 All right, mom and dad talking to my neck. Your hands are cool. I know it's clammy He's nervous. Yeah, I'm nervous. He's trying to act all cool. Yeah, hello people in internet land So I wanted to do a video with you guys about your sex life and then also I have a fun game No, it's called never have I ever. Yeah, you guys down to play Sure sure. Yeah, mom. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. First and foremost you guys have been sexual partners now for 30 years. Yes. What can what advice can you give about creating a long-lasting sexual bond before I give advice Can I ask you a question? Yes, your mom and I I've had day sex. Yes, and you've heard it. Yes. How do you feel? Um awkward I haven't heard in a long time. No, because you know, I came home and you guys didn't know I was home Yes, and then I heard you and then I slammed the door. Yeah, which I've actually regret now Be an asshole. Just leave quietly. Yeah, and I see that's the thing with sex right now Is that yes is parents being comfortable with their children doing it? But it's the all the The opposite is children being recognized Parents are people too. Yeah, we have the same needs that you have just because we had you My pullout game was weak that time. It doesn't mean that It doesn't mean Doesn't mean that We now stop being human. We stop having needs. We stop having desires Well, can I tell you a secret that yes in my adult years now if I come home and visit I I would be happy to hear. Okay. I would feel comforted by that. Okay. I would feel like great It's good for you guys. You're still having a healthy one. Can I tell you something? Yeah Before you come home or whatever visit whatever Time that we're gonna have together dad and I always say so we're not gonna have sex for the next two weeks Three weeks, whatever why no way that but it doesn't work out that way I would be happy. Yeah, it doesn't work out that way. No, it's awkward It is it's like we do we say that we're not going to for the next two three weeks, whatever Well, I think because you hear so much about how couples stop having sex they stop having that part of their life I think sex is a pretty positive Part of life when I read about all the functions and the health benefits of orgasm I want you guys to live a long time And so well even for men ejaculation is The best way to prevent prostate cancer. Yeah, it's the actually Trumps everything else because the your seminal fluid The white stuff you spit out They know dad Okay Please by all means touch yourself at least twice a week if you don't have a partner Empty that sucker twice a week. Yes. How often do you guys have sex now? Twice a week twice a week. What is the advice for maintaining a long term sexual union that doesn't get boring or at least boring Okay, from a male point of view One is very important that the woman woman Maintain her level of attractiveness. Don't wait until he leaves to go to the gym Go now So maybe he won't leave and his eyes won't wander And he should go to exactly definitely not from a men perspective The other thing is for men If When a man ejaculates he doesn't think about sex for another three days Then after that he starts to eyes wander. So you want to keep him loyal Do whatever you can to drain him Is it uh, jerry hall told a very important story about mc jagger I don't know whether he stopped him or not, but before he left She would give him a blowjob if she was going for a couple of days Empty him out send him out there because she knows for a couple of days His eyes won't wander and I notice with myself is that if I'm at sex for a couple of days I'm more receptive. I look around you know But if you do you don't so if you have sex often enough at home They won't wander Male and female it's not it's it's it's actually for it's actually for men It's actually for men for women too. He's only saying that I Honest to god you you have two different personalities here. You have a public brian and you have a private brian You guys never get to see the private brian. He's nothing like the public. He's warm. He's kind of He's just a different person He he goes to work. He comes home. He's a family man. He's a one woman man. He's not interested He'll tell you that over and over again, but there's the public brian. Go ahead, bro Okay, okay more but for me I am interested. I will see someone go. I am interested But then I am I'm I'm interested because you find her attractive. No, I find out. No, I find attractive I am interested but then I I played down the road Is whatever I'm going to do worth the turmoil worth the upheaval No, so I don't do anything about it. But in terms of you still being attracted to me in the fact is Most mandate complaint wasn't no more number one complaint of married man They'll always say yeah, I'm not getting enough sex and my next question is would you do you? And so basically you have to make yourself presentable to where you want to touch yourself And at that point that maybe other people want to touch you the other thing too is in a multicultural society No matter what you look like they'll there will be an ethnic group that finds you attractive And you have to find that right one People they like even wheelchairs They're the chubby chasers. They're all the difference. So yeah