 So of course, when we're always comparing ourselves to other people, we're gonna feel less than in some way. And so when we feel that way, we project that onto our partners and we subconsciously assume that they're going to want that person instead of us too. Look, there's always, there's always going to be someone better than you, than me, than whoever in some way. Like, it's just, there's, what, eight million people now? But that being said, that doesn't take away your uniqueness, your little quirks, you know, your little mannerisms, your little things. And that's why your partner loves you and is attracted to you. It's not because you're this cookie cutter version of every single frickin' person on TikTok or Instagram or whatever. And we all know what I'm talking about, okay? They all look goddamn same. Like, your partner is with you because of your quirks, because of your differences.