. There's a saying it takes a village To raise a child. It did. Yeah at one point and now the village is a state Yeah, so fuck this day. I'm not I'm not a status. Yeah, I think there's uh, I think A government's needed but if you look at what the government's involved in involved in every aspect of your life It's too involved. They should be involved in private property protection Sovereign rights as a human being and protecting the borders over a strong military. That's it then fuck off Anything else fuck off The problem is is like government needs to become big like government has grown over time Of course, it's become bigger. It's removed authority from the household and given it to itself And to a population that votes for bigger government more social programs bigger government higher taxes on people that work their asses off Giving away for your shit You know, you can go on and on down the wrist. It's like, uh I don't know. You want to talk about government for a bit now? Sure Fuck, do you want to go to man with this? It's like enough I mean, we just had an election cycle and you know, justine trudeau is back in power again Right, I think we're gonna have another one soon if the coalition doesn't hold it. We'll see what happens, right? But it's like, you know, um Was it 2015 that he announces last cabinet? Yeah, let's talk about that And then, you know, the media, you know, he announces cabinet. It's uh, women and ethnic minorities and stuff like that He's like, uh, he gets questioned by somebody in the media. He goes, you know, why did you, um, You know, why'd you put so many men, you know, like women on your panel And I can't remember what the stats were but it was something like, I don't know Let's use like a hundred, you know, like available options and I think there was like 17 women And it's like For any circumstance in decision-making for a country for a nation You want the best person for that job? Well, for anything if I'm hiring if I if I need to build a team I don't care where you're from who you are But why would they but why would they pick somebody based on the color of their skin or what they had in their pants? Right, there's preferential treatment given to skin color And if you're a woman, yeah, well People understand the one thing the government only cares about right now Well, all governments is the minute they're voted in Depending on which caucus you're with the second that the election's over The first thing that they're doing is starting on the next election cycle So every action they take is based on the fact of which How can we influence another group of people to its self interest? It's it's self interest of that political party. Yes I did some lobbying in 2011-2012 at queen's park. By the way, queen's park used to be a mental asylum I don't know if you know that never knew that. Well, it shows with the people that work in there But um, yeah, I did some lobbying there for about two years or so spent like 60 grand You know try to try to influence a better policies and bill 55 which was in the credit card and industry and a business that I ran at the time and um They don't care It was it was clear as day to me within a very short period of time that the best person that I talked to during that time that actually gave a fuck about The outcome of the end user meaning the public was jagmeet sinning and he's an NDP guy And I'm and I'm not a socialist but as a person I liked him the best out of everybody That being said Everybody made it clear to me that they're about self preservation about But telling people what they want to hear so they get you know voted back in and people are stupid The vast majority of the influence That makes decisions for putting people in power are coming from dumb people You know it used to be at one time you had to have property Yes, you know to cast a vote. Yes today any muppet can cast a vote. Yeah people hate when I say this There should be some type of limpness test for voting I mean you should have some degree of ability to make good decisions And if you can't prove that you can make like if you're Or there's another way that I'm like, I mean if you got 80 grand in debt Yeah, and you can't like you're like you're drowning in debt living in your mom's basement playing video games You're not allowed to vote, you know, if you've got three different kids from two different fathers And you're a single mom. You're not allowed to vote. I mean like I'm gonna a lot of criticism How could you say that's not fair? You know what you make bad decisions. Yeah, you're not allowed to vote There's another proposal people had where it's like You're only eligible to vote when you start Entering the workforce and paying income tax for a bit Then you realize how fucked up the system is if you're if you're net positive income tax You get to vote if you're a recipient of income tax You're not allowed to vote because you're not going to vote for policies that are good for the country You're going to vote for more free shit But I think I think where we're actually heading is Everyone can get what they want. I think where