Well, we'll ask you guys as parents you had two daughters and they have two very different lives, you know Lauren is corporate and I am not Do you think that that's something that you did differently to the two of us? No, that's your personality If anything, we've always encouraged you guys to take your own path and to So if we put both of you in the same sport for instance But one of you liked it and one of you didn't we took that one out So for you for instance, it became evident that you like running Laura not so much. She actually tried it and she wasn't really interested. No, she told her she didn't like running She did she ran all the time. I know but she said I dad. I don't like running I'm going like then why did you let me waste my time sitting on the grass watching you feel sick But you wasted my time Sitting in the stands Watch it. So then how did you evolve in comfort for me choosing sex as a profession to talk about What was your journey with that? Actually, we're not comfortable with it But we recognize it. It's not It's not going away. No, no, no, it's not it's not you. It's us. It's our perception So you don't have to change our perception have to change and the same thing that I said with fighting is like Here's a video of Shannon showing how to punch someone in the face We would show that or here's a video of Shannon telling you how to have responsible sex How it's something that's in a part of you that's very important that you should know about it And so so it's not you it's us. So you don't have to change. We have to And how have you been changing because you've changed Yeah, you've changed because we've listened to your videos. We've watched them. We've grown from them. We've learned from them Um, it's it's a different world. Like I said before it's like it is a little bit more accepting a little bit more open Society is sort of understanding that things are different now But so you're sort of you're a little ahead of the game because your topics can be a little bit controversial But you're not that far ahead of the game. You know, you're not that far It's something it's something like society just has to catch up. I mean, I'm a realistic is something that people have been doing An insects have been doing every life form does it every life But the fact in my I disagree when you said we've learned from her. We've learned nothing from her No, no, no, no, maybe you haven't no, okay Okay A woman can be there sexually get nothing out of it and still get pregnant It doesn't matter. No, it's it's it's that amount of pregnancy for instance for the for men The moment you ejaculate the pleasure is over. So like you're going like it's the same with women No, it's no women can women can go again. No, but women can go again So sometimes but it's like even with us it's a forced thing. Okay. I need to do this But the fact of matter for us I feel the same way the minute the minute we're done Our our drive is to okay. And who can I tell about this? What we both wanted for both of our children is What makes you happy? We will Put in our two cents worth and so for instance when lauren was having children We said why don't you hold off travel see the world do something. He said this is what I want This is what I want to do. So with you it's like Yes, you could make more money doing this and this and this but again realistically How much more how much more would money make an impact in your life? Uh, not not a whole lot. It will take away one stress, but it adds other stresses It's about living the life that you want not not living your life. We prescribe for you And that's what I've always told you. I don't have the answers. I don't have the answers for myself Certainly not for you I make mistakes every day. I make even with all my knowledge. I make bad decisions And so I don't expect you to do the same I've made some bad decisions. We all have we all have Like not having brand this morning. That's a bad decision. Why? You food. I'm just kidding. We're the back of like an hour. What are you doing in there? As parents who have gone through it all and raised successful adults What advice would you give to aspiring parents or existing parents? First of all being a parent is hard In order to be a good parent you have to be an asshole So if you're gonna be a be a parent you'll be prepared to be an asshole If you're not be prepared to be an asshole and you want to be their friend You're not gonna like them So your your children can either hate you when they're young and like you when they're adults Or or the other way you didn't like me much growing up, did you? No, let's bring out an asshole Yeah, exactly. I need to think I recommend I had to be an asshole to make her tough And you have it. So that's a sacrifice Unless you want to make that sacrifice It's a big decision if you want to be a parent you have to ask is anyone requesting a copy of you love them believe in them And have them and and love them Spoken like a true mom Once they're here, you you love them to death But if they're not here, you don't you know and So I don't know if I'd have children because it is a huge life changing moment And is that life is short live it for yourself. Well, thank god you're brainwashed. Exactly Have you ever dated your ex's sibling? No Yes