we're heading and albert is trying to push this where we're getting more into city states You know, and I wasn't sure what that meant when you mentioned that a few years ago But I like it more and more and actually I I used to hate the notion of universal basic income Yeah, um, but as I start to kind of like under like I've been listening to a lot of uh Uh, what's his name? Uh, you've all know a harari. Yeah, I'm probably backing up the name But I'm listening to uh, 21 lessons for the 21st and uh, homo deuce was another great one dude smart, right? And it's like at some point. We're probably going to get to the point where we're going to have this like I don't know. It's maybe it's going to be like the the Elitist 5 10 living up in the clouds sort of thing and like the rest of everybody Placated on universal basic income. Maybe these migtail guys have their sex dolls and Purple-haired short-haired feminists with face tattoos and nose piercings have I don't know free shit for all their kids from different fathers sort of thing Like there's going to be this like universal basic income Element, I believe at some point. I don't know what it's going to look like But it seems like the only way to go because we've got all this data moving around You know what I mean? It's like they're making all this money and you know what the funny thing that blows me away All these companies Apple, Amazon, Facebook, they they don't pay any taxes But the funny thing is is that they're influencing decisions You saw that Cambridge Analytica story, right with Facebook They're influencing decisions in such a way today that we've never seen in history before It's 1984. Yeah, that's exactly what it is. Yeah social media is a double-edged sword Yeah, it's a beneficial tool if you know how to use it exact same time. It's the I don't use Facebook. I hate Facebook on my personal profile. I haven't posted on it any year But I use it for business pages that I run. Yeah But there's a reason for that. I don't want my data out there right personal data I'm not posting any more pictures no more updates. It's not even personal data Like let's I don't reach my friends if I want to talk. Yeah, but let's say like you have a fake account and giving fake data What's What's an the fairest thing though is they are the gatekeepers who determine which ads are allowed on the platform So from a subconscious perspective, right through inception of the psyche, you are being bombarded They are literally and the most powerful people in the future Well, I want to say future right now the most powerful people right now Are the machine learning algorithm engineers designing these algos to put certain content in front of your face because this is subconsciously reprogrammed how you fucking think. Yeah Yeah, it's dude. It's deadly shit Because you're right people are not going to be thinking for themselves in the future You need a new car You're going to have an algorithm that's going to tell you what car you should buy based on your political preferences Whether or not you like petrol or electricity. What kind of range you drive How big of a car you need. Yeah, what kind of accessories you need based on your lifestyle choices and social media sites you browse Yep Right. Yeah, you're not going to be making a lot of decisions going forward algorithms are going to be doing it for you This is why I'm kind of bullish even though we're super early where we see a small emergence of defiant tech Whether it's a blockchain space or privacy space platforms slowly emerging that focuses people on them though There's a very early man. We're like 1990 in space. Like we're so like people underestimate how early we are Yeah, like we are definitely early with blockchain stuff. We need another decade. Yeah We need to see we need to see complete failure somewhere We need a reset is what we need like we need to demonstrate that this house of cards that we're standing on Is not going to work on a long but I don't want to see that because with the complete reset you see chaos well That's That's I think what needs to happen, man Like, you know for a reset to happen like what kind of reset like civil unrest Could be civil unrest. It could be a meteor hitting a part of the earth. Well, that's a different story Could be like a two things I wish one thing I wish for one thing only thing I wish for I wish for an alien race to come here And then we humans finally come together because it's self-interest. We need to preserve ourselves as a human Human sapiens and we come together and we like realize like fuck all these bullshit problems that we have Could be aliens could be terminators could be like a self, you know, self-aware skynet We need an enemy that we as homo sapiens can unite around that's that's the last time we saw the North American content like even the world united was just after 9 11 After they saw those two airliners, yeah slam into towers slam into the pentagon You know go down in a field in the middle of nowhere after we saw that happen in one day We're like fuck We now have a common enemy Right and that's the last time I think in recent history that I can remember Anyway, where we all united and said It's us versus them and we've always been an us versus them species. That's where we go wrong today Right this like liberalism globalism agenda that keeps getting pushed the empire of nothing That's not how we operate as sapiens. We're an us versus them species. You know, it's like we say, you know, that whole Dumbars, you know the 150 sort of tribe sort of thing We've always been an us versus them and every time we try to expand You know the perimeter to encompass more But this is why I like city-states. It dilutes it and I give you example I like the idea in Canada. So people really for trying it. Yeah And there's examples like switzerland's a great example with the cantons singapore and there's no perfect system But what it does i'm a big believer in Utilizing human nature human incentive evolutionary biology psychology and toppled out with game theoretical models And we want to create systems where bad actors are automatically They have a consequence bad actors So you never want to program systems to Help good actors good actors naturally or good actors, right? Let them do their things you want to create systems of bad actors can't act as bad as They're allowed in this case like we have a system where like wall street can do whatever they want banks are getting bailed out Even though i'm like a pretty hardcore libertarian capitalist to look what amazon's doing. I'm like, that's not fucking capitalism I'm paying taxes. I have to pay tax. So why the fuck aren't you paying taxes? Why are you getting like a tax break and all this shit over here? It's like, where's my tax break? Look i'm nobody you don't get one. I got one like fuck off. This isn't capitalism This is cronyism and wall street cronyism and the buybacks like ridiculous something like 80 percent in the last like five years Or 10 years with quantitative easing the companies are buying back their own stock for free because interest It's pretty much like 1% interest rate. It's like they're just stealing from me. Yeah, you don't like You think doing the things that you've done. I've done the same thing in my life You know like I've like I've put my little dent in the universe here in there You know doing doing different things you think you've done something but then when you start to realize How you're treated as tax cattle by the yeah, they're milking you every fucking day for everything every step of the way Everywhere you go everywhere you go, right? Yeah, and it's like where does all that money go? To make bigger government to put in more social programs to get people to vote for more free shit And this is why I want to create city-state. So if people are wondering i'm not talking about creating Nations I like it and then people can move correct city-state or they can be allowed in or not like bordered, right? Yeah, so each city-state will have their own police force each city-state can do whatever they want they still pay uh A city-state tax to the nation state and the nation state responsibility is having the best military to protect the borders Right now each city-state Can define their taxation policy whatever policies they want and I'll give you a case example Let's say I said at the other day. Let's say mississauga or we'll do a province Let's say alberta becomes the texas of canada and alberta states as of today There is no income tax here. I I kid you not i'll be on the fucking plane tomorrow to alberta Yeah, there's nowhere that you can move in canada where the tax rates are more favorable It's like, you know like a small margin of one or two for me It's not worth it but in the states there's a number of states that you can live in or incorporate your business in Florida Delaware or you can go live really warm down on the islands of Puerto Rico Puerto Rico's got like It's it's zero like you can do no capital gains tax I know you can divot in money from your company to you and pay no capital gains tax All you have to do is make a $10,000 a year donation to a charity there Sounds good to me. I got a couple friends down there now. They're kind of filling me in on the 401 one So yeah, but like I'm stuck here for 10 years, you know, because I got a kid growing up Businesses stuff like that like let's say alberta. I'm not gonna retire here. No, but let's say alberta did that Guess how many people would move to alberta lot? I would move tomorrow Yeah, you'd be incentivized to go there and a lot of place in the world to figure that out But canada is the only place where it's like everywhere you live in canada is a shithole basically Most commonwealth australian is the only similar to yeah, yeah, true true. It's commonwealth too. Yeah, yeah But isn't it ireland? It's got a lower tax rate nor it's just for corporate corporate one percent. Yeah Yeah, it's um It's tough like um I remember around 2008 2009 I was doing affiliate stuff with this guy down in texas and I think they got a very favorable rate there So we were we were kind of you know, we're swapping notes, right exact same businesses I have exact same revenue model exact same headcount It was it was literally like apples and apples credit card business very very similar. Yeah very very similar. Yeah exact same revenue model, um, and I was driving a $70,000 BMW at the time with a 3,300 square foot house This guy lived in a house that was twice as big that cost half as much and he had a lambo Exes is cheap as fuck right so compared to toronto This is free But you don't have the ability to maneuver in canada and choose whereas in the states if you live in a state that you Don't like you can move to those states have it the best I always say the united states have I tell guys all the time, you know, they go I'm thinking about immigrating to canada or the states. Where would you go? What do you think of canada? I'm like, don't come here go to the states. Yeah Right pretty much. Yeah, you know, there's there's you know culturally is a little bit different In canada, but like the thing what I like about united states is optionality That's what I really really like and like we're even fucked here for weather We're in toronto sucks outside right now. Yeah, what choice do I have? You don't have any if you want to be a canadian citizen, right? I always said I don't know like it came through senate twice last year two years ago to buy Was it caimans? No, it wasn't caimans. It was turks and cacos by the island. Yeah Twice so 1980s who's in senate and 2016 or 17 Because what all that happened is you'll have the elite rich move down there and they already do it anyway Like there's tax havens that work on those caimans everything So what I heard is if they became a territory or a province the books would have to open in turks and cacos And so a lot of elites already have their Let's say holdcos or the trust in turks and cacos So there wouldn't be actually turks and cacos would not be a tax shelter anymore. Yeah, so they would just move right? They just go live somewhere else. Yeah, I mean If you've got it set up that way you've probably got the ability to maneuver and you can just pick up and go Yeah, and that's what smart people do but yeah That's what that's what people don't get here that are voting for policies with bigger government and more free Shit is people are getting tired. Yeah of being treated like tax cattle and getting milk I was talking to a guy out in bc the other day. He runs a Exotic car dealership and they have a 26 tax on luxury items over 150 thousand dollars And sure those talking about bringing another 10 tax in on luxury items over a hundred thousand dollars So they're not clear if that's going to be 26 plus the 10 is it going to be 36 percent? Basically The cost of you to buy a $400,000 McLaren Is going to cost it's going to cost over half a million bucks With tax rates Like you think a guy that's got that kind of money is going to stay in canada He's going to bounce at some point he's going to go somewhere where it's a lot smarter to live Of course, so The thing that that baffles me is why do people keep voting for? policies That discouraged the pursuit of excellence Goes to psychology it goes to awareness it goes to something called memetic behavior So the in-group thinking of their friends and family um, and it goes into the fact that Within the message of the political spectrum of parties and when I when I look at parties People talk about conservative liberals to me that the same party. There's no difference whatsoever Just different colors. That's all There's exactly the same to me. Um, my experience was the same actually. Yeah There's a fucking same man. Like chomsky said are the best one party like yeah He's saying the United States like whether you're like, what is it? Democrat versus conservative is the same shit. Well, the pendulum swings from one side to the other usually and it's like You know, I've been around for 46 years. It's like, I haven't seen much change in my lifetime But still paying shitload of taxes long wait periods, you know services suck. Yeah and so And it goes and so so to finish my thought thought process here um The political message is that person over there is the enemy There's always there has to be an escape code whether it's like it's the rich Whatever or it's like this or dad or like what I don't know And there has to be some enemy that they can unite the herd mentality so they can vote themselves in well They've already done that. I mean they've already convinced the masses that uh, you know Trudeau said it a few years ago he said something along the lines of Entrepreneurs are like skirting the tax system and not paying their fair share or something like that Like really That's crazy. Who are you talking to because I because I pay so much in fucking taxes. It blows my mind. Yeah, right Yeah, say la vie as a french say Well, la vie man Adios amigos la visa baby. Oh richard, man. I think we covered everything Man, we could go on for hours talking forever, bro. Yeah next time on psychedelics I'm down, you know, cool. I'll come back when I got my book done. Yeah. Yeah for sure, man I'll do a deep dive on that. Yeah. All right, brother. Thank you. I'd appreciate it. Yeah